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my bf has long shaggy hair and he told me that he might shave it all off! and im kinda nervuos cuz i dunno wut he would look like, how can i tell him not to shave it with out it sounding like 'i think you would look dumb with out hair' i wanna b nice about it.. how can i get him to chang his mind? please help asap b4 its too late

Just be like..but your SOOO hot with long hair! and shags are totally hot!! please dont cut it!! lol just kinda beg him till he gives in!! lol :)

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I need a cool screename to fit me. I wanted to know if you have any ideas. I love ducks, tigers, volleyball, basketball, greenday,Jesse McCartney, chad michael murray, yellowcard, the killers, tweety bird, pink, and red. I have blond hair and blue eyes. Thank-you for helpin mE!! I RaTe HiGh!! My name is Madison. 15/f

what about blue_eyed_blonde or something cute like that. lol hope i've helped!

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I believe in sex after marriage, but my boyfriend is persisiting i have sex with him. He aggrivates me ALL the time and I can see myself giving in. I know I will regret it as soon as I've done "the deed". I'm confused as to what I should do; should I choose the easy option and give in? or go by my wishes and wait?

dont let him change your mind!!! dont have it till your married! think about all the thing that might happen to you if you do..like get pregnate or something....if he really loves you then he will understand why you dont want too...

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f/14
I like this guy and we are already friends. I don't have many classes with him but I sit right behind him in the one class we do have. He always turns aroud at me and tries to make me laugh. I told one of my friends who hasn't told anyone. He's really cute but i don't want to tell him. It might ruin our friendship and i don't want anything like that to happen. I just really like him. Help, i'll rate low if you tell me to tell him because that won't get me anywhere

maybe you should just take a little more time and make him like u and then maybe he will ask you out...and then it will all be great! hope it workes out! =)

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Hello im caroline! I'm 14 years of age and i have really bad acne! I keep picking it and it just wont go away its so ugly and annoying how do i get rid of it! All the boys say i have a fanny rash on my face :S or spot the dog how do i make it go away! please help!!
Caroline 14

pro-active works REALLY good! i would try that. hope i've helped!

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well tomrrow night im going to this concert thing and im really not sure what to wear. I have a white tank top with flames on the bottom of it but what can I do to cover it up like a jacket?

i think that jean jackets look good over anything... maybe a black jean jacket even...or you could get like a zip-up sweatshirt in the color of the flames..hope i've helped.

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Anyone who has tried over the counter teeth whiteners, can you tell me the best one you have tried (i.e. crest white strips, rembrant, etc.)

thanks!

i used crest whitestripes and they are the best! people even noticed that my teeth were whiter after just a few days! they work great! i would HIGHLY recommend them to you! :) hope i've helped!

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ok i had a best friend rachel and we were the bestest of friends then one terrible day she moved and we kept in touch but then she moved to indianna and she never called when she was in indianna and me and her havent called eachother since (we werent mad at eachother) i miss her so much i had a dream i met her again, and i was crying when i found out it was a dream i need help please! i will rate 5's on advices that arent mean!

if you want to get into contact with her...call her! or e-mail her or something...i'm sure she will be happy to hear from you! :) hope i've helped!

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My boyfriend and i have been dating for the past 5 months. We go to the same high school, but next year he is going to a public school and leaving me at the private school we both go to now. He has had sex before and i havent. He wants me to but i tell him im not ready and he says he can wait. I love him so much and he tells me he loves me to, i just am nervous to have sex with him and then he will leave. and i dont want the condom to break and im stuck having a kid. Plus the main promblem is what will god think of me? Please Help!!!!!!!!!

dont have sex till ur married...its in the bible.

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15f- I like this guy (still). We went out for like two weeks in January then he broke up with methe day after V day! he and I were hanging out the Thursday. We did some stuff. I did it because I don’t want to loose him though. well he said he still likes me. And "he wants to be with me" I don’t know what that means. I don’t know what to do! I like him! he told me he hasn’t been with any other girl since he met me. I don’t know to believe that! he hasn’t talked to me most of this week and every time I do talk to him he’s like I’m busy or I’m grounded! he always tells me he loves me on the phone... and the other day he looked me in the eyes and said it! He told me last night and when I said I love you too he’s like no you don’t...? I don’t know what to think. He told me last night that he had to go to church at 6 this morning. And he said he’s getting grounded from his truck and phone. I don’t know what to think there either! But I had a panic attack the other night. It was because of him. because of texts he’s been sending to a girl He called her baby and asked if she was single. He told me later that she had a boy friend and she’s only a friend. Okay, well he called when I was flipping out (panic attack) I was crying. So I left my house in therain to think about him and what I should do. And he was like baby I don’t want to get off the phone with you until your okay! He sent me like 100 text messages and said I’m so worried about you baby and I love you so much! I’m not sure what to believe. I like him so much. I think I’m getting to the point were I like him so much I hate him. If u know what I mean! I wrote something in his column telling him I like him a lot (said a lot about 150 times. at the end I was like 'but I don’t have a chance anymore'. he responded "yea u do” I don’t know if that was to the fact that I like him (like him being sarcastic about), Or if it was him saying I have another chance. I’m not sure what to do! I like him so much! What should I do about him?! Please answer this with your most honest answer PLEASE! I need help with this guy... thanks...

i no that this is hard...but, you shouldn't revolve your life around him...if he really loves you, then he wouldn't text that other girl, or make excuses to not come see you...i don't know what it is...but it seems like to me that there is something shady going on with him...make sure that he is being truely loyal to you before you totally trust him. i would just sit down and try to have a serious talk with him and if you still feel that something still isent right...then listen to your concious and do whatever feels right...think about oif he is truly loyal and really loves you or if you dont think that he is really meaning is then i would just dump him...hope i helped alittle...please rate! :)

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how can you find your bra size? like is there a way to measure yourself? maybe with a tape measurer or something?

they can do that for you for free at "Victoria Secret" hope i've helped.

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Ok i know this will sound stupid but i dont know maybe it means nothing but when someone types

instead of writeing the word love...they put

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I need some suggestions for a good, reliable car that gets good gas milage and is safe. Don't give me answers with sports cars; insurance bites.

my parents are always saying that volkswagons are really good. (not just slugbugs but all the volkswagons.) and plus..they are really cool...i think

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I feel like the worst person in the world. On March 17 me and my boyfriend of 3 years got into a huuuge fight because he cheated on me. Our relationship was sooo good and we always got told that we were the role model for couples, well anyways..we got into a huge fight and we said things that we didnt mean and I told him that I wish he wasnt in my life and he would just die because I hated him so much, those were my exact words. Later that night at 11:26 I got a phone call from his sister (we were really close, she was like a little sister to me) she was crying really hard and she told me that she had found him in his room laying on the floor, dead. I didnt even know what to do with myself. He had taken a gun to his head. She read me a note that he left and it said "I'm so sorry, I love you so much" thats all it said, and he had the date that we started going out until forever carved into his arm. That night when my parents found out they tried to comfort me and all that but I just didnt want to be around anyone. I went to my room and I cut myself so bad and my mom walked in and stopped me and just held me and I cried for hours, with my wrists bleeding, and I fell asleep crying in my moms arms. I'm getting help now. I went to his funeral and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life, I fell to the floor when I went up to his casket at the wake and his mom had to pick me up and just hold me while we cried. I go to his house all the time and talk to his family and just tell them how sorry I am and we talk about all of our memories. I havent slept since the night it happened, and I havent been to school, the doctors say I probably wont go to school for about another month, I might be homeschooled. I can't even look at myself anymore. I can't beleive those hateful words were the last words I ever got to tell the love of my life. I'm sorry it is really long but does anyone have any advice on how to help me get through this?

omg..that is horrible. i am soo incredably sorry. i'm afraid that i dont know anything that you can do...but what i would do is pray. there is nothing that will bring him back, but dont take it out on yourself. i know that it might be hard not too...but you can't blame it all on you. it will be hard to get throught it but just remember all the good times that you both shared together.

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hey im doing this concert thing at school as like a treat for everyon for raising over 10000 dollars from the fundraiser.. does anyone know any good duets for boyfriends and girlfriends?? ((im doing 2 duets with my boyfriend))

there is a song that faith hill and tim McGraw sing together....but i cant remember waht it is called..so sorry. but i can remember that it was really pretty song!

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my friend wants to come over, but doesn't have a ride. She keeps telling me to ask my parents, but I'm not going to because it's her parent's responsibility to give her a ride not mine. I kept telling her no and she is buggin me!!ugh! please help!

if you want her to come over go get her! its not even that big of a deal to get in the car and go get her! geez...if you invite her over but won't go get her...that is just plain mean!

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CALLLLL!!!! i dont know if your dead or what hellooo i have to hear details see pics im starving!!!
~Sexy thing in texas~

CHILL YOU SEXY THANG YOU! LOL we dont even have a working phone yet! my dad has my cell phone cause he dosent have one of his own yet! i promise i will call you tonight...from now on...just e-mail me! :)

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dont forget the little person in texas u sexy thang u

i won't

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I have this friend that has a cancer but I dont know wut kind and he was doing really well untill the day of my uncles b_day.
We got a call on the phone that said he wasnt doing to well and that they gave him some medicine that they usually give people who are about to die.
I am so worried wut if he dies and we will never be able to see him again.
He is only 17 years old

HELP WANTED.

go and see him and make sure that he knows that you care about him. if he does die...dont let him die with out knowing that. and pray!

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does anybody understand how to play the game minesweeper thats usually on computers? Like i understand how to play it but how do u no where the "mines" are or whatever

when u push the bottom and the little squares that appear that arent bombs...usually they have numbers in them...when they have a number in them...that is the number of bombs touching that box. if it dosent have a number in it...it dosent have a bomb touching it. hope i've helped! :) please rate!

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