about

hey! i`m katie & i`m just making this advice column on a whim. but i feel that i have a lot i can help people with. i`m a great listener and i`ll give advice on things like boys, sports, exercise, make-up, moving, family, friends, love, break-ups, life, school, moving & anything else you can think of. No question is too personal, but if you feel that it really is you can e-mail me anytime & id be glad to help you out!


a little about myself, i`m a 15 year old volleyball player from missouri. i`m a southern girl through and through. i`m currently single!! i live with my parents and have one older sister who is basically my hero. i have been through a lot of rough shit and have managed through with the help of my friends and family. life isn`t always easy and i learned that very young but i`m working on myself, and trying to live each day happy. figuring out who i am :)


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is there a place (in the woodlands) where you can get free or cheap babysitting classes?? plz help me

check your local hospitol, ive seen them offered there. if not just look around, try asking other people you know that babysit and try asking at daycares and schools.

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Ok today i was talking on the phone with my boyfriend and he said that today it was like diffrent because he didnt know like he didn't want to talk to me. I said maybe its beacause we talk all the time together he said yea i think your right then he said i spend alot of time with you i like spend the most time with you out of all my girlfirends. Wait stop right there is that bad or good it sounds like he dosnet want to talk to me or be with me. !!
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Maybe you guys just need some space. Try taking some time to hang out with your friends. Spend a day apart and go shopping or hang out just away from him. It could be that your just with each other too much.

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Does anyone have any tips for getting lip gloss to last about 6 hours?

Line your lips with a nude liner. MAC Lipglass lasts a long time too and come in cute shades! But most lipglosses arent going to last that long, you just have to re-apply!

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My heels on my feet are seriously cracked and dry. Its disgusting. How can I make my feet smooth for summer? Are there any lotions/treatmants you recommend?

Try soaking your feet and putting heavy lotion on at night and then put socks on - should make you feet softer. Try looking at your local drug store for a good lotion, I like bath & body works personally.

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I just got started this break with my girlfriend and the advise i've gotten is that shes bored, shes unsure, shes unfaithful, but what i want to know is what should i do forget her or try to win her back over the guy she wants to date last time i was able to do just that. but know i just don't know, i trully love her with a my heart. OR should i just forget about her and how should i go about doing this all?

If you truely love her, I say go for it. Show her how you feal and let her know your there and that you care a great deal! Most girls love flowers (hint hint) but try not to get stalkerish, that can be creepy. If worst comes to worst and shes not interested then it wasnt meant to be, everything happens for a reason!

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is it possible to gain breast tissue through pills or creams

Nope. You should be happy with your breast size!

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Every morning i put on enough make up. However, buy 11:30 am its faded! I need 2 know how to get make up that lasts. Brands,tips,etc.
please help i rate 5s for average answers.

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The best thing I have found to get eyeshadow to stay is MAC paints, it can be worn alone or under powder eyeshadow, its great. Its a creme to powder formula and comes in many colors or a skin/tint-ish color.

As far as getting foundation/powder to say Id say just keep looking around for a better brand. In most instences, you get what you pay for so if you go with a higher end brand its usually worth it. You can check out www.makeupalley.com for reviews of products before you buy them (hair care, makeup & skincare) its great so you know what others think before you go and splurge on it.

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Well i really like this guy (mason) but of course he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me ALOT and is always hangn around with me, but then this girl seyd "She wants you to break up with yur g/f so yuu can go out with her" AND I NEVR SEYD THAT .. im so mad, he wont talk to me anymore! =[ **-- I rate 5s --**

I say confront Mason and tell him what really happened and that you didn't say that. If he's a good guy he'll believe you!

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What kind of bra should I wear underneath a slik/lace tank top (specific brand would be helpful)? I see girls wearing them all the time and you can't tell they're wearing a bra! Everytime I try, my bra shows. Please help me out :)

I say go to victoria's secret and they'll be able to help you out with your specific need. But I would say a seemless strapless would work well.

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Does it hurt the first time you have sex?

I personally don`t know first hand but I`ve heard from friends that it does.

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Have you ever been in love? If so, what was your experience like?

Sorry, I can`t help you there. I have never been in love. Just haven`t found that guy, but I`ll let you know when it happens :)

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Okay so I'm sixteen, 5'5" and I weigh 93lbs. I eat everyday regulary, I never exercise. I have really long legs, and my bones literally stick out, so I'm wondering, what could I do to gain some weight? I atleast wanna be 1O5 or so. Or should I just be happy with the way I am? Because I know most girls would kill to be my size.

I think you should be proud and happy the way you are. As you said, most girls would kill to be your size so just be happy with who you are.

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Have you had had oral sex or sex?

My personal sex life is none of your bussiness.

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Okay so my best friend is all of a sudden being a total jerk to me. She's saying I'm stupid when I'm an A- average student and she's a C average student. She's saying just because it took me a longer time to move up a level in gymnastics means I'm not as good as her when I'm the one who got her into it and she's only moving up a level because she wants to be better than me. I work my butt off to get the scores to move up but she gets a score 4 points lower than mine and she can move up. I have other friends but I spend more time with her. What should I do?

This could just be a phase that you are both going through but I say try hanging out with other people more. It`s good to have more then one close friend.

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In the past couple weeks, ive gained 10-12 lbs and i cant stop freaking out. My exercise and eating habits havent changed and i dont know why but i keep putting on more and more weight. I feel so disgusted with myself. Can anyone explain to me why ive gained all this weight all of the sudden? (No, im not pregnant.) I dont overeat. I actually burn all my calories. Any way i can lose all this weight because exercise and eating healthy arent working?

Try drinking more water! Weight gain can be caused by anything from weather to stress. It`s okay, don`t freak out! Up your exercise routine and make sure to take vitamins and drink plenty of water!!

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hey im 15 and never had a boyfriend, and not even kissed someone, and all my friends have! i dont hang around with any guys, so how can i meet a guy?
thanxz for the help
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The best place to meet guys is school, work, malls, parks, concerts & any other place. Really, guys are everywhere!

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can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
THANKS!!

MYTH. but those foods (chocolate & greasy foods) aren`t the best for your body in general!

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Is it true that sperm dies once air hits it??

It will take a few hours to dry once oxygen hits it!
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ok so i like this guy from work...and he obviously lieks me back...he flirts all the time and he asked for my number.is it bad to date someone from work...i mean i dont even know if it would get that far...im just asking for furture referense...i read the code of conduct or whatever for my job..and they say you can date ppl from work but you have to tell the "big boss man" whoever the hell that is..and he has to give you persmission or sumthing weird liek that. But just in general is it wrong to date someone from work??

It`s all personal opinion. Some people think its wrong and others think it`s fine. I, personally see no problem with it. Seeing as though this job probably isnt where you will work the rest of your life. Go for it!

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Well there is this guy in my class that i have a crush on him since i met him. I knew him since kindergarden and i am almost a freshman. Well, my bestest friend loves him still, because she hadnt gotten over thier break up since seventh grade ( i think). He has just gotten out of a relationship with one of our other friends, and he said he didnt want anybody fighting. Well that went well. He had been flirting with my friend and i and he was playing us. He would tell me one day that he likes me more than my friend, but at the end of the day, he told my friend that he really didnt like me, but liked her. I dont know what to do. My friend still wants to go out with him, but i dont want her to get hurt again because how it went last time. She wont listen to me, because she thinks that i am just jealous. I just want to be good friends with him, like we were before he started flirting with us. I just dont know what to do. Can u help me... us?

If this guy is going to go around breaking up friends, I don`t think he is the kind of guy your going to want to date, but thats my personal opinion. I think you should give it time. Figure out what kind of person he is and if you really like him. Chances are, he isn`t worth all the drama but you never know!

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