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i heard that when you go on birth control, there is a certain amount of weight gain. is this true? if so, how much? are there any other side effects?

the birth control makes you want to eat more, youll feel like youre hungry more and youll definetly have more cravings for the first few months. but your weight gain depends on if you give in to those cravings. but heres a website that explains everything. http://www.healthywomen.org/healthtopics/birthcontrolpills

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http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=549406

so fronm that i asked my friend jane and she said joe did say that well know i have no clue what to do! i dont relly know joe BUT hes soo hott!! and i like zac hes so sweet and he allways trying to talk to me so i think he likes me to!

who do i try for?

i think you should go for the one with the personality (zac?) because even though you think he might not be able to give you what you want, you may be surprised! and id rather date a guy that has a great personality and isnt the hottest guy than a guy whos a jerk but really hot.

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I just started hs, n the guy i like is in 10th grade, so i dont have any classes with him, except for lunch because everyone has lunch together.
anyways, this guy, lets call him Jack (thats not his real name), first saw me in the hallway one morning, and ever since he has been standing there every day. Also, during lunch for the last two days he has been eating 10 ft away from me n my friends with his friends. also, the other day, as i was walking with my friends, his WHOLE group of friends turned n looked my way. and last night at the football game, he kept looking my way.

so, im pretty sure he likes me , and i know i like him too. so, now what do i do? I can't go up and talk to him because he is always with his friends, either that or he is always listening to his ipod. We are friends on facebook, but we never talk. & last night, on my fcbk, for the "what are you doing now" thing, I wrote a verse from REalize by COlbie c. and then he wrote some verse from some song, it said "you take my breath away when you walk. you tk my breath away when u r near me. you tk my breath away when u r away. i just wanna be with you even though i am too shy". HELP ME!!!!

so OBVIOUSLY he is too shy to talk to you. so just talk to him on facebook. ask him to hang out or for his number. you know, random stuff like that.

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i have a problem...i ALWAYS cry. i can cry whenever i want too. i just think cry, and i start crying. sometimes i cry when i'm not even sad, and i don't want too. it's actually really embarassing. idk why, i told my mom about this and she told me that something must be wrong and that i must be sad about something, because i told her that sometimes i started crying when i wasn't even sad. i think it's just like a stress release for me, but i'm ALWAYS stressed, and there's no way to change that, so it's really annoying. i mean i HAVE kind of been sad lately, but i've felt like this my whole life, and although i've always been an easy crier, i never cryed for no reason like i do now. i can make myself cry whenever i want, and sometimes i just feel like crying, even when nothing in particular is wrong. if something tiny goes wrong, i'll start crying. i don't know what to do! it's really embarassing, because people think i'm a baby, but i'm like um i don't even know why i'm crying right now i'm not even upset. like i'ts really embarassing, can someone please help me and tell me what to do to make myself stop crying? is there anything i can do physically or emotionally? and has this happened to anyone else before?

i totally agree with the girl below me but i also suggest joining the drama team (if you are in school l0l) because youd probaly be a good actress (assuming you are a girl--sorry if youre a guy...) due to the fact that you can comand yourself to cry.

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whats your way of getting whiteheads around your nose? lol

i use a face wash for whiteheads and once a week i use a peel-off mask. if i still have em, i wash my hands real good, get a washcloth, and pop them. l0l

i know that sounds really gross! l0l

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the past month i've been talking to this boy who i really do like but everyone says hes no good for me. i can see where their all coming from because all he does all day is smoke weed and hang out in the streets. i dont know if i should just let him go and stop talking to him. i would feel so bad if i did that though because he is faithful to me unlike all the other past relationships i've been in. i have talked to him about it before but he just doesn't want to stop smoking.

ive been in this situation before. go ahead and get together with him just tell him not to smoke around you. thatll make him stop smoking as much, eventually. dont expect him to just stop. thatll never happen in a 1,000,000 years! then gradually start hanging out with him more and more, which will make him smoke less and less. then when you guys have started going out for A WHILE kinda give him subtle hints that you dont like it when he smokes and if he could try to SMOKE LESS. DO NOT ASK HIM TO STOP COMPLETELY. then, if he says no, say ok, and leave him alone. then in a couple of days do it again. if he keeps saying no, then youll just have to accept it until he decides that you really want him to stop.

i hope i helped!!

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Does anyone know an English site that sells a t-shirt which says ''I scare my own family''?
I've found some US sites..but I live in Europe so ordering would cost me a bomb.

Any help?

you could always look for an european t-shirt site where you tell them exactly what you want on it and they custom make it for you. most of the time it costs $20 but i dont know about europe.
i hope i helped =]

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SORRY for it being long lol.

Theres this guy, jed, and i really like him, maybe even love him, and i honestly dont know what to do. I am 14, hes 15, and i know im not too young to love. But he lives an hour away. We see each other for a week straight ever year and then we visit each other for a couple of days every month or two and we talk like every night. We hooked up, and i really thought he liked me. I mean he was always like i msis you so much. and i have a fb and he always comments like you are gorgeous.

Last nights his away was im a mess. I said i am too. Hes like mines because of a girl, im like mines because of a guy and i really really thought he was going to say it was because of me. He was like i cant tell you i cant tell you and then hes like fine its a girl named jessie you dont know her. I just like couldnt move i felt numb and just wanted to cry. I do now too, i texted him the whole night and he talked about jessie. she seems like a great girl but...idk. I really thought we would end up together just try at least and this crushed me like im tearing up now. I feel for his pain when i see him i cant stop smiling. He is the first thing i think about int he morning and hes always the last thing i thinka bout before going to bed, haha im always texting this boy. When i hear his voice its heaven. When he touches me its like a shock goes through my body. We like the same things, and i honestly cant stop talking about him. My friends think i should get over him but i dont think its possible i mean ive had boyfirends before but ive never felt anything like this. What can i do? i love him and there isnt one thing wrong with him, hes perfect. Help me! i cant tell him i love him. not now after meagan, it would just be embarrassing being like hows meagan? btw i lvoe you? it just wouldnt work. ugh. helpp!

give him hints that you like him. get to meet this jessie girl and see if she likes him back or if maybe you two could become friends =] maybe she doesnt like him and hell get over her and start liking you.

what i do is tell the guy that i like that i like him. it gets stuff out in the open and 99% we start going out because hell start liking me because i told him and most guys like that as long as you dont become all stalker like. l0l

i hope i helped! tell me how it goes. =]

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i hate stretch marks. i have them on my waist and on my boobs. there so ugly and the ones on my waist are VERY noticeable! how can i get rid of them?

lotion.

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I need a homecomming dress any ideas with good websites that have reasonably priced dresses? Stores more rare would be greatly appreciated.

http://www.cybernetplaza.com/homecoming-dresses.asp

http://efashioncentral.com/bravura/sub.php?CatId=5607&Page=CatOv

http://www.promgirl.com/shop/promdresses-by-price/promdresses-under-100

http://www.christinagowns.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=catalog.catalog&categoryID=2

http://www.simplydresses.com/dresses/thumbs-sale.cfm?cat=closeouts

http://www.promgirl.com/shop/promdresses-by-price/promdresses-under-100

my favorite:
http://www.gojane.com/shop-by-category-formals.html

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i and my boyfrd were in deep love for 2 years but then v both had a misunderstanding bout a girl who was his bestfrd.he got angry and he was lyk i dont trust him.i tol him its not tat i don trust him but actually i m jus jealous.but he bcame really violent n sed he doesnt want me at all in his hole lyf.many of our frds involved but he got more angry.i tol him srry in many ways by giving him cake,chocolates and all that but he sed i was over acting.he loved me for 6 years but now he says there is no love at all and he hates me.wat shud i do?plzz help me.he is 20 yrs old and i m 18 yrs

well first, tell him that you DO trust him and that you are very sorry for ever doubting him. tell him that the girl was a misunderstanding. tell him that you are sorry that you are jealous. because honestly if you trust him you have no reason to be jealous because he wouldnt cheat on you. makes sense right? keep friends and family out of it. its none of their business. (im so sorry if i sound harsh) it will only make him angrier that youre getting people involved that shouldnt be. if he is violent as in physically, LEAVE HIM ALONE. if hes violent with words, its not such a good thing but he probaly has a right to be because he thought you dont trust him. it probaly just upset him because he most likely thinks that you dont trust him, love him, etc.

i hope i helped!! please leave me a message if you need help with anything else. tell me how everything goes. =]

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why cant i drink with my bf?

its not just him but any of my exs, i can never drink with them.

i can do it comfortably around my friends (guys or girls) but never someone im dating.

maybe its because you dont want them to see how you act when you are drunk.

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whats a good, cheap, easy to use software to edit videos? just something to be able to add music to a clip and make a video from various clips, nothing fancy.
thanks!

if you have a samsung camera, a program like that should come with it.

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where can i buy colored tights?

try wal-mart or target.

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i have wavey hair but i wanna know like the best way to get beach waves from gtting out of the shower, and what products to use and stufff. cause i looked it up on google and it gave me ideas but i have to usse a curler or something

also i want to buy a crimper/triple barrel iron or somthing. not the ones that give u the really small waves the big ones.

thankss.

to get beach waves, try taking a shower at night and going to bed with wet hair. for any other ideas, try looking seventeen...they give great advice and ideas for hair.

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what do you girlies use to create smoky eye? any good products yoo'd recommend?


which eyeshadow do you use, brand, price,try to go under10 dollars again budget, thanks!


SMOKEY=SEXYY ;]

go on youtube.

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Okay so, Saturday was Old Home Day and at the moment Steven was dating becky a really close friend of mine but she really never liked him. Well they broke up the same day, and Steven ended up saying right infront of me to Abby that if I asked him out seriously he would have a hardtime saying no to me. and I guess all day we were flirting and everything.
I told a lot of people the day and the key points that they lovee to throw in my face cuz I say we werent flirting is
--I played with his feet.
--Wore his sweatshirt.
--Played Mercy and lost miserably.
--Jumped on his back to get back for losing Mercy.
--He baught me french fries and the guy behind the counter was like "You have your boyfriend rapped around finger." and I was like =Ohes not my boyfriend.
--We shared the couch together very nicely lol.

i didnt know i was 'flirting' at the time... and I donno if he thinks I like him but everyones saying that he likes me.. I donno.
I guess flirting is wanting to keep his attention all the time which i guess im good at and he never complained. and he was talking about him and me and group people going over his house to watch a bunch of scary movies and NO. I hate scary movies becuase im the girl in the back screaming her head off and Ill probably grab the first person and cuddle with. Told Becky that and she said that that is probably what he wants.
I donno if I like Steven. I love spending time with him, I hate it when he picks me up, and I scream bloody murder right in his ear to get him to put me down. He's always making me laugh and I dont need to watch what i do with him I ust do it.
I thought thats what friends were... but Im wrong. By A Lot.
What do I do? What relationship do we have Kimberly calls us Flirt Buddies. and, I donno how to act around him now.

you were definitely flirting with him!! l0l
i think you should be friends first for a while and if you want to take it further after a while go ahead. thats what friends ARE for and i think (that by what you told me) he definitely likes you as more than a friend.

if you need anything else or i missed something, send me a message in my inbox :D

good luck and i hope i helped! let me know how everything goes!

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i'm making a miniscrapbook for each of my friends because we're going to college this year..does anyone have a favorite friendship quote? please don't give me links to websites because they rarely work on my computer..thanks a lot!

i got these off a website =]

"People never know how special someone is until they leave, but maybe sometimes its important to leave, so they are given that chance to see how special that someone really is!"

*Don't ever be afraid to come to me ~n~ cry* *Don't ever hesitate to look me ~n~ the eye* *Don't ever be afraid to tell me how you feel* *Remeber your my girl ~n~ we gotta keep it real*

True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known until it be lost."

"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out."

"A hug is worth a thousand words. A friend is worth more."

A Friend is someone who knows all about you and loves you anyway!!!"

"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."

theres a lot more on theholidaypage.com.
or just google friendship quotes..there a whole bunch.

hope i helped! if you cant go on those websites write me a message in my inbox and ill gladly give you more!

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Does anyone know where they sell sleeveless blazers and for how much? Store names and websites will be appreciated :].

look on charlotterusse.com....you can choose which one you get (well duh =]) but most of them are the same but some are cheaper than others.
when youre on the website just click on casual tops and search. =] i hope i helped!

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My boyfriend said he likes girls who get physically aggressive about the little things...how do you interpret that? I know he wasn't talking about anything directly sex-related.

maybe hes talking about being competitive?

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