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Yes i like someone from my school and he claims to also like me but he also likes someone else. he said he likes her more but wont make his finaly decision yet. We talk alot and have hung out once but if he goes out with the other person than he mite get hurt because shes a bad person and i dont want to see that. what should i do?!

Tell him you're worried about him. He may not see the danger of his feelings at first, but once he see's what you were talking about he'll understand about how much you care for him. ~*AmAnDa*~

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How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating"

Be brave and ask him. The only thing that could go wrong is him saying no, but from that you'll recover. Believe me I know this from experience. I asked him out, he said no, nad then a month later he asked me out. Good Luck. p.s. It WAS really embaressing, but really worth it for me! ~*AmAnDa*~

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I have this friend and she is really nice on weekend
But when we have school she id do mean to me and using bad words. She sometimes can be nice but not
all the time. Help me


Rachel

You don't need that in your life. Get a new friend, not a conditional one. ~*AmAnDa*~

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ok well I am kind of mad. I think my mom's b/f is just using her, And I am to scard to tell my mom. But when I do wont to tell my mom he is there. He is always over and he eats all of our food. But he never cleans up. My mom has not been dateing for a while because my dad went to jail. I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP

Well from the sound of it it sounds like your mom has been in a hurtful reletionship already. When that happens it's kind of like drugs for some people. The emotional abuse becomes addicting and even thought they know its hurting them they don't want to stop. Talk to your mom about it. Let her know your concerned for her. How better do you think it's going to get if you don't confront her, even if your not ready for it, because your mom sounds like she's long over due for it. If she doesn't listen the best you can do is pray do is pray for her. God will work it out in his own little way, even if you don't believe what other answer is their? What do you have to lose? ~*AmAnDa*~

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This is so embarrassing but i feel like my breath smells really bad all the time... i brush and use listerine twice a day and still cant get rid of it. Is there any good products out there or any suggestions on what to do? I don't think gum would help that much.
Thanks
*Erica*

If you don't already floss. Floss could help you out a lot also there is another mouthwash that most dentists recomend. It's called Act. It's blue and you can get it a store nearby. If not go to the dentist and ask him if somethings up. You could have a virus or some kind of disease in your mouth. Your dentist could probably help you w/ your breath. Hope I helped! ~*AmAnDa*~

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About a month ago, I got asked to go to a concert. Well, this guy's mother asked my mom if I wanted to go and bring a friend. Our parents are like best friends, so that's why he didn't ask me in person. And I have no problem with that. So I invited a friend to go with me. We had a really good time. My friend and I were the only two girls there. All the guys that were there were really nice to us. There were seven of them. He picked us up and brought us home too. He was really nice to us. Anyways, the guy that we went with- I don't like him as a crush, but we're friends. He has a girlfriend, but it wasn't at the time of the concert. I was just wondering what that means. Like, are we just friends, or more. I think that we're just friends, but what are some other opinions.

P.S. I've been over to his house a lot to swim, he's been over to mine for lots of stuff too. But our parents are really good friends and so are our sisters.

I think it's more of an "brother/sister" role you guys are in. If you feel a crush then it might be, but so far it sounds more like "family". :)

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Okay, I have been sick for almost a week now, I have really bad diarrhea and I can't keep any food down! Everytime I eat it comes up, I even took three bites of a yogurt and it came up. My mom refuses to take me to the doctor and I am starting to feel weak. i usually get dehydrated really easily and now when i drink it doesnt stay down either. My mom keeps an attitude towards me when i tell her what is going on and she says she cant afford to take me to the doctor, WHAT DO I DO?

Tell her you NEED to go to the doctors it's not a question. Your health is really important, and money should NOT be an issue when it comes to your health. No matter what you should be important enough to take care of. You do sound really sick. I hope you'll get better, and I'll pray for you.

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Im a 15 male.. and im gothic, is it wierd that i wear black nailpolish? give me some details and convince me if it is..

Nope....you are your own person and are free to do as you want with your body. Saying only women should paint there finger nails is very juvinle and sexist. It';s your choice and if you like to paint them, then do it!

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ok.i have this friend and there was a party one weekend.of course,I partied it up. But there were guys that i did stuff with. I didnt tell anyone BUT my friend. I requested that she not tell anyone about it.Then she told me the guys and 1 of my friends hated me because of a cake fight.I later found out that none of them said that. I got mad at her so she decided to tell EVERYONE about me night. When I first confronted her,she denied it. But when I asked her again she took the blame.She told me she did it because i was mad at her.I dont think I should forgive her.Can anyone help me?
Signed,
Angry Friend

I know you're very angry and I honestly have no clue if your into a religion or not, but in the bible it say to forgive each person 70 times 7. 490 times. The best you can do for your friend and yourself is pray. God rwally answers prayers. I've seen so many miracles. Just one this very day as well. So pray. Pray for your loves ones, and for your enemies even harder because they are the ones who are probably the most hurt.

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I would assume this would go under mental health, cause I am sure it is all in my head.
Everytime I get extremly upset, I get really nausous feeling. I am in the middle of a pretty bad pending breakup (only time will tell what will happen with that) but everytime something happens that would upset me, or I dwell on something that may have upset me in the past, I actualy do get sick. I dont go one day without throwing up, and recently, I feel nausous all the time, so I cant eat, therefore getting dry heave. What can I do to stop getting sick?

I think what you need is someone to talk to. What your situatiion reminds me of is a lot of bottled up emotion sydrom. You seem to have a lot going on. The first few times you try to get out what you need to get out it may hurt and make you feel sick, but as you go on it will get easier and it will probably get a lot easier for you to talk about and make you feel a lot better. Don't keep all those things bottled up in you. You need someone to talk to. Everyday. I'm not saying your insane, but a couselor would be good and give you great advice and would listen to you and help you a lot. Good Luck.

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ok i like this guy alot but there is only one problem.. hes my brothers friend.. i text him sometimes but my brother always gets mad.. he tells his friend he doesnt care but he really does.. i think the best thing to do would just forget about it.. but i like kinda alot.. lol what do you think?

I think that you can't control your feelings, but in the same aspect neither can your brother. You should talk to your brother about it. Tell him that you can't control the way you feel, and that you like that person. If your brothers not the "talking type" then try to figure out how to show your brother nicely that it doesn't have anything to do with him. You really should give the relationship a try, and if becomes too big of a problem with your brother you mighht have to break it off because family should always come first.

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Dear People,

I have this little problem. See, I like this guy but he has a girlfriend. I know that there's definatly something between us because he came to my house the other day and we totally kissed!! (YaY!) But see, his girlfriend & me are not the BEST of friends, but we are friends. I feel kinda weird because I know that its wrong but WHO CARES! HaHa.. anyways! I wanna tell him that I like him but I know he'll never leave his girlfriend. Hmm.. What would you do??

Thax,
Stephanie

Definately don't go after him. It doesn't make any sense. If he has a girlfriend and wouldn't break up with her anyways why would you try and do that to your friend? "Friends are forever guys are whatever, when worst comes to worst my GIRLS come first". Even though she's not that great of a friend would you want someone to do that to you? How would that make you feel? Think about it. :-/

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I have a problem. It seems like I get nervous for everything! In track, I get extremely nervous before an event. In school, I get so nervous to take tests and do oral skits. Is there anything I can do to help? Thanks

Well what you can do is take deep breathes before you are about to do something you know will take confidence. It will help relax you and calm your heart down. Another thing to do is stretch. Stretching can be very relaxing and will make you a lot calmer. Believe me and try it. I do a lot of dramas and have had a lot of experience with this sort of stuff. I hope I helped you, and good luck! :)

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i just started liking this guy. lets just call him bob. and about a year ago we were good friends and randomly i started liking him the other day. it was really weird. but i just found out that he has a gf n i know nothing about her or how long theyve bin goin out. im really upset but what should i do? i cant just win him over because i NEVER see him except for in the halls but i dont have time to talk to him then! ill rate u a 5 if u answer!

If he has a girlfriend you'll just have to be patient and be a friend. You can't go charging into their relationship because you like him. It's hard enough for us girls all competing as it is. As for not having enough time to talk to him. Be freinds with him after school, and start by making him a phone friend. You'll be suprised about how much a relationship can grow over the phone, my boyfriend and best friend for about a quarter of a year now became my friend OVER the phone, and we're still as much in love as ever. So give it a try. What do you really have to lose?

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my name is nicole ok i live in cali and im 15 years old me and my x like broke ^ like on monday i feel like soo tear a part i have been crying i dont know if i should go back with him i was like with him for like 8 months things dont feel the same because his not in my life right now i feel like some other girl could take my place he has been crying 2 so have i i dont know if i should move on or not should i take him back or give me more time can somebody please help me!!

First ask yourself this question: Why did you break up in the first place? Was it over something silly? or Was it a big thing you care about? Also ask yourself is this relationship really worth it? You know in wedding vows you have to be their "for better and for worse, for richer and for poorer" When you get married you can't just decide to divorce over little things. You have to work through it. Keep that in mind. Although he's just your boyfriend you should practice. Too many people break up over small things, but just remember: Marriage isn't like that.

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i wanna buy for my friends.. my best friends and i have l;ike 4 of them but i also have another friend she lies alot and says shes gunna buy me some thing for xmas. but i dont wanna get her anything.. but if she gets me sompin ill feel bad.. i dont wanna ask my mom for more things tho. any help?

Make smthing for her. Do u have ne jks or anything special u guys once did? make a book or a little photo album. Something special that won't cost much!

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I think I need to get over this guy. I've liked this boy for a really long time and we have went out before and we have done stuff. But the thing is he always likes me obsessively and then stops talking to me for a while, then over and over and over again. I'm pretty much sick of it but I think everytime he comes around I like him more and become more attached. I like sooooo much but I don't think I need this. How do I just get over him? Everytime I really try and start to really do, that's when he comes back to me and catches me again. There is no way I can really just stop him or stop myself from liking him. Anyone have any ideas? Thanks

You need to make bounderies with this guy. Tell him "you either like me or not. I can't go on in wonder day after day just wondering when your moods going to change again." Get him to wake up and see the light. One day you might not be their. Just talk.

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