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okay, so my "best friend" got a boyfriend and decided she didnt wanna hang out with me anymore! and so i got new friends and she trys making me feel like shit about it, but she never asks me to hang out, never talks to me, she doesnt even care that we arent even close anymore. all she cares about is her boyfriend. and she always says how she hates everyone and shit and so then i'll say something, yet she just says oh well we never hang out! and i mean she wasnt just my best friend, she was like my sister. we spent every weekend together, & went through everything at the same time. but now its all about her boyfriend, she treats me like shit and always makes me feel like im a bad person for getting new friends?! but i dont get it, does she want me to just have no friends at all. i dont know i just think its messed up, and i want her as my best friend still, but she's so caught up on her boyfriend. and its not that i dont want them together, because i do .. but you FRIENDS COME FIRST!! but she doesnt understand that. i dunno what to do?!
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hey babe, well its always hard loosing your best friend to some ridiculous boy. and your totally right, friends should come first whether or not you have a boyfriend or not. Best friends were always close until boys came into the picture! i have 2 friends that are like 2 of my best friends and they are in a fight&they are like sisters. And i am trying so hard to get them back together cause they chill every weekend just like you and your best friend used to. Its wicked hard trying to balance your boyfriend&your best friend. But babe, you have to talk to this friend, tell her how you feel but dont make it a screaming matter, screaming doesnt help babe, sit this friend down or call her on the phone, without screaming..talk to her and how uu feel about how she keeps you out of the picture when shes with her boyfriend, tell her how you think friends should come 1st. Maybe she will understand, i hope she does. As for her being, i dont know, jealous?, for you having other friends beside her, thats her fucken problem, you can have more than 1 best friend, so just tlk to her! PLEASE! I hope things work out<33 IM me if uu wanna tlk more HIXIMCHRISTINE!
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