Ok...some people say teens give terrible advice but I am against that. We can experience things and relate to them. That is why we are such good columnists! Tell me some of your problems and I will do my best and give you some good advice.
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What would you do if you hated life but then all of a sudden your "friends" decided to hate you. ALL OF THEM? (link)
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Well a lot of people hate life and my friends once did that too me. It was because of a rumor or something like that....I would see what made them hate you all the sudden and then go talk to the one you think WAS the nicest. If they won't talk to you consider them an ex-friend. But don't try to hard, like really nervous kind a way, because if they see that they will hate you even more...it is weird. But if they don't even try..consider they were never your friends to start with...I mean if all your friends hated you..that would be discouraging but I'm sure there was someone who was your best friend. If all does not go right...think positive and go find some new true friends...your hating friends may realize how they were wrong.....hope all goes well
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Ok Me and My boyfriend broke up yesterday due to he liked another girl! It broke my heart, I was mad, and I could have pinched his head off. But now he acts like he likes me AGAIN! Like when I was sitting at lunch today with some girls he kept looking at me for long periods of time. He does that even when I pass him in the hall. And when he sees me on the bus he will look for me and when he sees me he will smile. So Whats going on???!?!? Signed Confused! (Smarty Pants will be reported.) (link)
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I think he may have broke up w/ you to see if you liked him...its sounds weird....anyways just forget about him, if he can't make up his mind on one single thing then why is he even worth your time. If your a brave person I would tell him off but it is your choice wheither to do that. But I say if he broke your heart once..then don't let him do it again. That is my advice.
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okay i need help. there's this guy and i reallllyy like him. he's perfect, awesome personality, beautiful eyes, funny, gorgeous smile/dimples.. what more can you ask for? but anyways, we've known each other for like 1 1/2 months, and we text and call everry night. but then when we see each other at school we barely talk?! when we're on the phone we can carry on a convo. forever. do yall think he likes me? cause i wanna go out with him. but i don't know if he likes me and i don't wanna ask him b/c i'm scared to know his reaction. so what are some ways for him to liikee me? i've never really felt this wayy for a guy before. please help. i rate=) thxx! (link)
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Well if you found the perfect guy....great job..:) Now...for your problem...well I suggest you start talking at school together. That way you can get to know each other more. also it woill not hurt if you ask him..to go out w/ eachother. But your one step to far, first you have to get to know him a little more. I think from all your writing, that he may really like you as a friend. For a guy to like you i would first be yourself and carry on coversation still. Second, flirt a little, not to much though..be careful...and third.....do what you think is right. That is my advice...good luck!
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theres this one boy at my school, i can't tell if he likes me or not because hes always mean to me and says rude stuff to me and hits me and stuff i mean i guess you could say he is just playing around or whatever but is this how he flirts with me because he wont leave me alone!
helppp... (link)
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He probably likes you. Boys can do weird things just to get your attention. That boy certainly wants to get your attention. It seems he couldn't make up his mind about getting your attention so he is flirting and getting you to notice him by playing around. But if he hits you?! Well....idk..this guy must be desperate to tell you something. Trust your instincts......I think he likes you...and he is having trouble figuring out how to get you to notice him. Well aparrently he succeded. It's your call....what do you think....That is my advice. Hope all goes well :)
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I need a new aim sn. Any suggestions?
:) Thanks. (link)
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Well...it depends what kind of a personality you have. I always base mine on what I like or who i am. Be a little specific...but since you can't right now I'll tell you some at the top of my head.
Girl:
lilheartangel007
xoxoxoxoxo_name_007
parispoodle078
londonchick1256
Queen_name_476
Boy:
sportsfan890
EvilGuy2727
King_name_476
wanabepop
allaroundguy23
That's all i can think of..sorry. ask me a question on my advice column w/ more info and I can try to think of more.
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13/F! I've only had one boyfriend whom I went out with for 5 minites and he went to my school and he was like 2 years younger then me. He was my first boyfriend but I dumped him I don't know why I think it was because of the age difference and stuff. Well anyway I don't really think I'm pretty. I really like this kid Brian he's so hott and stuff; but I don't think I'm pretty enough to go out with him I'm afraid to ask him because I don't want to be rejected. I hate this I see him every day at school and we used to talk but my so called friend ruined that cause she told him I stalked him but I didn't. I'm like in love with him he's so hott but I can't ask him out there's no way I could. Like I really want to go out with him and stuff. Got Any Advice?!? (link)
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Always have self-cofidence in yourself. If you have to repeat in the mirror all the good things about yourself..do! It sounds weird..but try it. Just be yourself..talk naturally. Don't let love cloud your eyes about impressions. If you build you self-estem you will have enough confidence to tell him you want to go out with him. That is my advice.
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okay i have a problem =/ my friend who i am really close to asked me to homecoming the other day, and i said no. well all along i have really wanted to go with him but people at my school hate him because he dumped one of them like 2 years ago, and they are still upset with him. the thing is, i said no because i didnt want people to be mad at me since it is only the 2nd week of school. Did i do the right thing? He seems really upset and i really want to go so does anyone have any advice? xO (link)
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I would have said yes. There is still time! He probably feels bad and upset and now he has no date to the homecoming dance. You shouldn't care what other people think. If your friends were really good friends they would understand. Since it is only the second week of school I guess making good impressions are important. But that is no excuse because now you may become a heartbreaker. So my advice is go tell him your sorry...right in front of your friend if you have too! And if he as no one to go with ask HIM to the dance. I wish you luck :)!
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theres this boy i like... and i wanna ask him out..
i've been dropping him hints..but i dont think he gets it. i think hes afraid to express his feelings (if he does like me which i have no idea about) like one time, at a school dance (we both had no dates) and i told my friend to ask him out for me and she did and he said no..but she said she was just wondering and i didnt really know she was doing that. but that was before he started to know me. cause hes a new kid. but now we know each other a little bit better and i've been really pretty and funny (i guess thats what he looks for in a girl) and a few days ago, i told him i thought he was hott. he didnt say anything though. haha...should i ask him out? but i kinda want to wait til he knows me a lot more... cuz if he says no..i'll never have another chance..but im so confused. what do i dooo? thanks! much love!!
P.S. he rides my bus too. ♥♥♥♥ (link)
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I say wait. You barely know him well enough.It would be much better if you waited because then you can have conversation topics (LOL) and you can learn abouthim a little better. Also...let him know you a little better as well....you say he's new and let me tell you from experience...new is sometimes very...frustrating. But wait about a month or two and if you think it is all right and he is more comfortable with his new school...ask him. There is no harm..only feelings. Follow your instincts. Also since he is on your bus talk to him like a old friend would..he prbably needs a good friend or two. About expressing his feelings...your probably right..he is afraid...he doesn't know what everyone expects him to say..and he probably saw the signs a long time a go but is to "afraid" to show it. But don't worry....give him a little time and if you still like him and he likes you then all will probably work out in the end.
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Ok.My boyfriend and I go together over the summmer.When we are in skool ppl keep sayin that he is touchin other grls.I don't believe them & I believe him.I dunno if he is?(Cheatin on me)What should I do?
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What kind of people tell you these things? If it is close friends, seeing it upclose, I would believe them...it is tough but they're your friends. But if it other people you might want to check it out for yourself or see if anyone that you know well saw anything. If they didn't that trust your instincts or if your too curious,then, like I said, check it out and see if what everyone is saying is true. or if you are a brave girl ask him upfront at the perfect moment...he will show a sign if he is lying. But first I would ask your friends. And ALWAYS be confident of whatever you choose....nowadays any false move may make a rumor. good luck!
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there's this guy at school that I really like, and I think he likes me back because he always kinda flirts with me and stuff during class, but i dont know. the thing is, i know he likes this other girl because he always walks her to class, but i no for a fact ther not going out (plus, he told me). is there any way to tell if a guy likes you?
ill rate high 4 good answers (link)
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Well...guys are mysterious...you never know what they are thinking. A wild guess, maybe he likes you and is telling you he likes someone else so he wouln't lose his cover. It is far-fetched..but you know it actually might be true. The ways to tell if a guy likes you is first, he will flirt with you maybe. He always listens to you. He smiles secretly as if he knows something. Does he make an effort to talk to you etc. etc.? Does he try to be funny and make jokes (that sometimes aren't funny..LoL) or is he the kind of guy who is shy and will never look at you and blushes a lot. Depends..but if you can relate to any of these things (2 or more) then there is a chance that he may like you....(more than 2)a lot.
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Ok well I am grounded and I am not even supposed to be on the computer, but I need some help on what to do because I am BORED TO DEATH. I am supposed t obe using this time to catch up on homework, which I have done. And I have studied too. I am grounded from the radio, phone, friends, and internet. Please help! (link)
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Well you must you must be very sneaky to even to get on the computer! :)LOL Well...you can watch Tv..it gets boring after a while though. So, i suggest you make a list of all things you wanted to do that you never had time for...then cross out all the things that your banned from and try to the rest of the things on your list.
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so i have a kinda big room...and im wanting to do sumptin new wit it...so should i pick...
Beach (link)
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You are lucky to be redecorating......~~:) anyways I would w/ the modern or the beach style. For the modern you can find cool furniature at Ikea and for the beach theme you can go to Target or look at a cool magazine called PBTEEN. it is also a website: www.pbteen.com. If yuo do not have the magazine ask 1 of your friends, one of them at least would have them. Hope your room becomes a sucess!
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do you think it is possible that a fifteen or sixteen year old like a geeky thirteen year old? (link)
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Sure it is possible...love comes in many sizes,you just happened to pick an older/younger size. If you want to know if the person likes you follow the signs....
Hope your question is answered!
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I am a sophmore and it is so hard for me to try to concentrate when I am trying to study. I don't play music or look at tv. I just can't get into it. If I do read it, I don't remember it. Can someone please help me? Maybe I have a learing disorder at home. I don't know what to do, can you help asap? (link)
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do all your studying right after you come home..that way you are more awake..then if you need to take breaks in between. When you come back from a break review what you just read..it will help.You probably do not have a learning disorder...it is just hard to concentrate.
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I am so confused right now. My science grade keeps slipping lower and lower. I am trying to pick it up, but it just isnt working. I am doing the extra credit, doing the labs as well as I can, but it isnt the material I dont understand, it is the work I am turning in late! Oh I just dont know what to do...there isnt any more extra credit! HELP!
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You should stop and think why this is happening..i know it sounds dumb...but it may work....is there something going on between family and friends? Ok, if not then talk to your teacher, he/she will probably understand you and try to help make your grades higher and help you learn the material. they want to help you..believe me it is weird, but they do. Always be on task w/ your work it can affect your future....if you have 2 many after-school activites...cut short some and always study the hardest parts first earlier in the day. you will be more awake then l8er at night.
Biggest advice: NEVER STRESS OUT! It only makes you more worried etc.
Hope all works out!
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ok i have this really weid bump on my face. It is on my forehead right near my eyebrow. It is really big and red and hurts realy bad...its also really hard. My mom siad its just an ingrown pimple but it is really big...what could it be?? (link)
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It depends where you live.....I got something like that and it was a spider or mesquito bite. It goes away after a week or two. If I'm wrong and the thing keeps hurting you....you may want to ask a doctor or something..it could be an infection.....Good luck :)
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ok i have this really weid bump on my face. It is on my forehead right near my eyebrow. It is really big and red and hurts realy bad...its also really hard. My mom siad its just an ingrown pimple but it is really big...what could it be?? (link)
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You know how there are websites where you can adopt virtual pets and care for them? Does anyone know of any websites where you can do that with real babies? not pets? (link)
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I know the most popular site: www.neopets.com
or if you want to adopt a dog there is this site called virtualdog.com (its ok) hope you look at these!
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okay..i asked a question a few days ago listing everything that makes me think that the kid i like likes me back..everyone who answered said that it was obvious. now..my best friend is supposed to ask him who he likes..he keeps forgetting..but he will..eventually. i want to hang out with my crush a couple times before i tell him..but my weekends have been booked. so my question is..should i
1. wait to tell him after i hang out with him eventually?
2. wait to tell him after i find out if he likes me or not?
3. both 1 and 2?
4. just go for it.
also, finding the right opportunity is also a problem. when i do tell him..how should i go about it? (link)
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Stay positive......if you think he likes you then your probably right. it is your decision...what makes you feel most comfortable? Waiting for your friend may take time...so I would say just go for it....it will not hurt to ask.
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OKay i'm trying to make a new screename.. but i don't know what to do.. i can't think of a good screename.. so i need some help..here's a lil about me!!!
I'm 15 years old..girl..name is jenny..love One tree hill, and chad michael murray..im in love with this guy matt.. were not dating though.. umm i like to sing, dance, write.. and yea.. i live in chicago.. chi-town as we call it..
i would really appreciate some good screenames!! (link)
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well......try things that r related too you, like
jennygal15
1treehilljen
chicagobabe150
thoose r some ideas
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