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my friend needs advice on this "relationship" thing
okay so she says she likes this guy, we'll call him Dave. but she knows his older brother (Clark) much better, and he is a HUGE flirt. She says that she doesnt like him, but every time she sees him she can't say no to him (even though he has a girlfriend), and so last night she was fooling around with Clark and she doesn't know what to do and I don't know what to tell her, she thinks she's screwed up her chances with Dave and I was wondering if there was any advice you could give me about what she could do about Clark and Dave.... so I could tell her, cause I don't know how to help. TY so much and I'm sry if this is long
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well.. since clark is obviously cheating.. she should just forget about him.. coz if he is going to leave his girlfriend for her.. then hell probably leave her for another girl.. so he aint worth it.. as for dave, if dave has seen her and clark together.. then she probably has ruined her chances.. but she should just come out and ask.. there is no better wa y of knowing!
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You really have to get it in her head to say NO. It seems like your friend is a peoplepleaser, but im not putting her down or anything. I guess if I put myself in her shoes, then I would be able to understand the situation of being alone, with a boy that she probably does trust very much. Just make sure that she doesnt fool around with him anymore..because that wouldnt be any better :D
As long as Mr. Dave doesnt find out right now about what she has done with Clark, then just let her get to know, and become closer to Dave. But eventually if her and Dave start dating, it would be good for her to come clean.. but at a point where she can comfertably come out.
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Well, I would tell her to definitely not date Clark, because he does already have a gf, and that's just not right. Tell her to go for Dave. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin
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O.K, if she likes Dave but not QUITE going out with him, then there's nothing wrong but the fact that he already has a girlfriend just messes it up. Not for her but for him. Make sure she doesn't tell Dave that she fools around with Clark because that could mess up his relationship with her or with Clark. If he has one with Clark because after all, they're brothers. Anyway, if she likes Dave but Daves brother, Clark likes her, than I can't tell you anything except to tell her that if she doesn't like him, but he likes her but she fools around with him (which doesn't make any sense but...) than she needs to go for Clark. Because, after all, she fools around with him and you shouldn't fool around with anyone that you don't like!If she doesn't want to be with him, go 4 Dave! Best of luck 2 her!
~~~Kayla~~~
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well first of all, she shouldnt be fooling around with a guy that has already got a boyfriend! thats just not right. I mean its okay that she talks to clark but she shouldnt have a boyfriend, girlfriend relationship! iF i was her, i would stick to dave, i mean hes the one she liked in the first placE!
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