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Ok so I'm just about as broke as you can get and I'm sick of it. Now I've applied at quite a few places (some even multiple times) and I've had no luck. Soo I'm starting to get a little desperate. I'm aware that my lack of a license and job experience (I've had one prior job - a good one but nonetheless) limits my options, so I've been wondering if anyone knows any ACTUAL and GOOD online jobs? Like, any work from home opportunities that are legit and pay (doesn't have to pay much just some $$ would be nice) or any job opportunities in blogging. And on that note, what kind of experience must one have to apply for a job professionally blogging? I tried applying for one but go no response.
Any help would be much appreciated! Thank you :-)
I really don't know much about online jobs but the one thing I do know is that most online "jobs" require you to spend money to make money, and they're usually just money scams. Like reselling things or requiring you to buy a "starter kit" or something like that.
Quite honestly, if you're that desperate for a job I think you just need to search harder for a more conventional job. Fast food places will hire pretty much anyone and since they're typically located in busy areas that usually means that public transportation will also be able to get you there. (Like the bus or something) Also, if there are any restaurants near you, they'll usually hire whether you have experience or not and you can make pretty good cash off the tips.
I'm a junior in high school, at the end of this school year I plan on moving out of my parents house and moving to another city. The city I plan on moving to is only 2 hours away. I would like to know if there is anything that I should consider about finances, I have money, a job and its not a mcdonalds job, its a well-payed job. Please dont tell me "its not right to move out" I have already decided that I am.
Thanks.
Definately you need to look at EVERY possible expense that you have and plan it out really good for a budget. There's probably gonna be a lot of first time expenses like furniture and cooking utensils that you have to factor in. So I suggest saving up in the last year that you live there. Make sure you think of major things like rent, groceries, car, utilities as well as less obvious things like toothpaste. When you're on your own and you don't have the cushion of your parents helping you even little things like toothpaste suddenly become a major expense, haha.
Also, and I'm assuming you're getting an apartment here, make sure you look at the terms of your lease. Is it monthly? 1 year? 2 years? That kind of stuff is important too. And shop around for apartments too.
http://www.apartments.com/ is a pretty good site. And don't choose solely on price. Just because it's the cheapest rent doesn't necessarily mean its the best deal.
I don't know how your parents feel about you moving out but if they're supportive of it then I definately suggest asking for their opinion of what you should look for as well. I'm sure they have a lot more advice to give than anyone here could come up with. And even if they're not supportive right now talking to them about it and them knowing that you value their opinion may help them to become supportive.
One last thing, don't live beyond your means. Don't use credit cards to cover your expenses. My parents had me when they were really young, they were just starting college they had pretty much no money, and they tried to make ends meet with credit cards. Then they got divorced like 7 years ago and my dad got stuck with the horrible credit rating that comes with credit card debt. He's JUST NOW starting to bring up his credit rating into the good range after mistakes he made when he was 19. That stuff is REALLY hard to recover from so don't put yourself in that situation or else it could haunt you for a long time.
Well, that's pretty much all the advice I can think about right now and sorry if it didn't really answer your question. Good luck with everything. :)
Okay, I was late for my period the month of June. The I had sex on the 28th of July and started bleeding for like 2 days but it went away... We didn't use a condom (yes i know stupid move) but it just kinda happened, but the bleeding stopped and i am pretty sure the bleeding was just my hymen, but that would mean i never got my period the month of July. I know it is always possible to get pregnant, but how likely is it that I could be pregnant now?
It is possible that it's your hymen still but jeez girl you NEED to use a condom next time. The fact that it was stupid move isn't an excuse. Believe me, you don't want to destroy you're life over a "stupid move". Go get tested for pregnancy, and unless you're absolutely certain that you're guy was a virgin, get tested for stds too. You don't want to spread anything without knowing that you had it in the first place.
I know this probably just seems like I'm preaching to you but it's really important. That's the one thing that you shouldn't mess with cuz getting pregnant is not something you wanna do on accident.
Sorry if that seemed at all harsh but I hope you're not pregnant and I hope you go get tested.
Im 17 and im going to florida for 10 days to see my best friend. Im going by myelf and dont have an atm card and they dont have my bank down there so there is no way for me to get money so im gonna bring traverlers checks. Idk how much to bring though, i know were gonna to to 1 or 2 parks in orlando and we will probably go out every night idk how much shopping and stufff, so what do you think?
Yeah I agree with the previous answer....Not all places accept travelers checks, but you know that EVERYWHERE will accept cash. I don't suggest putting it in your luggage though, because there's always the possibility of the airline losing it. Keep it with you or in your carry-on in a sealable place, you don't want it to fall out of your pocket or something. :)
Lately, my skin has been breaking out horribly. The soap I'm currently using isn't working at all, so I'm going to try something new this week.
Does anybody have any product recommendations other than Proactiv?
Product name and a price range would be super helpful. Thanks!
For like the past 6 months now I've been using the Clean & Clear Advantage line. I use the acne cleanser, then the spot treatment acne medication I put a super thin layer on my whole face, then I use the moisturizer that has acne medication in it as well.
It has worked pretty well for me in the past but like 3 weeks ago I got side bangs and I've noticed that I've been getting more zits on my forehead where my bangs cover. I think it's just because the bangs like add oil to my face and I have normally dry skin so...idk.
This line has worked pretty well for me, but I don't have like horrible acne, I just get like 2 or 3 zits here and there. It's definately worth a shot. All three products that I use are around 5 or 6 bucks a piece, I'm not sure the exact amount though.
Good luck and I hope this helps. :)
Can u put a female and male beta in the same bowl, and what do i do after the eggs hatch?
No, you cannot keep a female and male betta in the same bowl. The male would attack and kill the female.
Your best bet is to buy a book on breeding fish for the eggs part.
Good luck and sorry I couldnt help any more. I don't know much about fish, just that male bettas generally need to be in the bowl by themselves.
I have naturally curly frizzy out of control hair. I have become pretty good at styling hair for the simple fact that if I wasn't my hair would be nuts. My problem is that it takes a lot of time to do anything with my hair because to flat iron or curl it with a curling iron or hot curlers or anything i have to blow dry it relatively straight first or it won't work out. Does anyone know anyways to smooth out my hair permanently or in a more timely way so that it is ready to be styled?
I have the same type hair and I also recommend the John Frieda collection. You have to use the whole line though not just one product.
And also, I don't know what kind of flat iron you're using, but I flat iron my hair almost every day. I've tried like type of flat iron and I've found that it's a necessity to have a thin one. 1 inch thick or less. I'm using a 3/4 inch flat iron right now and it's the best one I've ever had. If your hair is like mine, it's frizzy all the way to the root, and with thicker flat irons you cant get to it. The thin ones just do a more even job cuz you can get closer to the root.
The last thing I have to say is: DON'T TRY TO GET IT RELAXED. It damages your hair SOOO much. I tried it like 6 years ago and all along where I part my hair, the hairs broke off and I had to part my hair all the way on the side for a whole year to cover it up while they were growing out. And it wasn't just like one or two strands it was like SECTIONS of hair. DON'T DO IT!!!!
Good luck and I hope this helps.
Sorry I didnt know where to put this...
Anyways, I have really thick big wavy/curlish hair. I love my waves when their wet/dampish but then when it dries it gets huge and frizzy. what kindof mousse does anyone recomend.
Thanks :)
I have the exact same problem. In the shower, after my normal shampoo and conditioner, I use herbal essences "none of your frizzness". It's a smoothing leave-in creme. That takes care of the frizzy/poofy problem. And then I use garnier fructis style curl construct mousse extra strong. They're both really inexpensive and they're available pretty much anywhere that sells hair products.
It works perfectly every time. And it seems like they have to be used together, because I've run out of one or the other a few times and I tried it anyway...and it didn't have the same effect. But that could just be all in my head, haha.
The only thing I suggest, though...is to brush your hair only before your shower...then afterwards don't brush it. Just put in the mousse and like scrunch it up. I figured out the hard way that if I brushed it after my shower...then the curls don't...clump...the way I want them too. Haha, I couldn't find a word for that...I mean like...it'll just look like a wavy mess instead of having distinct sections of curls.
I hope this helps.
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Oh and I forgot to put this in....another thing that works well for beachy waves is if you take an empty spray bottle and fill it with salt water. Just dissolve some sea salt in the water, it has to be sea salt though you can't use table salt. Then when you get out of the shower, wait till your hair is almost dry, thoroughly saturate it with the salt water, and then let it air dry. I always do it this way when I'm going to the beach, that way the product doesn't rinse out of my hair and make it look different than before I got it wet.
I do it when I'm out of mousse too, haha. It works just as well for none of the cost, if you have sea salt at home already.
my girlfriend has recently been spending alot more time with someone who is a friend both of us.she spends the night every saturday night and alot of the week with her.it wouldn't be a problem accept that she used to be lesbian and might be bisexual.she has made jokes about having sex with this friend but saw it upset me so she got really upset and started crying when i said something.we are both very intimate and to this day kiss,makeout,touch,etc. in front of this friend.she notices thigs like her underwear are showing,and if her breasts are unalighned.it really worries me,and i honestly have no idea what to think anymore.
If you have a healthy, honest relationship with this girl...then I don't think you really have anything to worry about.
If there was something going on, then she would probably tell you.
And also, if she WAS cheating on you...that would take two people to do it. Is her friend a lesbian/bisexual? And you said that her friend is also friends with you. If she was truly your friend then she wouldn't do anything with your girlfriend just because she's with you.
And about her noticing things about her friends appearance...most girls do that, bisexual or not. Guys may notice and not say anything, but girls do just because the person their saying it to would want to know, and I'm sure they'd rather hear it from a friend than have some little kid behind them going "I see london, I see france...", haha. I don't think it's something to worry about.
My advice is just wait it out and see what happens. If you're really worried about how much time their spending together, then try to make plans with your girlfriend when you think she might otherwise be hanging out with her friend. And be really sweet and caring and subtly remind her how lucky she is to have you. I wouldn't go so far as to tell her to not hang out with her friend as much, though. Because if it's simply that her and her friend are getting closer (as friends, I mean) then it's a good thing for your girlfriend and you don't want to mess that up for her.
Good luck in whatever you decide, and if you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask.
how can i lose weight by working out AND NOT GET AND MUSCLES? i hate muscles in girls!!
(female/ 15)
The best thing you can do is lots and lots of cardio. It burns fat faster than weight lifting anyway.
You will build SOME muscle, but probably not a lot and it'll be long and lean instead of the bulky noticeable type.
The elliptical is GREAT for cardio but my trainer said that if you're not going for 45 minutes or longer and if you're not working up a sweat the entire time you're doing it, then it's not doing much at all for you. Anyway it's low impact too so you wont get like sore knees or anything like you might with just running.
Also, make sure you're eating really healthy. Like all natural, good for you type foods. And I've found that if about a half hour before I'm actually going to eat my meal, if I eat a low calorie snack, like a low fat string cheese (35 calories), then by the time I actually eat, I end up eating a lot less because the snack took the edge off my hunger. But you have to make sure everything you eat is healthy, it's not just about how much you eat, it's also about what you're eating.
And diet plays as much of a role (if not more) in losing weight as exercise does.
Good luck and I hope I was helpful.
Im am only 14 and i am sexually active.Last night when me and my boyfriend had sex,the condom came off in my body.When it finally came out,the condom was empty of sperm.Now we are both scared that I might be pregnent.What should I do?
DON'T wait to take a pregnancy test. You need to get into the planned parenthood clinic, and FAST. Like as in, tomorrow first thing in the morning.
Tell them you need emergency contraceptive. It's two little pills that will prevent this pregnancy. If you wait, take the test, and it comes back positive...What then? You're left in a GIANT mess that you can NEVER get out of, and you've missed your opportunity to prevent it because you waited to test for pregnancy.
Please, go to the clinic. Prevent this problem before it starts. Usually, it's free the first time. At mine, the first 2 times were free, but then they had me pay $30. Call first to double check the price.
You only have up to 72 hours to take it.
And also, your boyfriend needs to get smaller condoms, that way this doesn't happen again.
16/f
Hi! Well I hate that I am so shy the first time I meet someone. Whenever I meet someone for the first time I am ridiculously shy especially when its a cute guy, and I don't really know why because once I know the person I am COMPLETE opposite! Its hard for me to approach a guy that I think is cute the first time I see him, like everyone i guess i get nervous, but i'm just tired of that. Many of my friends can just go up to a guy and say 'hi, i'm so and so blah blahh' but i just cant. I guess my problem is like a lot of other girls i'm afraid of rejection and I am self conscious. with the whole self conscious thing the problem is when i want to approach a cute guy, i get intimidated by other girls in the room who i think are better than me and i start to think, why would this guy want to talk/dance with me when he could talk to all these other better girls. and really im not normally this self conscious its just when im around guys im first meeting, thats why i cant figure out why im so shy. please help me find a way to become confident! THANKS!
Well I can't really help much with being shy, that's gotta come from you. Just think about it before you're about to meet someone and purposely be a little bit more outgoing.
Or, if you want the guys you meet to see that you're fun once they get to know you, try talking to other people that you already know while the guys are in the room. That way they get to see how you act when you're comfortable.
However, about being confident...I have this same problem when I'm meeting new guys. Out of my best friends that I'm usually in these social situations with theres four of us and one of them I think is super pretty and she's got the perfect body and everything and I always feel like if guys would talk to me then it would be like their plan B. So whenever I'm going out and I know I might be meeting cute guys...I wear a really cute outfit and make sure my hair and make-up are perfect so I feel good about the way that I look. I feel better when I'm in better clothes and when I know I look my best. And it actually makes me more outgoing when I feel good about myself. And when you feel confident, you're gonna look confident which will definately draw more guys to you.
what kind of foundation hides freckles? DONT SAY THEYRE SO CUTE BLAH. i want to know foundations creams or podwers to get rid of them....thanks
Ugh, I have the same problem. Damn those freckles. I hate them.
It's not really the type of foundation that makes a difference, it's the color.
I have dry skin, however, so I've always used creams instead of powders. But the creams work really well and they give a very even coverage. I wouldn't think that powders would work very well anyway, they just don't seem adequate. (Not that I've ever used one though, so try one if you want to, haha) So I suggest using a cream. The kind that I use, and it took me thousands of different foundations to land on this one and I absolutely love it, is Maybelline Superstay Silky foundation. It has 16 hr coverage and spf 12 sunscreen. (Which helps prevent more freckles, haha) It has two different sides of it one is the shade of foundation itself and the other is the "silky coverage extender" and when you push the top they come out together. I always put it on with a make-up sponge. I just squeeze it directly onto the sponge and then I mix the two different sides together with my finger then I apply it all over my face. It works EXTREMELY well and it evens out my skin tone so well that unless I'm in bright sunlight you almost can't even tell I have freckles.
As for the shade I always get a shade that matches the majority of my freckles rather than get the shader of my lighter skin. It's easier to make something darker than to make it lighter, haha. So it has a double purpose...it hides my freckles and makes me look more tan.
I hope this helps and if you have any other questions feel free to ask. :)
okay.
two questions here...
1.how long does a blowjob usually last? like until the guy cums?
2.what do i do with my tounge while im giving it?
1. It depends on how long the guy lasts before he cums. Typically, yes, you keep going until he cums. However, I've had some guys pull my head off just before they came and they finished it off by hand. I think it was just that they didn't want to cum on me. But you'll never know until it happens.
2. With your tongue you just basically stroke him while you're sucking. Like kind of each time you suck back and forth, with your tongue its kinda an individual stroke.
You can google something like "how to give a blowjob" for more detailed information.
I hope that answers your question and if you have any other questions feel free to ask me.
My girlfriend and I have been dating for around 4 and a half months. Her parents had no clue we were dating and thought I was just another best friend. She is on vacation right now and her parents found some notes and flowers she took from me. They found out we were dating and had kind of suspected it before. They talked to her and said that its unhealthy since we sometimes argue and in their own opinion to much. I see it different. WE don't fight all the time and plus I hear its healthy and brings two people closer when they fight in the end of things. Look, now I know this relationship won't last forever but I did nothing she says and that she doesn't have feelings for me anymore. She gets harsh with me and is trying to get over me so I can do the same and thats her way of doing things. I can't get over her fast, I think i am in love and she isn't even in town and saying all of this. I saw her last thursday night and we kissed goodbye and that she will see me soon. She was extremely happy with us. Its almost like her parents have put her in this illusion and brain wash thing. She isn't like this at all and has also told me and her best friend that there is a 0% chance of us getting back together which I hope isn't true. It isn't fair to either one of us..I just want to know why she is doing this so fast and painful..
She probably already had some of these ideas in her head, and her parents just probably confirmed them for her.
You said yourself that you knew this relationship wouldn't last forever, so maybe it's for the best.
The reason she's trying to break it off so fast is because when you leave things messy, they always end up hurting more. Even though it hurts now, it's better in the long run that the break was clean.
Okay i got these boots but around the caves its sorta tight i want to know how i can make them smaller so i can wear pants with them!
Helpp.
Can i make them smaller in like a week??
Howww??
What kind of stuff should i be doingg?
Just fyi: it's spelled calves. Haha, when I first read your question I thought you were talking about caves...like...on a mountain or something. Haha I was like "huh?"
But anyway onto your question. The best thing you can do is lots and lots of cardio.
There's a difference between losing fat and building muscle. You cannot target where your body loses fat, but you can target where you build muscle.
Unfortunately, the one of those two that you CAN target towards your calves, you're not going to want to do because it's just going to make your calves bigger with muscle.
Just run as much as you can or power walk if you don't like running. Bring your ipod or cd player to pass the time or bring your dog with you, it'll make it seem like less of a chore. Cardio is going to burn the calories, which is how fat loss happens. Another thing you can do is if you have a gym membership, use some of the different cardio machines for variety. The elliptical machine is great, I use it all the time and it's better than running for me because it takes the stress off your knees.
I hope this helps and if you have any other questions just ask me. :)
I was diagnosed BPD. [Borderline Personality disorder] at 18. My friend took me so that my mother wouldnt have to know.I'm now 20 and I'm not on any medication but I'm afraid that if my mother knew she would disown me. Should I tell her?
I think you should tell her. She has a right to know and I doubt that she'd disown you. It's not something that you can help.
I also strongly urge you to seek out medication, it really does help to balance out the illness.
My girl friend recently broke up with me...... i do not want to live any more..... i want to end my life....... she was all i had... she loves me still i know she does... her mom just passed away and she said she needs to be alone....... every day i cry all day. its the only thing i think about...... im 24 and i have never been hurt this bad in my life.so i think i am going to kill my self or badyly injure my self so she will stay with me in the hospital....... i am prescribed methadone, i take 100 mgs a day..... to day i am thinking about taking 700 mgs... dont you think that wil kill me in a quiet way.. if it doesnot kill me i am screwed becausei wont have my medicine and ill be even worse off and suffer withdrawl.. like i said i am prescribed methadone, i am the farthest thing from a drug addict ..... ive been sober for 2 years and this is the first time i have had to deal with my problems with out the use of drugs.. i want to die.. another option i am considering is taking a jog at night wearing all black and just jump in front of a car... i figure more than likely this will not kill me and it will look like an accident according to every one else... i know then my girl will stay by my side.. i am also tempting driving a honda civic into a wall or tree going at least 70 miles an hour.. i want to die, but i dont want to hurt my mom,, if she was not in the picture i would have done it already... so please tell me what you think and dont say shit like o go get help....... dont kill your self... god wont accept you in the after life... thats bull shit.. god will forgive me... i just can not go on with out this girl. please reply quickly..
No matter how bad you're hurting right now, trying to kill or injure yourself just so that your ex will stay with you isn't a good idea. I know you're missing her, but at least she's still alive. Think about how bad she must be hurting right now. Her mom just died and there's a lot of emotions running through her head. Obviously you care a lot about her...so that needs to be the reason that you don't do this to yourself. If you do, it's just going to hurt her even more. The best thing that you can do right now is just be there for her in her time of need. Even if she doesn't want you there right now, eventually she's going to. Make sure she knows how much you care about her and that you'll be there for her when she does need it.
Okay, so my boyfriend and I were hanging out and things got heated. He didnt have a condom and he stuck it in me and we didnt do it for long..i pushed him off of me. Not too long after..i noticed brownish discharge in my panties. Im not sure what this is and im scared..what could it be? I dont think im pregnant but then again its possible..what else could it be? and what should i do?
You should go get a pregnancy test and find out for sure. If you are then it could be a really bad sign. And even if you're not it could still be bad. I would get a pregnancy test and see your doctor, just to be safe.
when guys say a girls different what do they mean i mean i know that they must be different but what can a girl do to become "different"
He probably just means that she's special and that he really likes her.