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im not sure..
okay, well, i have a boyfriend and my best friend (or was... i dont know) is a bisexual and she says she is in love with me. i have been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months and it hurts to not have my best friend and my boyfriend @ the same time. she says she cant be my friend or talk to me because shes too much in love with me. does this make sense to anyone? what do you all think i should do? im very stubborn towards letting her back in as my friend but only because this isn't the first time she's decided not to talk because shes too much in love with me. (like..4 times) i dont know. how do i know if the next time she wont have that excuse not to talk to me? can you please help, anyone? i rate high! =]
thnx.
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Honestly, this doesn't make much sense at all. If your friend loved you so much, then A.) she sure wouldn't stop talking to you. And B.) she'd respect that you didn't feel the same way.
If she's going to be like this, and ignore you just because you don't want her in that way, then I say you should cut ties with her. A friend like that is just too exhausting.
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If she's really your friend and deeply in love you then she wouldn't stop talking to you. When you love someone, it makes you happy just to see them smile and being happy. She seems you chose the "love" or your friendship. You can try yo tell her that you're not into her like that and if she's really your friend... she wouldn't stop talking to you just because she's too much in love with you. [her perspective... I know how hard it to talk to someone you love so much and they don't love you back. Its not an easy thing]. But if she loves you like she said she does .. then wouldn't she rather have your friendship than act like she doesn't know you at all?.. ask her that. if she chose not talkin to you then you should know what to do. If a person doesn't want to be your friend .. its hard to be friend with them. Friends are like relationships. It takes two to make it work. Also she doesn't deserve to be your friend .. there are many other friends out there. you can find loyal ones.
well good luck. hope everything will works out for the best. [don't rate unless I help].
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