I'm dating this guy but he's not my bf. I want him to be my bf but I understand why he doesn't want that label right now. A lots happened to him lately this past year that he needs to deal with. We practically are bf/gf tho cause we don't see anyone else and he talks about me to everyone.
Thing is, I don't get to spend as much time with him as I want. I feel like he chooses his friends and getting drunk over spending time with me. I understand if he has to work or wants to spend time with them but sometimes he blows me off and I'm like wtf. If he spent like 2 or 3 days a week with me I wouldn't say shit but I only see him like once a week. Sometimes I just really need him to talk to someone or I just to be with him, I don't care what we do. I dunno, I guess my question is what do I do? What do I do to spend more time with him?
I know you don't know the whole story so I don't expect dead on advice but I'd really like to know.
Thank you.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? here4you,emily answered Saturday April 15 2006, 8:47 am: Well,i think that if he would really like you he would be your boyfriend and he would pass much more time with you..
Anyway, if you like it i will tell you what you should do now to understand if he likes you and to make him pass time with you.Stop kissing him, start being cold and don't show that you really like him that much...Ignore him..Make him feel that you are not something sure.Someone who belongs to him.That you have other choices and that you deserve a lot..Show him that you are not happy with the current situation...
If he likes you he will pass much more time with you.My bf after 2 months being together started behaving like your "guy" behaves.I did what i told you and now we are together happy and we pass time together.
There is another option.Talk to him about your thoughts.If he will understand you, then he likes you if not forget him..
I hope i helped...Emily [ here4you,emily's advice column | Ask here4you,emily A Question ]
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