Question Posted Saturday September 10 2005, 5:31 pm
I went out with a guy named jacob and he promised me he was a virgin and he told me he loved me and completely led me on, well i lost my virginity to him and he broke up with me after, saying that his mom found out and hes not allowed to see me and his phone was taken up and hes grounded for 2 monthes, well i found out for a fact that he has had sex with 5 girls before me and my friends saw him out the other night, so he has completely lied to me about EVERYTHING, i bitched him out last night but thats not enough, i NEED to get him back for this or because i wont be able to live knowing i was used and he got away with it, any suggestions?
Razhie answered Saturday September 10 2005, 6:26 pm: Do you really think there is anything you can do that comes close to the pain and embaressment he caused you?
I mean sure, you could play a few pranks, make some nasty phone calls, but in the end he did get away with lying to you, nothing you do will change that and revenge might get you into a lot of trouble as well as turn you into a nasty and unapealing person.
By all means tell everyone you know how he lied to you, stop girls on the street and warn them, tell everyone who asks what a lying scumbag he is! Tell the simple truth and make him embaressed to show his face in public.
But in the end, your shame and pain is something you need to deal with and not something that will go away just because you cause him pain.
Talk to your friends, scream and cry and bitch, fanatize about revenge, but don't follow through with nastiness that will only make you a nasty person and actions you can never take back.
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