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I'm on my period and it hurts like CRAP! I'm dying!!! I rarley get cramps..I usally only get them the first day. And its my first day. So besides taking medicine what can I do to take the pain away? Its killing me! I have church soon so i'm going to go buy tons of chocolate haha. Ohhhh the pain!!! Someone kill me. (link)
DONT HAVE CAFFINE!! It just makes it worse and last longer. Drink a lot of water and go for a walk or a jog. Excercize helps a lot.You probably already know this .. but Midol works really good! Good luck hun!!


Hi. I dont know if this is the right subject for this but o well. Neways, I am allergic to cats but i was around one today and instead of sneezing and stuff I break out really bad around my eye. Now my upper eyelid and a lil below my eye is really bumpy. I have a meeting with someone later tonight and I need to do something about it. I REALLY dont want to cancel but I might have to. Please help me n tell me what I should do. Thanx. (link)
Take some Benadryl and ice your eyes. That should help but I dont know if it'll be all gone by tonite. Good luck!!


okayy i usually wearr likee a shirrtt with my boobs hanging out and my stomach showing.. or a shorrt skirt with a shirt that pretty much coverrs my stomach with my boobs poping out .. is that wrong should i lett guyss havee to wonderr and like wunt to find out whats under it all .. or is it better to keep dressing like ido (link)
Its good to show a little skin to catch a guy's eyes.. but not too much skin. Why do you think guys like sexy lingire ? It leaves a little to the imagination and guys really like that. Good luck hun!!


xXxPinky615xXx here,

I am getting annoyed with people saying "Do not delete this question!" If you're afraid it's going to get deleted then don't post it! If you've seen the question on the site before, just use that advice instead of asking the same question that we've all seen 50 million times on this site. Ex: I think this boy/girl likes me. How can I tell if he likes me or not? Seriously guys... it's annoying. Another example: I think my boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on me. How do I tell? Honestly, if you go through all of the pages you will see those same questions asked about 5 times on each page! ENOUGH!!

Thank you! (link)
UGH I totally agree!!


my ex-gf and i broke up a while ago and we both moved on with our lives. now every time i see her, i realize how much i wasn't over her. i'm pretty sure she doesn't like me as more than a friend, but she might(probably not). sometimes i really wish i could just tell her how i feel and win her back, but i don't think that would work. wut should i do? (link)
If she has a boyfriend then don't say anything to her about it because she probably really moved on. That could be a sign that you should move on too,I know its really hard to do but it is possible. If she isn't going out with anyone then you should bring it up to her. If she's really your friend she'll be considerate and kind about it. You never know, girls are really good at hiding their feelings, so she could be interested in you still. I really think she should know though because then she'll at least know how much she meant to you. Tell her you'd like to be friends no matter what though, because you dont want to lose her completely. But on the other hand that could be the best way for you to get over her. Good luck hun! I know .. Breaking up sucks a lot. Trust me though, there's going to be other girls who wont break your heart, love hurts but thats what makes true love so beautiful!!


Just out of curiosity, what does "hooking up" mean to you? It seems to mean something different for everybody... (link)
Hooking up means Makin out with a guy.. You dont have to like him but that would make it a lot better if you did. Sometimes it can lead to more and sometimes not. K well thats wat I think of when I hear 'hook up'. K hope this helped!!


what do i need to do to prepare for sex-physically, not mentally bc im ready with that :-D thanx (link)
Theres tons of stuff to do.. Shave down there, however you want to. Make sure your comfortable with this guy and you trust him. Make sure youre nice and clean.. **have protection** and finally.. relax! The more tense you are the more uncomfortable it will be. Good luck and be safe!!


WHat does it exactly mean when u ask a guy if they like you and they say i dunno..??DO they rly no.. (link)
1. He mite really not know.

2. He mite not like you but not want to hurt your feelings by saying the truth.

3. He mite like you but be too shy.

Yep I know this isnt much help but theyre all the possibilities.


whats a "tease?"
plz respond asap! (link)
Someone ( usually a girl ) Who flirts a lot and imply's shes going to do stuff with a guy but never does. Hope this helped!!


im having a party . . wat should i have to eat and to do...don't be all perverted and say those nasty things...besides spin the bottle wat good games r there to play...the party is for grls n boys the age of 13.....help (link)
Food : easy stuff like pizza chips and soda maybe some cookies or somethin to eat after everyones done with the pizza.

Games: truth or dare, manhunt, and um you could ask other people what they'd like to play.

Good luck! Hope the party turns out to be a blast!!


I'm 13. I have 5 pairs of shorts, 2 pairs of pants, 5 shirts and 2 sets of pJ's.

I keep asking and asking my mom to take me out shopping, but she always keeps saying no. I get in trouble at school a lot because my shorts are to short and my pants are too tight, but I can't help it if my mom never takes me shopping!
How do I get her to take me out shopping? (link)
Well do you think money could be the problem? I'd try to seriously talk to your mom and say that you dont want to be getting into trouble any more and you really need school clothes. Tell her it's really stressing you out. If money is the problem then there are stores with like hand me down clothes but if you search I bet the clothes arent THAT bad and no one needs to know where you got them. If money isnt the problem then maybe you could ask your mom to give you some money and go to the mall with a friend maybe. Good luck hope everything goes well!


There's this guy that I think is really cute. Everyday at school he always looks at me. I don't know if he looks at me because he thinks I'm wierd or ugly, or if he looks at me b/c he likes me. If he did like me, I wouldn't even know how to approach him. HELP!! (link)
This is a tough one. Does he look away when you see him ? Try to see if he does this to other girls. And if he doesn't then maybe walk up to him and say hey and start a conversation maybe like 'Did you do the homework?' Or bump into him 'accidentally' and drop something to see how he reacts to you. Good luck. Hope everythin turns out okay!


ok i wanted an I-pod and still do but do you have to pay for the songs or does it come on the disk? because i don't wanna be paying for songs to download when i payed so much for the I-pod already (link)
Nope u dont have to pay for them if you already downloaded them!


I get the worst cramps when I get my period. It's usually my first or second day when I get these horrible cramps. I take Motrin, drink tea and use a heating pad. Nothing I do seems to really work and my cramps get so terrible I just want to die. Is there something I can do or take that will make them go away? (link)
I know it sounds crazy but weed helps with that. Or.. if your not into the whole pot thing i've heard that birth control pills can help you if your flow is also heavy. K hope it gets better hun!!


Ok there's this kid named Chris and he's pretty much all my classes. Sometimes I'll just glance over at him and hes like looking at me or staring at me. The thing is I never really talk to him or anything. I just wanted to know if he likes me? I don't think so but you can never tell! Thanks! I rate! (link)
OMG I have the same thing with a kid named Chris too!! He might like you.. you never know! He's staring at you for something.. and i doubt its cuz u have somethin on ur face lol. Just be like hey wats up if u have any extra time in class or somethin. Good luck!!


This is kind of long, but I'd like advice. I have a friend, and we've been buds since first grade. Ever since we met, we fight about the dumbest things! Like, I became best best friends with someone, and hung out with that girl a lot. I hung out with my other friend a lot too. She always emailed me saying, "You blow me off!" It gets me soo mad! Then like a day later she totally acts all sweet and like my best friend. Then a month later she pulls that crap again! We fight a lot, and she always starts it and acts like I did. She's always been like this, and if I talk to her, she'll totally bring up little mistakes I've made and act all rude again! What should I do?????? (link)
You should tell her that it really annoys you that the tiniest things set her off. Tell her you know you have flaws too and you'll try to work on yours if she tries to work on hers. No ones perfect and it's great youve been friends for so long but sometimes friendships take work. Good luck! Hope the talk goes well hun!


ok me n my x broke up i still like him and he acts like he still likes me. the prob is..he has a reputation of cheating on ppl before n hes sorta a player. anyway, hes wicked nice n we r friends but he invited me to go to the mall tommorow n idk if i shud go cuz ik wed just do stuff like other times and i wudnt wanna go just to giv him stuff..its not worth it. but i like him too..ikd help (link)
You should go but dont be with him the whole time. Bring a friend or soemthing and walk with him a little but not the whole time and go up to guys you think are cute. He might have cheated on you.. based on his rep. Since you still like him, dont flirt too much in front of him. Sometimes just talking to another guy can get him jealous or bring his attention to you. If you like him then maybe you should tell him. I know it takes a lot of balls but it can be totally worth it. Good luck!! Have fun at the mall!


I'm a freshman and i think i'm workin myself too hard. I come home exhausted almost everyday and i take a nap. Then when i wake up, it takes me a few hours to do my homework and i'm really tired. I play a sport year-round and i think i might have to give up 1 or 2 of those sports. What should do? Am i working myself too hard? (link)
I think giving up one or two of the sports is the best thing to do right now until you get into a good scedule for school. You need a routine then you can add some stuff to it gradually and get adjusted. Good luck! Freshman year never starts out great.. it'll get much better.


stupid question:: y does it say "not a low calorie food" on sugar free gum that has 2.5 calories per piece (link)
Because there are other gums that have like .5 calories so 2.5 caloires is a lot compared to the others.


My dad had a blood clot in his leg, and he almost died, and me and him are really close to one another. He was so close to dieing. He got all better, but now he has another one. He is back in the hospital and the clot went into his lungs, which means he might die. I can't take it anymore, and when I think about it, I cry. What should I do?

~Amberlynn
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Be there to support your dad and make sure you tell him you love him. What your feeling is completely normal so dont be worried about how your feeling.It really sucks that you can't do anything to help him out but just let him know your there for him. Good luck, I really hope he gets better.




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