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Hi im a 13 year old girl... whenever my friends have a problem they always come to me because im really good with advice... I admit there are times where I cant answer somethings but most of the time im good... but i can never seem to give myself advice...
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have you ever had sex?
no i ama virgin
my hair sucks. it's really thin and fine. i can blowdry it and it looks pretty and straight, then it turns wavy and frizzy. if i hairspray it, it makes it wavy too. if i straighten it, it sometimes stays but it looks reallllllly thin. my ? is: is there something that can make my hair thicker? is there something that can make it stay with out messing it up?
p.s i'm on a budget. it can't be that expensive.
i have a way for you to make your hair wavy
first, you have to go to the store and buy giant curlers
second, go to a saloon and buy biosilk silk theraphy
third, put the curlers in your hair and leave them there for like a half hour then put the biosilk silk theraphy on and it should make your hair wavy and it will stay
ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared
what he was doing was sexual harrsment you should tell your parent they'll understand and don't be scared too there your parent they'll know what to do and then you and your parents go to the cops and tell them acually what you told me and they'll put him away for sexual harrsment
heyy i just got my first bf about a month ago but i broke up with him in lyk 4 days! i did not feel lyk i was ready for a relationship and even though my parents said it was ok i knew that they were not thrilled about it! He got mad at me a i felt really bad! What do i do not?
P.S. I am goin to a party later this week and ik he is goin to be there idk what to say to himeven though he knows my reason for brekin up with him! plz help me!!
well you should talk to him and tell him how you feel... and tell him that you want to be friends... if he gives u attitude and acts mean then forget him...
Have you ever had a friend that cut theirself? tell the truth? tell me what you did to help
yes i did.... i tried to tell them to stop and when they felt down i talked to them so they wouldnt cut themself
Okay, i have a friend (yes a friends its not me!) and she cuts herself because her EX broke up with her. now shes been cutting herself. im worried about her, she only tells her closest friends. i tell her to stop but she says she cant help it. i really want her to stop. shes my very best friend and i dont want anything bad to happen to her. i love her! shes the best! i hate seeing her unhappy! when her parents see her cuts she says she ran into stuff, she fell and all those excuses! (she cuts everywhere on her body except her wrists) i wish i could do something but i dont know what to do! Have u ever had this problem? Please help me, even more, help my friend!!
-Only Wants To Help Out
you need to tell your friend how worried you are and tell her to cometo me or to come to you when ever she feels lik cutting and we can stop her from doing it... if it keeps going you might want to tell her parents or a guidance counslor so she can get help i hope i helped
kati
I'm very self-concious about my weight and I feel very...pudgy, for lack of a better word. :P
I weigh 125 and I'm...about 5'7".
I start school on the eleventh and I'd like to loose some weight from my thighs, my stomach, and my arms. Does anyone have any advice on how to do this in at a week or less?
And are there any weight-loss pills that are safe and effective?
okay well you can do crunches (alot of them) for your stomach... do leg lifts and run for your legs and for your arms just lift up heavt stuff or use actual weights
hi... im 12 almost 13... ive been going out w/ my b/f for almost 2 months, hes the best, i love him, but theres one problem, he's REALLy short, and im short but not that short. im kinda embarressed to be seen with him. everybody makes fun of us, i hate it! i kinda wanna break up w/ him but i really dont.... i dont know what to do!! please help me out
okay well if you really like him youll get over it... sooo what hes short its whats on the inside that matters! : ) dont worry about what others say it matters what you think of him... dont break up with him... give him a chance
I have been seeing my BF for about 3 months now. I guess I should start off by saying I am 22 (almost) and have had nothing but really horible relationships. I just moved to GA in Feb and I found my current BF. He absoulty wonderful. I have always told past BF I love them. Being with this new guy has be amazing..even for 3 months. I am happier than I have ever been. I didnt know that people like him were really out there. My question is, do you think its too early for me to be in love with him. If not how do I tell him. (he already told me he's falling for me..(he didnt say the L word though) I just dont want to freak him out to bad, only cause of the short time period we have known each other. Please help...Thanks a Bunch xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Christin
okay well i dont think its to early to be in love... if its the right person its never to early... i think you should tell him... next time you are together sit him down in private and tell him like it is.. say " (name) i know we have only been together for 3 months but i really think i love you... dont be weirded out but you are AMAZING... and i cant help but be in love with you" say something like that... im sure he will understand... and maybe he will tell you he loves you 2... good luck!
Kati
okay my boyfriend told me this shocking news a few days ago that he stills loves me but he is in love with his elementery school crush. I usually give advice but this time i don't know what to do. he asked me if we could have a break from each other and i said okay. we talk every single day and he says he loves me still but the only reason he let me go for now was because "his past was hurting his future" which means his crush was hurting our realationship. he wanted to know if i would take him back and i am still thinking about it what should i do...?
well i have the same problem as your boyfriend... I went out with htis boy in elementry school and never got over him so all of my relationships now end badly... but if you really do love him you should take him back... and cut him some slack its really hard... see how it goes... if it ends up bad then you know it wasnt meant to be... but try to work it out... or you might regret it...
Kati