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Hey all. Im 23 and from Canada. I feel ive had kinda a tough life and have experience in almost any problem you can think of. Feel free to ask me anything!
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i need to get ready of my acne before school... in like a week... anyone know of any quick home remedies besides perioxde and tooth paste?
Do you have acne or just a few pimples here and there?
i've been with my b/f for 5 almost 6 months and my mom thinks he has been telling people that we have been doing stuff. and she says she doesn't want me with him and if she sees me or finds out i'm hanging with him, i'm gonna be grounded for 2 weeks. the thing is if i'm not aloud to see him of course i'm gonna sneak around.. so i dunno i need advice like, what can i tell my mom so i can be aloud to be with him, or if i have to sneak around what do i do when she finds out or something before i freak.. thanks.
- lheather llynn x
Tell your mom how you feel about this guy. Try to reason with her and get her to see him for the person he is. Explain to your mom that you really like this boy and you are not going to stop seeing him so she can either accept it and let you see him or you can sneak around and lie to her. Use the whole "you cant choose who you love" speech. Works every time :)
Hope I helped!
*princs
Ok well last year all my dreams had come true. The guy I had feel for since I layed eyes on him 3 years ago, had finally liked me (though, we were going out or anything). I was pretty, popular... and I liked it. I wasnt conceited... I tried to act like I didnt know what people thought about me... but really I did. I heard ppl talk... I'm not stupid. Some goths said they didnt like me, some punks said I was too preppy. But I was me... and I liked it! I had my bff by my side always! The guys would usually fall for me... but it wasnt worth it, i had my eye on that one boy (from before). And now I notice that my bff was kind of my follower. I didnt mean to do it. I mean everyone knew we were bff's and we always hung out with the same people... but she didnt get as much attention from boy as me I guess. THEN something terrible happened... My middle school split up into different high schools... I didnt want this to happen at all... I loved my life, and now it was all changing!!! ANYWAYS i went to high school... and now that a year there has passed me and my bff are still friends... we have a lot of the same friends... but things are different. She's the one getting all the guys. Shes more popular because of sports and church and all. And I feel as if I'm the one following her. I hate it! Before it was perfect! my life was great! I felt so comfortable being myself! But now I feel different... I dont want to make a wrong move, I dont know what to say! I need some major help! not like 'be yourslef and everything will be great...'blah blah blah... Ive tried that... nothing changed. I just wanna be popular again! HELP ME. My friend just took my life
Well there are things you could do to make yourself popular again but do you really want to? I mean if people dont like you for who you are then there not really worth it. You shouldnt have to pretend to be someone your not just so people will like you. I dont know how old you are but you should be thinking about more important things. Not to sound "mother like" but there are more things in life then being popular. In highschool i think i had 2 boyfriends and none of them went to my school. Guys at school didnt pay much attention to me and i didnt really hang out with the "popular crowd". it somewhat bothered me at the time but now i look back and thank god i wasnt like them cause all the so called "popular" people are now dropped out of college working at mcdonalds with no life. Its not all about being popular. And trust me most of the people you are friends with in high school, you wont stay friends with that much longer after high school. Sorry this answer is so long :)
Hope I helped even if you didnt like what I had to say.
Good luck honey!
*princs
(14/f) i have a hard time getting along with girls. i only have 3 really close friends that are girls and 2 of them are changing alot and i'm begining not to like how they are acting lately. the majority of my friends are boys. i really can't stand being friends with girls! they always find a way to piss me off and with my guy friends... they are so much more easy going! my friend amanda she's been my best friend for about 3 years and she's the same way as me so i guess that's why we get along. but is there something wrong with me that i don't like being around girls and i just like being around guys??
theres nothing wrong with it at all. Since i was 12 ive only had 3 close friends that are girls. I cant stand girls, there so petty and bitchy and guys have way more fun. id rather hang out with the guys and work on cars or play video games then hang out at the mall with girls. Its totally normal for you to like to hang out with guys more. You probably just think girls are boring like i do! You can hang out with all the guys you want just know that as you grow up and get older you could end up getting feelings for some of your guy friends. Just try not to let it interfere with you friendship.
Hope I helped :)
*princs
Does lime juice work on acne too?srry my b/f asked me cuz i told him lemon juice would work and he only has lime juice lol
toothpaste works better
well i was dating this guy for a while...then things kind of fell apart between us. nothing bad really...he was really busy with work and we kind of just drifted. anyway we just started talking again and he explained everything he was thinking and all that. but while we talked i never really got to say everything i wanted or ask him what the deal is with us. i talked to him online tonight and i had to leave but i thought we would talk when i got back. but he hasn't come back online, and i know he's really busy so i dont want to bug him on the phone. so my question is, should i email him...say what i have to and ask him where things stand, or should i just wait until i talk to him again? i'd appreciate any advice...i really dont know what i should do!
i think asking serious questions like that through e-mail is a bad idea casue it doesnt seem like real life. I think you should just wait until you can talk to him again. I wouldnt worry about bugging him, its just a call and will only take a few minutes.
to start off with, i'm sorry this is so long
Alright, i fell in love with this guy who it would never work out with (like really really never work out no matter how hard we tried if we wanted to). He never said he loved me or anything, and he never came onto me, and i'm not angry about it or anything like that. i miss him infact. I told my few very trusted friends about my feelings (they got kinda creeped out) and my mom said i would just move on and i'd feel this way about some one else some day (but i know i won't). I don't want to move on. How do i tell my friends and family that? I understand that they're just worried about me and stuff like that. i know that they just want me to feel better again, but i know that with out him in my life, i'm never going to feel like this again. i don't want to get over him. he makes me so happy even when i'm not near him. i love him too much, but i'm afraid of what my friends and family would say to that. i need mental help, but advice would by nice too.
I know everyone tells you that you'll get over him and youll find someone else but the truth is, if he was your first love then you might not ever truly get over him. But you will be able to move on with you life and kinda just push him to the back of your mind. This doesnt just come overnight, it comes with time and you need to be ready to let go. No one can tell you what to do you have to be ready to do it for yourself. Its alright that you cant get over this guy, just dont give up opportunities with other guys cause your hoping it might work out one day with this guy. If you get the chance with another guy GO FOR IT. You said you know you will never feel this way again and its true you wont because you only get your first love once and it feels completely different than any other kind of love!
Good luck sweetie and I hope I helped.
Let me know if you need anything
*princs
Ok, I have a problem lol. School is starting in a few days and I have acne. It's not that bad but it is in a way lol. What are some ways to remove or cover the acne on my face? I hear that toothpaste and nail polish remover works but could you explain to me how to use it on my face with good details? I'll rate you because I know the answers will be long. Thanks
Dab the toothpaste on before you go to bed. Dont use too much, just enough so it covers it but not so much that you can actually see the toothpaste. Keep it on over night and by the morning it will be pretty dried up.
I would not suggest using nail polish remover on your face. That stuffs wayyyyy too strong!
hope i helped!
hey well I really like this guy and he likes me too but we know it cant work out. (long story) But I asked him what he didnt like about me..and he said I was flakey..i didnt wanna seem dumb and be like what the heck is that so im like ohh ok and i changed the subject lol....so thats where you advice ppl come in..whats flakey? haha..
To say someone is a flake means that there eccentric, kinda an oddball. Basically means someone is weird.
Well I already asked a question on my depression. But yeah... I'm scared to tell my parents' about it. It doesnt seem like they would take it seriously or do much about it. I'm so scared. I don't feel very comfortable telling my parents either. Its so severe though I feel I really need help. I cry at night and I can't get to sleep, I'm so insecure about myself (looks and everything else about me), I don't like kids my age so I don't have many friends (and the few that I have are older which sucks because I can't be with them much). Basically I just hate life in general and I never feel like doing anything... all I do is sit arounf the house all day. And my depression is not like i just get it sometimes... I'm like going through it (a year and a half almost ago is when my really trajic depression started). I don't know what to do... help? Thanks so much
Dont worry you are not alone.
If you dont feel comfortable telling your parents you dont have to. I went to therapy and didnt tell my parents because they think its a joke and wouldnt of taken it seriously.
You can go see a therapist on your own, you dont need your parents for that. I dont know whether you live in canada or the states but if you live in canada you can go see your family doctor about your depression and he will refer you to a therapist and you wont have to pay. If you end up having to pay for it then just sit your parents down and tell them that you really are concerned about your depression and need help. Im sure if your concerned then your parents will be concerned.
Good luck and hope i helped.
let me know if you need anything else.
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*princs
What are all the flavors of condoms? Do they really taste good? What kind taste best?
to be honest they do NOT taste good!
When I get my period i get HORRIBLE cramp! Sometimes theres so bad i can't go to school or do anything all day! Do know some way to get relief ?
i get that really really bad too. I tried everything, heating pads, midol, pamprin, prescriptions, birth control and nothing worked. Although i did find something that works and i havent had a single cramp in almost a year.
The day before your period start taking ADVIL EXTRA STRENGTH. take 2 every 5 hours even if you dont have cramps. works like a charm!!!!
my doctor suggested it to me!
hope i helped
-princs
ok me and my boyfreind have been going out for over 2 months now and we are truely in lovewe both think. and he promised he would marry me.. but then he was just on vacation like 1 week ago and when he got back i told him that i would nevr break up with him no matr what and then he tells me when he was on vacation some girl started puttin her hands down his pants and gave him a handjob.. and then he asked her out when she was done with the handjob and he sayd ok (not saying yes or no)..and then later they were on the couch and she was all over him and hes like what are you doing and shes like ur my boyfriend and hes like no im fucking not and then she called him when he got back but he just hungup on him... I SO NEED HELP! really really i do !!! i rate really really high!! ~thanks~
ok hun he let another girl give him a hand job. that constitutes cheating!!!!! and he did it after only 2 months?!?! everyone deserves a second chance so i say you talk to him about it and tell him how he hurt you. keep an eye on him and if he messes up again kick his ass out!!!!
hope i helped!!
-princs
I've been in love with my best guy friend for years. We tried going out when we first met but he didn't have strong feelings for me, so he dumped me and later on we became really tight. I'm still deeply in love with him and he has a GF who I'm close with too. No one knows how I feel and I know for sure he does not feel the same way. How do I get this wonderful, funny, perfect guy out of my head? What should I do?
I know exactly how you feel. I was in that same situation for a few years, and its really hard. No one can really tell you what to do it all depends on the person. You could ask him if theres ever a chance for the 2 of you, you know give you some kind of hope. In my situation there was never gonna be a chance for us so i did the hardest thing ever and i had to stop being his friend. It was just too hard for me, i couldnt be around him because i just loved him more and more every time i saw him. I suggest you need to take a break from this guy.
Think about this.....If you werent in love with this guy would you still be his best friend? If your answer is no then i say take a break from this guy and move on. If your answer is yes then keep being friends with him and you'll just have to accept the idea that you might never get to be with him
hi im a 13/m and i dont masturbate by like just putting my hand around "it" and pushing or w/e i just take a pillow or w/e and sorta push on that (sorry if thats 2 graffic). is that abnormal or not?
Dont feel like your not normal. Im sure all guys do it and those who say they dont are lying!
i always feel lonely even though my friends and family always say im preety i mean there nothing wrong with me its just thati feel lonely.
feeling lonely when your a teenager can be normal. everyone has bad days even bad weeks. if you find that your feeling this way for a long time (longer then 6 weeks) it could be a sign of depression. Look for other signs such as, lack of apetite or over eating, lack of sleep or way too much sleep. are you always tired? always feel sad?
if you have these and you think it could be depression. read up on it on the internet or call your doctor if your concerned!
hope i helped!
I had sex with my boyfriend about a month ago.. and since then my periods have been messed up. I got one at the beginning of July.. then I had sex.. and got it again in mid-july. Then.. I got it again today.. Is it nomal for ur period to be all outta wack after u have sex? or is something wrong?
it all depends on your age and how long youve had your period for. if youve only gotten your period once or twice then it could be completely normal. if youve been getting your period for a long time then i would say it was not normal. go see your doctor and if your not comfortable doing that you could call your local health line or even call your sexual health clinic. Definetly do not let this go without checking it out.
hope i helped!
i get really bad acne between my breasts, how do i get rid of it?
umm prozac is not for your face. prozac is for crazy people. i think you mean accutane, and thats wayyy to stong for your body. Theres an antibacterial soap called spectro-jel. its for sensitive skin and it will work perfect!
ok.......theres this guy that i've been friends with benifits for a while. i've done things with him twice. the first time he said he used me but the secind time he dint bcuz he was thinkin bout askin me out. then a couple weeks later he goes out with one of my friends but still says he likes me. they broke up a couple days ago and now he wants to get together(hint hint). i like him alot, so much that i feel like im in love with him...lol. but what should i do? should i keep messin around with him or tell him that if were not gunna have a relationship then im not gunna be friends with benifits???? please help
ok hun i can tell you this from experience. DO NOT fool around with this guy anymore unless he is willing to have an actual relationship with you. especially if you think your in love with him cause youll just get hurt in the long run.
i did the same thing with a guy i was friends with and it lasted a few years, he kept going out with other girls and kept telling me he had feelings for me but didnt want to ruin our friendship by having a relationship so we were just "friends with benefits". he kept telling me that one day we will be together and now we dont talk. i lost the best friend ive ever had.
i dont think you should risk losing this guy all together if you really love him. Just tell him that unless he wants a relationship with you, you cant being doing this with him cause it hurts you too much. if he really has feelings for you then he will give you the relationship you want. if he doesnt then hes not even worth your energy.
hope i helped :)
write me if you need anything
hey
im a 14yr old gal who has a crush on a guy like 10 months younger than me. i kno 4 a fact that he USED 2 like me - but i didnt feel the same way wen he did. he neva told me he felt that way but all his frends told me he did.
he has heapz of gf's n none of them eva last
but recently he's goin out wit a gurl in the grade below me n its pretty serious..
she n i h8 each otha but pretend we dont, i kno from her frends that she bitches about me all the time 2 them even thou we've neva met.
im reali stuck cos i care alot bout him but i cant tell him that, what makes it worse is that i know if i did end up going out with him, nina (his gf) would full dis me cos im going out with a younger guy..
should i tell him how i feel or just 4get about him?
is it wrong 2 go out wit sum1 in a lower grade?
love ali oxo
It sounds to me like you dont really want this guy you just dont want this other girl to have him cause you dont like her.
If hes with this other girl and you really do have feelings for him then its ok to tell him.
But if your not serious about it then theres no real point to ruining his relationship with this other girl.
Hope i helped, let me know how it goes!