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(dont no what to do)
i have a friend that i work with and he is white (im black) and i really like him and im not racist but ive never really liked somebody like him before and nobody really knows but my best friend and shes a little understanding but the guy i like he drinks and smokes and gets into stuff like that and it scares me and i still like him? am i crazy? and i dont even know if he likes me like that cuz we just been friends and i dont want him to know i like him unless he likes me back cuz i dont take rejection too well... what should i do?
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well this is just my opinon but i would never date somebody that does drugs besides drinking beer only 1 botle a week though.people will judge you. but your decision is based on weather your family will judge you and him as a couple. and how much you like him.and if he gets drunk he can go off on you and even die a car crash from drunk driving ask yourself can you handle the possibilties. hoped i helped. plz send feedback
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Okay. I understand, its easy to have crushes on the bad guys :) Anywho... dont care what your family thinks, or the school thinks, if you like him, then you should like him, it doesnt matter if your black and hes white. Maybe get that best friend of yours to ask him if he likes you, or ask his best friend. Or.. ask him out. It cant be THAT bad if he says no.
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theres nothing wrong with liking a white guy.if you still like him after knowing he smokes and drinks, that must mean that theres alot more to that guy,and you must really like him. you are deffinently not crazy. haha. well, you need to see if he flirts with you. and if he gives you little hints that he likes you and stuff like that. =] guys are so confusing... but if you find out he likes you as more than a friend you should deff. tell him you like him.. i sort of had a situation like this.. except he doesn't drink and smoke and stuff. and i had been friends with him for a while. and i finally got the courage to tell him that i liked him.. and it turned out he liked me too. so maybe your guy is waiting for you to tell him something? maybe.. anyways hope i helped you out. =]
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Okay. Firstly, why are you getting all worked up? The guy's white, not fucking green.
One of my best friends is half Ethiopian, he's black and he's only had one black girlfriend, he's had countless white ones though. Also, his two best female friends are me and my other friend and we're white.
I have a little more understanding of the smoking/drinking thing. I wouldn't want to get involved with someone who does bad shit. I don't mind drinking, everyone drinks, smoking I can tolerate but if he does drugs then I'd stay away.
You're not crazy, you're just new to liking people who do stuff that you don't.
I suggest you have a long think about whether you really want to get involved with him, then casually suggest that you guys do something together. Say something like "I've been working on my cooking skills lately, do you think you'd be able to come round and have me cook you a meal sometime to see how I'm getting on?"
If he knocks you back, then just sayd "Okay, don't worry, maybe some other time." And walk away. He won't even realise he's been asked on a date.
Good luck.
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