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Yo YO Yo! My name is Julie and im 13/f. I love to listen to music andhelp my ffriends out with there problems! You can e-mail me or IM if you dont want to post a problem, ill help with anything, but i wont say i have the best advice in the world. I love to hang with friends and do stupid stuff, im such a dork =D! In the picture i have im the one in the blue and the other girl is my bestest friend in the world!

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OK here deal Me and Bestest best friend both like the same guy((im pretty much over him this is all about my bestest best friend)) BUT he doesnt like ethier one of us like that you kno he likes a lil slutty 6th grader((we are in 7th grade))now my bestest best friend lets call Katie so Katie has a real serious relationship with her current b/f((he got her a real diamond bracelet for chirstmas)) but she likes this guy alot more i really dont kno why but he juss has that chram i mean he is real sweet and stuff i juss dont kno what to do i mean bcuz im worried that Katie might ruin her relationship with her current b/f ((we are real open about this subject so i could talk to her about it))

wow im not sure if i got the real problem there. so here i go: okay you and your best friend like the same guy and her name or fake name is Katie. Well Katie is in realtion ship and its a good one and it kinda means something. but she likes this other guy ill call him Mike- just for me- well Mike doesnt like her or you. and he likes this 6th grade who yall think is a slut. Well I think you should talk to Katie about her realtionship now. And how good it is and how if she keeps likeing this other guy then shes going to ruin it and is going to have some guilt here. you should too, i mean your in 7th grade and you have the rest of your life to lilve dont let it get tide up about him, if he doesnt really like you. hope i help some

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I am 14 (soon to be 15 in march)
well I have a stupid crush. Its not that the guy is stupid its just me having a crush. Feeling this way is of no use to me. I mean I was perfectly fine walking by a hot guy and thinking now he is "FINE" but when I get around my crush I get this weird tingling thing in my stomach and feeling kinda warm in my face. The weirdest thing is when ever I am around him I feel pretty. Stupid I know. I just want to be normal again. Its not like I act silly with Alex its just that I don't want to have any crushes. Crushes are stupid in my case...they never work out.
The problem is I know how to give myself advice and its some pretty good stuff its just that my crush's acts of kindness toward me makes the feeling in the pit my stomach increase somehow...I just want to be normal and to have a clear mind.

Everyone is going to have a crush and its not bad or anything so dont think that! Its find and normal and if your a girl its a good sign! Theres nothing thats going to solve the problem here, you jusdt have to get over him on your own! It might be easy or it might take a long time its just depends on how much you like him. You might want to get to know him if you dont, he might be a real cool guy.

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hey i know you all know the feeling.. im bored out of my brains! im at work at the moment im filling in for someone as a receptionist on my school holidays.. im on the computer all day and i get REAL BORED does anyone know any entertaining sites that dont involve sound or sex..?

this site is real fun so maybe you could get an column and give people advice. funnyjunk.com and jokes.com are some funny sites that will make you laugh all day. bored.com has links that will keep you busy. i know people have said thees but there good sites!

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ok, so i have this really personal problem, i am a 16 year old girl, but i was born with male genatiles. I dont know what to do becuase i have a steady boyfriend, we have been seeing eachother for about 3 months. We have gone to third base( but i gave him pleasure not the other way around)and he told me taht he wants to do the smae for me. Im afraid that if he sees my 'down there area' that he will be grossed out. But i really really love him. Help me, how can i tell him?!
-worried

Wow! okay i dont want to be rude but wow! talk to your parents about getting it remove-yes they can do this!- its going to cost but yet your going to have to get it done soon while your young! Hopefully they will agree and take you to the dooctor about it! For your bf your just have to be honest with him. But yet watch out if he goes to your school then you might not want to talk to him b/c then he might spread rumors around and that just wont turn out good!

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I am 14/f and don't tell me i`ve made the biggest mistake of my life...i know i've made a mistake and i`m gonna follow my responsibilities. My boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 months, has been in jail for 6... he just got out and we really like each other you know? Well, while he was in jail-i had a little side thing...with a 16 year old black male...lets call him mike..me and mike really liked each other and did it a lot..but when we did it on the first day of my period-something happened. Last night, my stomach was hurting sooo bad while talking to my boyfriend. So bad that my mom took me to the emergency room. She decided to give me a pregnancy test..and it`s positive. I`m nervous and all and 6 weeks pregnate in the 9th grade... I have the money and skills to support it..but MIKE doesn`t want anything to do with it. My dad wants it aborted but I want it...my mom does too. What would you do in my situation? And how do i explain to my boyfriend who is trying to get his life back on track?

your 14 in the 9th grade and your 6 weeks pregnate. Wow! Okay think about it you have about 2 main choices here. 1. get an abortion and move on with your life. 2. have the baby whice means your have to drop out of school get a job support your life and the babies. That means food for both of all clothes for both of yall shelter and more! hun thats really going to mess up your life real bad! and im not trying to be mean though. and if mike doesnt want to do anything with the baby that means you have to raise it on your own! Plus most likly when your bf finds out hes going to dump you cause your pregnate and cheated on him. your 14 and you have the rest of your life to live. If i was you i would go and get the abortion and move on with my life yes there will be a lil guilt, but i would get over that and the bf would never know! hope i help

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ok, my parents are divorced, i think all my friends talk about me and hate me, and i think my moms going to die!! whats wrong with me? sometimes i feel like cutting myself but i don't. i just think thats not how u solve things but i feel like doing it so mucch. my life is soooo screwed. canyou help??

OKay first of off you need to talk to your friends and ask if its true and if it is then dump them there not going to help you there going to make your life worst! find some new ones that will be there for you! Second of all you should tell your mom or dad. If you cant its okay but you need to tell an Teacher or some adult that you know an trust that will help you- this is important and you really need to do this!
Tell them about your feelings they will listen and help you! Last cutting yourself is not going to help and it will make things worst!- belive is or not!- get help and things will be better! im sorry for your mom to =(

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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time??

Yes its normal! You can become best friends in a month and its normal! Maybe yall will become best friends for years to come! Me and my best friend have be best buds for 7 years an counting!

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In the Sims 2, one of my families has a teenage daughter and her asipiration is knowladge. One of her "wants" is to go to a private school. I've filled all of her other wants but she still wants to go to a private school. How do I get her to go to a private school? I can't seem to find out anywhere! Thanks if you can help.

hmmm i dont know sorry, i love sims 2 though lol

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I just moved back to my hometown, and I've seen all my old friends. One in particular, my "best" friend as she said, thinks that we're still "best" friends. She said to me before.." get on with your life...", and " you dont like rap". It seems like shes trying to mold me into the "perfect" best friend. I love any kinds of music. How can I stop her from controlling me? And to tell her we aren't friends anymore?? 15 F same as her.

Be like "Look i dont how your controlling me around! You need to stop your making the friendship of ours father apart. I dont know now if i still want to be your frien." she will apogijized or w/e and hope fully you can save your friendship

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me and my girl are realy close but lately about 3 other girls have been hitten on me. including like my best friend. i dont know how 2 let them down couse ive told them i have a girl

Tell them that your taken you really like the girl your with. There going to be hurt but its okay they will get over it

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I would like to ask something. My best friend and I experimented and were both girls and were both 13. We kissed each other, felt on each other and kissed each other's neck. As the days go on after we experimented I haven't had any thoughts about other guys. My friend and I act like were a couple or something. When she goes to her dad's house we miss each other more, I want to hug her and never let her go and we talk about experimenting again like it's just a regular thing to do now. Does that mean we like each other or that were lesbians?

if you have no feelings for guys and just girsl your a lesbian but you like both guys and girls then your bi. your at a yound age and its okay experiment, you have your whole life to be with who ever you want so dont think of anything now, just do what you want to do

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ok the other night i was at a party/sleepover and me and my friend got dared (for 10$ each) to make out with each other. we did it because we figured it wasnt a big deal and we were getting ten dollars each. but then everyone started taking turns doing it and i ended up doing it at least three times. im not lesbian or bisexual but i feel like what i did makes me one now. not that its a bad thing but its just not what i want to be. does what i did make me a lesbian? i dont know what to think about myself anymore.
please help!

Your not a lesbian! Just because you made out with a gril doesnt mean you became something your not! dont worry about it

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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???

Are you really ready? I vote that you wait a while so it can more special to you. Im going to tll you a story that happen to someone i know. She was sixteen and she thought she was ready for sex so she got woth her boyfriend one night and did it. She was on the pill and she didnt think she would get pregnate so she didnt use a condom -big mistake there!-. Well she got pregnate and her boyfriend left her. So she was lef tto raise a kid on her own! But things worked out and she went to college and she has a great job! SO if you are going to have sex please wrapp his willy ;)

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In two of Blink 182's songs: Easy Target and All of This (numbers 11 and 12 on their latest album) the lyrics refer to a person called Holly "Holly let me out!" and "Use me holly, come on and use me." WHO is Holly?

I have no clue. Probally a girl one of them is dating or has dated

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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?

thats not that young and you should go! have a blast and party!!

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i have the habit of bitting my nails. =( i dont want to bit them...but i cant stop! i would do anything to stop bitting them!!! i dont want to bit them anymore and everytime i try to stop i just can't stop myself from bitting them! PLEASE...if you have any ideas on how to stop, please tell me!!!

things you can do:
1. bad tasting nail polish
2. hot-sauce on your nails
3. something that tastes nasty on them
4. wear gloves all the time when your at home
5.cut your nails short
hope i helped

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i am 14/f and i'm in 8th grade...i have tons of make-up but i can never put it on quite right!! i can do mascara and concelor and i can do the blush and the lips that i can do good...but i have a horrible time doing the eyes...i dont know why but everytime i try to do them i just cant do it right..and it looks really bad! i cannot do eyeliner at all! and the eyeshadow just dosent work for me...does anyone have any tips that might help me be able to put it on alittle better?

i love eyes there so pretty! lol sorry. Anyways for eyelner you going to have to pull down your skin under your eye and then get close to the eyelash line thingy then draw a line. if you need help ask your mom or a friend. for eyeshadow the best thing to do is get an eyeshadow brush and glenty wipp over your eyelid (witht the eyeshawdo on the brush -duh) apply heavily or light doesnt matter. if you mess up any time get a cutip and wet it and wipe your mistake.

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I would 1st like to say that I have never drank through my pregnancy, I know that is very bad. But my question is If you are 40 weeks pregnant and have a small amount of wine like 2 oz. Will it harm the baby or make you go into labor?

wow i dont know, sorry. i think it might be okay just drink very little

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ok, i have this boyfriend which i love very much and hes moving to california in 30 days and im thinking about breaking up with him because i think it would be better to not see him b4 he goes so i wont be as devistated s i would be watching him leave in front of me so should i break up with him or not?

I dont think you should! I mean your still going to be really sad. You should spend the last 30 days you have with him as best as you can and do as much you can with him!

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Me and this guy are friends right now and I feel we have a close connection since he always seems to want to talk to me. But he has a girlfriend....so tell me please, how do I get him to like me as more than just a friend OR ask me out? Please help it would be greatly appreciated.

Well if he has a girlfriend then hes probally not going to ask you out anytime soon. To try to get him to like you more play around and flirt with him alot.

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