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Hey! My name is Kenzie, and I am your average 14 year old girl! I have lots of friends and enjoy helping people. I like listening to music and playing my guitar and volunteering at my Local Humaine Society to get animals new homes. Hope you e-mail me and if you have any problems. Don't be shy.

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my boyfriend is pakistani and muslim. i am white and agnostic. i really care about him and he's head over heels for me but his parents wont let him do ANYTHING (were seniors in high school living w/our parents)with me (b/c of my race- wow im a victim of racism for the first time and it sucks!). he lies so much to see me but even then its not a lot. i see him at school and then occasionally after school while his parents are at work. we NEVER EVER go on real dates and it drives me nuts!!! i feel as if i deserve someone who can take me out and see me without lying or sneaking around. the situation just SUCKS. should i break up with him or just settle for seeing him barely ever? (if i broke up with him i'd still be friends with him)i really dont know what to do- i feel bad breaking it off but i'm unhappy in our current situation- its not fair to me.
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I wouldn't necessarily call it off. Just say that you two should just be friends for now until some things get sorted out. He should understand if he really cares about you. In a relationship, you shouldn't sneak around but then again, its healthy,

I have some friends and every time they move out of my class they dont talk to me but when i am in there class im there bff. Why dod they do this?

Maybe they are in a hurry to get to other classes but you can always talk to them and everything. Just ask them why they don't talk to you outside of class.

Ok well.. i know this is a really odd question.. but what do you wear under a skirt...?? like i dont know what to wear under them.. i have a bunch, but i never wear them because its like, i dont know what to wear under?! any help??

You can wear short shorts but not jean shorts. PJ boxers can be worn. That always works for me cuz no one can tell.

so we are jsut friends but my mom says i cant date until im 17 or even just like go somewhere with him last night he was like how many days i was like what hes like until you turn 17 i was like 50 some hes like do you think you will still wanna go tot he movies with me by then. so does he like me or just being friendly? give me lots of advice and i rate high

He likes you. If he can wait until you are able to date (i think you should date whenever you want) then he really has feelings for you.

Im about to go on a school nature trip in New hampshire in 2 days! Were going to be there for 5 DAYS and i just got sick last night ..my throat feels SO scratchy and im just weak all over. MY head hurts and i feel nauseous but i really wanna go on the trip on Monday because it cost like 200$ and my friends really want me to go. !! I need help how do i get better fast?? Im going to be outdoors all the time even to sleep so i gotta get better!

Sip on some water and be sure to get plenty of rest. You can use so of that Sepacol Throat Spray and that helps heal your sore throat and numbs the pain away.

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I'm 13 and at my school there's this guy that i like and he likes me too.His friends and my friend have been snooping around him and asking him all these questions. He said that he WAS going to ask me out but hasn't yet. He acts really shy around me and when i try to talk to him he kinda says a few words and leaves.I can tell that he likes me but he's gone to Mexico for this week and the next! I need to know, what should i do! I like him A LOT and have known him since kindergarten! Help me PLEASE!

Tell him you have feelings for him too and since he has feelings for you, that shouldn't scare him off. At least he will know that you have feelings towards him.

An easy way to let him know you like him, is to write him a letter explaining how you feel.

I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks

If he started that rumor in the first place, then he isn't your friend. Sit him down and ask him why he started the whole thing in the first place.If he says that he didn't start the rumor, tell him that you heard differently because that should make him understand what he did wrong.

Is there a way on dead aim that you can talk while still being away?

I wouldn't know because I don't have AIM but I think there is a way. You can talk through e-mails or phones. (hope i helped)

lately i feel really distant from my friends ..like they dont care about me or want to sit with me at lunch and stuff. I dont know how to talk to them about this, because when i do they roll their eyes and call me sensitive. I could never tell them that i cry alot becasuse of this ..please help

Just go up to them and say "I am starting to get the feeling like you don't want me around" and if they roll their eyes and call you sensitive, then they aren't true friends because true friends would listen to you and explain themselves. Ask them if you did anything in the past that makes them feel this way.

I started dating this guy when I was fifteen who was eighteen. He and I were together for a year and two months....partially because I ran away with him for five of them. Well, this last December I had his child and my mom and I won't let him have any part of it. But since he was eighteen, I just want to make sure that in two years when I'm eighteen he can't try to fight for custody. Would he have any rights over my son?

I think that being the Father would give him a right over your son. He should be able to see him by then. You could have him arrested becaue you wer a minor so that is 1 count towards him.

You should really seek Legal Advice because that can give you much more information dealing with this situation.

Hmm... Where to start. Ok, so I've been going out with this girl for a couple of months and it's been amazing. Some of the best months of my life. And I have this friend that I think has a crush on her. He will always play with her hair and like give her little nicknames, and that stuff of the sort. Also, her one friend keeps asking me how much I like her and stuff like that. It is just kinda suspicious. What do you think, should I worry or what?

Ask him if he has a crush on her. Don't make assumptions, but just ask him. Then ask her friend why she is asking you these questions.

Hey everyone i just have on really short question... Okay for some reason liek i started to liek kinda shake , my hads shake a lot now, and i am strating to feel week and i have no energy, does anyone know why this is happening, like i get enough sleep, but for some reason i like still shake?
Thanx
I rate!!
And please dont be mean

Sometimes people just shake. But just eat something or drink some water. You should stop.

i have tried all kinds of ways to get my self esteem up. but i just cant figure it out. i like myself a little bit more then i used to but not much. i want to love myself so that people can see the confidence in me because they like that. but i dont know how to raise my self esteem. any ideas, advice, whatever? lol

~♥~ Carrie ~♥~

You can rais your self esteem by trying out new activities, making more friends and just being yourself.

My parents are making me go back to counciling again! UGH! NO. I went before and the counciler was USELESS and i'm going back to the same one. I hate going, councilers are POINTLESS especially when you don't want help and I honestly think there is nothing she can do. My parents are making me go because I fight with them too much and I'm not as perfect as my brother and they hate that and me. Yeah, well, now i have to go back and I have to miss social studies every Thursday. People WILL catch on. Theyll ask me where ive been, like before when i used to go, and I don't kno what to tell them! i cant say i had a dr's appintmet, EVERY THURSDAY. Plus, i'm going to end up failing that class! i havea C already, so if i miss class it'll just get worse. MY MOM TOLD ME THAT IM GOING BACK IN FRONT OF KIDS AT MY SCHOOL AND MY TEACHER. WHat a bitch.
how can I prove to my parents that she doesn't do jackshit and its a waste of money?

If your friends ask you, just tell them that it is a personal issue and you don't want to talk about it.

As for your counselor, tell your parents that you don't need a counselor. Parents and kids fight all the time. That shouldn't mean that you need a counselor that tells you how to live your life.

Does anyone know how to remove a toothpaste stain from a sweater?Sorry if this is a stupid question but I washed it and I tried a stain stick and nothing seems to work!

Keep trying and try different rinse cycles that can probably help.

hey im 13/f and i have been shaving since i was 11 but my mom doesnt know cuz i never asked her im way to scared to talk to her about anything
what do i do?
real question:how do i ask my mom that i want to shave?
boy im inbaressed

Tell her that you think you should start shaving since you are becoming older. She should let you

I have a big problem! I really need a job but I am scared to death of interviews what do I do! I would be happy to hear some advice!

Interviews can be scary, so I feel your pain. You can always start something thats right for you. Like you can start a babysitting line and you can mow lawns or you can just turn a resime in to a place where you are interested in working.

Ok, about a month ago I noticed a small lump around my crotch.. I have just noticed it getting bigger.. Its about 5mm long, and 2mm high.. what do you think it is? could it possibly be cancer? if so.. what sort?

17/m

It might be just that......a lump. But be sure to get medial attention if you think its something serious.

theres this guy that i like and last year he wrote "i

Ask him that if he has a girlfriend why is he hitting on you but be sure to be joky about it. Talk to the boy who signed and ask him what his feelings are and share your feelings about him as well. Maybe it will make you both become closer.

my friends talk in skool and when i go home for the weekend no one calls me i really wanna have friends that call me i always end up calling everyone else how do i get them to be closer with me to actually call me.Even my olf best friends never call me (i thought they were my Best Friends)

Friend ProBlems

After school when you all are leaving, tell them to call you. They should call you then/

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