My mom got mad at me becasue she thought I was trying to break the television. Well I wasn't breaking it. IT has a lot of channels and the remote is missing because I lost track of it because when we moved I had to be quick. The bag the remote was at is missing. She got mad at me like I was the only one in the world doing something wrong. She got mad at me too when she found out the remote was missing. I don't get why she had to get mad at me like that.
Your mom could be PMSing or in a bad mood and she's taking it out on you. You could sit down wit your mom and explain to her how she made you feel. All that yelling is upsetting you. You prefer her speaking to you in a nicer tone. Tell her that you're only a kid, and you make mistakes that you don't realize. if she talks to you nicely and tell you what you're doing wrong and help you through the process of doing better than there's no point of yelling.
hope I helped. good luck. =].
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theres this song that im going crazy for. ive googled it a buncha times but cant find it. its a guy singin and its rap all i remember is "yes indeed anything you need for five hundred dollars" and there was another part that was like "make it rain make it rain" but its not the Fat Joe song Make It Rain. has anyone else heard it? its on the radio but they never say what its called!
maybe its this song "chicken noodle soup"?
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So when my parents split up i lived with my mom up until last year. I havent talked to my mom barely since that but my dad is an asshole ALL the time. I dont know... i really want to move back with my mom.. if i knew that she would still let me see my boyfriend and i would still be able to go out. But i dont wanna to move in with her and find out that shes gonna be a bitch and not let me see my boyfriend and not let me go out with my friends at all. What should i do because my dad is an asshole ALL the time.
I know how you feel.. I'm in the same situation. Well would you rather have your dad being an ass hole all the time OR you can move with your mom and she's only being a bitch sometimes. Its a 50% kinda thing. You'll never know what's the outcome going to be until you move with one and see the consequences yourself. Everyone parents have their own rule.. in my case, both of my parents are remarried.. my mom and dad doesn't talk to one another. And with my dad he doesn't let me go out at all but I can do watever I want in the house. With my mom I can go out sometimes but I have to take school first and always focus on education.. and so on which is boring. But I chose to live with my mom.
You case, you can look at what benifit you if you live with you dad .. and do the same with your mom. You can also think about who would you love to live with more.. mom or dad? or who you have a better connection with.. ? who do you love more?
Since your is being a jerk.. then if you decide to move back with your mom... you and her can have a compromise that you both can agree to. Then you can see if she agrees to let you go out and see your boyfriend or not. So you can make your decision from there. But I hope you and your mom would come to a compromise that you both will be happy with.
hope I helped. good luck.! =].
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I can't seem to stop comparing myself to my boyfriend's ex-girlfriends and old "crushes." I know he loves me, but I just can't seem to stop thinking, "She's thinner than me," or "Wow, she's so much prettier than I am," and "She's so funny, do I make him laugh as much as she does?" The irritating thing is a lot of them are still his friends, and he sees them when he's away at college. He's completely against cheating, but I still worry that something will spark between him and one of his exes and he'll leave me.
Incase it matters, I'm 19 and female.
I know I'm 3 years younger but maybe I can help you out. Its okay to have those feelings. You're just worried and jealous [in a way]. But think about it.. those girls are his past. You're his present and future. He loves things about you that those girls doesn't have. Or else he wouldn't be with you. I understand that you're worried there might be sparks again. But if a guy is truely in love with you, no matter how mayne hot girls out ther, you'll be the hottest girl in his eyes. A relationship is base on trust. You need to trust him. If he goes out with 20 sexiest girls on earth, you would be able to trust that you're the only girl on his mind and he wouldn't do anything. Of course you'll be jealous if that's a case, but trust is a key to a relationship.
So just don't worry too much. He's all yours and not theirs. hope I helped =].
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I have a lot of time on my hands and am looking for some good books to read. I am not sure what to read though. I like books about teenagers going through tough times, kind of books that a teenage girl can relate to. I liked Crank and Speak. So anything kind of like either of those two books would be great. Thank you.
i love the book Crank! its a great book. Here's some other books you might like. .. "The Gift", by danielle Steel. "This Lullaby", by Sarah Dessen. "I Don't Want To be Crazy".. its the same author as Crank. I'm not sure if you like it but try it and see.
well knock yourself out =]. hope you'll like one of the book.
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what are some waysss to turn a boy on while making out? =]
thankss!
you can try to touch him.. rub on his body and his "down there".. you can also bite his lips a little, then kiss his neck, then suck on it. That would turn them boys on. it also depends on the guy. I think you should ask the guy you're makin out with .. what turns him on. What he likes.
hope I helped =].
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13/f
sorry this is long!
Lets start...Theres this guy,Cody,we've been best friends since like 4ever.And our moms are too.he used to cum over whenever his mom sold stuff to my mom,but she quit that job so we dont see eachother very much nemore,cause I moved to homeschool and he goes to public school.We've been b/f & g/f like 3 or 4 times b4...and every time i told him that I would NEVER fall 4 him again.But latley i've been finding myself daydreaming about him and getting all exited when he calls,and then when we are done talking i get all 'perky'...Im confused...i even feel like i might even "Love" him!But the thing is...i'm scared he'll hurt me...(not physically) agian...every time we've went out,hes either,broken up with me because he didnt like me nemore or because of a new girl.Hes even cheated on me once!But i forgave him every single time,I dont wana ruin the friendship but I dont wana look baq and think what it coulda been.PLEASE HELP!!!!!! (will rate answers)
I've been in your shoes before. I came to realized this guy doesn't love me and he's just using me as a booty call. I've been hurted so many times by him that I told myself not to fall for him again but then when I talk to him.. I fell for him all over again.
So I think you need to be strong and tell yourself that he's not appreciate you. You're too available to him. Let him call you and knowing that you won't be there. Then he will be wondering why isn't she here. What is she doing .. etc. When you're less available, the guy takes you more seriosuly. Guys love girls who are hard to get. It makes more fun and interestin for the guys and it makes you more valuable. When the guy have you.. he learns to appreciate you. He had to work to get to you. Its like a thing.. if you work you get the bag that you love then you will appreciate it more than the bag that you reallyy want but you can just get it like that.
I think you should just laid off with him for a little. Get your mind and feelings straight out. Be strong. try not to fall for everything comes out of his mouth. it mights be sweet. but its all b.s. if he kept on hurting you.
I hope i helped. good luck =]. a guy like him aisnt worth it. you deserves better.
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So there is a guy friend of mine and we have made out a few times when no one else was around and I thought he liked me and would ask me out, but this has been going on for a little over 2 months and he never has. He acts especially flirty with me, which makes me think he likes me but he also talks about other girls he meets and stuff. He's one of my best friends so I don't know if he really wants to be with me because it would make our group of friends ackward (sp?) Should I ask him or hint about it or what?
You should confront him. Set the record straight. He's kinda left you hanging. Or maybe he thinks you two are friend with benefits?.. I suggest you should talk to him and ask him if he really likes you and want to ask you out because you are confused. You're not trying to make things akward. You would like him to inform you how he feels about you and where are you guys right now. If he want a relationship, then it is up to you if you still want to hook up or end it. If he likes you, then maybe he just need to get some courage to ask you out.
so talk to him.. communication helps. hope I helped. good luCk. =].
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so v-day is coming up and im tryna get a head start because lets face it im a terrible planner lol! my boyfriend and i have what i guess you could call a very "lovey" relationship. so for vday i was thinkin about givin him chocolate and whatever and also doin somethin cute.. i was thinkin 1 of these 2 ideas and would like input on which you like best or if you have a different cute idea. one was to write him like a letter pretty much pouring my feelings out tellin him everything i think of him. the other was to make a list countin to 50.. and by every number put a reason why i love him. if you like this idea can you give me some ideas of what i could put? i know the typical youre sweet, youve always been there for me, you make me smile, that kinda thing and i love the boy to death but lets face it 50 is alot lol but i dont wanna make it too short. im 16 he'll be 17 oh and that'll also be our 7 months! :)
umm.. that's cute. nxt month would my and my ex 7 months too. if we were together. mm.. you can do like a scavanger hunt to make it more fun and interesting. make him guessing. =]. Write hints and take him to places.. make him guess. then every hints include reasons why you love him. and then the last hint leads him to a restaurant.. be romantic.. have balloons? chocolate?.. things that he likes. /. hmm.. be creative and original. make it interestin and funn. hope you like the idea. good luck and have fun. =].
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I've been having this problem...and it's the fact that I strive to be a perfectionist...I don't WANT to be...But I feel like I have to be. I get straight A's, kiss up to teachers, ALWAYS do my work and turn things in. I never skip any assignments...but I've been wondering lately...is it bad to overwork yourself? I mean...I've already done so much. And I haven't been getting enough sleep either :(...I don't know what I'm doing wrong...I can't quit getting good grades...but I'm sick of my head being so messed up. I feel as if school is taking a part of me away...I have ABSOLUTELY NO time on my hands to do ANYTHING...I haven't been to the mall in AGES! ;_; :(...What should I do?
There's nothing bad about getting good grades and looking out for your future. But at times you need sometimes to yourself and relax. I think you should make a schedule for your studies and make sometimes in that schedule for relaxation time. Time to spend with your friends, time to spend on yourself, time to do things you love, etc. I mean there's nothing bad to be a perfectionist, getting straight A's. Parents would love that. It shows you're mature and responsible. But overworking is not that good. You're still a teenager. You need to have a social life. You need to hang out with friends and catch up with non essential things like boys, gossips, etc. Eventhough you might not care but at times it good to get updated with the latest stuff in school.
I myself, went through your same situation. I was in a point where my grades are so important to me. I only focus on my school work that I didn't have any fun. No mall, hang outs, parties. I didn't get enough sleep. But I found a solution. You work hard, but you also play hard!. So I spent my weekend.. a few hours. .. catching up with friends. On weekdays .. I study. focus on school. my day off, I hang out with friends but afterward, I go home and spend 2 hours at least on school work. Plus you don't have to study every subject everyday. put an hour on one subject a day. =].
Well make a schedule for yourself. =]. hope I helped. good luck. let me know how things work out.
here's my sn: shiet itz vy .. incase you need anything. I'm on 24/7. =].
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i'm 15, female, and my boyfriends 15 2! hes always grabbing my vagina whats up with that?!
OMG what a pervert! (no offense). You should tell him to back off a little. Let him know that you don't like what he's doing and you would like to him to stop. He needs to learn to respect you and your body. He must ask you first if you're comfortable with him touching certain areas. If you don't then he should respect your decision. He should be able to wait until you're ready or comfortable .. then you'll let him know.
hope I helped =].
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I don't know if my boyfriend is controlling. He wants to know where I am and who I'm with at all times. He says he loves me all the time and he wants to get married when I turn 18. I'm just about to turn 17. He wants all my time and he calls me a million times a day and expects me to spend all my free time with him. I don't think hes controlling, but I'm not sure. I love him though. How can I tell?? Is there any certain way?? Please help me figure this out.
I know how you feel. My boyfriend is exactly the same way. At times I get annoyed and tell him to back off.
No hunn, he's not being controlling. He's just worried, caring, overly protective, and crazily in love with you. Sometimes we look at their flaws and forget to put ourselves in their positions. He's just selfish. He wants you all to himself. You can try to talk to him about how you feel. Let him know you love those things that he do. But tell him that he's over done it. Inform him that girls want time to themselves sometimes. They want to have fun with their girlfriends. That doesn't mean you don't love him. You just want to be freely do what you want to do. He should spend time with his friends too. Spending too much time together might be bad. It will drives you two away because you two still young and there are many new ppl out there. So spend enough time but not too much is good.
About marriage, tell him that you're only 17. You haven't think about marriage yet. You just want to enjoy your teen years. So marriage will comes later, just it happens naturally.
good luck. hope I helped. =].
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okay, i'm in a really bad position right now, but if you have any advice, it'd be awesome. my ex-boyfriend and i went out over summer for almost four months, and then he broke up with me because he thought i was getting jealous too easily. well, i was pretty much okay with that because he said we'd go out again in a year or something. i moved on really fast, and it was obvious that he was getting really jealous. so after i started hanging out with this new guy, and we became an official couple, my ex found a new girl, too. all this time, i knew he was jealous of my new boyfriend, and i was a tiny bit jealous of his new girlfriend. but, i still thought about him all the time, cause there's no doubt in my mind, we were each other's first love. anyway, yesterday at school he told me he needed to tell me something. we're like friends now, i guess, but it'd be weird for him to need to tell me something that seemed as important as he made it sound. so last night i called him, and he basically spilled his heart to me about how he misses me a lot, and his new girlfriend isn't the same, and being with her makes him miss me more. my best friend talked to him this morning, and he was just telling her how he really wanted to be with me in stuff. one problem: i have a boyfriend that is really really in love with me who i've been dating for over a month, and he has a girlfriend who he's been dating for only a little over a week. she's crazy about him, too. so basically, we're both in a really sucky position, because we want to be with eachother, but we can't because of the people we're with, and we can't break it off, cause they'd both be like wtf? help, please??
Well I think no matter how hard it for you and your ex to end things with the people you two are with, you two should end it before the situation get any worst. I mean its not fair to those two if you and your ex are still in love with each other. While his gf and your bf think that's he and you are crazy about them too. So you and your ex need to think it through first and see what's best for you guys. If you think you and him will work out, then I suggest you should break it off with your bf and your ex should break it off with his so you two can be together. This kind of thing happens a lot. When someone is still in love with their ex. It is also hard to forget your first love. I know its gonna be hard on your bf and his gf. But I think they deserve to know the truth. it hurts less if they hear it from you two rather than found out in the relationship that you've been thinking about your ex. That wouldn't be fair for them. You wouldn't want your bf to think about his ex while he's with you. So I think you and your ex should talk it through and if being together is what you guys really want then I think you two deserve to be together. Just don't lead the people you guys are with on.
good luck and I hope everything will work out for the best. =].
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Right now I have the motivation and strength to lose weight. I have the will power...and that's the important part...but the problem is my meals.
I am from a home that eats rice for lunch...and has bread at breakfast and dinnner. I want to lose weight...and so does my mum. We've decicded to make vegetables and meat...not too mch rice...maybe once or twice a week!
I also have a busy school schedule! I go to school at 7:30am and reach bac at 3:00pm. I sometimes have tons of homework and after school activities, etc!
MY question is how many meals a day should I eaT? What type of fruits to eat? What is the best suitable meal for breakfast and dinner? And does the shredded wheats eat 2 lose 10 plan work?
You need to at least eat 3 meals a day. .. breakfat, lunch and dinner. Just eat a little not too much, enough to last you til the next meal. For breakfast, you can have cereal, bread with eggs & milk, or orange juice. Since you start school at 7:30, I suggest cereal or bagel. its easy to eat and fast. For lunch, you can try to bring lunch to school. Make a sandwich with salads, tomatoes, chicken or whichever you prefer, or low fat food. Last but not least, dinner, you should eat a little and not too much. Since its dinner and after you eat, you won't be able to burn those calories. Some fruits you can eat ... are carrots, pearl, paypaya, watermelon, banana, apples, potatoes, salads, etc. Also you should workout twice or three times a week. try to run and stretch. Depends on which part of your body you want to work out. If its your legs, running helps. If its your stomach.. crunches and sit-ups help. If its your arms, try push up and those weight machines for arms and chest. You won't see the result right away but you'll see it in a month or two.
hope I helped. good luCk. =].
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I'm still not over my ex after seven months. It still gets me down. So does anyone have any sad/heartbreaking/makes you want to scream/that type of love songs? Anything EXCEPT rap and r&b. Thanks!
if you like ashlee simpson.. there's are some songs on her CDs "I am me" and "Autobiography".. that might cheer you up a little. umm i like this song "surrender". You can download some of her songs and try it out.
But don't gett all hopeless. There are many fishes in the sea. You'll find the right one for you. Just need some times to let the old one go. Time will heals it all. Don't rush it.. and let it happen. But live your life.. have fun.. flirt.. don't let your ex bring you down. He's out there havin the time of his life and you're sittin at home lusting over him. Think about it.
How I helped. =].
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how do u get cleavage?
you can try push up bras or water bras .. and wear a tank top or low shirts.. that's one way you can show cleavage. you can try wear a low holter top wit a push up bra.
hope I helped. =].
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i have to do a project on Hercules and i thought to add to my power point some scences from Hercules. i have tried to get the Disney movie from limewire but it didn't work. i also tried you tube and there isn't the scene i want. so do you have any idea i how i can get the movie???
thanxx for the help
you can try blockbuster or hollywood video. You can also ask your friends if they have the movie and you can borrow it.
good luck =]
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okay, well, i have a boyfriend and my best friend (or was... i dont know) is a bisexual and she says she is in love with me. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months and it hurts to not have my best friend and my boyfriend @ the same time. she says she cant be my friend or talk to me because shes too much in love with me. does this make sense to anyone? what do you all think i should do? im very stubborn towards letting her back in as my friend but only because this isn't the first time she's decided not to talk because shes too much in love with me. (like..4 times) i dont know. how do i know if the next time she wont have that excuse not to talk to me? can you please help, anyone? i rate high! =]
thnx.
If she's really your friend and deeply in love you then she wouldn't stop talking to you. When you love someone, it makes you happy just to see them smile and being happy. She seems you chose the "love" or your friendship. You can try yo tell her that you're not into her like that and if she's really your friend... she wouldn't stop talking to you just because she's too much in love with you. [her perspective... I know how hard it to talk to someone you love so much and they don't love you back. Its not an easy thing]. But if she loves you like she said she does .. then wouldn't she rather have your friendship than act like she doesn't know you at all?.. ask her that. if she chose not talkin to you then you should know what to do. If a person doesn't want to be your friend .. its hard to be friend with them. Friends are like relationships. It takes two to make it work. Also she doesn't deserve to be your friend .. there are many other friends out there. you can find loyal ones.
well good luck. hope everything will works out for the best. [don't rate unless I help].
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Does anyone know where I can download the song
ne me quitte pas - by regina spektor?
and its from one of her older albums, not her new one.
thanks.
you download it from Limewire, Rhapsody, or you can google it .. put the title and the artiste... it will show you a list of place you can download that song.
hope I help =].
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I'm 14/f and my sister is 19/f. It's ironic how I'm more mature about things than she is. Everytime break starts and she come home, whether it's Thanks Giving, Winter, Spring, Summer break, it's always disastrous and I can never relax.
My sister complains and gets mad over the smallest things. Over Thanks Giving Break, which was about 2 weeks for her, she got braces and oh my goodness. It was horrible. She would barely eat, she would complain, mop around, lock herself in her room for getting stupid braces. She was like "I can't eat. It takes 30minutes just to floss" blah blah..for 2 weeks and MORE. I must say that a 10 year old wouldn't whine so much. That really got my mom pissed off because she was buying stuff for my sister and making all these soft foods just for her to make her feel better and my sister just turned away complaining. And when my mom is mad, I have to watch what i do around her. When she's mad, she's likely to go off at anyone at anytime so it's like I always have to help her during breaks, watch what I say and do and I can't go and hang out with friends as much because my mom won't be in the mood to drive me. Then there's the problem with my sister getting pissed off at every single thing that doesn't go her way. If she wanted this and someone said no, she'll get pissed off, lock herself in her room for days, and get everyone in the house pissed off. I mean if she wanted to get , let's say a coffee from starbucks, and my mom said no, she'll get pissed off. If she wanted to help me practice violin and I decline NICELY (because, personally, she is horrible at teaching and when I tru to tell her that she's going too fast or something, she'll get pissed and say "Well you should've practiced more blah blah") she gets pissed off and locks herself in her room. This is getting really old and I don't knwo what to do about it. I can't talk to my sister because I'll just make it worse and if I talk to my mom or dad, my dad won't do much about it, and my mom will either just get pissy about that or talk to my sister which will still mak things worse. Any suggestions on what I should do to get her not get pissed so easily?
Actually there's nothin' you can do to not agravate her. That's just the way she is, its within her. I suggest you should tell her how you feel and tell her to take it, process it, and change it. I mean if she does this all the time.. the whole family should just ignore her and she'll be over it. She just wants attention. She's 19, 5 yrs older than you. But she acts like a spoiled brat, and childish. Let her know how immature she is. She's older, she should set an example for you. You look up to her.. so let her know she needs to get her act up and stop complaining. The more she complains and whine... it doesn't make anything better, just worst. So I think you should be straight up with her. Also tell her .. its the truth and even if she gets mad.. its still true. Truth hurts.. that's the way life goes. If she doesn't like it then do something to change it.
I know its harsh. but she needs to know. you can't be nice and happie go lucky to her when she's being a brat. Well good luck and let me know how it goes.
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