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i need advice!
(me 14, jake 14, shannon 14, everyone else same age)
ok so i really like this kid and he likes me back. and like were going to the movies and other people are coming. i bringing my friend shannon and like me and her only know 3 people includeing jake. well there is 20 people going and i only know 3 people and his friends can get crazy. and hes like tina im warning you like we will probly get kicked out. and hes friends are all emo and punk and skater and sooo cool and funny. and like i cant get in trouble again because my parents will get really upset. and i want to tell him that but kinda make a joke out of it sooo i dont sound like loser i guess in a way. and like it started off like 9 people and it got to 20. and im worried im gunna get in trouble because some of the people are drugies and like i had been telling him all week i was going and how were going to have so much fun since he told someone hes really good friends with that im friends with and like he said hes going to ask me out tonight. i just dont know what to do. because hes like if we get kicked out well go to my house and my parents dont know any of these people but shannon and like i have gotten in trouble so many times last year and like im just earning back there trust so im trying not ruin that. i just dont know what to do. and how to tell him you know what im just earning back my trust with my parents i cant afford anymore trouble in a way that doesnt sound stupid i mean i know he will understand but like idk. i know people are like what his friends think shouldnt matter but to tell you the truth what his friends think of you in the most important thing. i wish it wasnt but it is and like idk what to do like shannon told me that shes like you know what i dont want to go bakc to his house because i would feel wierd and besides my parents would be asking all these questions. so like yea i dont know how to put it so he can understand. im going to call him around like 2 in the afternoon because like im going to ask him exactly whats going on tonight and whos going but i also want to tell him how i feel abou this whole situation so he understand i cant afford any more trouble you know. so like i need advice on how to tell him
xo Tina
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i would tell him flat out that last year i had some problems with me parents and i am not trying to go down that road again. just be frank an dtell him your position about everything. if he really likes you he will respect your wishes an dmake sure not to put you around any mess that he thinks and you think will get you in trouble.so just be straight foward and strong so he won't take u ass a dork or anything. beiong strong will defiently get you respected
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well i would explain it to him. just be like "well i don't wanna sound like a loser but i don't wanna get in trouble because i want my parents trust back because if i have their trust, i can do more stuff and blah blah blahhhh...." i'm sure he'll understand where you're coming from, because he sounds like a pretty nice guy. if he doesn't accept you or if he judges you for not wanting to get in trouble (which i'm sure he won't) then he's not worth it. if you nicely explain it to him, he should definitely understand.
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He seems like a very nice guy & he also seems like he would't mind if you tell him. Since you both like each other, I think that you should be able to tell him the truth. When you're talking to him just say well I'm looking forward to meeting them but if I get in trouble, I'm screwed. Say something like that. I mean you don't need to have a good reason or anything just tell him exactly what you just said. You said he will understand so what more do you need. Maybe you & him could sit somewhere alone for the movie.. but that would be leaving Shannonn. Just try to have fun & if you get kicked out it doesn't mean that you're going to get in trouble. You just won't be able to watch the movie for the rest of the night. Good luck & have fun.
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well just ask him straight up, why he decided to bring all of those people. if he invited all of those people without checking with you first he probably doesn't respect you, and a guy like that is just not worth it. on the other hand you could TRY talking to him, and see what he says. he MIGHT listen, but if he blows you off, then he's DEFINITELY not worth it. im sure there are many guys who are better for you.
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