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I really want a cute bathing suit. I love those tube top bikini tops.. but every time i try those on.. they never fit [slips off]. I'm a 36C cup and I see all these other girls who have smaller breasts.. and their tops fit.. We have the same height and same body shape. We are both short and skinny, but I can't ever hold those tops up! HELP!

Where can I get a good top? I don't know what's wrong with me. (link)
try a smaller top size. itll hold your boobs tight so itll look good and wont fall off.


what are some sad songs? or songs that are about a guy using you.


A few would be nice.
Please and thanks in advance. (link)
over it - katherine mcphee. perfect song for a guy using a girl


i washed my face with clensing pads that i just bought today. and one i used it, it started to burn, so when i took it off.. my skin looked swollen up. especially my cheeks. my cheeks you can see that it looks swollen and part of my face is red. i can't see the doctor cause my family doesn't have that much money. so help?! (link)
there reason why its burning your face is either theres alcohol in them or your allgeric. try washing your face first and then use them and if the swelling occurs stop using them. the burn and the redness are natural affects but it should only like no more than 5 minutes.


Do you believe going into High School will give you a fresh start? I mean during elementary I was still popular but I was made fun of still quite a bit and alot of rumors were present. Do you think they will still be going around when i start grade 9? Alot of my friends say this is the summer where everyone changes. At my school alot of the guys said i was ok looking but none were ever interested in me and now I find a few high school guys think im hot but I dont understand how I can go from kinda ugly to hot in about a month. Does this all mean I get a fresh start? Or will grade 9 just be like grade 8 with just a few more people? Im sorry this is kind of confussing but all answers welcome. Thank You (link)
people do change over summer. and mabye the reason you 'were ugly' and now 'your hot' is because youve matured over summer. going into highschool for me was a change for different reason: you find out who your real friends are, more and more people are into drugs and sex. etc. etc. youll probably get involved in different things that are not necassarly bad but may not be good. sorry this may be confusing but going into highschool will most likely change you in either good ways or bad ways or both. but its ok just go with the flow and youll relize when your changeing. hope i helped


he's amazing, he lives in a different town then me and I don't know when I can see him again. I can't take him off my mind, I keep thinking about how we're just engrossd in each other when we do in fact see eachother, and the last time I saw him, before he left, he gave me the sweetest kiss good-bye. I can't wait to see him again, its this huuuge desire. how do I keep my mind off him, I've tried to stay occupied with music, being with friends, but not matter what I do my mind always goes back to him. any ideas? (link)
theres really nothing you can do about it. ive had the same problem and my friends always tell me to find a better guy but obvioulsy you dont because hes right for you. if hes always on your mind thats probably a good thing so keep thinkin about him! lol hope i helped.


Does anyone know how to access myspace on school computers?? I've tried dozens of sites to try to get through the block thingy but it just won't work! I know there's a way to get through it cause some people have gotten through they just won't share with others how they do it. So please if you know I'd really appreciate it!! (link)
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Okay, about 5 months ago I met this boy and from the minute I met him I fancied him. It slowly started to get a lot more serious and I can honestly say I love him, he's also become a very close friend.

Four months ago he started dating this girl, and he says he's in love with her, but it's a long distance relationship and recently they've been going through a bit of a rough patch and he told me he's not really sure what's going on with him and his girlfriend at the moment. But he still loves her.

Yesterday, on msn, after ages of him saying he needed to tell me something, he told me he likes me as more than a friend, but that no one else knows. I told him I felt the same but I wouldn't act on his because he has a girlfriend.

We agreed that it was probably going to be really awkward next time we saw each other.

And today I was standing outside the place we always hang out with two of my friends (who are also his friends), when him and his best mate walked up. I felt really, really awkward and he seemed very shy and nervous. I waved and said hi, and as he got closer he said hi very quietly.
And yeah, basically it's really awkward, and I don't want it to be that way.

What should I do?

Thanks in advance, xxx (link)
just dont make it akward. act like you never told him and he never told you. and then if things between him and his girlfriend fail then thats when you should make your move.hope i helped


kay so this guy that i really like and have been hanging out with went to mexico. and like he comes back on wednesday but i really miss him. but also.. im REALLY like EXTREMELY scared that he wont like me when i get back. and im also scared that this one girl will get in the way. what should i do?? like am i just being paranoid or what? please help. (link)
your probably just being paranoid because if he liked you when he left hes gonna like you when he gets back. dont let that other girl get in the way, if you want him bad enough youll step up and get him first. hope i helped.


Okay well I know that people hate these type of questions. I'm sorry. But I need help. What are some songs that:

1. Say something about growing up.

2. Show someone that I am there for them.

3. Something about liking someone, but they not liking you [i know almost everything song is like that, but i want a song that is slow and easy to listen to with a gool beat to it]

4. Show that I don't need someone and I can make it with out them.

I like any type of music. But I prefer something that is easy to listen to [like no screaming or rapping or anything like that] Something indie would be okay.

Help me please, it's VERY important. (link)
2. avril lavigne - keep holding on.

3. no doubt - dont speak, simple plan - addicted , the wreckers - leave the pieces, jessica simpson - did you ever love somebody.

4. 3lw - no more, ( depending on your gender ) eamon - fuck you ( i dont want you back ), or frankie - fuck you right back, kelly clarkson - never again.

i hope these help you out.



what are some other flirty things you can say with guys like joke ones...such as:
-lets get married
-im not talking to you
-i dont know if i wanna hang with you again

also what are some other ways to flirt? (link)
things to say would be something like: if he says hes gonna call you whenever be like ill try not to be too busy to answer your call.

things to do: if you wanna tell him something reach over and touch his shoulder and whisper it into his ear, laugh at his jokes ( but not too much/ guys might think thats annoying ), walk close to him or if you wanna get past him like put your body up against you and be like '*giggle* sorry'.

hope this helped.


this is a stupid question.. but what do guys look for in a girl? do they like hearing what all the girl has done or not? how do they want you to act around them? (link)
just be yourself. most guys like girls who are outgoing but not too much. and who dont act skanky around them. if a guy wants to know what youve done theyll ask dont just be like so ive done this this and this before because mabye they think your really open about that sort of stuff and they might think its slutty or something. hope i helped.


So i am 15 and i am going to my friend birthday party in 2 days. At the party there is not going to be alcohol or smoking or anything. But afterwards I am spending the night at her house with a whole bunch of people and there is gonna be drinking and smoking and i already know i don't want to smoke but I am iffy on the drinking. My friend told me I didn't have to but I would feel kind of left out so I kinda want to. Do you think its a bad idea? or should I enjoy my youth? (link)
do whatever makes you comfortable. you wont be left out if you dont. but if you do want to drink but not get drunk mabye just get one cup/bottle/can or whatever it may be and drink it slowly and make it last through the night. mabye youll decide you want more later. its really up to you but dont let anyone pressure you into doing it if you dont want to. hope i helped.


I have this friend that i love to death but i keep alot of stuff from her. I keep stuff & lie to her sometimes because i feel that she judges me based on what i decide to do in my life.

i lost my virginity to a guy that she hated. At first i didnt tell her that i had sex with him but then i broke down at work and started crying because i was really stressed out because i thought i was pregnant. When i told her that she looked at me and told me i shouldn't have had sex with him and that i am stupid for doing it.

Another night i was hanging out with another guy friend and i was drinking with him and i ended up messing around with him ( we did not have sex ). but we ended up getting in a fight and never talked anymore. And she told me i shouldnt be drinking with guys because they can take advantage of me and so fourth.

a couple of days ago i asked her if she knew guy named ______ and shes like yes and you don't need to get envovled with him hes worse then _____ ( the guy i had sex with) and he got in alot of trouble with the police in high school. After she yelled all of that trash to my face she then asks me how i know him and why i asked her if she knew him. I gave her a spirk and she told me to stay away from him. But then i went and asked my other friend if she knew him and she said that he is one of the nicest guys she has ever met in her life.


Im really sick of her judging me about how i talk about guys or what guy i get invovled with or what i do with them on my time. Yea maybe she is making sure i don't hurt myself but when she ask me why i asked about him after she yelled at me im not goin to tell her i think hes an awesome person and i reallly want to get to know him..

i know i dont really have a question and im kinda rambling but what can i do to get her to stay off my case and quit judging me im tired of it im my own person and i do what i want..... (link)
it kinda sounds like shes either trying to be a good friend and protect you or shes just jealous that you actually have boy problems and she doesnt. you should just stop telling her about you and the boys because shell probably just end up judging you and thats not what you want and let her be the one to ask ' so do you like anyone new?' and then you can be like yea i think i like ____ or _____ seems intersting i wanna get to know him more. or if you dont want to deal with her bitching at you just be like not really. hope this helped.


i smell like fish "down there" & i dont know what to do. im only 14. HELPPPP. (link)
just cleanse down there daily. when you wake up, after coming inside from sweating, while in the shower.hope this helped.


a guy left this on my myspace. what is it supposed to be?

..
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(O)

thanks! (link)
im not sure what that means but you should comment him back saying:

wtf? your weird.


and hell probably tell you what it means without you looking like an idiot for not knowing. hope this helped.


I'm so stressed out. School just started and I'm already not understanding any of it. I'm trying to get everything turned in and be all perfect but it's not working out. Does anybody know how to deal with stuff that pisses you off and stresses you out to the point where you don't want to get out of bed and face the day? (link)
just relaxe. everyones first couple of weeks can be very stressful and confusing. its ok if you dont understand all at once because its gonna take time for it all to sink in. youll be fine. hope i helped.


I need some help. I am a 13 year-old guy who has never had a girlfreind. It seems that none of the girls in my grade like me. I found this one girl who i have liked for two years that i got so attached to
that i actualy found her parents names and phone numbers and was basicly a stalker. I am way past that girl and am worried if because of that my rep is ruined for ever. I realy like some other girls, but they don't seem to like me back. I am so scared of rejection that i ask them to the movies by passing a note so i don't have to deal with the rejection by mouth. PLEASE HELP (link)
ok first off, dont write them a note asking them to the movies its just weird. if your friends with some of her friends be like hey me and so and so are going to the movies this weekend you should come. that way shell either say yea ill try or i dont think i can make it..thats not a rejection. be yourself around girls, make them laugh, comliment them...but not to the extreme and youll eventually find someone for you. hope i helped.


Hello.
I am a 13 year-old male. THIS QUESTION IS FOR A GIRLS OPINION ONLY! Now girls, am i weird? I try to look cool but somehow always make a fool of myself. like today i was trying to get my huge backpack out of my locker and i fell on my back. NO ONE LIKES ME AS A FRIEND, NO GIRL LIKES ME EMOTIONALLY,AND I THINK ITS BECAUSE IM WEIRD. I dress in baggy shorts,
and cool vintage tees, and try to act as cool as possible. but i can't stop being weird. Every joke i say noone laughs, but if another kid says the same thing, evryone dies laughing. I am a little overweight but not much. (link)
dont try to act cool as possible because it shows and it just makes you look like and idiot. just be yourself and youll find friends and/or girls who will like you for you. hope i helped.


So my summer's almost over and school's about to begin again. The problem is, I've stayed up soo late I have trouble going to sleep early or falling asleep! How can I go to sleep earlier, and how can I fall asleep faster? When I go to sleep it could take 30 min+++ for me to fall asleep so does anyone have any tips? Also, for school I'd wake up around 5:45 am or later (school starts at 7:10) and sometimes if I'm reading something or watching a clip or short movie in class, sometimes I'd kinda almost fall asleep and I'm really tired and it's hard to keep my eyes open! :| How can I prevent this or what can I do if that's happening to me? (Yes I know I have to sleep early so please say something else xP) (link)
go to bed tonight like you normally would but set your alarm clock for like 6 am. and dont let yourself fall back asleep!! then youll be tired all day and go to sleep earlier and it should put you in a better sleep schedule. do it two or three times if nesecary. hope i helped.


I am a college student and engaged. I have been with my fiancé for over a year and a half. Because of a scholarship I have to wait over four years to marry him.
I can tell that he has lost sexual interest in me. It is not at the same level as it used to be. That is though to be expected and I understand that. He does occasionally look at pornography, and I am ok because it is not an obsession.
We played truth or dare one night, and from this I learned that he is extremely sexually attracted to my best friend. He proceeded to ask me questions as whether I would have a "threesome" with her or let him have sex with her. (He has never done anything sexual with another woman, and vise versa... so I somewhat understand the curiosity). During the game he dared me to ask her if she would be ok with that.... It tore me a part.
It was never spoken of again. Today I was looking through his history, and found that he was staring at a picture of her in a bikini. I confronted him; he admitted he was looking at her. I feel horrible, ugly, ignored, and most importantly emotionally abused.

How am I supposed to marry a man who will be lustfully looking at the bridesmaid more than the bride? (link)
i dont think you just marry him...at least not anytime soon. mabye take a break and he can go experience with other girls while you do the same. mabye youll find out your not as attracted to him as you used to be or mabye youll relize you two were meant for each other. hope i helped.




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