My name is Nikita. 19 years of age. i answer all questions. However i answer truthfully so don't take it personal if i say something rude. I've been on this website for 6+ years. I live in Texas. And right now i go to hcc. I love hanging out with my friends, facebooking, pigging out, and going on walks. If you have a question please inbox me :D thanks bye!
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Really though, China is already taking our jobs & they are teaching English too. When we buy things from there, were making ourselves more & more in debt. Think about it- plan 9-11 to start opposition to certain religions. They succeeded already. Where are we headed, just look at everything! Something is going to happen. Raise us to be kind and good, then convince us to be military & kill for no good. Once any type of war reaches US soil, it's done. If they make An NWO, they should make it optional at least. Genetically moded food, population control, it all adds up. If you don't believe me then they already have you on their side! They made AIDS- to get rid of gays. The FDA approves deadly drugs but shuts down cancer & AIDS curing supplements! Technology! Mass surveillance! internet, phone, any digital thing you can think of. Even me typing this! They probably have an extra Tab on me. (link)
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Your thinking too much about it though. I mean really it goes back to Al-qaeda and Osama Bin laden. It's all them doing the dirty work. But for now i wouldn't worry about it. :D
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heey so there's this guy and lets call him j and i met j in a very weird way... i was at my sister's boyfriend's hockey game and j is on the team and after he asked for my number and i gave it to him. But later that night i heard bad stuff about him that he is a player and hes a jerk to girls buut i didnt really listen to that and i talked to other people and they say hes really nice.
Anyways we started texting and at first i wasnt attracted to him and he was trying really really hard to get me and he complimented me every single text and it growed on me and i started liking him too and one day things were great and then the next day i texted him and he didnt reply and we didnt talk for a week.
So at this point i liked him alot and was really hurt by him not talking to him but i wanted to tell him off, so i texted him and said "thanks for showing me that everyone was right about you" and he replyed and asked what i was talking about and i told him that one day he was all sweet and the next he didnt reply and he told me that he didnt get it and the reason why he didnt text me was because he thought i didnt wanna talk and i told him that i did. I never did tell him i liked him but i told him that i did wanna talk to him and we talked for a fewdays, he was pretty sweet but not at all like he was before we stopped talking. but the one night after he said goodnight he never texted me the next day and i havent talk to him since and its been about a week and a half
So what do you think i should do? should i just leave it? But i really was starting to like him... or should i text him? and if so what should i say?
Thanks sooo much! :)
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It seems to me like what other people say about him is true. And let me just say i don't believe what other people tell me about someone else. But this guy sounds like a jerk. You don't need a guy like that. Move on. and find someone who appreciates you.
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There's a boy in my school that I REALLY like. How can u tell if a guy likes u?
I am almost 13 years old, and I'm a girl. (link)
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HE talks to you. When he talks to you he treats you differently than other girls, he flirts with you, smiles and hugs you etc. here's a website i found http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-likes-you-five-signs-hes-interested-320593.html i hope i helped. Nikita
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12/girl
There's a guy I rly like @ school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not, but I'm pretty sure he does.?
He asked me 4 a hug once, he doesn't treat me any different from other girls, although he's rly nice 2 me. He stares @ me a lot in each class I have w/ him. Whenever he's w/ his friends, I call him and he has my FULL attention. Everytime I c him, I just wanna hug him.
He's so cute! Oh, & 1 time, I tought I heard him say I was cute.
Do u think he likes me back? (link)
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it's hard to tell, but flirt with him and see where it goes. if he doesn't flirt back then that means he doesn't like you. I hope i helped. Nikita
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Is there really going to be a new world order? Are leaders planning on making one big government? Will they try to get rid of some religions? I hear that the economy is bad on purpose and they want to make an Amero currency. I also hear that they teach us lies in school. I also think they are using media & technology to manipulate our minds. As if we are being hypnotised. And about the world trade center being on the currency since before they were built. Obviousness that it was planned and used. It makes me think the US is a lie. ALSO, if the US is fake, wouldn't that mean that using the US in this NWO, is secretly the British trying to take over the world? As if it were all planned. I can just see the history books 100 years from now, Full of lies. If this is true, wouldn't people revolt? What if things certain things were exposed successfully? I'm M/15. Dont tell me that this isn't real. But is my future safe?? Am I going to have to live in some revolution? Manipulating our minds for the change. (link)
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All of these things that you've described about the world ending would've happened by now, if someone had actually tried to do something, but since it hasn't you have nothing to worry about. I hope i helped. Nikita
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hi i live in a very small house, i need to no the steps to getr your pparents t omvoe (link)
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Well ask yourself why do you want to move to a bigger house? And is that what my mother would want? Really it's up to her in the end, since she's the one who i assume pays the bills. Just ask her if she says no, then move on. But if your 18 then you can move out, if you think you can support yourself. i hope i helped.
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16/f
There are 3 guys in my class who constantly get on my nerves.Actually all guys in my class get on my nerves.There are 23 other girls beside me and they only pick on me.They are extremely rude and I never did anything to them.They keep saying how I'm ugly,stupid,how I sweet talk the teachers just to get good grades,and what not.And none of that is true.I'm smart,good looking and I just have my own attitude and my own way of living.I just want them to stop and let me live.I tried talking to the school psychologist but she'd only have me sit with those boys and not do anything about it.Then I'd also be labeled as a crybaby.I just think I have the right to be left alone and feel comfortable in the classroom.I just wish they would stop.No point in reasoning with them. (link)
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Just ignore them. They are trying to get a reaction out of you and every time they do they feel good inside. so for now just ignore them and eventually they'll stop. I hope i helped. Nikita
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in about a week me and my boyfriends one year is happaning... so what should i get him because he said hes gonnna get me somthing :l...
btw were 16 (nothing over 100$) (link)
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ask him what does he like? and go form there. Maybe buy him a sweatshirt, or a gift card from his favorite store. i hope i helped.
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20, F -this will be long but I REALLY need advice..
So this weekend i went to see my friend Ryan play hockey in South Dakota with our friend Nate and my friend Katie. I've always liked Ryan, I've never flat out said it though. Usually he doesn't text me first, but a week before we were about to come he was texting me like are you excited to come and everything. I was surprised then he was like talking about how I wanted him and stuff like joking around. We have always flirted, we've known each other for 5 years and he's always been hands on with me. So I was excited to see him, to see if anything would happen :) Well I got this weird vibe when we got there, he seemed so different. Like he was trying to avoid me or something. And like he didn't touch me at all, nothing. Usually he like taps my butt or something like that or comes and hugs me from behind. I was thinking okay whats going on now? I was pissed at him and so I thought a few guys on his hockey team were hot and I was like hook me up Ryan they're so hot. And he didn't say much and kept making excuses why I wouldn't like them. Then my friend Katie ends up texting him like is there a reason you don't want Sammy talking to the boys on your team, or can't she think they're hot? And he was like sure she can. And I was just giving her crap because she just kept talking about all the boys. I was like okay whats this suppose to mean. I was kind of crabby all weekend because Ryan just seemed so different like he wanted nothing to do with me. I ended up texting him one night while we were at the hotel and he was at his house. I was like why have you been such a jerk to me? He said what are you talking about? I was like you don't think you have been weird towards me or acting like a jerk? He was like no. I just left it at that and I hate getting ready with clothes ..usually I just wear my bra and underwear. So I get out of the shower and Ryan comes to our hotel room. I end up being in just a towel and then I change and come out in my thong and bra. I was trying to put my pants on and I was like flirting like Ryan don't look and he was like turn around ;) I ended up just wearing jeans and my bra to get ready and I knew he was staring at me the whole time. Then Sunday I didn't feel good so when I got out of the shower I was walking in just my towel and went out in the hall and outside to get fresh air. When I was walking back to the room Ryan was coming at the same time and was just staring at me. Then I just stayed in my towel with nothing underneath and Ryan had to take a shower but I was trying to pack all my stuff in the bathroom. I was like Ryan just get in I won't look -there is a shower curtain anyway. So finally he got in the shower while I was in there and it was all steamy and hot I was thinking gosh I would have sex with him right now haha but anyways, he got out and was just in a towel. The door was closed and I was like will you help me put on my bra? Just clasp the back for me and I couldn't get the front on and I was being flirty again like don't look Ryan haha and then he was like okay I won't and he like looked away and looked right back at me. Then I was like let me do your hair for you. So I was just in my bra and had the towel wrapped around my waist and he had on just a towel. It was so nice being close to him while I was styling his hair because it wasn't like that all weekend. He was just looking at me the whole time I was styling the front. Then our friend Nate walks in the room and is like woah did you guys have a quickie or something and I just started laughing and Ryan said no right away. Usually he would joke around like ya we did. He just seemed SO different I didn't get it at all. Why do you think he was like this??? He was just texting me the Monday before we came and acted fine and was flirting and everything. I was so disappointed .. (link)
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I know you probably don't want to hear this but ask him again why he wasn't being outgoing towards you and if he says he doesn't know what your talking about, then just leave it alone and move on. He probably doesn't feel the same about you. i hope i helped. Your going to be fine, and one day you'll find a guy who appreciates you for who you are. Nikita
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is the droid incredible..anyone have anything good/bad to say about it? (link)
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I don't have that phone, i have an lg neon, but from what I've read online, it seems like a pretty good phone. this website as an overall review of it. http://www.engadget.com/2010/04/19/droid-incredible-review/
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Im doing this project for school where we have to find song lyircs that pertains to the character we were given from the book were reading, which is To Kill a Mockingbird. My character is boo radley and Im trying to find a song about being misunderstood, but im having trouble. Any advice? (link)
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Hey so i googled songs about being misunderstood and i got this website. http://www.songfacts.com/category:songs_about_being_misunderstood.php i hope i helped.
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she really hates me (and yes she did tell me she does). it started on wednesday when she got my bus with me. i treid talking to her cos i didnt know she was anoyd with me but she didnt really talk back and she didnt sit by me on the bus like she normally does.then on thursday lunchtime she came up to me and asked if she could speak to me in privet.so we did. and she asked if i knew anything about the pen so i assumed she was talking about our teachers pen which everyone thought id stolen(i hadnt) and cos im a bit stupid i didnt think to ask her what she was talking about and just said no. so then she asked me if i considered her a friend and i said yes ofcourse. then she said i oviously didnt consider her a friend cos id lied to her about the first question so i must have lied to her about the second one. and then she walked of. and refused to talk to me for the rest of the day. then on friday ( the last day of tearm and the last day as a form cos we were being split up next year) it was a half day and she barly spoke to me. she said about one thing to me all which was i was a terrible friend cos i always lie to her and never say sorry or thanks and basicly im a complet bitch. and that was when i cried so hard i threw up. not very nice. and i said sorry to her a million times that day and told her i loved her (cos i do really love her so much it hurts somtimes) but she just said i was lieing again cos i oviously dont. so thats the main story but in the summer hols i had a sleepover with her and my 3 other best friends and she kept making 'jokes' about how i was a lesbian cos i have a tendency to hug people alot. and shes blocked me on fb and wont repli on formspring and i think shes blocked my phone number as well. so i cant even talk to her. i think shes been anoyed with me for a while cos i used to get bullied on fs. they said i was a lesbian and described in very graphic detail what me and her(the one who hates me)(shes called beth) do together. and also she stop letting me hug a while ago, whenever i treid she pushed me of her. the thing is, she lets everyone else hug her. and one last thing, i was gonna commit suicide today but i cant cos i think shell feel guilty if i died.oh sorry one more thing, she read my diary so she does know how much i love her. please help and sorry this is very long,if you stuck around to read it all, thanks and if you answerd this, i love you xxx
(btw im 13 so is she and im a girl)
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well first off i understand how you feel. this girl sounds like she isn't your friend, the way she treats you. ignore her at school, make new friends. as for the lesbian part, your still young so you have a lot of time to figure out who you are. and that girl has no business reading your diary. and if i were you don't talk to her on facebook, or reply to what her or other people say on form spring. i mean it's really none of their business if your gay or not. if she and those other girls continue to bully you at school tell a teacher, parent, or trusted adult. because wha their doing isn't right.
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iv tried to kill myself loads of times( 12ish) but its always hurt too much. does anyone know a really quick and preferably painless way of killing yourself? or a way to stop being so depressed?
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no one on this website can tell you how to commit suicide. it's illegal. secondly you need to talk to a professional, and tell him/her how you feel. killing yourself is not the answer. 1-800-273-8255. that's a suicide line also so you have someone to talk to. i hope i helped. remember your in this world for a reason. if you took your life think about how many people you would affect.
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um i was just wondering what a prostituet is cos im aparently one and it doesnt sound very nice.
thanks
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also, am i a prostituet? (link)
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a prostitute is anyone who pays a man/woman to have sex with them or engage in any sexual behavior. I can't tell you your a prostitute. But whoever is telling you that just ignore them. If it is true then god help you. i hope i helped.
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Female
When you get goose bumps does it make the hair on your legs grow? (link)
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no i looked it up and it just makes your hair stand up so it looks longer. so it's an illusion.
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I play soccer and i don't think its anything big but my left knee is like acting funny. like i will be sitting down and put my legs straight out and sometimes it will pops almost like theirs a bubbler, or it kinda is irritating. Do you think it will just go away and its normal or could something be wrong? (link)
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i nor anyone else can tell you because no one here is a doctor, but you should definitely go see your doctor and tell him what's wrong.
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how do i get over my crush that i see everyday? he said he doesn't like me but we're still friends. i think it's going to be awkward though. help! thanks. (link)
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hangout with other friends. meet new people. find a hobby to do. anything that'll take your mind off of him. i hope i helped.
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Okay so im 16 bisexual girl
I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. well my question is should I brake up with my girlfriend because one we arent how we use to be before I started dateing this amazing guy. I mean dont get me wrong I love them both but I love him more. plus my girlfriend has a boyfriend that I know has a past and every time i try to to talk to her he either pulls her away or she defends him. she doesnt have a problem with my boyfriend but I have a problem with hers and I cant be with someone who doesnt listen to my advice because im usally right. this guy has cheated and lied he's no good for her I care deeply for her but when she doesnt listen it makes me debate our relationship. I've been with her for 5months he's been with her for a week and he's stealing her from me. what should I do? (link)
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break up with her. she seems to care more about him and since you guys just argue what's the point? if you love that guy then you should go for him! i hope i helped.
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f./19
Ok, so I have a really good guy friend and he and I hang out a lot when we go out to parties and stuff. He has a huge crush on my best girl friend. We talk about her and I'm trying to help him get to know her more so she can see what a great guy he is. Sooo. One night while we were out, me and my guy friend hooked up. We decided not to tell anyone because we thought if no one knew then it wouldn't matter. Well my best friend (girl) read my phone and figured out what happened. She confronted me about it and I told her everything. SHe isn't mad in the least bit because she doesn't care that much about the guy, she was just mad because she thought we were better friends that I could tell her stuff like that. She knew something was up right away and only when she saw my phone did hse realize why. Even though she isnt mad at me and we've talked about everything I can't help feeling guilty everytime I talk to either my best friend or the guy I hooked up with. It's making me sick to my stomach thinking about it. I don't knwo what to do or how to get this feeling away. I mean she's not mad at me so why do I feel guilty? Any advice on the situation would be amazing. (link)
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hey. so my advice is that you've realized your mistake and you need to figure out why your doing this kind of stuff. stop beating yourself over it. as for that guy just because he promised not tell anyone, that doesn't mean he will since he is a guy. you should just stay away from him, because all he wanted from you was sex and he'll probably ask you again but you need to be strong and say no because you don't know how many other people he's been with. your friend obviously doesn't care either so you shouldn't feel bad, but at the same time don't repeat what you did. i hope you feel better.
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My children, particularly the 10 and 11 year-old, do not seem to have any regard for rules. Simple requests, such as bringing down dirty clothes and linens, are ignored. Their only response when asked why they did not is only a shrug or "I don't know". We have noticed that this behavior is carrying over to school, as well. When asked if they have any homework, etc., they almost always say no, but we have been contacted by teachers that they are not turning in assignments. We have removed games, TV, ipods, computers, cell phone use and at one point removed our oldest from basketball, but they really do not seem to care. At least not to the point of any improvement. I don't know how to discipline someone who simply does not care. Need advice... (link)
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hey so whenever i do something wrong my mom gives me consequences. if they decide that they're not going to do the laundry take their clothes and put it in a bag and tell them they won't get it back til they decide to do their laundry. and as for their grades being low, they need improve them. continue to take things away from them, im pretty sure they care. try to sit down with them and help them with homework. Make it clear also that you have received phone calls from their teacher, that they haven't been doing well in school and if they continue to do this they will continue to receive punishments. they need to do well so they can pass. and as a parent you need to keep giving them consequences. when they come home from school ask them to get their folder and bring it to you if that what it takes, and sit down with them and see what they need to do. i hope i helped. Nikita
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