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I am a girl and was wondering if any other girls have the same thing that I have. Well this is going to sound really gross, but here goes. I have hair growing inside of my butt cheeks, right near my anus. It's not just fine hair either, it's dark and course, like the same type of hair that I have growing on my vagina. I goes all the way up my butt cheeks. It's so embarrassing! I also have dark hairs growing on my breasts, right around my nipples. My question is: is this normal? And if it's not, what can I do to get rid of it? It's too hard to shave down there. I would appreciate any advice!! (link)
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yes i believe it is normal.i think are grows down ther on every teenager who goes through puberty!it isn't your fault,it is just genes in your family na dif relatives have a lot of hair then thats who you get it from.it is okay believ eme-lol!if you have a problem withit then you can get a bikin wax which depends on the area and hair type which shouldnt be that mcu ,proably under 100 dolars or you can shave you rbreats area,but i would be careful.but like me an deverybody else said,it is normal an di think you will grow out of it but dont fret over some hair,life is to short for a problem like that!
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So I am pretty much head over heels for this guy. I made an an ass out of myself, but I told him he was a total hottie. I've been wayy too nervous to talk to him. Whats something that I can talk to him about? Sorry, this is kinda hard to put into words. He is friends with my neighboor and might come over this weekend. Any sugesstions of what I could do?
Thanks in advance.
All answers get a 5 =]
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ignore that ass hole uncle jambo or what every the hell his name is.i agree with the one before him,be your self and don't sset your life on what a boy thinks about you.no wi know this sounds dumb but i would like "accidently"pop up when he comes ove ryour neighbors house and say hi.then i would suggest talking about a new movie or cds or who he thinsk is gonna when big at the grammys-lol!getto know him a little bit an dthrow in a few things about yourself everyonce ina while.kind alet him know that you are interested by flirting with him and giving him sexy eye contact-just dont over do it that much.show him the goods but not all of them(an di dont mean flaugnt around with you boobs out or anything)!just be yourself an dexcept you and if he doesn't like youfor who you are then screw him'pleaase believ ethere are plenty of fish in the sea!
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my name is mark im 19 and im a male ... im dating a girl we dated for 2 years on and off we broke up over this past summer and over the summer she did stuff thats bothering me now in our relationship she had sex w. a total of 3 guys multiable times and messed around w/ 3 other guys she told me everything b4 we got back together and it botheres me alot i dont know whwat to do i talked to her about it and shes there for me and all but i dont know what to do i need some advice the only reason im w/ her is because i really love her anyother girl i would tell leave me alone but i need something that will help over that break up i only messed around w/ 2 girls but we didnt have sex or ne thing like that i dont know what to do help me out please (link)
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well it was the summer time and you two were broken up anyways.shse messed around and you did to but not as bad as sh edid i can tell.i know that is bothering you but you just ned to let it go.if you love her like you say you will forgive an dforget.she isn't schaeting on you know,is she?well i would talk woth er and tell he rhow i feel. in my perspective i fell that the relationship you guys have is really not that good.you guys break up an dthen get back toghether.you both mess around.i don't think that kin dof relationship is healthy.i know you love her but i don't think therlationship is right.you both seem to be pretty young and i am sure you both have good futures ahead of yo both.there will be others but i think you both should talk.you both really need to and seriously think about what i ad the rest of the people on this site are saying to you.
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im not sure but i think i know someone who suffers from bulimia. i really want to know. i have confronted this person about it but they just deny it. i told them facts about doing this and how bad it is for thier health but i still think they do it. is there a way to tell if they do it without confronting them and if so is there a way i can help
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man this is scary!well if this person ha sbeen smalla dn thin all he rlife then i don't thingyou should worry about it that much.however if she(or he)was big and you've noticed a dramatic weight loss in them then you should be suspiscious about it.i would get all the signs of bulimia and compare it to them but if they've looked that way all of their life,then i woudn't worry.but if you are worried and it looks like she is bulimic then i would tell a counselor,parent(esp. hers or his,teacher anybody that you are comfortably with talking about the problem.they might comfront the person and they'll get mad a t you.i kno wit will seeem like they'll hate you for ever esp. if they are really close to you but i am sure they won't and they'll b emuch healthier and okay!
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I usually sleep really well, but last night I didn't fall asleep until 2 o clock in the morning. I don't know why. I think it might've been because I was talking to this one guy and I really didn't want ot sign off and go to bed but I had too. So i was thinking about him and stuff and I couldn't sleep.
Does anyone have anything that might help me sleep?
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well i don't think you have insomnia or anything dangerous(lol).i think your just on the verge of being in love with him.it just that you like him and that it affects you in that way that you can't sleep.you'll be fine an di am sure you'll be back on your normal sleeping pattern
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Ok i know it sounds totally weird because im so young (15 very soon) but my boyfriend wants to propose to me for my bday. Hes 17 and i know wont be able to get married for ages and so does he. I think hes still going to propose though. What should I do? We've been going out for 10 months. thanks xx
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wow!ten months and he's already proposing?he seems like a good boy.however i don't think you should get married right now becaus eyou are way too young.you have a whole life to experience adn i don't want you to be in a situation that you might later regret.if he proposes i think you should tell him how you feel.i would suggest(eveen though this might be mean)saying a polite no an dtell him that you are way to young and just wait it out for a while.like i said you are too young an dyou should enjoy life ...free and not totally commited to someone by marrying them.take your time,i am sure he's not going anywhere and maybe if he does(which i don't think he will)you'll have plenty of suitors lining up to take your hand in marriage(lol)!
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Hey, this may be an odd question, but healthwise, is Iced Tea bad/good for you? I really like it and I was hoping it was better than drinking soda because I got too used to drinking that. So, I know it's only like 70 calories, but can anyone give me an idea here?? (link)
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no tea isn't bad for you.it is better than drinking pop alot.but when you drink tea,try finding th eones that include green tea becaus egreen tea is good for your health.so like i said it isn't bad but use some with green tea!
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is it gay for a guy to go on a diet? (link)
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hell no it isnt gay for a man to go on a diet!lol(excuse my language that just shocked me).whoever told you thta was completely wrong.if u feel that you don't appreciate your body adn you wantto change that,then diet..just excercise as well.but don't go to a point that many other guys do to lose weight and build muscle by taking steriods.very dangerous.just take your time and diet right adn you'll defently be satisfied with how you see yourself.
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ok I really need some help,in the next few hours,I just recently ended a realationship but still love this guy,lets call him guy a but I have some1 from a preveious realationship and i kinda sorta love him 2,but he lives in bel air and not near me,but guy a is really close,turned out guy a lied to me and now i was really mad at him and my mom hates him,understandable,but i'm going rock climbing tongiht,and i want a guy to go with me,should I go with guy a or no1?? or bring my x boyfriend and his g/f?/ or just another friend of mine,ineed to meet guy! (link)
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okay calm down!i think since you don't know which boy you wanna bring with you since you obviously like them both,bring a friend with u.that way you can catch up with your friend(a girl maybe)and talk to him or her about it.plus i don't think bringing your x with is girlfriend is right.won't you seem like a third wheel and i am sure it will be awkward.maybe with the guy a you like,you can talk about your problems and how you didn't like him lying to you and that you value trust.but take a friend.
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see this is how i got this web my sister told me about this we. and im not sure ghow yo really use this web so if u could would u maybe tell me a lil more on this web site
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well this website is an advice column .it helps people solve problems by asking others how they would and to depend on other nperpectives besides your own.in return you can give answers to other people who need help.
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(me 14, jake 14, shannon 14, everyone else same age)
ok so i really like this kid and he likes me back. and like were going to the movies and other people are coming. i bringing my friend shannon and like me and her only know 3 people includeing jake. well there is 20 people going and i only know 3 people and his friends can get crazy. and hes like tina im warning you like we will probly get kicked out. and hes friends are all emo and punk and skater and sooo cool and funny. and like i cant get in trouble again because my parents will get really upset. and i want to tell him that but kinda make a joke out of it sooo i dont sound like loser i guess in a way. and like it started off like 9 people and it got to 20. and im worried im gunna get in trouble because some of the people are drugies and like i had been telling him all week i was going and how were going to have so much fun since he told someone hes really good friends with that im friends with and like he said hes going to ask me out tonight. i just dont know what to do. because hes like if we get kicked out well go to my house and my parents dont know any of these people but shannon and like i have gotten in trouble so many times last year and like im just earning back there trust so im trying not ruin that. i just dont know what to do. and how to tell him you know what im just earning back my trust with my parents i cant afford anymore trouble in a way that doesnt sound stupid i mean i know he will understand but like idk. i know people are like what his friends think shouldnt matter but to tell you the truth what his friends think of you in the most important thing. i wish it wasnt but it is and like idk what to do like shannon told me that shes like you know what i dont want to go bakc to his house because i would feel wierd and besides my parents would be asking all these questions. so like yea i dont know how to put it so he can understand. im going to call him around like 2 in the afternoon because like im going to ask him exactly whats going on tonight and whos going but i also want to tell him how i feel abou this whole situation so he understand i cant afford any more trouble you know. so like i need advice on how to tell him
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i would tell him flat out that last year i had some problems with me parents and i am not trying to go down that road again. just be frank an dtell him your position about everything. if he really likes you he will respect your wishes an dmake sure not to put you around any mess that he thinks and you think will get you in trouble.so just be straight foward and strong so he won't take u ass a dork or anything. beiong strong will defiently get you respected
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okay i cant think of anything for christmass nd my dads telling me if i dont tell him stuff then i wont can u please list some things as many as u can think of ! please nd thanks
callie
14 female stl
ill rate 5s !
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14 year olods especially women would know what they want.how about feminine things like:perfume,lotion,cute little socks with decorations,of course clothes.purses,jewlrey..money.things that describe youlike something in your favorite color.anything that will make you happy something that u know describes u and fits your personality.something that'll last a few weeks(lol)!you do need to hurry because x-mas is in 2 days!
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Drama!!everygurl goes through this...but in my case i'am sooo..sick of it my new main drama case is a SCHOOL...it involves my friends and some close people,wat do i do when sumone tells me that they think i'm talkin shit about them when i'm really not and then they befriend me b-cause of it even when i diden't do it!!ADVICE PLease!! (link)
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well if they really were your friends they would have believed you when you said you didn't talk about them. i really think you should talk to them and sort out these problems. however if whoever befriended you didn't trust you i think you shouldn't be friends in the first place. how are you going to have a friendship when you don't trust each other. i think that's so stupid and annoying!i had that same problem last year and after i talked to her i realized it wasn't her but the person who she hung with.so talk to her and if she doesn't wanna listen make her.sort it out and move on and if she still doesn't wanna be friends the world didn't end-you'll make new friends no matter how many you lose.you will soon find somebody to replace thier spots and realize it was worth it in the end.so good luck!
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Well this is my problem. I have this friend who I use to have TONS of things in common with,but now that we are older we don't share as many interests anymore. I still love my friend to death, but we're not the same people we use to be. So what should I do. I rate high! (link)
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well it isn't uncommon for friends to grow farther apart.its just growing up.when you grow up u discover new things and so do your friends.its no problem.i would talk to her and tell her how i fell.if you both fell that you are falling apart then i suggest you do.yo uwill find new friends but just because you two aren't friends doesn't mean you can't get along. i used to have this same problem but we still remained friends.we just compromised on our differences.so just talk to her and see how it goes from there,'kay?
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ok...i have a serious boy problem...lets call my jus broke off boyfriend(tyler)and my ex before him (lee) ok tyler and i went out alil over 2 months and i fell so hard for him but lee kept coming in the way...i went out wit lee for about a year and now i just want to be friends with him nothing more but tyler cant understand that.tyler heard that i was with lee the other week and just broke up with me without wanting to talk it out but it wasnt true and i tried to tell him that but he wont listen...he told my bestfriend that we was gonna get back 2gether but he needs time 2 think...should i wait or move on? (link)
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well if he told your best friend that he wants to get back togheter and if you really like him so much -i suggest u wait.however if he takes to long and still believes that you were with your old boyfriend then move in.if he can't trust you then u 2 aren't made to be togheter.u need trust in a relationship first.so back to my first suggestion-give him time!
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