Hey my name is Brittany. I am 15. I have a thing for giving advice. I have 1 dog named Buford/he is a pug and 1 hamster named Midnight. My BFFs are Skylar, Melinda and Yuri. I give really good advice unless you ask me stupid ? like help me find clothes for my dog. I like when people send me feedback and rate me high.I would like to suggest a few columnist= PHATFARM-LUVER1, babyface and LSU_tigers2695 :)
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Hello, Last night me and 3 of my friends went out and did some stuff (nothing sexual). And well one of these friends I've liked for a little while now. And the whole time she was looking for boys. Her boyfriend left her for another girl about 2 or 3 weeks ago. And I guess I feel like giving up. I don't know if I should or not. Oh well, I just want some feedback. Please. I'll give you 5's if I have time. (I usually do)
Thanks,
Nab. (link)
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i think that if u love her enough you should not give up. go get her hope i helped send me feedback.plz
~*pugluver*~
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ok... well theres something wrong with me... and i dont know what it is its like im miserable because my friends are ture bitches! i love them but they are.. they r soo mean and its not jus one of them its pretty much all .. like theyll turn around and go amanda said you a 2 faced whore and i would of never said taht... i mean were worse then mean girls... and i wanna cut them loose but i cant.. because its all of them that do it and uhhh its jus horrible.... and i grew up with most of them soo i cant jus cut them loose... iv always wanted taht one true freind like that you can call you abouslt best freind..and here they all pair up... but then theres jus me... and i dont know everything i jus screwed up here and i dont know what to do please help me im in despret need of it!!!
. and i can admit im a bitch but not like them!!! (link)
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wow uuuuummmm let them go. you havent givin me enough info so that is all i can say hope i helped send me feedback plz
~*pugluver*~
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I moved away from my hometown in 5th grade, now im in 8th and i want to get ahold of some friends that i left behind. i have a myspace account and i tried that but theres just to many ppl. uhh is there any other way i can get ahold of some long lost buddys? (link)
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call their old house. im sry all i got.hope i helped plz send feedback
~*pugluver*~
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I'm going christmas shopping for all of my friends tommorow. I know what to get all of my close friends that are girls, but I really don't know what to get my best guy friend. It's actually kind of sad because I've known him for almost 5 years, but I am seriously clueless on what to get him. Can someone please tell me what guys like as gifts, that isn't priced over $25, besides gift cards? Thanks!
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well if he is the fancy kind you can get him some colone. of some nascar stuff if he is into that.hope i helped plz send feedback.
~*pugluver*~
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I have this really annoying neighbour that lives in my appartment complex.
I feel that she is just trying to use me. This is what happened. I ran into her when I went to check my mail. She asked me if I knew anyone who would want her budgie(a bird in a cage). I said I couldnt think of anyone and that she should put an add in the paper. She told me that would be too expensive. Then she asked me if I could give her and her bird a ride to the SPCA. She doesnt have a car. I really didnt want to and told her it would have to be another day. She told me she would try another person who had a car.
Well she just knocked on my door. She said she couldnt get a hold of this other person and needed a ride tomorrow afternoon. I told her I couldnt and that I would be working (which is true). I thought she would leave me alone but then she had the nerve to say, "Well WHEN CAN YOU GIVE ME A RIDE TOMORROW"? AND WHAT TIME DO YOU START WORKING"? I wanted to tell her off but I live in a small building and didnt want people to bad mouth me. So I caved in and now I have to drive her and her stupid bird to the SPCA tomorow at 11. She didnt even offer to give me any gas money!! I don't even like her, she's a nosy old bag and always asks my when I'm going back to finsih my college degree and should move back in with my parents. I also heard on the weather channel that we are getting freezing rain tomorrow, and it's a bad road up there. Am I overreacting or is this lady just using me? (link)
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she is definatly useing you. now i cant say any more b/c im not the person to bad mouth someone ive never even met.hope i helped plz send feedback
~*pugluver*~
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I am a 20-year-old woman and have a friend of eight years whom I'm trying to break it off with. She calls me her "best" friend but lately I've realized I don't even like her -- I mostly stay with her out of habit. I mean, she is an okay person and I wish her the best, but I'm not especially fond of her and I'm tired of having to support her and let her cry on my shoulder all the time (this happens a lot, as she has a rough life and some issues with depression and cutting). She also has a tendency to get angry over very small things, and after I had to apologize for the 100th time for making some little remark which would not have offended anyone but her, I realized I didn't want to be friends anymore -- I am not getting enough out of the relationship for what I put in. I thought I could "lose touch" with her and the relationship could die a natural death, so I've avoided her for a month, not returned calls and so on. But she has come to me and demanded to know why I am acting this way.
If I tell her the truth -- that I'm not angry but don't want to talk her -- she'll never believe that. If I tell her I don't like her behavior (getting mad so easily etc), she will apologize and promise to change, I will get softhearted and forgive her, then after a few weeks she'll get mad at me again for no reason and round and round we go. (I know because this has happened before.) How do I resolve this without (A) deeply hurting her or (B) leaving me stuck in a friendship that does nothing for me? (link)
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im am so sry. that the advice im about to give you is not my best but it may work. just say in a gental sofhearted way im sry but i have to end this friendship b/c im not getting enough out of it.hope i helped plz send feedback.
~*pugluver*~
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My best friend really has changed. We both moved into this new neighborhood, me a bit before her. I was very shy, and she wasnt. I was her firt friend here, and soon we became best friends. Thnx to her I started going out more, and we made a lot of friends in the park and stuff. But lately she's been leaving me out. She calls me to go to the park, and as soon as we get der, and she sees the guy she likes she ditches me. She's changed, and lately I've been feeling like she uses me only when she needs me. And I've told her, but she still doesnt change.I was never good at interacting, so she changed me for the good. And I've become kinda dependant on her. Now I feel like if I was blind, then they give me the gift of sight, then they take it away.It just sucks that she's starting to ignore me when I've become to used to her.And I dont know if I should just move on like she's apparently doing. (link)
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wow im am so sry. i personally think you should move on apparently she has made a rep around your school. and she doesnt need you anymore as someone to hang on. she needs you when she wants something and she cant get it without your help.i know you need her but trust me youll come across someone way better and in need, hope i helped. plz send feedback
~*pugluver*~
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I don't even know if I should be worrying about this...but I've been at a new public middle school for four months now. I have eight friends that I hang out with, and the rest are people I say "hi" to. I'm a really shy person, and I know that's part of my problem. How do I get those people that I just say "hi" to as my true friends? And I'm afraid that I ever try to hang out with these friends they'll think I'm weird or something. I keep getting nervous that I'll never really gain these true friends. I don't want to be forever that new girl that nobody knows or cares about. Please help, I rate fives. (link)
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just go up to them at lunch period and just start a conversation or just say that u would very much like to become friends with you guys if it is not such a big deal. hoped i helped. plaz send feed back.
~*pugluver*~
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Hey Guyz, I know this girl Kate and she has a best friend Abby. They Always hang out and stuff and are like Best friends. I know that its none of MY business (but it's bothering me) but Kate is ALWAYS,(When I say ALWAYS I mean it) Flirts with Abby's boyfriend Zack. Like today we had Club Day and she was like All over him whenever Abby wasn't around. Like Laying her head on his shoulder, holding his hand, etc. What should I do. And My Best friend has even told Abby about it but she wouldn't listin to her! Should I Write her (Sarah) a Letter (without my name)?? (link)
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you should ask abbys boyfriend to tell abby what kate does while she is not around. hoped i helped plz send feedback
~*pugluver*~
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i have a friend that i work with and he is white (im black) and i really like him and im not racist but ive never really liked somebody like him before and nobody really knows but my best friend and shes a little understanding but the guy i like he drinks and smokes and gets into stuff like that and it scares me and i still like him? am i crazy? and i dont even know if he likes me like that cuz we just been friends and i dont want him to know i like him unless he likes me back cuz i dont take rejection too well... what should i do? (link)
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well this is just my opinon but i would never date somebody that does drugs besides drinking beer only 1 botle a week though.people will judge you. but your decision is based on weather your family will judge you and him as a couple. and how much you like him.and if he gets drunk he can go off on you and even die a car crash from drunk driving ask yourself can you handle the possibilties. hoped i helped. plz send feedback
~*pugluve*~
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My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and promised that we would continue to be friends. Well, he hasn't talked to me since and has told everyone that he won't. Should I still occasionally try and be friends, or leave it alone? He was my best friend before we went out. (link)
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well umm it is his life mabye he feels nervous and mad at you and he doesnt want to go off on you. i would say let go. he will come to his sences sooner or later if he really feels ok talking to you.hoped i helped plz send feedback
~*pugluver*~
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This isn't a question that is only related to freindship. It has to do with many things and there isn't a category for all of the above. I have many problems and some are kind of confusing.
First- Everyone says that I am a nice person and that is my problem. Alot of people think that I am too nice. Everyone that comes to me with a problem (which seems to be like everyone) I help them out. I love that people can come to me with their problems and they can trust me and stuff but everyones problems seems to cause alot of drama in my life. I am constenly helping people. I just got a wake up call from a freind and they said that I need to figure out what I want in life. THen only thing that I can come up with is that I want to be happy. I want to help people and then as i thought about it more, I don't have any kind of plan for myself since i put everyone else in front of me. I barely ever think about myself and what I want because i don't want to be considered as a selfish cocky person.
1) How do I still help people and also consider myself?
2) How do I do this without adding drama to my life?
3) Where is the line between confident and cocky?
Second- I have this freind and he likes me alot. I don't know if I like him because I have a hard time trusting people. Everytime he says something really sweet, like I'm beautiful or something, I have a hard time believing that he actually means it. I don't know what to do.
Third- I was thinking about this alot and I realized that I have no confindence what so ever. I always look in the mirror saying whoa! I look awful today! Other people can go to a mirror and say I look good today. I am constantly comparing myself to others. I realized that my life is boring compared to others and that I don't have as good of a stlye as them. I need to be more self confindent.
1) How do I gain confidence?
2) How do I stop comparing myself to others?
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GROUP 1
im sry to say i can only help u with problem number 1- you can have a special time in the day for helping people out or have a special time in the day for you.
GROUP 2
1- i can not tell you weather to go out with him but i can tell you trust your heart and get some x-girlfriends or just friends of him and get the inside scoop.
GROUP 3
1-you can do things you would never do in life
2-act as if their invisible
hoped i helped plz send feedback
~*pugluver*~
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ok there is this kid that i like and i kno him but he dosnt kno me! How can i make him notice me?This is eating me up inside
please help!
Note that i am very shy.
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well you can have one of his friends tell him a lil bit bout u and then go up to that friend and have him introuduce you like it was an accident hope i helped. plz send me feed back.
~*pugluver*~
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ok so i have this friend and she thinks that we are "bffe" we kinda are but she doesnt act like it. so when ever i tell her something she doesnt seem to listen. she totally ignores me. when i tell her about liek guy stuff about what the guy i liek tells me you blah all that she has no reaction. like for example she doesnt say awww how cute or anything like that. but if i was another person liek her other "bffe"'s or cousin she would totally give them advice and tell them everything.. i dont understand?
ps im in 9th grade and shes in 11th (link)
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that can make a very big difference 11th graders arent into the same stuff as 12th graders try to learn a few things that 12th graders are intreted in hearing . mabye that will help her listen to u and it wont go right out the other ear.
hoped i help.plz send me feedback.
~*pugluver*~
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I was banned a long time ago for being rude. I've learned my lesson and all that but i still don't get it. If i was banned for being rude, then start a new column, and be good, can i still get banned?? (link)
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yes you still can get banned. for being rude again facking your age harrasment
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Do all the misspellings and netspeak bother anyone else here? (link)
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yha kind b/c it is hard to understand all the ?
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Hi,
I was just wondering if there is a way I can find out what my ring size is. I don't wanna have to go anywhere to find out, so if anyone knows please let me know! Thank you! (link)
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you like go to wal-mart or a ring store where rings are sold
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how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help (link)
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well you could put tons of cover up on it
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Can you tell if a guy is a virgin? (link)
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yha buy how much they wanna have sex with you
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What do you say when asked if Santa has children? (link)
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you say know not of his own but he considers his elfs his children .
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