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I need help getting a girlfreind
I need some help. I am a 13 year-old guy who has never had a girlfreind. It seems that none of the girls in my grade like me. I found this one girl who i have liked for two years that i got so attached to
that i actualy found her parents names and phone numbers and was basicly a stalker. I am way past that girl and am worried if because of that my rep is ruined for ever. I realy like some other girls, but they don't seem to like me back. I am so scared of rejection that i ask them to the movies by passing a note so i don't have to deal with the rejection by mouth. PLEASE HELP
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Hey,
Your in luck, cause I am a girl so I know a thing or two. Lol.
Ok, First, just relax.
Second, there is no rush, you don't need a Gf right now.
Third, here are some tips,
Try to get close to a girl you like but don't ask her out, just talk to her like your talking to a buddy. Get to know her. Find out her intrests, but becareful, if you become too much of a best freind to her she might not want to go out.
Say hi to her in the hall and let her getto know you.
After a few weeks then ask her out by MOUTH not Note, show her your strong and can handle anything!
If you are rejected then say thats cool and talk about something else, don't walk away just yet.
Hope this helps,
let me know how it goes,
AlyssaBT4T
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ok first off, dont write them a note asking them to the movies its just weird. if your friends with some of her friends be like hey me and so and so are going to the movies this weekend you should come. that way shell either say yea ill try or i dont think i can make it..thats not a rejection. be yourself around girls, make them laugh, comliment them...but not to the extreme and youll eventually find someone for you. hope i helped.
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Hey!
You seem like a really awesome guy, and sometimes, for us girls, those guys are really hard to come by.
Heres my advice, first of all CHILL! you're thirteen. I'm sixteen and I've never had a boyfriend, and I'm okay with it. Sure its tough because everything about numbers; when you had your first kiss, when you had your first date, but the more you chill out and not let it bother you, the sooner it will happen. So focus on other things in your life most of the time and find a girlfriend, some of the time.
second, rejection will happen. Theres such a big chance of it in every situation, the only way you can get through life without facing it, is to live in a house all alone for your entire life with six hundred cats and a pet snake. ;P I'm kidding obviously, but seriously, it's going to happen and if you get practice being rejected when you're thirteen, if you get rejected when you're older, you'll totally be cool with it. Rejection hurts, but its good for you. It tells you, k this girl doesnt like me that way, meh, maybe that chick over there likes me I'll go check her out.
Thirdly, you're thirteen, sure your rep is a big deal now, but one insident wont scar you for life. I had this crush when I was thirteen and the whole school found out. I was soooo embarassed. But after like a month I realized that people had something better to think about, and other guys like me so I dont think it's really that big of a deal, as long as you dont make a big deal of it, no one else will.
Fourthly, this is the tip you really want to hear, to get girls:
start out by building a small relationship with them. Ask them for help on your homework or ask them to im you the notes from english that day. But dont get too far into the friend zone, because then you'll just be friends and nothing more. be nice to them, and after a while, if you notice them flirting, ask them out. But dont come on too strong. Guys ALWAYS do that, and it pisses te hell out of me. Be nice, but dont be too nice, and be flirty and tell me whats going on in your head, but dont say it twenty times, its not cool.
thats the golden rule. Be slow about it. take it one day at a time. Then eventually maybe you'll get the girl of your dreams.
Let me know if theres anything I didnt explain very well, or if you need something else, I'm always here, Hope I helpped a bit,
Love ya,
Angie91
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