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hey am lesty from massachussettes.i love talking to people and getting to know them.ihave short black hair with big hershey kisses brown eyes.am 5'2 and lovin it.lets say i love to have lots of fun unlimited.i dont smoke ,drink or do drugs.but the rest am there.the reason i dont smoke is cause i play sports and it kinda slows me down.
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well if you don't know my story read "very very very confused" Well I don't know whether to call my ex, to at the very least let her know what really happened and not let her believe what she was told. I have not attempted this yet, but I feel it might help me with some sort of closer, atleast knowing that I told her, regardless whether she believes me or not. The problem is when she has called she only tells me to stop talking "crap" about her, and I am not, and everytime I have tried to explain things to her she just hangs up. Well last weekend she block her number and called me on friday night, saturdaynight, and 3 times on sunday night, I didnt answer any of the calls because I didnt want to hear say that I am lying and threaten me. At the same time I am at the point that I would like to atleast set the record straight. We had already broken up, yet we were still talking, I had told her that she was the only one for me, but she thought I was trying to talk to other women at the same time, and this is were it started to get ugly and has grown into something worse. The worst thing is when you are accused of something that you didnt do, and what you had actually told someone is not what she heard. I do want to call her, but she has told people that I have been bothering her and that we were never really together, after she believed that I had did something wrong. She blocks her number when calling me, so there 's no record of her number on my cell phone, or bill. So there's my problem, wanting to call her to set things straight, but dont want let her continue to say that I am bothering her. Please I really need some advice.
BREAL,29yrs,male
i think you should do this one last time and quit if she wont listen.email her,text her or something and tell her the whole truth.i think that shes basically wants you back or she wouldnt keep bothering you.also just give it arest if she wont stop.she will one day get bored with this whole thing.ok be a man and dont let it bother you
my cramps have been so bad all day its horrible i cant focus on my homework. what can i do/take. i dont rlly have ne special stuff like midol. but like advil nd tylonal type of stuff ;).
thank you. i rate. bye
midol complete
me and my friend like this same guy.the bad thing about it is that they are like best friends.i dont know if i should worry about him and my best friend alone together.she is my best friend in the whole world and she told me that she would never do something like that to me.should i believe her???
I NEED HELP!!!!!!
i dont think you should like him anymre cuz your bestfriend likes him.so you should telll her and then u both decide not to go out with him if he asks.for the seck of your friendship
hey, whats a good name for a female golden retriever? my family is getting a puppy but we need to give her a good name... any ideas?
thanks in advance
scrubby,scrubs,bansee,daisy lee.
Ok, my name is Adrianna and i'm fifteen. And I (Obviously) need some help. See, people at my school think i'm a poser. And it really pisses me off. Because I have NEVER talked to any of the people that call me it. So they base it all on the way I dress. Call me crazy but, I have always bought things based on if I liked them or not. So I shop everywhere. Hot topic, Abercrombie and Fitch, JCPennys, hell even the thrift store if I really like it. So like, I want people to understand that i'm not trying to be something, i'm not trying to be a "Punk" or a "Prep" I could honestly give a shit less. I understand that not everyone is going to like you but, it really upsets me that people don't like me based on the clothes I wear. I don't know what to do. I want these people to just stop.
Ugh, I know this is stupid and cliched. So bear with me.
fuck them.do your friends like you or the people u really care about.they areall who matter.its not yo fault theydint shop
I am really shy. sometimes when i get real shy and nervous my face turns red, like cherry red.
Back in like the 2nd grade i had a big crush on this one guy and he really liked me to. But i moved to a dif school and havent seen him since. i kind of liked him all thruout the years until now. there are two middle schools in my town. now that im in the 8th grade i go to one, he goes to the other.
i am like deathly afraid of seeing him. what do i do when i see him? i mean, my face will turn redder than ever. once my friend started to talk about him and she asked me why my face was turning ruby red.
WHAT DO I DO??? HELP PLEASE I RATE HIGH!
maybe if you dont weigh that much upon it.it wont be that wierd.try not to think that your life revolvesarond him.so you like him .big deal.try to think of him as your friend not as someone you like.try not to think that you like him when you talk about him.
I went out with a guy named jacob and he promised me he was a virgin and he told me he loved me and completely led me on, well i lost my virginity to him and he broke up with me after, saying that his mom found out and hes not allowed to see me and his phone was taken up and hes grounded for 2 monthes, well i found out for a fact that he has had sex with 5 girls before me and my friends saw him out the other night, so he has completely lied to me about EVERYTHING, i bitched him out last night but thats not enough, i NEED to get him back for this or because i wont be able to live knowing i was used and he got away with it, any suggestions?
do what ever thing he hates most.gonout with his worst enemy
so i likke dis girl and i know dat she likes me but she won't addmit it till i ask her out and i'm not dat good at asking ppl out and i like know what she likes bout me cause she tells me online and yeah what do i do
yea its easy askina girl out.if she goes to the same school with you and you know where her locker is.write a letter askin her out.rosesa red...........i know those things can impress a girl.you slip the letter in when no one is looking.also you can put can get someone you tryust or yourself to give it to her.tell her things youlike about her in the letter.just say how you feel.
hey , Ive been thinking about gettin my nipples pieced and ill though im in my later teens #(17f) i just wondered if you have to have big nipples
i'll rate 4 clean answers thanks
basically i dont think you should do that.who would want to lick pierced nipples.its added pain that you dont need.
hey...my mom is older than some moms and im only 13 aand im scared that something bad is going to happen to her while im still young.
its all going to be okay.i think your mom will live a long happy life.longer than those younger moms if she takes good care of her self.so relax shes going to be okay
There's this boy I've liked for a long time, since Bush won his 2nd term (I'm 13/f, by the way). Over that time, we've become pretty good friends. Yesterday, he asked me who I liked and I wouldn't tell, because I didn't want him to know. Especially considering the fact that he just got a girlfriend (he's also 13). Then he kept begging and nagging and kept saying that he wouldn't tell anyone and that he keeps secrets well (I know that for a fact, but still I didn't want him to know). After a while, I decided to tell him, because if he kept it up, he'd find out eventually because if it seemed that I sincerely didn't want him to know (even though I've trusted him with other stuff), the truth would be very plain. So I told him, and I said I was sorry. He's really really nice, but I'm really worried that he thinks I'm an asshole. I don't know what to do! I've never liked anyone in my whole life. Do 13-year-old boys usually think their friends are assholes in this kind of situation? How can I stay friends with him? CAN I still stay friends with him? This is long and will most likely get rated down, but I don't have anywhere else to get help! And I know that problems of a 13-year-old aren't as important as questions asked by older people, but this IS an advice site, and the site IS open to 13-year-olds.
i think that you should nworry about it.he probably dint think about it after wards.so just take a break continue with your friendship as if this never happened.act like you dont think about .i dont think that he thinks you are an asshole.ok
it all will fall into place
Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I really uncomfortable with it at first, but I just thought what the heck and was okay with it. At first he only did one finger, then he tried two. When it was only one finger it was alright, pleasurable in some ways, but when he got two fingers in it becaome quite uncomfortable. It hurt a whole lot. I started wincing and became all tense. I think that he got the wrong impression and though I was liking it, but I wasn't it hurt terribly. I don't know what to do because I know he'll try two fingers again next time. It's not supposed to be comfortable like that, is it? Why was it go painful?
talk to your friend about it and tell him you dont like it.just talk to him,he will listen
This is really embarassing but almost everyday ii wear a tight shirt i get sweat marks. I have tried many amounts of different deoderent but it just doesnt work. its really hard to deal with... right after i broke up with my boyfrined i had really big sweat marks that day and he saw... he told everyone!! someone please help.... i just started a new school and ii guess you could say i am in the popular group. if ii dont get this fixed ii dont n0 how the school year will end!! PLEASE HELP!!
thnx
eveyyone gets sweat marks.you can keep applying deodorant.but if it gets out of control.talk to your parent and go see a doctor
well i am the one who is aasking the questions for that kid, you probally saw several of them.
well i was in gym class and i was like to my friend jackie "ill race you" then he heard me and was like "RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN" really loud, then i heard him say "god ill give that girl a hug someday" and i was like wtf?
but i really like this kid
and then we were kite flying in math/science to see whos flew the best, well i was the first to get mine going in the 3 classes. and he was staring at ME not the kite. then it was his turn he ws just paying attention to me. bot its team-mates.
and my friend, brit, keeps saying "this guy digs you! OMG HE LIKES YOU!!! omg you and jon should go out" contunisly again and again every day. i like her saying that becasue i think i have a chance. but the people in my school would ruine it.
help me please!
what ppl in your school would ruin it and how.i think if jon likes you and you like him.go out ,what you guys do is your businees.and who cares what ppl think.if he wont sk you out ask him,or encourage him that you like him.or just go like ,jon would you go out with me.
hope it helps
why do people say that you need to use a sponge for when you have sex? what do you use it for?!?
sponge to old semen not to get you pregnant.also the spong could cause viginal infections so i dont advise it.just use a condom honey its wany more healthieir.
dont you think its wierd putting a sponge inside you.
I like Rick. He met one of my friends today and he thinks shes hott. Her name is stina. but she told me that he is too short for her. but he really wants a girlfriend. Then my other friend who im not really friends with said that stina was riding her bus home from school and she would talk to her for him. he was all like cool! and i didnt say ne thing. maybe i should have but there were other ppl around. i would rather talk to him alone. so i didnt say ne thing. any help on how to tell stina that i like him w/o
1. getting the word around before i tell him.
2. not getting stina mad at me
3. letting ashley know. (shes the one who is going to talk to stina.)
also, what do i say to Rick? i want him to know that i like him and that when i say i love you i mean it. We are good freinds and he says i love you all the time. but what i want to know is does he really love me and what he thinks about me. any suggestions?? I rate hi!!
just plain tell her.but make sure you may have a chance with him first.also if she doesnt like him ok.but i think this could cause drama.so forget him for your friendship
okayy well. i like this one boy. lets call him "Michael" alright?? okay well michael and i went out last year. and ive liked him like over the summer and this year at school. okayy well. im not sure if michael feels the same way. be4 school started me and a couple of friends played truth or dare and i made out with him like once. and then i like kissed him twice. anyways. that was august 20th. and its now septemeber 08. we talk on aim not too much in person.. and i really dont know if he likes me. i think he knows i like him cause every1 in the whole effing school does. and i mean. how do i fidn out if he likes me without me having to just be like. hey do u like me. I DO NOT want to tell him how i feel because.. that would make it akward.
oh yeah.
two other problems.
Theres this other dude. well call him bob. WOW hes a hottie alrightt. i went out with him Three times last year. and i think i might like him again. but last year he was a major perve. and i think he still might be today. i think he likes my friend.
OTHER PROBLEM.
there is this other kid. and hes like totally dark and handsom. he dresses punk but hess soooo sweet. thing is hes a grade above me and im not so sure if he likes me either. he wont tell me who he likes. and hes not excatally any1 people would except me to go out with. me being somewhat a prep and all.
IM CONFUSSEDDDD!
help i rate high for good advice.
take a break from boys .sot out your mind about who you really like.
So i hang out in the small quad by myself because i dont have any friends and i wear glasses and im 5'2" and kind of have these roll thingys on my sides. but i think im really cute. and theres this guy Todd and he is so cute. hes a senior and im a freshman. he plays football and baseball and hangs out with all the popular group. i really love to watch digemon and i think he would like it to only if we got the chance to hang out. do you think if i talked to him he would like me and ask me out and we could get married.
love molly
so not to be mean ok his wany out of you league..too old,too popular.ithink you may have a chance.make friends.talk to ppl you have things in common with.be friendly and talk to people.also go to his games.support him and show him that you care,try to make yourself look sexy.talk to him more
I want to express my feelings to one of my guy friends. Ive known him for about one month now. We say i love you all the time but i dont think he means it like i do. i dont want to sound to desperate so what do i say?? or should i get a friend to do it? or write him a note. Im kinda shy.
get someone you really realy trust to ask him .also start giving ideas that you like him.smile at him sexily.also ask him who he likes.then touch more than ou used to.slide you breast on his back or hand.of course innocently.
I've been dating my current boyfriend for almost 5 months. We live an hour apart and honestly, I've never had such a good relationship with a guy. My relationship with him is the kind that I could only dream of & hope for. And maybe for other people too. Everything seemed to be going along smoothly, no problems, and then out of the blue, my feelings just change. I all of a sudden didn't care to talk to him on the phone so I haven't talked to him in a couple days. I don't know, things just changed drastically & I don't know why or how. I know in my heart that I want to be with him more than anything & that I could never break up with him just because of how good our relationship is but I hate feeling like this & I want it to stop. Is there any way this can change?
no it wont change unless you have your boyfriend and you sit and talk about where your relationship is heading.