My dad is making my life a living hell...hes drinking and smoking weed agian and hes a mean drunk...i used to be able to talk to him but now im scared of him...he has drovin me and my sister to cutting...i want to stop but cant becuz id rather die then live in this hell whole...plz help!
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babe, thats terrible, i know how you feel, my dad isnt a drunk and doesnt smoke weed but he smokes ciggs and drinks beer after beer and sometimes scotch and sometimes he gets drunk when hes madd! BUt just please dont cut, i mean i know how it is, i uused to and still cut, like im trying not to at all, but its hard, i do it when things get sooo shitty that i cant handle it! BUT STAY STRONG! TELL YOUR DAD TO GET INTO AN AA MEETING! TELL YOUR MOM ABOUT IT AND OR SOMEBODY IN SCHOOL, TELL SOMEONE! IM HERE!
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I know Valentine's day isn't for a while, but I like to start stuff early so I'm ready. Well I wanted some ideas for what to get or do for my boyfriend of over more than a year! any suggestions? thanks
>>.*. So Inlove .*.
you can do something wicked romantic&sweet. Give him a card, reminding him how much you love him and how you dont wanna loose him, uhm you can give him an intimate "dirty thing" (handjob,head,anything?) you can jsut do anything, wicked sweet somethings, just being with him is probably all he wants
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i have a b/f and im fourteen. im so ready to have sex but my parents dont think so. im thinking i shoudl do it behind their back but idk signed- im so cunfuzzled
dont do it now! wait till your older babe! ITS SUPPOSED TO BE MAGICAL! But if you do decide to do it, just be safe and tell you b/f to use a fucken condom! iight love ya
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wow this is incredibly embrassing but... ok so i started shaving my armpits like normally people do years ago but for the past maybe... year? when ever i shave i still have this little bit of hair left! so i had a venus and figured the blade was just dull so my mom got me an offbrand bag of razors but that didnt help either! ive never told anyone though.. but does anyone have any idea how to get rid of this? thanks!
uhm, that happens to me sometimes, but its normal, i mean you cant get everything! Its hard to be girls..really it is! But just like use shaving cream and get all over..i go all the way up to my elbow and down to get all the hair off and it works! haha try it!
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does anyone know how do put icons and things like that one our adive column? thanks a bunch
yeah i do, you sign in then you go to profile settings and you go down and it says upload a picture of you, if you have a pic saved on your computer then you click browse and you pick a picture then you go to submit at the way bottom and then you have a picture, but sometimes it says it wasnt uploaded cus it was too big, when it says that you go back and upload a diff. pick!
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okay, so my "best friend" got a boyfriend and decided she didnt wanna hang out with me anymore! and so i got new friends and she trys making me feel like shit about it, but she never asks me to hang out, never talks to me, she doesnt even care that we arent even close anymore. all she cares about is her boyfriend. and she always says how she hates everyone and shit and so then i'll say something, yet she just says oh well we never hang out! and i mean she wasnt just my best friend, she was like my sister. we spent every weekend together, & went through everything at the same time. but now its all about her boyfriend, she treats me like shit and always makes me feel like im a bad person for getting new friends?! but i dont get it, does she want me to just have no friends at all. i dont know i just think its messed up, and i want her as my best friend still, but she's so caught up on her boyfriend. and its not that i dont want them together, because i do .. but you FRIENDS COME FIRST!! but she doesnt understand that. i dunno what to do?!
hey babe, well its always hard loosing your best friend to some ridiculous boy. and your totally right, friends should come first whether or not you have a boyfriend or not. Best friends were always close until boys came into the picture! i have 2 friends that are like 2 of my best friends and they are in a fight&they are like sisters. And i am trying so hard to get them back together cause they chill every weekend just like you and your best friend used to. Its wicked hard trying to balance your boyfriend&your best friend. But babe, you have to talk to this friend, tell her how you feel but dont make it a screaming matter, screaming doesnt help babe, sit this friend down or call her on the phone, without screaming..talk to her and how uu feel about how she keeps you out of the picture when shes with her boyfriend, tell her how you think friends should come 1st. Maybe she will understand, i hope she does. As for her being, i dont know, jealous?, for you having other friends beside her, thats her fucken problem, you can have more than 1 best friend, so just tlk to her! PLEASE! I hope things work out
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i made out with my bf the other day and he has been telling everyone about it ever since, but i only hear that from my friends. he has talked about it to my friends and stuff like that. i dont really like it, should i talk to him about it? i'm not sure what to do, i mean it is true... its not like a false rumour he is passing around or anything. i like him, he's sweet, but i feel like i cant make out with him anymore or else he's guna tell every one about it... also, for the boys out there, why do you think he talked about it so much? thanks
he talked about it so much because he felt accomplished. he was happy that he had done it with you. he might have also done it because if you're young, he might have just wanted to brag to his and your friends. just be honest with him and ask him why he told people that. what happens between you two should be kept confidential. if you mean anything to him he will respect your confontation and not tell people the next time that it happens!
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Hey everyone! My favorite band of all time is The Killers! They are the best band ever! Anyway, I really want a poster of them to print off of the computer, does anyone know a good website with tons of pictures of them? That would really help! Thanks sooooo much! Love, Dania
Just go to www.google.com and click on images and type in THE KILLERS..and then they will show pictures
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ok i go to camp every summer and i love my camp soooo much... everyone in my cabin goes back each summer at the same time, and theres this girl that does the same... her name is nicole... well i hate nicole and so does everyone else in my cabin... and we dont just hate her for no reason (well parents send us packages with food n stuff n then we share them with the cabin, when she was not in the cabin me n my friend discovered that she had like 2 grocery bags FULL of food that she did not share with us) we are all mean to her because we hate but she does not take a hint... i asked her if she was going back to camp next summer and she said yes and nobody wants her to... anyone have any ideas on how to get her to not go back??? ( i have no idea why she wants to go back there are 42 girls at my camp and 41 on them hate her -->the other 2 include her and this other weird girl that no one likes) please help me... we dont want to deal with this crazy-food-hogging-mean person
just tell the person straight up otherwise just let the girl go. just because they don't like her doesn't mean that she has the right to be mean to her and now allow her to go to summer camp you doesn't own the place
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the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?
french kissing is makeing out, no matter how long it is, making out and french kissing are the same thing!!
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my best frien dylan and I have no been the same since me and my exbf broke up. It seems as if he and I have completly drifted apart. I love him so much more then a friend, but he told me that he doesnt feel any love from me and he feels like I have abandoned him and I haven't. We got in a fight last nite and I hung up on him thenhe called me back and he hung up me, but theres much more to the story then that but its too long. I am going to call him until he picks up his cell phone bc i need to talk to him. We used to be like really close friends almost boyfriend and gurlfriend we just didnt have that lable. I miss the way we used to be. I dont want him to feel abandoned or like I dont love him bc I love him with all my heart. He is messing up his life bc he smokes pot and I kno that he is really depressed. What should I do? I will do anything to make him happy bc even though he and I are not dating he is my babii and I love him.
If he isn't answering his cell phone and isn't talking to you, I would just go to his house and talk to him in person. That way, he has no choice but to talk to you. Tell him how you feel and be completely honest with him.
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im dating this guy...it seems like we are not goin out...i mean he is my ex-boyfriends best friend i think that he has be talking to him and they have been talkin about me saying all this shit about me and making my boyfriend not wanna go out with me why???
You should talk to your boyfriend. Ask him if this is really happening. All relationships are based on honesty and trust. Just talk to him and go from there.
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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.
I apologize for the length.
babe, i know what your going through. My friend was raped, now she wasnt my best friend and she didnt die, but its such a scarry subject to even think about! Im soo sorry for your loss and i would do anything to get you out of that slump your in! I know its wicked hard to deal with all this, but you have to stay strong! Dont do anything to yourself cause it wont help anything! Extasy is wicked bad, i know, cause my friends do it and i see the way they are and it kills me but i also thought i was gonna do it cause idk why. But i guess this teaches you a lesson on how to be careful at parties, like if you buy a bottle of water or something and you drink some and then you go on the dance floor and then come back, BUY A NEW ONE! cause you dont know if someone put something in it or not. Im sorry for your loss though. My uncle killed himself because of drugs and that was totally not called for. BUT PLEASE DO NOT DO ANYTHING TO YOURSELF AND KEEP SAFE!! I AMMMMM SOOOOO SORRY AND IF YOU NEEDA TLK IM ME HIXIMCHRISTINE!!!
I am really sorry about your friend. That should never happen to anyone. I think you should look into the past and think about the memories you made with your friend. It will hurt you and it will probably make you cry but it is good for you. You will see how happy you were when you were with her and you will probably think to yourself, "I'll never be happy anymore." But I have news for you, you will. You think she is gone but she isn't. This may sound kind of stupid, but she is probably watching over you. She isn't gone out of your life. She is still in your heart and forever will be. Take the time to think about how any fights you may have had have made your friendship stronger. Don't worry about being alone and not having any friends because I am sure you will find a new friend. However, no one could ever take her place as your best friend. You should go to her funeral as a thank you; thanking her for always being there for you, thanking her for always making you happy, thanking her for seeing the best of you, etc. She isn't gone, she is always with you. I'm sorry again and I know you will be ok. Feel better.
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Now I know most people say "Oh I hate school!", but really, I do. I get made fun of so much but I try to brush it off because I don't want to seem like a weak person. One girl and a few of her friends call me a dike whenever they see me. I don't know why, I'm not; I don't know what gave them that idea. One kid calls me fat and makes fun of the clothes I wear. For one, I'm not fat... I'm not the skinnest person ever, but I sure as hell am not fat. Then theres this other guy, who also makes fun of the clothes I wear. For instance today I had a Sid Vicious shirt on and he harrassed me the whole way home about it. "Oh my god he killed his girlfriend" "Sid Vicious is so gay" "I hate the sex pistols" "You're a loser if you listen to them" I really have had it and I'm really sick of school, I just can't put up with it anymore and have no idea of what to do. I want to drop out so bad, I just can't put up with people and there stupid jokes. Anybody know what I can do about this. I really don't want to talk to anybody about it but I just don't know what else I can do. -kate
babe, i can totally relate cause ive been made fun of for 7 yrs, going on 8 now& i know its fucken hard as hell to keep your head up when you know you dont have anything to look forward to when you go to school, trust me, im the same way! I hate school too! But try just ignoring these people, i know it gets tired after awhile but you just gotta stay strong! If i wwas there, and you told me what was goin on..i would totally fucken stick up for you and kick those kids ass's cause noone and i mean NOONE has the right to put down people when people probably put down them! Remember, kids only make fun of other kids cause they are insecure about themselves and they wanna seem coool. which it isnt cool to say shit about people. I mean i hate it! And when things like this happen..just tlk to your guidance counselor or simpley handle it yourself by saying "Look, im not a dike and its not up to you what the fuck i wear to school, you might not like it but i sure as hell do! So back off or ima get you in trouble and you wont fucken like it!" Just say something like that and maybe they will back off but if you wanna tlk more about this situation sometime just IM me on my sn: Hiximchristine ! ;) love ya babe! STAY STRONG!
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okay so she says she likes this guy, we'll call him Dave. but she knows his older brother (Clark) much better, and he is a HUGE flirt. She says that she doesnt like him, but every time she sees him she can't say no to him (even though he has a girlfriend), and so last night she was fooling around with Clark and she doesn't know what to do and I don't know what to tell her, she thinks she's screwed up her chances with Dave and I was wondering if there was any advice you could give me about what she could do about Clark and Dave.... so I could tell her, cause I don't know how to help. TY so much and I'm sry if this is long
well first of all, she shouldnt be fooling around with a guy that has already got a boyfriend! thats just not right. I mean its okay that she talks to clark but she shouldnt have a boyfriend, girlfriend relationship! iF i was her, i would stick to dave, i mean hes the one she liked in the first placE!
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Im not so sure what topic this would be placed under but...
i recived a phone call 2 nights ago on my cell phone and this guy keeps calling hes tried to have phone sex over the phone with me but i refused and i dont no who he is but he says he nos everything about me he has told me my address and street city state number of siblings and so on.. and he called me again yesterday telling me if im shy again that he is going to f*** the hell out of me till i am dead and i dont no what to do he told me i better not tell anyone because he said he would make my death more pain full... could this be a prank? or serious... im confused and dont no what to do PLEASE HELP ME ASAP
i rate 5 plz help me
uhm, i dont know what to say, besides i think its just a prank, maybe a friend or a boy that is just trying to play with your head, you shouldnt worry too much. But if this goes on for a longer time then you should do something about it, tell your parents or change your cell phone number! JUST PLEASE BE SAFE BABE,DONT WANT ANYTHING TO HAPPEN TO YOU!
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okay i dont know if this goes under illnesses, but i couldnt find anything else.. Alright I have a metal allergy, and so I'm allergic to the metal in my belts and I get like a rash, but I can't not wear belts b/c i have to keep my pants up, lol (i'm in between sizes, so the 7's are too tight and the 9's are too big) and I don't know is there anything I could use so my belts like, wouldn't touch my skin or something.. and don't say just stop wearing them, cause I'm trying but theres still that rash.. :-/ ty if you can help me
uhm idk what to say, but my thought would be to wear underwear that like your belt goes over so it wont touch your skin. I mean like, Put on a pair of undies, that go up to your waist..not litterally up to your waist but you know what i mean, then put the belt on and see if it touches your skin, if it doesnt then your in luck and if it does then i dont know what to tell ya..tlk to your doctor or something..sorry
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ok lets see.. i have a boyfriend.. and its a long distance relationship.. and we've been making it work.. becuase he comes up everyweekend.. but its still hard not being able to see him. becuase im one to get really attached.. but anywho.. we got a huge fight new years eve.. and things just havent been right ever since.. and me and his best friend have been talking like all day for the past couple days.. and i really want to dump my boyfriend but im scared too.. idk how he'll react.. and im scared ill miss him and not get him back.. and his friend and me were talken.. and we kinda like each other and have for a lil while now. but havent really ever talked about it with one another. but anywho. he told me to stay with my boyfriend so he can come and see me. and for me to stay with my boyfriend till at least he gets his licence. and i just dont know what to do. how do i tell if he really likes me? and hes not just playing games with my head?
If you want to get this person to like you&your sure he does, keep talking to him. I mean it sounds pretty harsh what your doing to your boyfriend but i think your boyfriend will understand, cause doesnt he just want you to be happy? Has he ever said to you "well i just want you to be happy, thats all that matters", if he has, then you know he will understand even though it might hurt him. Keep talking to this friend and see where things go..dont just use your boyfriend till he gets his license, thats not right, try being honest and do what you think is right! Hope i helped
p.s you can iM me and tlk to me about this if you want ..on HIXIMCHRISTINE !
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okay..well there is this boy i like...his name is mike..an well i was talking to him online not to long ago...an we pretty much just met. he probly only saw me like 2 times..an well i told him i like him just last week an we were talkin online the other day an he said he liked me too...an yeah but he wants us to meet up somewhere...an im okay with that its just that....what should i do...i mean he only saw me about 2 times this year an we onyl talk alot online...so yeah..what should i say to him....?? HELP ME PLEASE...i rate VERY good
in these sorts of problems with boys, its mostly better to just be yourself. Talk to him how you tlk to him online, like talk about how life is treaten ya, and just little things. And maybe you guys could even makeout and the 1st time you do..you probably wont even be tlken cause you'll be too busy frenchin ;D! haha just be yourself and have confidence, and have fun!
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ok...for the last day of school, before break, i wore white pants...because they were white, i work a thong...im not a slut, so i dont let it hang out, and i usually wear a belt with my pants, but these were nice pants that i didnt need a belt for...well during lunch, i was walking up to my friend and my guy friend wanted to hug me from behind, but ended up steping on my pants adn everyone saw i was wearing a thong. he didnt pants me, but some people saw the string...i know its not bad to wear thongs, but that was a pretty embarassing situation, and i didnt want everyone knowing. tommorow i go back to school, and i dont want everyone laughing at me...what do i do?
Well in this type of situation, its always best to make the best of it! If you go into school and people laugh..its okay, just be like yeah i wore a thong and yeah people saw it a bit but its no biggy cause thongs are cool and if your laughen then go ahead cause i dont care at all! But thanks for making me the center of your day! haha it will totally work babe
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