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18 and have done NOTHING
I'm 18/F and I have literally done nothing sexually. The furthest I've ever gone is one closed-mouth kiss 4 years ago that lasted a few seconds. How pathetic is this? Why aren't guys attracted to me at all?
There's a guy I kinda like now and I really want to hook up with him but I have no clue how to go about that considering I've had zero experience. Help!
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i feel the same way...im 16/m and have never even gotten out of the batter's box...there's nothing you can do really, but i just try not to worry about it, and when there's a girl i like, i just try to get to know her better. there isn't much you can do, but don't let it bother you, cuz then you really will hate your life. hope this helps a little bit
Alan
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well its reallly good thing that you havent done nothing! but if you explain more what you need help on ill tell ya
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Believe me it is NOT pathetic. Why would you think it is?
The problem is, there is so much pressure on girls and boys today to have sex that they're often considered socially retarded if they are still virgins in their late teens.
If you ask my opinion, I think the more people that stay virgins longer the better. When you're older, most people have a better sense of responsibility and are more aware of STI's, STD's and the likelihood of pregnancy. Not to mention that fully fledged adults are more inclined to have sex for love and not just for the pleasure.
The fact you have had no experience is very seldom a put-off for guys, as a lot of them like to be the one who 'de-flowers' a girl. However, before doing anything, please consider carefully whether you REALLY want to do it with him or if you just want to catch up to everyone else. After all, first times are meant to be special and theirs probably weren't. Why should you ruin that chance just to catch up when you could save it until someone good and decent and special comes along? After all, there is an emotional aspect to having sex for the first time. You don't want to waste any of it on someone you don't think is worth it, just for the sake of it. So please think carefully before you do anything.
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Well, i am 16..This last month a lot of boys told me that they would like to be with them.What i told?No..I have had three boyfriend so far BUT they are they ones i REALLY liked...I have not had sex.And i think that it is good for girls having sex when they are18 or older.
But i think that you ask how can you be a girl that this boy and others like!Right?:)
I will tell you what i think is the best thing to do.Become sociable and smile.Chat with boys like they are girls.Feel good passing time with them.Pass time with boys as friends first and then try to flirt the one you like.He will feel important because you will be friend with all others but he will be the "one" who managed to make you like him...
Here are some tips to make the one you like like you...
1.Start paying much more attention to him than others...He will feel special!
2.Look him in the eyes and smile at him..
3.Talk to him when you see him..
4. Take care!Don't make him believe that he is too important to you because he will not feel well...
5.After being a friend with him for 2-3 weeks do this:When you see him give him a kiss(cheek) or hug him...Don't be cold.
6.BE YOURSELF.
Ok,let me know what is going on.And something important.Don't tell him that you have not kissed a boy before.Ok?If he asks you about sex tell him the truth.
I hope i helped..Bye!:):)
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you dont have to have any experience to have a good relationship. You're 18 and you want to do something 'sexually' already? It's not pathetic and actually normal in most cases. Just because you haven't done anything sexual doesnt mean guys aren't attracted to you. It just takes time.
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