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mixed signals??
15/f I like this guy, and we have been talking for about 4 weeks now (he started talking to me first). All my friends think he likes me, but i am so confused by his signals! now i know i cant tell you every detail of all the hints and stuff but i can say there is a lot! he told me that hes been wanting to talk to me since last year and that he thinks im an awsome person. also we always do this game where we ask eachother random questions and he always asks me things as to find out what i like in guys and how i would act in a relationship. like hes asked me if i would like hanging out with my boyfriends friends or what i like in a guy. however this is the tricky part, my friend told him that i liked him, without my permission and online so he thought it was me, and he said cool thanks for being honest, then later on i asked how he felt, and he said he didnt know, that it took him awhile to figure out how he feels and that its not that he doesnt like me, hes just really indecisive and doesnt know yet. soo what do i do, we still talk everyday for hours and while i was away for some of spring break we stayed in touch, and he told me he missed me! soo i dont know how he can be confused or what is going on with him but i need HELP!!! please any advice on what to do, how to act, if i should ask if hes decided yet (cuz it was like 2 weeks ago when he found out i liked him), anything at all!!!! please guys advice too!
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My God!!He does not know what he feels???Anyway, you know what?I think he likes you...I don't know what is happening and why he did not tell you that he likes you too but after those things you've told me i think that he likes you...
Sth like that happens to me too.He does not know that i like him but his behaviour is really confusing...Anyway,i will tell you what i am doing now(it works!!!)...
I let him come where i am.I let him talk to me before i do.I let him do things that i used to do before my decision.I ignore him a little bit because i don't want him to be sure that i like him.DO THE SAME!!!!Start paying attention at an other boy too and chat with your friends much more than you chat with him...And, furthermore, tell him that your friend told him that you like him, not you...
I think that he has not the best behaviour!He should be honest with you, shouldn't he????
I hope i helped and good luck...
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i think you guys should try building your friendship & try making it stronger. that way you guys can become closer & lead into being bf/gf er if not, you'll figure out your true feelings & still be good friends. juss keep talking to him & take it from there. maybe try hanging out more & going places 1-on-1 instead of maybe group dates. it'll be easier for you guys to talk that way.
-hope that helped!♥
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