You need advice???ASK ME!!!!I am Emily and i love helping others...I want to see happy people around me and people who smile!That's why i try to help you!It is said that i give good advice,what do you think????
Now, i would like to tell you something!Live!Every moment in our life is important, so have fun!And something about me..I love Erreway!!!!
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How do you find your BMR? (Basic Metabolic Rate) What is considered a fast metabolism? (link)
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here is a site :
www.bmrcalculator.net/bmr-calculator/
Some people have a fast metabolism which helps keep weight off, and others have a slow metabolism, putting on weight very quickly. The good news is metabolic rate can be altered, and even sped up.How???
Eat Breakfast. Breakfast is truly the most important meal of the day, especially for you weight loss seekers. Research shows that those who eat breakfast lose more weight than those who skip breakfast. Your metabolism slows down while you sleep and it doesn’t speed back up until you eat again. If you don’t eat until lunchtime, your body won't burn as many calories as it could during the morning period. Kick start your day with a balanced breakfast such as omega-3 eggs and toast.
Eat smaller meals throughout the day. Eating five or six smaller meals rather than three large meals helps to keep your metabolism revved up! It also helps to fill you up over the course of the day, making a binge session less likely.
Don’t starve yourself. Fasting, cutting calories and skipping meals will all help put weight ON not OFF. Your body needs a certain number of calories to function. If you don’t meet this need, your body will switch into survival mode, slow down the metabolism and promote the storage of energy (calories) in the form of fat to protect itself from starvation.
Exercise. Both cardiovascular exercise and weight training help to improve metabolic rate and keep weight off. Cardiovascular exercise, such as walking, running, biking, swimming and aerobics, allows your body to burn a lot of calories at one time. Weight training will increase muscle mass, which burns more calories than body fat. Weight training also puts the metabolism into overdrive, so your burn calories for up to two hours after the workout.
Drink Green Tea. Research by the University of Geneva shows that green tea appears to increase metabolic rate and speed up fat oxidation. Compounds in green tea, catechin polyphenols, appear to speed up the rate at which calories are burned and therefore increase overall energy expenditure leading to weight loss!
Drink water. Not drinking enough water can slow down your metabolism. Be sure to drink at least six to eight glasses of water per day. Add a lemon slice to water for a tangy, fresh taste.
Eat hormonally balanced meals.Energy-dense carbohydrates, such as whole grains, beans, vegetables and fruits that contain fiber to help regulate your metabolism by having less impact on insulin levels.
High quality protein, such as fish, poultry, lean meats, soy, tofu and lowfat dairy products to help build metabolism-boosting muscle mass.
Essential fats for good health such as olive oil, avocado and nuts...
I hope those things helped you...Kisses...
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hey u answered my question earlier and i liked your advice but i wanted to get some more on the topic. this is what i wrote before:
15/f. i like this guy, i told him i like him, but all he said was thanks for being honest. Later on i asked why he wasnt honest to me, in telling me that he didnt like me, and he said i never said that, i cant tell you an answer because i dont know how i feel yet and it takes me awhile to know about these things. what does that mean in guy terms, and btw all my friends think he likes me and hes always acting like he does, soo im confused!!!
soo now what i wanted to add, is that he told me last night that he was going away for the whole summer, and im also going to away (we're both leaving the country). soo maybe do you think he doesnt want to start a relationship that would have to be put on pause for the whole summer? I didnt know if that would affect his decision soo please help, and if you could maybe elaborate on your advice from before that would be awsome!!! thanks soo much, your advice has been the best! (link)
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Thanks so much!!!You are really sweet..I will tell you what i really believe...Boys are like that!Sometimes they want a girl and afterwards they get mad or sth like that...
This guy probably likes you...He cannot be like that if he doesn't like you.If your friends say that, who know both of you it is possible that he likes you...
He told you that he will go away so that means that you will not see each other.If he is mature, then that means that he does not want quick relationships that end when summer comes..His behaviour shows me that he is mature and that if he likes you, he likes you VERY much...
Do you remember what i told you?Forget it.I think he likes you and that he does not want immediately to be with you because you will be both away...
Here's how to know if some one likes you: 1. Keep an eye on how many times you catch him staring at you. 2. Take notice of whether he smiles at you a lot. 3. Look for whether he focuses on you in a crowd. 4. Observe if he has suddenly taken more interest in your friends. 5. Pay attention to any significan't changes in his behavior toward you recently. 6. Start showing him a bit more interest and see how they respond. 7. Have a friend talk to him or one of his friends about you. 8. Ask, '[name], are you interested in me?' Tips: Hopefully you will not have to use steps 7 or 8, but if you're having difficulty reading him, these steps are your last resort! Remember, this is not an exact science, and it may take a few mistakes to perfect your technique.
The easiest way to tell (for anyone) is to just take an innocent step into their personal space. If they aren't interested then they will step away. If they are interested then they will set closer boundries for you and will therefore not mind your closer-than-normal presense.
One of the signs that a boy likes you is when he always teases you or makes fun/jokes.
He seems to find reasons to be with or near you. He may come up with what you think are lame or legit reasons to speak to you, call you, ask something. Try watching if he looks into your eyes or at least eye contact when he talks to you. Does he find ways to be closer to your body, near you, sit close or on the same side of the room as you? Does he talk to you instead of at you? Does he want your opinion? Cares what you have to say? Does he seem to be around you often, when he can? Does his face lighten up or seem to go from stress to unstressed when you walk in or say hello? A guy may not be obvious about it either, especially if he's shy, or maybe a little unsure of himself, which doesn't mean he's a loser at all but probably warmer from with in or more depth to him, more sensitive.
Boys might not tell you directly, but they may tell someone. Or perhaps when you are not around but your friend is there he will ask for you.
Here are some other signs: he acts distracted when he's around you and fumbles for things. From the corner of your eye you think he is looking at you but when you look up he turns away abruptly and you think you are imagining things. He tries to like all the things you do. Your instinct tells you that he feels for you but your rational part says you are sure to be wrong.
Shy guys can be very hard to read but there are some sure signs: They might be looking at you but if you look back then they'll quickly look away. He will always laugh at funny things you do. Don't get discouraged if he talks more to other girls. Shy guys are very attracted to outgoing girls, so don't be afraid to be outgoing! Here's what you can do: when you're in a group of people and he's there, ask to the group if anyone would like to go on a walk, or go do something with you. Be sure that it would be a two person activity. If the guy you like agrees, then this is good. You can guarantee you'll have a good conversation with him if you ask a lot of questions. Be sure to tell him if you have soemthing in common.
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15/f I like this guy, and we have been talking for about 4 weeks now (he started talking to me first). All my friends think he likes me, but i am so confused by his signals! now i know i cant tell you every detail of all the hints and stuff but i can say there is a lot! he told me that hes been wanting to talk to me since last year and that he thinks im an awsome person. also we always do this game where we ask eachother random questions and he always asks me things as to find out what i like in guys and how i would act in a relationship. like hes asked me if i would like hanging out with my boyfriends friends or what i like in a guy. however this is the tricky part, my friend told him that i liked him, without my permission and online so he thought it was me, and he said cool thanks for being honest, then later on i asked how he felt, and he said he didnt know, that it took him awhile to figure out how he feels and that its not that he doesnt like me, hes just really indecisive and doesnt know yet. soo what do i do, we still talk everyday for hours and while i was away for some of spring break we stayed in touch, and he told me he missed me! soo i dont know how he can be confused or what is going on with him but i need HELP!!! please any advice on what to do, how to act, if i should ask if hes decided yet (cuz it was like 2 weeks ago when he found out i liked him), anything at all!!!! please guys advice too! (link)
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My God!!He does not know what he feels???Anyway, you know what?I think he likes you...I don't know what is happening and why he did not tell you that he likes you too but after those things you've told me i think that he likes you...
Sth like that happens to me too.He does not know that i like him but his behaviour is really confusing...Anyway,i will tell you what i am doing now(it works!!!)...
I let him come where i am.I let him talk to me before i do.I let him do things that i used to do before my decision.I ignore him a little bit because i don't want him to be sure that i like him.DO THE SAME!!!!Start paying attention at an other boy too and chat with your friends much more than you chat with him...And, furthermore, tell him that your friend told him that you like him, not you...
I think that he has not the best behaviour!He should be honest with you, shouldn't he????
I hope i helped and good luck...
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so i have had discharge for 2 years. i wanna no when i will start. please tell me i am not lucky. i want to start. someone please tell me ALL about the period (link)
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All About Your Period
One of the biggest changes for girls that comes along with puberty is menstruation. Menstruation is more commonly known as getting your period. In some cultures, the start of menstruation is celebrated publicly in a time of great rejoicing; other cultures choose to be more private about it. Some girls can't wait for their first period to come, while others may dread it or feel neutral about it. No matter how you feel, it's an important event in your life and part of the normal process of becoming a woman.
When will I get my first period?
There really isn't any way you can tell which day or week you'll get your first period. It usually starts a year after the female growth spurt begins. For most girls in America this is between ages 9 and 15. There also isn't really any way you can make your first period come sooner or keep it from happening.
What causes a period and what happens?
Each month or so, the inside of your uterus gets thicker with blood and tissues to prepare for a fertilized egg. These blood and tissues contain nutrients in case the egg becomes fertilized. When an egg becomes fertilized, a woman becomes pregnant. If the egg is not fertilized, the blood and tissues are shed. This is the period.
How often will my period come?
How often you get your period can differ from one female to another. Your period, or monthly cycle, occurs approximately once a month. However, some women get their period every 21 days, while others menstruate every 35 days. The average length of a period is 3 to 7 days. In the beginning, your period may come irregularly and may last for just a couple days or for 2 weeks. It is important to keep track of when your period begins and whether your blood flow tends to be heavy or light. In most cases, the flow is heavier in the beginning and gets lighter each following day. Since each person's body is different, it is essential to know what is normal for your body.
What else can I expect?
You'll need to use feminine products like pads or tampons to absorb the blood. Pads are worn outside the body in your underwear, and tampons are worn inside the body. Talk to your mom, older sister, or a trusted adult about which is best for you. You may also notice that the color of the blood flow changes during your period—sometimes it's a dark red, and sometimes it's a bright red. This usually depends on how heavy the flow is and where in your cycle you are. If you notice a change in your period, talk to your parent or a doctor.
What is PMS?
PMS stands for premenstrual syndrome. Some women experience PMS around the time of their period. PMS symptoms may include headaches; moodiness; bloating; breast tenderness; and feeling sad, irritable, emotional, or tired. There are a few medicines that may ease PMS symptoms, but make sure you talk with your parent, school nurse, or your doctor before taking anything. You can make some changes to your diet that may help ease your PMS symptoms. Cutting back on salty foods, chocolates, and drinks with caffeine may lessen PMS symptoms. Many women experience cramps before or during their periods. The severity of cramps also differs from one woman to another. If you are feeling a great deal of discomfort with PMS or cramps, think about talking to your mom, your doctor, or a school nurse about what you are experiencing.
How long will this go on?
You'll probably keep getting your period until you're anywhere from 45 to 55, when it will stop. This is called menopause. In the 30 to 40 years you will be getting your period, it's important to pay attention to your body and know what's normal for you so that you can be aware if anything unusual happens.
Don't worry!Everything will be fine!I hope i helped!Kisses!
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I'm currently on a low calorie diet, and I've already lost a few pounds. I'm just wonder what are some low calorie snacks I can have to satisfy my hunger? I do a lot of running so I'd burn them off, but I just need to know a few (if you listed the actual calories that would be amazing, but you don't have to) (link)
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Beans mung dried boiled 100 kcals
Beans runner boiled 15kcals
Broccoli 20kcals
Brussels sprouts 20 cals
Canderel sweetener 10 cals / tablet
Cottage cheese low fat 80 cals
Fish any white fresh poached 150-200 110cals
Fish any white fresh poached 150-200 110cals
Hunts bitter lemon drink 2 (125ml) 1 cal
Lentils 70 cals
Macaroni (boiled) 238 cals (250g)
Mayonnaise weight watchers 45 cals (1 Tbsp )
Muesli sugar-free 180 cals (50g
Pasta ( normal boiled ) 330 cals (300g)
Noodles (boiled) 175 cals (250g)
Pasta (wholemeal boiled ) 315 cals (300g)
Peas chick boiled 115 cals
Potatoes (boiled) 210 cals (300g)
Rice (white long grain) 420 cals (300g)
Rice ( Brown ) 405 cals (300g)
Spaghetti (boiled) 303 cals (300g)
Tofu 90 cals
Yogurt virtually fat-free 50 cals (1 small pot)
I hope i helped!!!!
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i like this guy. hes cute and REALLY nice. we talk online like everyday. i told him i thought he was cute and everything and my best friend told him that i liked him. he said he thought i was cute. i invited him to a party that my friend was having and he showed up. but we didnt talk too much even though we hung out by each other the whole time and let me use his cell to make calls. he didnt say much just smiled when something was funny. i was kind of shy around him too. a few days ago he said that he chickens out when he goes to talk to a girl so im wondering if he likes me too. how can i hint him into telling me?
I RATE 5'S (link)
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I think he likes you...If you really like him you will do what i ll tell you..
Well, when you 2 will be alone tell him"You now what?Someone told me that you like me...Is this true???"Then he will tell you the truth...
If you can risk do this!I want to do this too but i am afraid of rejection...I will think about what i am going to do...
i hope i helped!!!Kisses...
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15/f. i like this guy, i told him i like him, but all he said was thanks for being honest. Later on i asked why he wasnt honest to me, in telling me that he didnt like me, and he said i never said that, i cant tell you an answer because i dont know how i feel yet and it takes me awhile to know about these things. what does that mean in guy terms, and btw all my friends think he likes me and hes always acting like he does, soo im confused!!! (link)
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He can like you, but he can also try to tell you that he doesn't like you.You say that he acts like he likes you then he likes you...If he stares, if he talks to you first, if he smiles at you then he probably likes you...What you should do now is to give him TIME...
Now, if i were you i would start ignoring him a little bit.I would make him believe that i don't like him as much as before.If you will do this and he starts being better and sweet etc then he likes you.If not, then he doesn't like you..
Good luck!!!!I hope i helped...
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My guy friend puts his hand on everyone's shoulder (guys and girls) when he's talking to them or whatever, standing or walking through the hallways. What's up with that? (link)
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Nothing wrong with that!I do it too.We do it when we want to show that we are fond of someone...
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I just broke up with my boyfriend. I'm afraid it'll be like really weird now like in class and stuff. Do I still walk with him back from class? I don't like many people in that class so what do I do? I wanna like flirt with him you know? We just broke up cause he was to quite and shy and I couldn't take how ackward it was, it was like pointless. I wanna go back to being really flirty again. Maybe in the future we can go back out with a stronger relationship; more open and fun. How should I go back to us being flirty ? (link)
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You still like him,right?Then stay in that class and continue being like before.Talk to him etc.Did you tell him to break up?If yes then he probably likes you so tell him that you would like to go somewhere for a coffee.Don't tell him that this is a date etc...The best solution is to be you!He used to like you because you were yourself,didn't he?Just behave normally.And don't pay that much attention at other boys...And something else.Don't expect him being like before,ok?He needs time...
Now, about his behaviour when you used to be together...I have to guess but i think it depends on you.If you are sociable and really outroverted it is reasonable that he was shy...Ok?Because he was watching you being like that and he wasn't like that.If you are not that sociable then he was like that because this is his personality..You cannot change him!I mean, that's him and if you really like him you 've got to accept him in the way he is...Right????
Kisses honey, i hope i helped...
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I’ve been having issues with my parents lately. I have a different problem for each of them. I guess this is a two-part question.
In order to fully understand my situation, I think a little background information is required . . .
My parents met one another while they were in highschool. They started dating soon after and eventually my mother ended up pregnant with me at the age of seventeen. It was completely unexpected and unplanned - I was a ‘surprise’, if you will. At the time, my grandmother was a very traditional woman. The idea of premarital children just didn’t sit well with her. She managed to convince my parents that marriage was their only option. They married three months after I was born.
Because my father came from a wealthier family, he graduated from highschool and was able to attend university. My mother, on the other hand, dropped out of highschool four months before her graduation so she could get a full-time job in order to support me and father while he was in school.
It’s not really a surprise that my parents are divorced now, they have been since I was five. But that’s not the issue. I live with my mother and stepfather now and she often talks about how she wishes she hadn’t been so careless when she was younger. She’s always warning me not to ‘throw away’ my youth like she did.
I know she doesn’t mean it, but sometimes I feel as though she resents me. I can’t help but think about how much better her life could have been had she not had me at such a young age. I know this is all in the past, and what’s happened cannot be changed but I would just like to know how I can get past this feeling of “I ruined my mother’s life”. I'd like to be able to stop feeling like a mistake.
Any and all advice is welcome =]
And that’s just my mother. . .
Now for part two - my father.
Like I mentioned before, my parents got married and then divorced at a fairly young age. I live with my mother so I only see my father once a month, if that. I wouldn’t exactly say we’re close . . .
Anyways, a few days ago, my mother told me a story about my father that really disturbed me. She told me that three days before their wedding, at his bachelor party, my dad had cheated on her. And even though she knew about it, she still married him. I was completely shocked when I heard this. I can’t help but be angry at my father. He doesn’t know that I know about this yet, but I would really like to confront him about it. I’ve talked to my mom about it and she doesn’t want me to say anything to him. She suggested that I just let it go. However I know that I won’t be able to do that. To me, this isn’t something I can just forget about. I would like some sort explanation from my father, even though I know he wont have one for me.
I’m supposed to have dinner at his house Monday night and I plan on confronting him then. My only problem is that I don’t know how I should go about this.
Any suggestions or any advice whatsoever would be greatly appreciated =]
Sorry this is so long =/ (link)
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Honey, you are not a mistake..This is sure.Your mother loves you and i think that this is why you are with her now and not with your father...I think that both mum and dad love you.You are their child..They created you, you were "created" when they used to love each other...Talk with your mother and explain her how you feel.Explain her that you would like her to feel that she can have her own life.And tell her that she can do whatever she wants to feel good.Tell her that you understand how difficult her life has been but you couldn't stop it.You didn't even exist then.
Now, about your father, this would be a huge mistake to tell him about what he did when others will be there.When you will have dinner be normal, like always...And when you 2 will be alone talk to him...Tell him that you know it and that you did not like what he did.
But before doing something understand that he was young.It was a party we do before marriage and it is used something like that to happen.Don't judge him before trying to understand him.He was a young man who would pass his whole life with a woman.The same woman.He didn't know that he would take a divorce...Everything was so quick for him..His life would change...Immediatly...This is especially for men awful...Right?Sweety, understand him..
And n my opinion your mother should not tell you what happened.This has happened before a lot of years...Why did she tell you that?Is it sure that she did not want to make you hate your own father?I am sorry telling something like that but this is my opinion, what my instinct tells me...
I really hope i helped you..Really...Kisses and if you want to ask me sth else,send me e-mail there:emily-smile@hotmail.com
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I'm 18/F and I have literally done nothing sexually. The furthest I've ever gone is one closed-mouth kiss 4 years ago that lasted a few seconds. How pathetic is this? Why aren't guys attracted to me at all?
There's a guy I kinda like now and I really want to hook up with him but I have no clue how to go about that considering I've had zero experience. Help! (link)
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Well, i am 16..This last month a lot of boys told me that they would like to be with them.What i told?No..I have had three boyfriend so far BUT they are they ones i REALLY liked...I have not had sex.And i think that it is good for girls having sex when they are18 or older.
But i think that you ask how can you be a girl that this boy and others like!Right?:)
I will tell you what i think is the best thing to do.Become sociable and smile.Chat with boys like they are girls.Feel good passing time with them.Pass time with boys as friends first and then try to flirt the one you like.He will feel important because you will be friend with all others but he will be the "one" who managed to make you like him...
Here are some tips to make the one you like like you...
1.Start paying much more attention to him than others...He will feel special!
2.Look him in the eyes and smile at him..
3.Talk to him when you see him..
4. Take care!Don't make him believe that he is too important to you because he will not feel well...
5.After being a friend with him for 2-3 weeks do this:When you see him give him a kiss(cheek) or hug him...Don't be cold.
6.BE YOURSELF.
Ok,let me know what is going on.And something important.Don't tell him that you have not kissed a boy before.Ok?If he asks you about sex tell him the truth.
I hope i helped..Bye!:):)
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Alright. Well. I Found Out In The Beginning Of The Year That My One Friend Alicia Said Something Pretty Hurtful About Me To Our Other Friend Jasmine. Well, Alicia Said Something About My Weight && It Was Mean. I Didn't Bring It Up Then Because I Was Too Embarassed && Stuff. But, Should I Just Forget About It? Or Bring It Up Now (Not Like Get Mad, But Ask Her About It)? Or Is It Too Late && I Just Should Let It Go? I'll Rate && Give Feedback. Thanks! (link)
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Talk to her...If it is so important to you, talk about it with her...Ok?But if i were you i would not talk to her.I would not let her know that i know what she told about me.And then, if i would be sure that she told sth else too, this period, i would talk to her.
But the "right" thing is to talk to her.You decide..Let me know what you are going to do.Ok????
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I'm dating this guy but he's not my bf. I want him to be my bf but I understand why he doesn't want that label right now. A lots happened to him lately this past year that he needs to deal with. We practically are bf/gf tho cause we don't see anyone else and he talks about me to everyone.
Thing is, I don't get to spend as much time with him as I want. I feel like he chooses his friends and getting drunk over spending time with me. I understand if he has to work or wants to spend time with them but sometimes he blows me off and I'm like wtf. If he spent like 2 or 3 days a week with me I wouldn't say shit but I only see him like once a week. Sometimes I just really need him to talk to someone or I just to be with him, I don't care what we do. I dunno, I guess my question is what do I do? What do I do to spend more time with him?
I know you don't know the whole story so I don't expect dead on advice but I'd really like to know.
Thank you. (link)
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Well,i think that if he would really like you he would be your boyfriend and he would pass much more time with you..
Anyway, if you like it i will tell you what you should do now to understand if he likes you and to make him pass time with you.Stop kissing him, start being cold and don't show that you really like him that much...Ignore him..Make him feel that you are not something sure.Someone who belongs to him.That you have other choices and that you deserve a lot..Show him that you are not happy with the current situation...
If he likes you he will pass much more time with you.My bf after 2 months being together started behaving like your "guy" behaves.I did what i told you and now we are together happy and we pass time together.
There is another option.Talk to him about your thoughts.If he will understand you, then he likes you if not forget him..
I hope i helped...Emily
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Hello, i'm new to here...
well I've been an airline pilot for 2 years and me and my girlfriend are talking about marriage and stuff. Generally speaking she is pretty attractive and hot...but if we get married, I will always think that she will cheat behind my back when I'm off to work...(usually for a few days)
What should I do? I'm not good at love relationship at all, i mean I can fly a big jet, but hey, i'm not good at this kind of stuff... (link)
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I understand you..You are jealous...Are you insecure?Maybe yes..What you should do?
UNDERSTAND that she would not marry you if she would't love you.You are important to her.And, you know, when we love someone we try to protect him, from getting hurted etc,Would you cheat???No..Then why would she???
Feel good with you, and talk about it with your gf...That is what you should do.I hope i helped...
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Usually when people talk to me, the first thing I think is more like
"Okay", "That's interesting", or
"That's nice to know."
Not much of an opinion or anything. Bleh... and I don't want to say anything stupid.
What can I do to change that? I don't want people to think I am ignoring them when I don't respond quickly or think I'm stupid if I say something wrong. (link)
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Before becoming really sociable, i used to be like this...I was feeling really anxious when i was chatting with other people...What i did?
I stopped thinking "what am i going to say now""what afoolish i am!!!"etc,
You know what is going on to you?You feel anxious and you don't let yourself free to express your thoughts etc...Right?
So, be u!Smile at others and if you want to make others feel that you are fond of them, then go there and talk to them.Say "hi!" or "How are you?"etc...
But the best solution is to let yourself free...Be you!!!!
I hope i helped!Kisses!!!!
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I've been with this guy for three and a half years. Things between us got pretty bad within the last year. We argued constantly. The thing about us is that we're very different. He believes in things that I dont believe in and vice versa. That never stopped us during the first two and a half years or so.. Honestly, I loved how he thought so differently from me even if it would cause arguments. However, I can't speak for him. He hated how I never agreed to his views. But I'm not going to say yes to everything he says just because I love him. I stick up for what I believe in as well. Well, I guess that is why we aren't together anymore..
We've been apart for two months now. We still talk to each other every day. He still tells me that he loves me. But sometimes he says to me that he doesn't think him and I will ever work out because we are so different but if we do go out again, it wouldn't be any time soon. Another thing is, after we broke up, he told my best guy friend who is also a friend of his that I'm the type of girl he wants to marry, that he wants to marry me. Uh.. if he doesn't like the person I am, my morals, my views on life, than why is he telling my friends that he still wants to be with me later and that he wants to marry me? I know he loves me, and the thing is, I know he wants to be with me. I know he can't ever stand the thought of me with another guy. He doesn't say it, but I know it. But honestly, I don't know if I'm holding on to something that will never ever work. It's like.. like I said earlier, I love the fact that we're different. That is one of the reasons why I fell in love with him. But him on the other hand, he can't stand it.. I don't know..
Am I foolish for being in love with someone who is the total opposite of me? Am I stupid for still having hope in us? For still wanting to be with him?
Thank you in advance.. Any advice is appreciated.
We are both twenty, if that helps or anything.. (link)
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You are like me!I love being opposite with the one i like because there is no boredom, right?It is not bad, it is the way we think,our personality...A lot of people are like that..
But i would like to tell you that it is obvious that he still likes you..But i think that he is confused...He knows that you are different.And he is not sure if you will be happy together.He likes you, you like him,what should happen?Be with him!!!!!!!!!!
Don't ask him out.Let him do this.I think that you should continue chat with him if you want to be with him.And when you will be alone ask him if he likes a girl and mention that it is said that he still loves you.
If he really likes you, he will take the chance and he will be with you.
But, take care!If you will not be happy with him, stop being with him...
And, now, if this moment you don't want to be with him(i don't think so!!!)stop chatting with him and be cold etc...
I hope i helped...Let me know what is going on between you 2...Kisses...
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My two best friends, have started shop lifting and the other week stole £50 in value each I want them to stop because I don't want them to get caught.
I want to go shopping with them but if they're stealing and they'll get caught I will get in trouble to.
I think they're peer pressuing me to they all telling me to join in and its fun but I really dont want to.........
How can I get them to stop?????
Please help I rate high!!!!!!! (link)
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I understand what is going on and i know that this is wrong..You know it too so don't even think about behaving like your "friends".The best thing you could do is to make them understand too.
Explain them why you believe that this is not good.Tell them that they shouldn't tell you do this thing too.
But my opinion is that they are not true friends.Ok, think that they know that this is wrong but they don't care.You should stop being that close to them.Find other friends..Real friends, who want your own "Good"..They are not real friends.Think about their behaviour generally, and decide...
It would also help ask help from someone who knows them..Someone mature and understanding.Someone trustworthy...Let me know what's going on, ok???I hope i helped...Kisses...
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