im 13/f and i currently live in NoWhErE`SViLlE!!!ok... i really hope that you guys will ask me some good questions so i can give you some good advice! so yeah! hehe. hope you like my column!!!
please add me to your favorite columnist! oh yeah and im pretty much good at answering love questions and friendships... i love scary movies and i am curently single, a boyfriend is to much work for me... ive had my heart broken...=( oh well...
God bless,
Katie Marie! =]
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Age: 13
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wittlenatnat
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I Have A GREAT Friend but she sometimes makes fun of the way I look like she will say " your nose looks weird or you have a double chin! haha" and She isnt a serious person and It hurts my feelings. What Can I say to her! Please dont say things like "Slap her, hit her, etc." (link)
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say, i think im pretty and are you just jealous?
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This isnt a real love life kinda question but like ive heard that chewing gum actually makes your breathe stink? is that true? (link)
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certain kinda of gum can, like cinnamon and stuff, i would go with mints
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I chew on my hair alot. will that harm me in any way?
please help!!!
13/f (link)
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hahaha, no it cant harm you unless you get a huge furball!!! hehe im just kidding, it wont harm oyu, just maybe your hair!
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Hey Guys! I'm 13 years old and I want to put semi-permanent pink hair dye in my hair. but the thing is, i have no clue what brands are good and which are crappy. i want it to last 2 or 3 weeks so does anyone know any good brands? thanx so much! -isn'tlifegreat? (I RATE!)
P.S. - I want it to be really bright pink! (link)
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wow pink! thats cool, well i know color pulse is good stuff, it lasts 8-10 shampoos... but i dont know if they have pink yet, but there is a dark purple!
hope i helped!
helpingbuddy01
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My past relationship hurt me so bad, that all I want to do know is be cool with everyone. The only thing is a lot of boys want to go with me and I want to talk to them but everytime I think about the hurt that this last boy caused me that I don't want to go through it again. Can someone help me think of ways to get over it. Thank YOu (link)
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look, its gonna be hard for you to get over your past heartache. but not all guys are gonna be like that one heart breaker. you have to be able to regain your trust in them!
hope i helped you out!
helpingbuddy01
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Well there are these girls(my friends) who have major crushes on my best buds, and all they do is just pester them and just like hang out at their lockers. and so now like i can't ever like talk to them b/c all they do is just blow me off so they can talk to the guys or the guys are just too busy to care. wht do i doo!!!
~obssesed friends and in the middle~
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well since im a girl, ive seen this a lot!
girls just want to get attention from cute boys, i know its frustrating, but talk to you friend about it and try to talk to the girls...
always,
helpingbuddy01
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i am so confused with this Boy his name is alex and well...i think he likes me but i am not certain of that.he is kinda cute though. here are some reasons why i think he likes me
1. i am the first one he asks when he needs a calculator
2. in spanish our seats are in rows and we get to choose our seats and he sits in the seat Closest to me.
3.We chat sometimes
4. I catch him staring at me for a few seconds
5. My Name is Jen and and instead He Calls Me 'Jenna'
6. Oh ya and One time we were reading scenes from a book like i was the narrator and he was the dad in the book etc and we sat in rolley chairs, we were in front of the classroom sitting and reading and he didnt want to sit next to this other girl so he rolled his chair next to me.
**there are more but i cannot remember**
well i am confused if he does or doesnt like what should i do i am Clueless...seriously.
i mean he is actually 'NICE' to me out of all the other boys.
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well if i were you, i would keep observing what he does... he could just want to be your good friend. he may like you though cause thats what it will most likely result in... be very kind and talk to him more often!
always,
helpingbuddy01
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:/ I just cant get it right.:/ I called the acting audtion person today but she said it was too full.:/ O well... I wasn't ready. Can somebody give me acting advice? I really want to become an actor.:)
~Aaron Leung (link)
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speak up, show emotions, be clear and "live" your character!
always,
helpingbuddy01
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Ok well see I am a 13/f and my dad like hits me all the time with like eather a wooden stick or his hands or whatever he has in reach and it usually leaves bruises.....and like he always tells me when he does it that I could never call the police and get him in trouble because he will just say that it's his way of "punishing me". And like I always ask him why doesnt he just ground me or something else and he always says that he thinks this will work better.....but I really don't think it does. What should I doo?? Is this considered abuse or not??
thanxxx (link)
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yes, this is a type of abuse. i know you love your dad very much and you think it would be wrong to get him in trouble. have you talked to another adult about this topic? you should. you are way to old to be getting hit, grounding is much better. sit down and have a mature discussion, and if it results in harm, contact the police.
always,
helpingbuddy01
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lately my best friend and i haven't been having the most fun. she's much more outgoing than me, and i often get left out in the dust. also, even though several people don't like her because of her loud, bossy style, she's convinced she's better than me. i really want to make the friendship work, because from grades 3-6 we've been the best of friends, but i've been working hard to keep it together for almost 2 years now, and she hardly ever talks to me anymore. i don't know what to do anymore. should i try to work more at the friendship, because sometimes we do have a lot of fun, or should i give up, or should i just spend less time with her but still keep her as a friend? i'm sorry this question is so long, but please answer anyways. thanks=D (link)
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never give up a great friendship, say hey and be nice and all, but let her come back to you. ive seen this advice work miracles! hehe
always!
helpingbuddy01
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im 13 female
Im turning Vegetarian for 3 reasons.
1. i really dont like eating meat
2. i am against experimentation on animals, so why eat them when im against what people do to them
3. no one thinks i can do it..
do you know anything that is meat less ( food ) that is good that i can make
thanks
i rate 5's (link)
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well look, i know that you feel bad for the animals that are food. God put animals on the earth to eat... im suggesting that you should eat meat also because it has the proteins you need, without them,you become unhealthy. you dont have to take this advice, but im saying this is really good...
always,
helpingbuddy01
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I'm thinking of going to a new school next year. I don't want to leave my friends. This new school has more opportunities for me, though. I can't decide. Please help!!! (link)
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leaving a new school is tough, especially when you think about leaving your friends. you should go to the better school and get a good education. you will be able to phone, write and hang out with your friends later on.
always
helpingbuddy01
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13/f. Alot of my girl friends say that i look pretty and gorgeous and things like that. But i dont think guys find me attractive,...why? (link)
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i definatly know what you are saying! i can relate. i bet you are a pretty girl, guys your age are so stupid! they think that going out with a pretty girl is a game! and they are so shy at this age that you dont know what they want! wait a few more years, and you'll find someone special that will definatly think you are gorgeous!
always,
helpingbuddy01
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please help me! I am looking at my vaines right now and I just want to take a blade and trace them all the way up my arm! I am so depressed and I really need someone to talk to that im not afraid will judge me!
PLEASE HELP ME!
EMAIL ME ANYTHING OR LEAVE ME ADVICE PLEASE
email - pink_lip_gloss91@hotmail.com (link)
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one thing, NEVER do anything to harm yourself or others when you are depressed. tell a parent, guardian, or an adult you trust about the situation. go to the doctor and get depression medication((with an adult of course)) go to counciling, things like this could help. but remember that so many people love you andby taking your life is serious...
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Okay I like this guy well actually I cant really say that I like him because to like someone is to know them and I dont really know him I just want to get to know him so than maybe something will happen between us. I'm a freshman and he's a senior in high school. He knows that I so-called like him because my friend was telling him that someone likes him and than he just found out its me. My friend told me that he always ready has someone in mind because there are tons of girls that like him. I just found out that its one of my friend's older brothers. This guy is in my gym class and I always see him around school. I want to get to know him but im not sure how to. I'm a really shy person and I'm scared to just walk to up to him to talk to him. We only have gym together so its kinda strange if I just start talking to him at gym for no reason. Should I get to know his sister? I mean I really want to be her friend too so its not like I'm just using her to get to him. How can I start talking to him at gym? Sorry this is so long! Please help and thank you! (link)
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ok, well you never want to use someone for your benefit. Im sure this guy likes you too. All you need to do is randomly complement him on his good hit, or nice serve, or some other stuff like that. always be sweet and generous. dont give up!
im glad i can help!
::helpingbuddy01::
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My sister (28) and I(15)are sending my mom into Rehabilitation/Detoxification (Rehab/Detox) for about 10 days. My mom has many severe addictions to many, many different drugs..and my sis says she's going to be in probably the worst pain for a couple days in her entire life. She said that once my mom tried getting off her drugs and has diarahhea that was pure blood. My sis says its going to be way worse when she goes into rehab and that my mother is going to be in so much pain that she doesnt want to see me and my sister because she dooesnt want us to see her in such bad condition. So i guess my question is..what can I do to make myself feel better about the pain that my mom is going to be put through? It hurts me too..how do i deal with this? Thanks (link)
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ok, always remember that her problem is not your fault. her problems shouldnt be affecting you, the only reason that they do at this point is because you love her very very much and you hate to see a loved one like this. keep saying to yourself that she will be ok and keep things positive.
always,
helpingbuddy01
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I've heard that when you're trying to lose weight that it's important to eat several small, healthy meals a day instead of only one or two large meals. What's a decent number of small meals a day to start with? Do you increase or decrease as time goes on? (link)
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well dieting all depends on your age, and your weight at this point. small meals may not help. so heres a suggestion, eat a BIG breakfast, and a smaller lunch and dinner. if your bigger meal is at dinner, the food just sits there and you dont digest it the fast.
always,
::helping buddy::
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i have kinda big lovehandles so how many side crunches would i have to do to see results if i were to do about around 75 each night? (link)
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ok, there is really nothing you can do about lovehandles, ive tried to get rid of them too! 75 crunches sure is a lot. i would try 25, and work your way up!
::helping buddy::
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I have a great boyfriend and all. But I have this one problem, I can't seem to hold a good conversation with him.. What could I talk about.
thnx. =) (link)
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wow, it seems like we have something in common! well ive tried this out so it should work... talk about how his day was, or if he won his athletic game. talk to him online and NEVER be to shy and ignore him. believe me, he will be happy if you just talk about something retarted.
hope it all goes well!
::helping buddy::
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