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Why was he so different? :(
20, F -this will be long but I REALLY need advice..
So this weekend i went to see my friend Ryan play hockey in South Dakota with our friend Nate and my friend Katie. I've always liked Ryan, I've never flat out said it though. Usually he doesn't text me first, but a week before we were about to come he was texting me like are you excited to come and everything. I was surprised then he was like talking about how I wanted him and stuff like joking around. We have always flirted, we've known each other for 5 years and he's always been hands on with me. So I was excited to see him, to see if anything would happen :) Well I got this weird vibe when we got there, he seemed so different. Like he was trying to avoid me or something. And like he didn't touch me at all, nothing. Usually he like taps my butt or something like that or comes and hugs me from behind. I was thinking okay whats going on now? I was pissed at him and so I thought a few guys on his hockey team were hot and I was like hook me up Ryan they're so hot. And he didn't say much and kept making excuses why I wouldn't like them. Then my friend Katie ends up texting him like is there a reason you don't want Sammy talking to the boys on your team, or can't she think they're hot? And he was like sure she can. And I was just giving her crap because she just kept talking about all the boys. I was like okay whats this suppose to mean. I was kind of crabby all weekend because Ryan just seemed so different like he wanted nothing to do with me. I ended up texting him one night while we were at the hotel and he was at his house. I was like why have you been such a jerk to me? He said what are you talking about? I was like you don't think you have been weird towards me or acting like a jerk? He was like no. I just left it at that and I hate getting ready with clothes ..usually I just wear my bra and underwear. So I get out of the shower and Ryan comes to our hotel room. I end up being in just a towel and then I change and come out in my thong and bra. I was trying to put my pants on and I was like flirting like Ryan don't look and he was like turn around ;) I ended up just wearing jeans and my bra to get ready and I knew he was staring at me the whole time. Then Sunday I didn't feel good so when I got out of the shower I was walking in just my towel and went out in the hall and outside to get fresh air. When I was walking back to the room Ryan was coming at the same time and was just staring at me. Then I just stayed in my towel with nothing underneath and Ryan had to take a shower but I was trying to pack all my stuff in the bathroom. I was like Ryan just get in I won't look -there is a shower curtain anyway. So finally he got in the shower while I was in there and it was all steamy and hot I was thinking gosh I would have sex with him right now haha but anyways, he got out and was just in a towel. The door was closed and I was like will you help me put on my bra? Just clasp the back for me and I couldn't get the front on and I was being flirty again like don't look Ryan haha and then he was like okay I won't and he like looked away and looked right back at me. Then I was like let me do your hair for you. So I was just in my bra and had the towel wrapped around my waist and he had on just a towel. It was so nice being close to him while I was styling his hair because it wasn't like that all weekend. He was just looking at me the whole time I was styling the front. Then our friend Nate walks in the room and is like woah did you guys have a quickie or something and I just started laughing and Ryan said no right away. Usually he would joke around like ya we did. He just seemed SO different I didn't get it at all. Why do you think he was like this??? He was just texting me the Monday before we came and acted fine and was flirting and everything. I was so disappointed ..
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I know you probably don't want to hear this but ask him again why he wasn't being outgoing towards you and if he says he doesn't know what your talking about, then just leave it alone and move on. He probably doesn't feel the same about you. i hope i helped. Your going to be fine, and one day you'll find a guy who appreciates you for who you are. Nikita <3
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