hey im 14/f and live in missou my friends all ask me for advice and most of the time it really does help them so i think if you ask me questions i can really help you too and im not one of those mean ppl that anwsers qestions im nice because i rock and i said so lol jk but i have red/ ornge hair w/e u want to say and i have blue eyes and im 5'5" i hope i help and ask me ne thing because i dont care what it is because im sure i can find somthing to tell u again because i rock lol
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Okay this boy in my year iv'e known him since first school and we've always been good friends. Im 13 by the way.I've been out with him a couple of times but nothing serious just a laugh really. I've always had something for him and a couple of weeks ago he asked me out I said no because i didn't think it was right.Then he asked again and i still felt the same. But now i REALLY REALLY like him.He blanked me today and I feel as though i have no more chances?He's not the same with me and he hardly talks to me. Am i right or can someone out there help?? Thanks xxx (link)
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hey dont wrry you can alwasy say i was wrong and im srry will you go out with me im sure he wil understand and if he says no then well it isnt worth it go out and find some one new i hoped i helped please rate
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I enjoy watching tv series on DVD. Ones I have enjoyed are "Soprano's", "Sex & the City", "Star Trek TNG", & "Dawson's Creek". Can anyone recommend a new series for me to watch with a continuing story line; not a comedy like "Sienfeld." (link)
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i know alot of people who watch the oc but i watch one tree hill more i thing its awsome it comes on at 8 pm central and 9.pm eastern but oi hope i helped please rate
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hey. yeah, i'm an insomniac. as long as i can remember i haven't ever been able to fall asleep is less that like 3 hours. so i basically go to bed at 3 and wake up at 6.30 (school days). i don't take medicine for it but i need to! i want to sleep and my mom has sonata (i guess she also has insomnia) and i want to take one. she'd never notice and i dont think she'd really care. should i take one? i mean what bad will it do? also, does anyone else take sleeping pills or have insomnia? thanx (link)
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dont take anything untill you get checked by your doctor taking medicine that is not prescibed for you is bad it may have certian side effects but i hope you ill be ok i hope helped please rate
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O.K. This is sad and I have no idea what to do. My best friend, Haley, wants to kill herself. She's never met her dad and her 200 pound 7 year old brother gets all the attention and her mom's a total slut. She gets books about death and she's writing letters to the devil and God. I don't know what to do about her. She's threatened me that she will kill herself and it scares me that she will. I don't know what to say or think about this. We met last year but got really close. She's two years older than me and I could really use advice on what to tell her. I need help, or my friend does. Please don't be sarcastic about this because I'm scared and you will only make it worse by replying rusely. Anyone who answers nicely, I'll love you forever.
~~~Kayla~~~ (link)
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hi sometimes you cant rely on people from the internet to give you advice but i recomend seeing a profesinal like a councler or a local help line service but you need to sho your friend all the good things she will be leaving behind and that alot of people will miss her and that shes making a horrible mistake i hope i helped you and your friend please rate
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mmk sorry i didn't knoe wut ta put this under but me and my mom are planning to go on a vacation like spring break or like soon but money is a big issue when it comes to vacations with my family so has n e one been n e where that was really nice with a beach and alot of hot guys! that would have something fun for me to do then sumthing fun for my mom to do aswell thats not THAT expensive?!? (link)
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hey have your famlie take a road trip to flordia that way you dont have to pay for the tickets for the airplane it might take 2 or 3 days but its great when you get there lots of hott guys and great beaches and your parents can go out to an amusment park if you have younger sibs and you can go SHOPPING and did i mention HOTT GUYS hope i helped please rate
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If you get your nose pierced, and you decide later in life you don't want it, will it eventually grow over and not make a scar, or will it scar you for life. Thanks! (link)
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hey no worries you dont get a scare the it makes new skin over where it was peirced i hope i helped please rate
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I really like this guy that i have known sence i wuz 3 i havn't seen him in like 5 yrs. now we go to the same school. i see him every once in a while but never get the chance to talk. What should i do? tlk to him? or what just tell me wut i should do or how i should feel
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all you have to do is talk to him just start up a convo im sure you guys will find somthing to talk about i hope i helped please rate
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my friends and i might be going to the movies and i want to sit next to my crush but i'm scared what should i do? how should i plan this? (link)
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hey dont plan it just go with the flow everything will work out perfectly just sit next to him and plus its a movie so you cant talk to him anyway which means uyou probably have no way to screw it up hope i helped please rate
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Ok, I recently dumped my ex and he still really really really likes me. He said if I'm not too buzy we can go out another time... and everything is perfect now and I still have feelings for him. Well, one of my BFs likes him now and wants to go out with him. I don't want her to! I mean he is still mine! It's like we like eachother but we ain't going oout! Can I tell my friend sompin so she won't like him? Even if my ex did ask her out and she said yes, she wouldn't go out with him... she seems so young. PLease help! (link)
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hey hun hate to break it to you but i dont think you should go out with him or at least untill your friend is over him a guy isnt worth breaking up a great friendship hope i helped please rate
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ok well this is kind of embarassing(sp)but i have sweaty arm pits..even when im cold..i no i should see a doctor so i can get some med. but i dont want to tell my mom cause its embarassing(sp)should i tell her?im going on vacation in feb. and i dont want that problem to effect my good time because its going to be hot there..and in school people always ask why im always wearing a hoddie..and i dont want to tell them..but i want to tell my mom so it will stop but like i said it embarassing(sp)...please dont respond if your going to make fun of me
hope you can help! (link)
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hey tell your mom about it it may be embarising but its less embarising then haveing some one tell you u stink you can always use a special deoderant that makes sure you dont sweat as much but if that doesnt help then tell your mom and ask if you can see your doctor hoped i helped please rate
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hi its been 2 months since my dad left for monterrey to learn french an he will be gone six months. Anyway im stuck at home with my sisters and my mom who are driving me crazy and it seems like the only way i can get away is by smoking and ive got asthma and one kidney. i just need advice on soning out because if i keep up the way ive been smoking ill be dead before im thirty. Any good advice would be nice and i will rate high. (link)
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DONT SMOKE it isnt worth it you will hurt your self what always helps me is playing music really loud then screaming in your pillow it relieves alot of stess and if that doesnt work have a girls night out where you just talk about everything friends are always there for you so talk to them hope i helped please rate
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theres a guyat school name mitch. A lot of people hate him. But when you get to know him he is really nice. He asked me out. what should i say? I need help!!!!!!! (link)
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it doesnt matter what other people think about him you know the real him if you like him then you should go out with him and if you dont tell him no but u still wanna be friends hope i helped please rate
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okay theres this reallllly hott guy that i ride with to school EVERYDAY!!! hes gonna be 19 in April and im gonna 16 in September! yesterday we kept talking the whole way to school. today too. well i used to like him earlier in the year.. and now i fell back in love with him. he said he likes me but right now im a lil too young. but all day i had a great feeling something good was gonna happen! but nothing yet. and we kept telling eachother things that we did with other guys (me) and girls (him). he did a few things but i didnt do anything. he asked me y and i told him i wasnt ready. But then i was talkin to my oler sister last night.. and she told me that i should tell him i want to have sex with him. idk if i should or not. I mean.. he said he wants a girl who would "put out" a little every now and then. I would.
I no we're gonna be spending a lot of time together because today and yesterday he asked me since i like working on cars and shit like that if id like to help him build his racer.. that way we can bond and "get to no eachother" more. i told him i would. Like we seriously talk all the time. Plus hes my neighbor. -n- he comes over all the time. Also he said he wants a girl like me who knows mostly everything about him. Plus like i said before. One that puts out a little! He knows i would. I like him ALOT!!!! id do anything for him. But should i talk to him about it? and like the way he feels. and tell him the way i feel about him?
please help me...!!!!
Signed:
Happy yet confused!!! (link)
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listen he likes you you like him tell him how you feel it works and then if he doesnt act starnge or anything then ask him out it helps if you talk about it with him i hope i helped please rate
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well im going out with this guy my 2 friends dont like....but i really like him and they want me 2 dump him but i really dont want to....but i dont wanna lose muh friends but i dont wanna lose muh boy....what should i do (link)
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hey hun its a hard time but u really need to get your priorities striaight u like this boy so keep going out with him and if your friends dump you then they arent very good friends so go out and get some new friends that wont treat you like that i hope i helped please rate
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Hi, I was just browsing the net when I came across this! So heres the
thing, I'm sure it's over told, I really like this guy at my school. I
find that he's hard to read though, like somedays he'll act like he's
really into me, and likes me, but others he doesn't say a word and acts
uninterested. So, here's what makes me think he is; He teases me in a
flirty way sometimes, and seems to like it when I laugh. He remembers
stuff that we've talked about before, even if I said it like in front
of the class, or mumbled it under my breath. This one time in class, he
was talking and when he said the word "amazing" he was definitly
looking at me. Sometimes he'll smile at me in the halls. When I needed help
with the copier he helped me, and seemed sort of nervous, more so
because it was just us, rather than around all of his freinds and class
mates. I also think he might have been staring at me a couple of times,
it's yet to be proven. But, we really have no connection outside of
school. Somedays, it's like he hasn't noticed me in the room, or
sneaking looks at him, I want him to see me! I've been flirting as
discretly yet noticably as humanly possible! I think he's noticed, but I
think maybe were both being to shy. I would ask him out, but I really
don't want to be rejected from him. I really like him so much. I don't
know too much about him either, I know that he hunts, likes fish (as in
pets), plays football, and loves poker and card games. He knows that
I'm in Tae Kwon Do, and am a vegetarian, and also that I've volunteered,
he even said I was special when I said I volunteered without a
sarcastic tone. I think he likes me too, but he's making it hard, or maybe I'm
not reading him right, either way, please help!
Hoplessly in Love (link)
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hey i think you should just go out with him i think he really does like you so just go for it i hope i helped plese rate
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i just got out of this relationship with a guy i dated for a really long time. he broke up with me because we get into little fights. we both still love eachother, but he's afraid to hurt me because of little things. he thinks i'm hurt bc i cry, but i cry bc i don't want to break up. i really want him back, and he says he still loves me. what can i do to convince him that we should be together? i've tried to get over him, i play volleyball n i let my anger out on that, n i write poems n hang out w/ friends, but nothing works! please help me! i donno what to do! =( (link)
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hey i know how you feel i think you should just go for it just dont force him into it but just tell him that u promise him that you wont get hurt or at least try not too because you love him too and you want to be with him and if he really loves you he will want too be with you too i hope i helped please rate
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hey..ok so here's the problem..i've liked this guy Chris for like Ever. he was going out w/ my friend for about two months and i had liked him the whole time. they broke up awhile ago, and i just found out he likes me. and one of my friends was talking to him and he said he'd ask me out. and i dont know if i wanna go out w/ him..i mean i've liked him for so long and i still Really like him..but we have this Fun Flirty friendship that i deff. don't wanna lose. and i'm scared that if we go out, and break up that we'll be all akward and not even talk to eachother..but i've liked him for so long and i dont think i could turn him down! ahhhh Help pleaseee! I Rate!! xOxO (link)
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you should defenatly go out with him if you really like him thje you should go for it i hope i helped please rate
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I don't like my ex, Jason, anymore. He still likes me a lot. I like his step brother, Steven. On Saturday I was at the mall with my friends. We were sitting down in a restaurant and Jason and Steven see us and come sit by us. Jason barely said a word to me. Steven talked to me a lot. He kept staring at me like the whole time. I was like "stop staring at me!" and he just smiled and kept staring. I put my shopping bags in front of my face and then he whispered to my ex "she's hot". Then he added his cell number to my address book in my cell phone without me saying I wanted his number. Then Jason wanted to leave and Steven didn't want to. 10 minutes later, they left & my friends & I kept shopping. Steven saw me, say hi and yelled my name and waved really big and Jason didn't even say hi, but supposably he stilll likes me, he says. Then sunday night Jason called me. we talked for a min and then he's like "steven wants to say something to you" and then he said i was beautiful and he missed my laugh. later on he asked me out. i told him i didn't believe him, because i didn't. he said he'd ask me out next time he sees me since i didn't believe him. i never really see him since he goes to another school. i don't know if he was kidding about asking me out. he said he was serious. we talked til 1 am. then last night my ex, Jason was talking to my friend and he said "i think she likes steven. they were talking for ever last night and i asked her if she liked him & shes like i dunno but i think she does which then im going to get really pissed if she does because a lot of my ex girlfriends like him and i like her a lot." Soo, yeah... I wanna go out w/ steven but it'd hurt jason and yeah. i'd just feel i wasn't good enough or slutty enough for steven since he's 2 grades a head of me. but i can't go out with him because of my ex. people said it'd be cruel to do, so its like my decions have to be alright by him so he doesn't get hurt. but what about me? i really don't want to hurt him. but i dunno if steven likes me? does it seem like it? (link)
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hey you should just tell ur ex you dont like him and you should go out with his step brother if you like him cuz i think he wasnt joking and he really likes you so go out there and tell your ex that you just wanna be friend but you wanna go out with his step brother hope i helped please rate
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I need help i have these very nice pink pants that i want to wear tomorrow to school...i'm going to match them with my white/pink phat farms i have...but the thing is that i dont know what color shirt to wear can you please help? would white be a good color? and if so would a gray/pink jacket go with it? thanks!!! respone ASAP! thanks agaiN! (link)
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wear a white top and that grey jacket would defenetly work i hope i helped have fun please rate
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I love gymnastics, but I went to this one gym and I had no friends there. Yes, i am pathetic like that. So I switched gyms and it seems like they don't really like me there either so I don't really have any friends there. And it's a pretty lonely 3 hours each night when no one really likes you or talks to you. i love competing but i just have no friends there are theres no other gyms around. the only reason i don't want to quit is because i love tumbling and i'll get fat and won't be known as the strongest girl in my school anymore. but i love gymnastics i just dont have friends and i hate wearing a leotard. should i quit? i only went to 2 practices at this new gym, but i don't really like it. i'm gonna look like an idiot quitting after this soon, but i don't want my parents to buy all the new team leo's, warm ups, and evrything (link)
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listen hun if you still love it then keep doing it because you know you are going to regret it if you do quit and dont care if the others dont like you just try your hardest and they will eventually like you because you seem like a really nice person and if you quit who said you were going to turn fat the only way you can turn fat is if you dont eat right and dont exercize
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