I'm a fourteen year old girl from California. I'm a rabid liberal/feminist an a writer. I've been through cutting, and I'll try not to give bad advice. Ask me whatever you like . . . I'm not so good on romance questions, with a lack of any significant experience, but I'm good on everything else.
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hey can some1 pleaze tell me what song this is nd who singz it..i kno it but i forget-the lyrics are..
If I traded it all
If I gave it all away for one thing
Just for one thing
If I sorted it out
If I knew all about this one thing
Wouldnt that be something
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"One thing" by Finger Eleven
Please rate!
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my bff just told me she was liking gurls. do I treat her different, or the same? help me.
signed
***/confuzzzed/*** (link)
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Treat her the same. Just because she's not as heterosexual as you thought she was, doesn't mean she's a completely different person. Just be understanding and supportive, but don't avoid her or treat her completely differently. She'll love you forever if you can be there for her.
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hey idk what the name of the song is but do u? some of the corus is:
one shot, one shot thats all we ever got
oo u got me started now im not gonna stop
now slide a long slide yeah baby thats rightt
im gonna show u the time of ur life
now im not positive thats the exact words but its close...it kinda songs like sugar eay sings it idk
PLEASE HELP and i will rate
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Shifty - slide along side, I think. not sure if I've got the spelling right.
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im 5'5" and i weigh 140 pounds.. am I fat? and if so what ways do u know that are quick weight loss but still healthy for you. I would exercise. but its not quick. I could try cutting my portions but i can't! (link)
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You're not fat according to your BMI.
Weightloss takes time. Be patient. Exercise. Eat healthy food in small portions.
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i have 100 questions answered....um how do i no im a level 2 thinggy now? explain a lot please..:o) (link)
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I doesn't matter how many questions you've answered.
There are only four or five level 2 mods at any one time. When one becomes inactive, another is chosen.
Go to the top of the "view questions" page and it will tell you what level moderator you are. There is a link you can click for more information.
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I'm not sure i got this poem sounding right; anyone please gimme a hand.
Fallen Hero
I looked up to a figure
I once deemed to be the best.
But as time slipped to the second,
My faith was put to the test.
Me hero was declined
Of his powerful throne,
Shoved to the side
And deprived of all he called his own.
I stood with the disappointed
Who late looked him on,
And surprisingly found myself
Not nearly as drawn.
As I turned my back,
Shaking my head,
He uttered his final words
And the next second he’s dead.
I found myself thinking twice
Of what I had once thought.
After hearing his words,
My attention, he begot.
“Take care of your hate,
“For soon you’ll regret
“For not helping the one
“To whom your actions were once set.
“Don’t be afraid of difference-
“That’s what makes us all unique.
“If we copied and begged sameness,
“Then all would be bleak.
“Cherish what you believe
“And this is the last I have to say:
“Don’t turn your back again
Like you’d done today.”
**!~Denice~!** (link)
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very nice. the beat is off in a few places, like some of the others have said, but nothing a quick edit won't fix. It's got good rhyme and it's pretty good!
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im 14 almost 15 and i have never had like a real boyfriend should i be worried that im going to go to prom alone because i think about it a lot (link)
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I'm just about your age (fifteen august first) and I've never even gotten close to having a boyfriend. Neither have most of my friends. Don't worry, and you won't have to deal with the prom for another two years. There's plenty of time!
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what are those faces in the corner suppose 2 signify???? (link)
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The question quality. Good questions are smiley faces, bad questions are sad faces, the in-between faces are just that.
When there is no face, and just a circle, it means that question has not been rated.
You can rate question quality when you are a level one moderator.
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I'm 14/F n im goin out with what some people call a 'player' everyone is telling me that i should break up with him right away. but i cant! he makes me so happy and i really like how he makes me happy if im upset or anything. i feel i can really talk to him about anything and everything. my friend (who is a guy) is telling me now that my boyfriend has hit his past girlfriends! i dont know if thats true or not. everyone seems to be against my going out with him and i dont know what to do anymore. they're telling me that he is going to ruin my life and im making a huge mistake by staying with him! i dont know if i should break up with him or stay with him. but he makes me soo happy and thats why i dont want to break up with him! i just dont know what to do. if anyone has any advice please give it to me, id really really appreciate it. thank you.. (link)
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Ask around. Don't go with what your friends say, but do some of your own investigating. Talk to the ex-girlfriends, if you can. Talk to their friends and siblings and maybe some people who know your bf but not well enough to tell him you've been looking.
If you find that he's hit other girlfriends, dump him ASAP. Please.
If not all the information you get fits together and some of it disagrees, stay with him if you feel like you can prepare yourself for something bad.
If none of what your friends say is true, then stay with him, because he makes you happy.
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I have a stepmother, her name is anne. She's only 15 years older than me, and my dad is 17 years older than her! I hate her, but i'm still nice to her...She's bothering me!!!! She pretends to be my mom, and i dont want people to think that! I wana tell my dad that he should divorce her, but how? I also have to say that she doesn't know how to drive, and only earns $14 dollars per hour at her new job! And my dad only married her bcus he was alone at the house (I was with my mom) and was afraid if something happened to him, no1 would call the police. (link)
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First, try to get to know her. See her less as your "very young stepmom" and more as a relative who has come into you life. Try to go to the movies with her, and do some fun stuff.
If still hate her, try to figure out why. Here is where you have to be very objective with yourself. Do you hate her because she's married you dad or because she's just a nasty person? If it's the first one, then jope you get used to her, because your dad deserves his happiness. If it's the second one, there's not much you can do except home they eventually get sick of each other.
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Am i considered fat if i am 5 foot 4 and i weigh 195 lbs? i know i dont look it and i do have a lot of muscle in ym arms and legs from playing sports. Am i considered over wieght or not? (link)
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According to you BMI, you're overweight. But muscle throws the scale off, so the BMI your doctor gives you would be more accurate. Just keep playing sports, it'll keep you healthy!
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I really wana loose a quick 10-15 pounds really fast in 4 weeks.. but the bad part is im really picky with foods.. So i dont know what to do or eat.. does ne one have ne advice?! i'd apreciate it soo much! (link)
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you need to eat healthy and work out.
get a membership and your local gym if you don't have one already (if you're underage, I understand you can still lie fairly easily) and go there often. my school has some exercise equipment, too. If your school has some and you can use it through some summer program, do it!
Make sure you work ALL your muscle groups. That way you'll get toned all over.
Take a yoga class. Or a spinning class. Or any sort of exercise. Maybe even dance?
And walk places. Or run. I have quite a walk down to the bus stop, and sometimes I'll jog a little.
now on the eating . . .
I understand, I'm a picky eater too. If it's healthy, I hate it. -_- Find one veggie or fruit you like, and maybe eat it for a snack, instead of chips. for example, I love bell peppers and celery. Whenever I get hungry, instead of eating cookies, I cut open a bell pepper or gnaw on a celery stick.
There are also some diets you can go on, but I would recommend you TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR about those. My mum occasionally does "The Hollywood Diet" in which she has a glass of a special drink for every meal for a day or two. She loses five or six pounds everytime.
If you don't want to go on a diet or can't find one you're sure is healthy, go online and find some good meals to eat.
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what does 69 mean cuz all my friends say it and im too embarassed to say anything (link)
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That's when two people give each other oral sex at the same time. Think of the position of the numbers, and you'll see the "heads."
To summarize: The boy eats the girl out while the girl gives head to the boy.
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i don`t kno if it`sz healthy that i`m 12 nd my bra cup size isz a 36B..isz that bad ?? (link)
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It's not unhealthy. Everyone grows differently. A lot of people would consider you lucky to have breasts. I'm almost fifteen, and I'm an A36.
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i weigh 92 ponds and im 5 foot 3... am i over weight? or under weight? (link)
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You are underweight. According to http://nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm, your BMI is 16.3. It should be at least 18.5. Talk to your doctor about ways to gain weight.
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hey okay well mai boyfriend constantly sends me these pics of these celebrities practically porn pics sometymes and it bothers me and hes lyke oh yeah shes hott and shes hott and sumtymes makes jokes about'em which I think arnt that funny esp when it deals with something sexual ... i meen i knoe he doesnt have a chance w/'em er n e thing but it styll bothers me... when he did it tha 1st tyme i thought he was gonna stop then i realized that hes not stopping! should i act pissed a bit jus ta make him knoe that thats not ryte or should i jus let it happen...cuz it wont matter he doesnt have a chance and thats how he is...?? (link)
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Ask him why he sends them to you, then ask him to stop. He may be doing it just to see how you react.
Or, if you like, just ignore them. There's a chance he thinks he's just being funny (and it seems like he occasionally succeeds) and he just wants to make you laugh.
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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
What should I do?????? (link)
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Break up with him. If he says he doesn't know you, he's just a jerk. Break up with him, and break up with him fast.
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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
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You like him, and that's all that's important. Tell your friends that what they say hurts both of you and that you wish they would stop. If they won't, they're not worth being friends with. Ignore them.
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how can you find out who rated you and what they rated you as?
xo_always-Kerri (link)
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Go to "your advice column" and click "view feedback." You can't find out WHO rated you, but you can find out what your answers to specific questions were rated, and occasionally the person who rates you will leave a comment on your advice.
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hey, how many questions do u need to answer to be a level 2 moderater. and level 3? (link)
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I don't htink there IS a number.
I suspect that you're already a level 1 (avg. rating of 4.0 or higher)
There are only four or five level 2 moderators at any one time. When one leaves, a level 1 moderator is selected according to good advice and the like.
There is only 1 level 3 moderator, and as far as I know, she created Advicenators.
You can find more information on the site. At the top of the "view questions" pages it says what level you are and has a link that you can click for information.
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