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hey im emily and i am 14 years old....i love my bf very much and have a pretty good life ...most of the time...ok now i g2g now so bye
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Alright, I'm in love. Starstruck. Head over heels. And not just the lust, or the initial fireworks, and infatuation. This is the real deal, and I know it because I no longer think forst of my own needs. I think first of his, and what he's thinking or feeling, and his perspective on life. There's always been something about him, even before he knew how I felt, that's made me feel secure, and I knew that even if he could never love me back, I wanted to be good friends with him throughout college and the rest of my life. (I'm going into my senior year of high school.) Now, we might be going to colleges far from eachother, and I know that it's a lot of work trying to keep a long-distance relationship working. It's certainly something I'm willing to do, but it's so incredibly hard even when I don't see him for a week, how will I handle maybe a month, even two at a time? I'm very afraid of losing the incredible closeness and trust that we have right now, even though it doesn't seem to be something that should be a concern. Having him by my side in life, and with whatever I do, because we have very similar interests, is something so special to me, and especially in college, having him there to help with classes and to study together and laugh about geeky questions (I guess we're very nerdy ;) ) is something that would really help, that I almost feel I can't do without. I don't really know what to do. (Okay, this site says I'm supposed to include my age and gender. I'm sixteen, and, as you probably gathered, female.)
ok... well if you do go to seperate colages i think you should definetly keep in touch... amd maybe if you can and have the time you can visit him...but i also think that this sepoartion wil make you guys closer when you are togather...cuz ou know what they say, distance makes th heart grow fonder, of worse comes to worse you can always call him or email him...it isnt as good as taling in person but it seems like tat is all you have for a choice,.,,,thats all i got ...hope i helped and hope you can keep him close bye!
Last year was a great year for me, But over the summer I didn't get invited to hang out as much as I usually do and I spent most of my time on the internet.
So I wanna come back as the "new" me. You know, just to impress people and make me more exciting and outgoing instead of the same me. Any tips on how to make the change before school starts in 3 weeks? *nothing dramatic like dying my hair*
ok....i dont kno how you look now but i think i can help...maybe instead of dieing your hair you could get some nice NATURAL LOOKING highlights they are great for summer and dont do anything to noticeabole...or try a new hair style...and ther are alot of new styles in cloths like hot skirts and tight pants....idk what you are into though...hope i helped bye
Can People List Examples of how they put their make up on and what they use
eye liner: take eye liner and trace around bottom of eye...(pull your skin down a lil bit so it is right next to the eye) put on top if neccesary
eye shodow: take a eye brush and get some of the shadow o it...brush on eye...addd different colors if you want it to look shadowy
mascara: open eyes really wide and and brus on... add to top and bottom lashes
blush: make a fishy face and brush on cheek bone
lip gloss/ lip stick / WHAT EVER YOU WANNA CALL IT! :aplyu on lips and smoth in, take a tissue and wipe some of the excess stuff off mixing colors can be really fun so try that too!
eye brow pencil: i dont use this but in case u wann all you do is aply it on the thin parts of your eye brow to makje them look thicker///
hope this helped ! bye and have fun!
ok so i have this friend let's call her kk ok so kk and i are really good friends and so is kk and our other friend lets call her taylor so we are all really good friends but kk and taylor leave me out like them just walkin and then all of a sudden they are just walking right next to each other and i am left behind and that really bothers me and then like a few weeks ago another one of my good friends lets call her lizzie ok so me, lizzie, taylor, and kk were walking and then all of a sudden me and lizzie were walkin next to each other and taylor and kk were walkin together and then lizzie got really up set because for one thing she is taylors younger sis like just a year younger and she gets left out alot but i try not to leave her out so she got really upset and went off and cryed so my friend kk went over and talked to her and scence all that all four of us are not aloud to be together at once (i know it sounds stupid but me, taylor, and kk are 13 and lizzie is almost 11 but almost 12 and she dose not like that same things as me, taylor and kk) ok so now kk is grounded from taylor but that dose not make scence because she can talk to me and all her other friends and scence then she said that she is grounding her self from seeing all her other friends and that hurt my feelings and now my mom said that i can't call kk even though i need to talk to her and tell her how i feel because i feel really hurt now because if she can't see taylor then she is not going to see any of her other friends and that really hurts me what should i do? should i talk to her when she calls and tell her how i feel or just talk to her like nothing is going on? and just to let you know i am a christian so no cussing please
ok...i would first ask your mom if you could talk to your friend and explain what you need to do to her...then i think you should tell her exactly what you said here ....if she acts like she dosent care then she isnt a good friend anyway...sorry to say but you need "nice" friend....hope i helped...bye
ok i ave afriend.. we have been friends for a long time.......and i am starting to like him more as afriend and i think he does to but i am not sure.......... wat should i do... im not going to ask him out.. i want him to somehow ask me out.. like secretly bring our friendship higher... me and my other friend always flirt and it doesn't work so thats out of the question
thnkz
Rissa****
i think that if the flirting aint workin you need to step it up a noch gurl...i mean tell him how you feel...it isnt asking him out and you dont even have to do it in person...if you are shy you could do it though email or on the phone or you could have a friend give him a note....hope it works and hope i helped bye
I'm not a very good kisser at all. On my last date, I could tell my boyfriend didn't want to say anything. I think it's because I'm not experienced enough to really know what I'm doing. Are there any tips (not just URLs that tell you the importance of good breath etc.) that anyone would like to share? Thanks so much!
xO* jAMiE
lol ok...u need practice...i know this sounds very weird but this is what my friend told me and now i am a excelent kisser...prartice on your hand or if you are on a date just kiss him....i mean what can it hurt right? like they say practice makes purfect! hope i helped bye
can somebody please help me with ideas how to ask a girl out.
lol get her alone...like at the movies or just away from her friends...then tell a joke to lighten the mood.,...if she giggles u kno she likes u and then ask! hope i helped bye!
ok well this could sound weird but does anyone kno how to give a handjob and head. like what to exactly do and the motions. lol sorry but thanks so much
lol no worries ok a hand job is when you mosve your hand up and down a guys cpck....and just like do stuff that would feel good.....ya...and a blow job is when you put the guys dick in your mouth and suck on it.....my friend say that to practice you could suck on one of your fingers and see what might feel good.....lol hope i helped bye!
well..i rele like this guy..who happens 2 b my x..nd i kno he likes me bak..alot! but i think were both still alittle shy 2 go bak out..any suggestions?
ok if you like the guy just ask him out! this isnt the 80's any more kid gurls can do the job too! AND IF YOU ARE A LIL BIT SHY HAVE A FRIEND DO IT! HOPE I HELPED! BYEAND HAVE FUN!
I have been in my current relationship for 9 months. Previouisly my relationship was 4 years in which we had a child. since then her father hasn't seen or talked to her in 6 months. Now when she starts to get close to my boyfriend she takes three steps back. But if she meets someone new she walk with them and hold their hand and she won't do this with my boyfriend. This upsets him and I've told him maybe she's just afraid to get close with himbecause she's afraid he will leave her too. Please help me try to understand this better. (she's only 5 years old)
.....well maybe you have to tell your daughter that this guy is ok and he wont hurt her....but i dont kno if she is old enough to under stand that so maybe have him baby sit her or have a day with him so that they can get to kno each other...she maybe shy at first but she will warm up to hi...dont worrie....hope i helped...bye
well, heres the thing, all of my friends have babysitting jobs, but i dont. i really want one, but i m too shy to ask ppl. i have tryed putting signs in the door, but that didnt work. i m a shy person. does anyone have any ideas for what i should do/say to get a job!?
ok lol i am gonna try this again...ok if your school offers a baby sitting course so you can learn all of the things to do in am emergency i think you should do that....and as for getting the word out...have your friends help...they baby sit right? then if they cant make it have them tell the peeps they baby sit for that they have a friend(you) who would be more then happy to help out...you can also have your parents find people at work that have kida ...thats what my mom did! it works trust me...you could also try putting sighns up in local parks and store.......well that is all i got for now...sorry about that last one i "tried " to enter....my computer is weird...hopew i helped..bye
I'm going to be a freshman this year when highschool starts and I was wondering if I could get help with a "new look", and I mean everything! I dress kind of preppy, but also sporty at the same time. I would like a more rocker//bohemian//preppy look all mixed in one. Is this possible? Everything from what(if) I should put something in my hair, all the way down to the shoes! ((no spandex or cowboy boots please!)) I'd also like a new look, I wear eyeliner and mascara everyday, any updates? Any good brand of eyeliner that doesnt smudge, wonderful foundation for beige skin, a "flirty" pink blush, and waterproof mascara would be awesome! If anyone could give me advice on a good first day of school outfit, that would be fantastic! Any websites, and stores that arent majorly exspensive. (I shop at AE, Hollister, & PacSun, so anything around that price range or cheaper!) Thanks so much to anyone who could give me good advice! I'll rate fives for anyone who can give me great advice. Thank you soo much!!
ya it is possible...you could go to hot topic and get some nice black pants or a studded belt and then mix it up with some nice jurly from clairs and a sporty jursy and if you dont wanna do the black pants every one does blue jeans! as for hair you could do some cute clips or a wild rock and roll stile when it just all sticks up...if u dont like that you could try a new hair style....like i went really short from having long hair....try a spunky new due...it will be cool...shoes....any thing from boots to a new pair of white tennies! evebn flip flops if you want! ...ok thats all i got for now...hope i helped! bye!
What do i do when i have an abuse of mother, who has mode swings, and is VERY abuse of somtime, its starting to be more abuseive than not, i am scared to tell anyone cause i know that it will come back to her and she will hurt me, like last week i didnt do my chores and she twisted my wrist, and now i have a sprained wrist.
please help!
....i know it might seem hard to do this but u gotta tell someone....call the police....they can get your mom help so you might not hae to find a new home......she can go to rehab for abuse and every thing will be so much better....i know it migth be hard but u have to.....hope i helped....bye
Well okay, I've seen my boyfriend twice in my whole life. I met him like 2-3 weeks ago. And then we met up again at some fireworks like a week ago. He asked me out there. I didn't wanna say no though because like I was like hmm what the heck, Ill give him a chance. So the day after he asked me out. He went away for two weeks*he comes back this coming Sunday* and he calls like 3 times a day. He kinda gets annoying though and everyboy that knows him thinks he's annoying too. Also he is a jerk at times. Like he'll make fun of me and my music and stuff. But i noticed he has a really sweet side underneath it all. No one else knows about this sweet side of his. So when I tell them, they think im crazy. Another thing is that he cant even say "I love you!" When he says it, it just doesn't sound like he means it. Well.. i guess I love him, but it's just hard ya know? I have no clue what to do. So please help.
P.s. To add on to this all, he's friends with my x-bf and my x-bf wants us all to hang out but whenever me and my x are together we're all like close and kinda act like we're goin out. because I love him still *he broke up with me because I kinda cut because of him* and he apologized for it and said it was a mistake. But it's kinda late now.. i dont knwow.... we're all gonna hang out when my bf comes back. But im afraid its gonna be weird. Please help me.
Sorry this is sooo effin' longg.
this sounds very furmilliar...lol ok i have been in your place too....and what you might need to do is tell yor bf that you need to take a break to get to know each other...now i am not sayin you cant ever talk to him again u need to if you really like him so you can see is he would make a good bf.....and as for the ex boy friend...i dont think it would be a very good idea to have you all to gather bcause it seems you might still have feelings for him and you definetly had feeling if you cut when you went out wit him(dont worrie been tere too...it gose away eventually) soo ya....i hope i helped....bye
Well this is my senior year in high school.
Me and my friends want to leave behind somethig that everyone could talk about.
You see our school has not had a senior prank (well not a good one) for about 5/6 years.
I mean I have some good ideas but I need more.
If you could pls help
wel heres what my bro and his class did....(u will luv it!) ok they took the princibles car and chained it to a pole, and then durring the cerimony each of the students gave him a key when they shook is hand.,......we still dont kno how long it took him to find the rightone...lmao
13/f
okwell my sister got caught sneaking out and ever sincemy parents wont let me do anythng even though i would never do that. so is there anyway that i can get them to relax, and see that im not like her?
please help!!!
u could try to gain their trust by helping around the house and being extra good...i kni that sounds cheesey but it works most of the time...trust me