Question Posted Wednesday October 26 2005, 1:57 pm
Well this is my problem. I have this friend who I use to have TONS of things in common with,but now that we are older we don't share as many interests anymore. I still love my friend to death, but we're not the same people we use to be. So what should I do. I rate high!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? BeautifulMadness answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 4:56 pm: You can like different things and still be best friends! Everyone likes the same things as children, especially little girls - anything pink and fluffy, and lots of cheesey music! But once you get older you start to develop your own tastes and become your own person. In my group of friends, the four of us are SO radically different - but that's what makes life interesting! It'd be very boring if we were all the same. Just keep talking to her (I'm presuming you're both girls, sorry if I got that wrong), try and talk to her about her interests a bit too...and if she doesn't want to respond, then leave it. Sometimes, much as it hurts, people just grow up and grow apart. [ BeautifulMadness's advice column | Ask BeautifulMadness A Question ]
BlackBatman answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 4:17 pm: well, sometimes friends dont always stay together..its understandable that you still care, and you can still be friends with that person, but you have understand that things won't be the same. maybe you're in need of a new frined? i know that old friends never really faid, but sometimes you have to move on to be happy [ BlackBatman's advice column | Ask BlackBatman A Question ]
keepinitreal108 answered Wednesday October 26 2005, 3:57 pm: well it isn't uncommon for friends to grow farther apart.its just growing up.when you grow up u discover new things and so do your friends.its no problem.i would talk to her and tell her how i fell.if you both fell that you are falling apart then i suggest you do.yo uwill find new friends but just because you two aren't friends doesn't mean you can't get along. i used to have this same problem but we still remained friends.we just compromised on our differences.so just talk to her and see how it goes from there,'kay? [ keepinitreal108's advice column | Ask keepinitreal108 A Question ]
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