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Well there is this guy in my class that i have a crush on him since i met him. I knew him since kindergarden and i am almost a freshman. Well, my bestest friend loves him still, because she hadnt gotten over thier break up since seventh grade ( i think). He has just gotten out of a relationship with one of our other friends, and he said he didnt want anybody fighting. Well that went well. He had been flirting with my friend and i and he was playing us. He would tell me one day that he likes me more than my friend, but at the end of the day, he told my friend that he really didnt like me, but liked her. I dont know what to do. My friend still wants to go out with him, but i dont want her to get hurt again because how it went last time. She wont listen to me, because she thinks that i am just jealous. I just want to be good friends with him, like we were before he started flirting with us. I just dont know what to do. Can u help me... us?
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It sounds like there needs to be a dating ban on ALL of you. If you truely care about each other, he won't date(or flirt with) either of you, and the two of you will not bicker and will try to resist jealousy about it.
All of you need to have a talk. If that isn't plausible, talk to both of them seperately. Tell him you'd appreciate if you could keep it platonic, and tell her to ask him the same thing.
If none of that works, you might want to back out and let her have him, and find someone else, or enjoy being single, cause it's not guaranteed that they'll comply.
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If this guy is going to go around breaking up friends, I don`t think he is the kind of guy your going to want to date, but thats my personal opinion. I think you should give it time. Figure out what kind of person he is and if you really like him. Chances are, he isn`t worth all the drama but you never know!
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Well, I guess the only way to prevent it from happening again is to keep telling your friend. Tell her what you told us. Tell her you don't want her to get hurt again, look what he's doing now, saying he likes me, then the next day he says he likes you and not me. Tell her she can find a better guy than him, and she deserves more. Just be honest with her. Tell her you honestly could careless about going out with him, you just want to be his friend. She still has plenty of time to find a good guy! Goodluck, I hope everything works out!
Hope I helped!
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