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I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55 (link)
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make new friendz, but keep the old, one is silver and the other's gold!!! the more the better!!! hope 2 have helped!!
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Hi.
Well, my friends have all fallen out and I'm finding it really difficult to not take sides. Friend A said something nasty about friend B and friend C took friend B's side. This means that A is mad at C because she didn't take her side.
However, the nasty thing that A said was, in my opinion justified...
No-one is A's friend and I try and stick up for her because I don't think it's fair that B and C just slag her off behind her back all the time, but that makes them hate me. I want to take A's side even more when they do that. Plus friend B is SO annoying and is always doing weird stuff like humping us (seriously...everyone thinks we're lesbians or something) and messing up our hair and all this crap. So I should take friend A's side, right? Wrong. Friend A has said some really mean stuff over the years, none directed at me but I can't deny that it makes me wonder what she's thinking about ME. All their arguing is driving me crazy and I have to do something, and I don't want to take sides but it feels like I'm being forced to - B and C are horrible to me every time I talk to A. What can I do? (link)
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wow ive been here alot, but anyway, you should take friend A's side. she'll really be happy that someone is on here side. now she probably feels terrible cause her two x-friends are ganging up on her. the odds r better, u & A vs. B & C, rather than A vs. B & C. lots of luck!!!!!
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my sis just got her first boyfriend & she likes himbut im worried he doesn't like her. He kissed her a few times but he never calls her & i read in a mag that that means he's not really into her!!! can u help.plese do
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well you can't always trust magazines. but if this is really what you think, then maybe you should ask your sister about it. she might say something like oh hes having family problems, or he is moody, or etc. and if you are afraid of approaching you sister, try the guy himself and say that you dont want him to crush your sister or hurt her. if that also desnt work try a mom or dad that can talk to you sister. watever you do dont l aguy come between you and your sister.
Lots Of Luck!!!
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ok this is what happend, during spring break (2 days ago) me, my friend, my sis, my dad and mom went to las vegas. While we were there we saw kids from our schools baseball team there (we were going crazy) .. and my friend likes 4 guys total and there happend to be 2 of the guys that she liked there..then my dad told me to say hi to them so i did..i went up to them and started talking..then later that night 1 of the guys m friend had liked asked me for my # so i gave it to him. Then while we were walkin up and down the strip my friend was trying to tell him all the bad things about me so that he wouldnt like me anymore (i guess that didnt work).. then when me and him went to get some subway my friend was talking to my sis and my sis said that my friend was saying that its not fair that he likes me and that she liked him first and blah blah blah.. but whenever i got to know him i started liking him ALOT and we madeout that night too (it seemed like she didnt care that much), but thats the only guy i like (and shes obbsessed with 3 other guys too). So when we were driving home she was saying that whenever we get back to school shes going to try and impress him (cuz that night she looked like a piece of cr*p).. then i had no idea what i was going to do so i called him up and starting telling him everything. Then he said not to worry cuz im the 1 he kissed that night and not her .. but i know shes going to get mad cuz hes going to ask me out whenever he comes back from las vegas. I just dont know what to do right now... (link)
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weel u are the lucky one arent you, just make sure that the boy doesnt get in the way of your friendship!!!
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Hi I really ned help! Ok well u know the shooting that happened in minnesota? Ya well me and my bf go to that skool and he was one of the victims! Ah! and he's in the hospital and they say he might die! he's in a coma and wont wake up! I strted freaking out when I heard his name on the list of the shot! They said he was still living but it was a 80% chance of dieing! He is the love of my life and I do not know what to do! Help me some one plz? (link)
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wow!!!! that is so terrible!! here r some things u should do:
1: pray!! even if you are not religous, pray his life may depend on it.
2: have everyone in your class sign a card for him so that when he wakes up he knows people care that might help the most.
3: relax, let the doctors do their thing it will be hard to relax, but he probably doesnt want you to suffer too much for his sake!!! i truly hope i helped!!!:D
~Katkrazy~
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well i have this teacher he is realy mean and yells at me when im not even talkin wat should i do (link)
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it isnt the best answer but maybe u should talk 2 him and explatn 2 him wat is going on!!! lots of luck!!!!!
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Alright, this isn't a serious question or anything but I need some help.
I have this friend, Bryce, who I absolutly adore. What I mostly adore is the pranks we play on each other. Sometimes we're mean about them but that's just how we are.
He has football off season while I have volleyball off season which is during the same period, 6th. Well, today I guess our coaches were being lazy and just made all the volleyball players and football players go out side and run for an hour together. Well, I was running along side Bryce and a few of our friends when he tripped me, on purpose and I fell flat on my face. It was in grass so it's not like I was hurt or anything but you can imagine how embarrassing it was!!!
Well, I need to get him back...GOOD. But I've run out of ideas and I need more. Any ideas?
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This is kinda mean but you should tell him:
a: the most popular in school, (who wouldnt go out w/ him,) wants him to ask her out over an intercom or PA system. then after he did this, he would most likely face total rejection in front of the whole school. or for the whole school to hear!!! i toldja it would b mean!!!!
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tomorrow is the talent show at my school and i want to sit next to the kid i like, how can i go about doing this? if it helps, my 2 friends are helping me. ones a girl and ones a guy. (link)
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u have pretty much got it now!! lots of luck!!
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I have a really bad problem with my hair. it's huge. It frizzy and thick and its so hard to manage. I was just wondering if there are any known products that can help me with my unmanageable hair. I've tried thinning, and cutting and many products with minimal success. Also straightening my hair takes about 3 hours and I really dont have that kind of time to spend on my hair. Please help!! I rate high for appropriate answers
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you should try john frieda products, or the catwalk stuff. i have the same problem w/ my hair, and i cut 4in off then used the stuff, it works!!!
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i just became friends with a girl again and she used to be mean and when we gave her a second chance she started to be mean again.im worried she will be like that again what should i believe? (link)
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it probably has nothing to do w/ you. maybe she is just having some problems at home. ask her if she wants to talk, if she doesnt just tell her if she changes her mind she can always talk to u. it will make lots of people feel better if they have someone supporting them!! hope i helped!!
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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!! (link)
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there is no difference, both of them are just ing their unborn baby!!! ur right they r both still an child!!!! dont let them!!!!!!11
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like i am so confused i really want a bf now but like its wired cuz i like guys and i want a bf and everythings like pressure like my bff is my crushes gf and plz give me advice ! (link)
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my advice to you is dont rush it! the right guy will come at the right time!! hope i helped!!
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i have to do a oral presentation tomorrow and i am NOT good at this at all. when i start talking i usually forget and i dont know what to say next so i bascially stumble, so i need GOOD tips on how to focus and i do have notecards butt i cant use them alot so PLEASEE help me !!! (link)
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well you should talk to the class as if you were talking with your friendz!! also a tip if you dont up easily, imagine them in their underwear!!! hope 2 have helped!!
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I am 12 years old, and I weigh 140lbs.!!!! It stinks!! All my friends say I am not fat, but they haven't even seen half of it!! How can I lose weight without starving myself which I have tried, and believe me it is not fun!!! (link)
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You are not fat!!! Never critisize yourself. I thin to lose weight you need to eat less, eat healthy, and exersise more than you already do. I wish you the best of luck!
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Well here is my problem ..
I went out with this guy for like 2 months .. We broke up .. It was b/c of me .. :-( I got so nervous around him .. He'd try to hold my hand and i would shake .. I felt so stupid .. That was almost 7 months ago ..Well I still like him SO much .. But he doesn't know that i still like him .. I think that he has a clue but i haven't confirmed it .. Well one of his friends likes me and i kinda like him .. But i don't get nervous around him .. I want to go out with him but i don't want it to look like i am "using" him to get to the other guy that i still like ALOT .. Any advice would be good !!
Thanks so much .. (link)
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I think you should just go out w/ him to see how it is, and if your ex, asks you if you are using the guy you are going out w/, then just say no. lots of luck!!!!
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My best friend is 16 now but she has been getting abused by her dad since she was old enough to walk. I saw him punch her in the face one time and bang her head against a wall. I am really scared for and her sister because I have seen him hit her too. She's asked me not to tell but Im scared that if I keep quiet that one day he might really hurt her. We tryed calling the police on him one time but they wanted to press charges against us and not him. I dont know what I should do and I dont know how I can help her. (link)
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All you need to do is remind her you are always there for her and you will listen to her and you are not afraid to take action for her!!
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hey is it bad to charge your cell fone to much ??
and do you knoe of any stores to get cute cell fone face plates?? (i rate high)!
xoxo need advice (link)
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It's easy, just go 2 a mall and either look through a directory, or just look around everwhere, not inside of stores the outside carts. good luck!!
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Ok well here's my problem, my mom is like super christian and I think I wanna follow by the rules of buddah and I want to be boodist! but I still belive in god! I dunno what one to choose. And plus if I do decide to become budist I dont wanna tell my mom! I dont know what to Do! arg! help! (link)
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You dont have 2 be just one religon, u can b boodist, christian, and/or cathlic, etc..!!
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My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it. (link)
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whatever happens your mom is alwayz there 4 u!! tell her how you feel & maybe stop telling her things u dont want 2 b repeated!!!
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I have so much going on in my life right now and i feel like i dont have anyone to talk to and i found out all the people i thought were my friends are just using me or are just jerk and my family is always fighting and my parents are divorced and i had to live up to all these high standardands and i cant get over this guy ahhhh i dont want to go back to my bad habits...drinking...drugs...cutting...any of that can you please help me (link)
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Wow that sound terrible!! Don't ever go back to your old habits!! My advice to you is to either confide in a friend of a journal!!! Maybe listen to music.
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