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Q: I have a cold. I feel so gross and all I want to do is sleep. But I cant because I have loads of homework that I should be doing right now but I just feel..gross! Is there anything I can do to make me feel a little better so I can concentrate(sp?) on getting my work done? Besides taking medicine..I rate :(
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Ok heres a idea:
Run some bathwater, Get a radio play your favorite music lightly in the background and lay in the bathtub with a warm rag over your face...
relax for 20 min...
by the time you get out you wont be well but you'll feel refreshed!
hope all goes good
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: this is going to be long...
I have this gut feeling that my brother is gay. I really believe that he is. I don't have a problem with it or anything because I love gay people. His best friend is bisexual even though he won't admit it. He's kissed guys in the back of school and I've seen him and he also kisses girls. So I pretty much know he's bi. So getting back to my brother, I just really think that he's gay! I swear it's like i have gay-dar or something like that, he's always staring at my boyfriend when he comes over, when he has his friends over, they are in his room for like 2 freakin hours WITH THE DOOR LOCKED and if he hears me walking up to the door he yells at me. I mean come on, he's never had a girlfriend and he always says he doesn't want one and that he'd never get married. He says, and I will quote, "Girls are a waste of my time." When I told some of my friends that I thought he was gay, they all responded with "I always knew something was up with your brother." Or something along those lines. Even guys that barely know my brother say that he's gay. My only worry is that my dad is homophobic, and my mom said that she'd be really upset if she found out that he was gay even though she has gay friends. How do I tell my mom of my suspicions? If it's true how would my dad react in the future when he comes out? How can I deal with this??
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Ok before you tell anyone...why dont you try and sit down and talk to your brother? if that doesnt work do some snooping in his room DONT GET CAUGHT! talk to his friends...just be a good sister and untill you have more info dont go to mom and dad!!!
GOOD LUCK...and if hes gay well my personal opionon is thats not a good thing...because im a christian...but if your ok with it good for you!!
God bless
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Ok I really like this guy and he likes me to and weve liked eachother for a while and I dont know what to do about IT now hes saying im really hott and stuff he makes me feel good bout myself because I think im ugly (like most girls at my school think there ugly to) its just a normal thing and we will be on the phone and hell be like I love u la la la and stuff what should I do and how to I deal with this?
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ok for starters...
ask yourself this...
how do you feel about him*
do you like him or his words?*
if you do like him tell him you do*
and if you guys go out WHOOHOO
AND NO! you ARE NOT ugly!!!!!!!!!!
good luck!!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: ok i wanted an I-pod and still do but do you have to pay for the songs or does it come on the disk? because i don't wanna be paying for songs to download when i payed so much for the I-pod already
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I-pods for 1 suck...haha go back to good ol' cd players!! you download songs for I-pod...they only work on YOUR I-pod....cds go everywhere not just your I-pod...what if it breaks!? yikes waste of download!!!
yikes good luck!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: i like two guys. one guy im really good friends with. hes really smart and funny, and hes not really really popular. i mean i guess hes a little bit but not really. im not popular, but im not a loser. im just the average girl. the other guy i like is extremely popular. i could never get him though, so back to the other guy. i really want him to like me, and he doesnt like all the slutty girls. he thinks im really pretty and funny, but i want him to LIKE me. i weigh 135, im 5'3, brown hair with green eyes..any thing i could do to make him like me more? i rate!!
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Ok heres a idea TALK TO HIM!!!! tell him how you feel DONT BE SHY!!! haha...believe me tho never go for the popular guy...they always suck...if you go with the friend you will be much happier later in life!
good luck!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q:
I don't normally get bags under my eyes, but today my eyes are really, really puffy. Are there any home remedies for this, besides cucumbers on the eyes? Thanks.
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It has to do with allergies and my doctor proscribed me with some awesome medicane and I never have baggy eyes anymore!!
good luck!
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: ok...well i have this kinda thing for piercings, i have my ears pierced of course, my belly button, my nose...well i took that out and i did have my eyebrow! well i really really want my tongue pierced! my mom wont let me get well 1 because im too young and also my brother had his done and it really messed up his teeth but anywayz i was just wondering if you knew how i should do it or w/e alrighty thanx!!
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Ok just for starters how old are you? if you are under 16 it might not be a great idea...your at the age of getting a job and most people find tongue piercings to be "trashy"...or whatever...
plus I know of several cases of what you never hear for example:
1. my brother broke a tooth
2. my friend broke her front tooth
3. I saw a show on tv about this gurl that did it herself and she has HALF a tongue now...gross!
and 4. they had a story in our local paper about a boy who got his tongue pierced and a couple monthes later while sleeping it came undone and he choked to death on it!!! OMG!!! right hhaa!
ok to sum up...they are kinda trashy...but hell i like em!!! ahha hope i helped!
Judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Does anyone know any sites where i can find out more about my body?
Thanks!
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You can try a number of web pages but your best bet believe me or not is the public library!!!
hope it works out...
if you have any questions feel free to email me @ judithanne89@hotmail.com
judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Hello! I was recently told by one of my teachers that we have to do community service. Since I love basketball, I decided to either create a youth basketball organization where I can teach young kids, about 5-7, basketball basics and skills (I'm almost 14 by the way.), or join a place like YMCA where I can help out the youth basketball teams? And if it helps...I live in Michigan.
-- First of all, which one do you think is a better idea?
-- If it's the first one, how would I be able to start this, and am i old enough?
-- If it's the second one, what other place would i be able to go to help youths in basketball (besides YMCA)...I already googled and I still can't find anything..
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Ok I know it seems wonderful to do and God bless you for such a bright and wonderful idea!!!
okay...
firstly your 13...that MIGHT get in the way it all depends on your size and maturity level.
2. the youth basketball organization is your best hope YMCA might but probably wont need your help only...because of your age.
3.just to let you know 5-7 is an ok age but I teach gymnastics for kids anywhere from 2 and up and 6-8 or a little older might be better believe me a large group of children is hard to keep up with!!
hope all goes well!
Judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Ron just asked me to go to the movies with him and his friend, Alex. Im bringin my friend Cayla too, so its like a double date. But Cayla doesnt like Alex and I think she's a little jealous of me and Ron. SOo0 should I say anythin to her or just wait n see if she likes Alex ?
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Tell her:
A. hey gurl listen, I know you really dont like alex and all if you dont wanna go then please tell me now cuz I dont wanna hurt his feelings...he's really a great guy...
***THEN!!!*** say...and next time we can find someone different...just try him out...
hope it helps
judith
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Q: ok well I'm in love with my best friend and tonight at the dance which finished at 12:00 well during like 9 he told me I'm gonna ask Maria out and he was so happy she said yes and like now I don't know I feel jealous because I've known him my whole life and never has he ever liked me and I'm so in love man I hate the fact he has a girlfriend I'm sad I have no clue wut to do should I tell him?...I'm a nervous chica
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Ok I went through something VERY similer!!!!
You can do either:
A. tell him to come over some time to ..*study*..
and say I have something to tell you and I hope it doesnt effect our relationship as friends, but whats going on with my heart is really messing things up for me...so i just have to tell you even though you now have a g/f and u probably dont feel the same...I really like you, and I always have...I dont want this to change our friendship...but please just think on it...
...or...
B.wait untill they brake up and then do * ^ * that...your choice girlfriend good luck!!
hope it goes good,
Judith (the lil' helper)
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Q: Ok, I'm 14 and I have this friend. She truly is a nice person, but she flirts with EVERY GUY in sight. No joke. It really gets on my nerves, and plus she has a boyfriend anyway. And it's not just normal, friendly flirting--she hangs all over them and is always hugging all over them and stuff. Her boyfriend goes to another school, which happens to be convenient for her. Anywho, it gets on my nerves soo bad. How should I tell her that its not right? Or should I just lay low and hope she stops?
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Ok I have the perfect answer for you! my best friend is alot like that, but she doesnt hang all on them or have a b/f she just flirts WITH EVERYONE!!! YIKES!!! ok this is what you do...
a. stop hanging out with her
b. Tell her nicely that you just wanna remind her she has a GREAT b/f and that she looks silly on all of the guys!! and say im really sorry but this is how i feel and if u love me and u are my friend you will respect my opionion...
alrighty hope it helps!!!
sincerly,
Judith (the lil' helper)
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Hey guys my names judith and I love giving advice and helping others! if you need some advice feel free to ask anytime! or even EMAIL ME!! @ judithanne89@hotmail.com
truly yours!
Judith (the lil' helper)
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: texas Occupation: gymnast-student-gymastics teacher Age: 16 MSN: judithanne89 Member Since: September 18, 2004 Answers: 52 Last Update: September 22, 2004 Visitors: 5227
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