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Last Update: December 9, 2005
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I'm 14, soon to be 15. He just turned 19. He's so sweet and calls me baby/beautiful/sweetheart. All that stuff. I like him alot, and he likes me too. We've hooked up }not sex{ and I told my close cousins. They all make fun of me now saying that he's 19 and stuff like that. It really pisses me off because they don't know him. He's amazing and he likes me too. We live 2 hours apart, but I see him when I go up to my cottage. Which is alot. I really like him and I want it too work and so does he. But I want my cousins off my case. Should I tell them that I broke up with him??
IF you have any other advice about my situation I would greatly appreciate anything you have to offer.
Thank you soo much.
Love,
- Ashley (link)
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If you want them off your case? Yeah, claiming to have broken up will do it.
Other thoughts on the situation? At your age, dating is questionable in the first place, much less dating a man who can be put in prison if he has sex with you. I can tell you, as an 18 year old, that if someone 19 is interested in someone your age, he doesn't have a very healthy personality. It won't lead to anything good.
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okay so whenever i wake up in the morning i always feel so nausious that i cant eat anything but it usually goes away by about 10...excpet sometimes it gets worse and i either throw up or are about to throw up...and its not because im hungry because i usually have like big midnight snacks and stuff so whats wrong wtih me (link)
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It's probably the midnight snacks.
Try sticking to a healthy, three meal a day cycle for a week or two. If the problems continue, then you'd best see a doctor.
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will drinking a lot of water help you lose weight? (link)
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No, it won't. In fact, if you drink too much, it will harm your health.
Your only option is to decrease your intake of sugary foods, and exercise about 30 minutes every day. Sugary foods are very fattening, and exercise - providing you are consistent for months - will help make your metabolism become more efficient, thus preventing you from regaining your weight quickly.
Remember, you MUST exercise; if you diet without exercise, you will gain the weight back once you stop dieting. Rollercoasting weight is worse for you than being fat.
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ok im looking for the poem that say "people talk about you behind your back, people make promises they just can't keep, I've come to realize talk is cheap......" can any1 help me?
thanks i really need it! (link)
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Life takes your dreams and turns them upside down..
Friends talk about you when you're not around..
People make promises they just can't keep..
And I've come to realize talk is cheap..
Too often we don't realize..
What we have until it's gone..
Too often we wait too late to say..
"I'm sorry, I was wrong"..
Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones..
We hold dearest to our hearts..
And we allow foolish things..
To tear our lives apart..
[Remember: Google is your friend]
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will drinking a lot of water help you lose weight? (link)
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No, it won't. In fact, if you drink too much, it will harm your health.
Your only option is to decrease your intake of sugary foods, and exercise about 30 minutes every day. Sugary foods are very fattening, and exercise - providing you are consistent for months - will help make your metabolism become more efficient, thus preventing you from regaining your weight quickly.
Remember, you MUST exercise; if you diet without exercise, you will gain the weight back once you stop dieting. Rollercoasting weight is worse for you than being fat.
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What does it mean to "cum"? And what kind of "mess" do girls make when given oral. (link)
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"To cum" is the same as an orgasm. I'm afraid I'm not authority on female ejaculation, though.
It sounds like you haven't heard much about sex. You should read up a bit before trying anything...not for technique, but to be safe, and to understand what is going on. The following is a good website to start with:
http://www.sexualityandu.ca/eng/teens/
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does neone no how to get toothpaste out of carpet.. lol i no it*s weird but i need to get the shyt out!!! i*ll rate high if it works..
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Typically, when you need to clean something tough, use chemicals that would kill you if you drank them. Ammonia, bleach, (but NEVER together, bad chemical reactions happen), ultra strong cleaning solutions, and so on.
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ok so whats an orgasm? (link)
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This is actually one of those sex questions where an encyclopedia or dictionary will be enlightening. Plenty of specific biological information to be had there.
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hello...my g/f wants to have sex w/ me...i told her yes, now shes tellin me that she wants to fool around first just to see if its "right" idk wat the hell but...im 8.5 inches, idk if thats a good or bad thing, want to help!?!?!?!?!!?!!?!?!?!?!!?!?!?! oh yeah and by fool around she means suck my dick, me finger her feel on her eat dat "suga" haha...but just lemme know!! (link)
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You're too young to stress out about that. Take it easy, or don't bother. You've got better things to do.
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How do i delete my computers history?! (link)
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Righ click on the internet explorer icon, and click properties. Then click "clear history" and the bottom of the window that comes up.
But that's not all there is to the history. The
"history" folder stores the names of the sites you've been to. There are two other places you have to worry about: cookies and temporary internet files. Cookies are stored on your compute by websites for saving settings, tracking your usage, or other things. A cookie always contains the name of the website that put it there. Temporary internet files are typically images and other data that Explorer stores when it visits the website. These files also contain references to the websites that they came from.
Here's how to take care of those things: Again, right click on internet explorer, and click properties. You'll see, in the middle of the properties window, a button that says "Delete Files...". This will delete all your temporary internet files. Next to it is the button that deletes cookies. You may or may not want to do this; as I said before, your settings on websites are stored here, and if erased, your settings will be erased also. Now, on the properties window, go to the tab that says "Privacy". Two thirds of the way down will be a button called "Advanced...". Click it. Here are the settings for how your computer stores cookies. Click the check box that says "Overried automatic cookie handling." Select "block" under the "Third Party cookies" heading. Third party cookies almost always spell trouble. you can also choose to block or accept "First-Party cookies." You shouldnt block these, though, because these cookies are usually helpful. I personally select "prompt" under this heading; this makes it so that every time a website tries to store cookies on your pc, internet explorer will ask if you want the site to. Most sites you go to, you won't need cookies for, so you can tell explorer to always block them from that site. This can be a hassle though, so you might just want to accept first party cookies. Finally, down the bottom of this window, there is a checkbox that says "Always allow session cookies." You need these for certain websites.
Of course, if security is your prime concern, then you can just block all cookies also.
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Are there any diet plans out there that can help me lose thigh weight? (link)
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You could stop eating. That'll keep the pounds off, and it'll feel good while you do it (when the body consumes itself for energy, it releases endorphins). Of course, by doing that, you'll also die.
But then, say you go on a diet, and it works! That doesn't matter. Why not? Dieting takes the pounds off, but it doesn't alter your metabolism; in other words, you'll gain the pounds right back if you stop dieting. Rollercoasting weight is even worse for you than obesity.
The key is to reduce your intake of high sugar foods, and anything that would qualify as candy. In addition, you have to exercise. It doesn't have to be much; a very little each day is enough. As you get stronger, exercising more will be easier and quicker. And, most importantly, gradually changing your activity rate is effective at changing your metabolism. Your body will gradually process food more efficiently, and turn more of it into energy. And that means less goes into fat.
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ok well i have a really hard time getting a tan..so i bout the SPRAY on tan not the stuff u rub and now its darker in places and i want it off
does anyone know how to get it off by tomorrow bc i have to wear a bathing suit and it look really stupid
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What NOT to do: don't sunbathe, and DO NOT use tanning salons. Oh, you may get a tan eventually. But you'll also get skin cancer sometime down the road, beyond any shadow of a doubt. Looks are no reason to shorten your life span.
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Well my boyfriend that I am in very much love with has left for a year and half. Though he's coming home I've been really sad and crying ever nite and not getting alot of sleep, because I miss him so much. Does anyone have any advice on how to pass the time or ease the pain of him not being here right now? I rate good! (link)
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Get a hobby. Seriously. There's a lot more to life than a single focus on someone else, despite what some people may think and say. Find something you love doing; something constructive is best. By doing something, I do not mean going somewhere. I mean do something; build things, make things, write, read, learn - those things that engage your creativity will bring you the most happiness.
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I want to get this girls attention, but i dont want it to seem like i am really trying to flirt, whats the best way for her to notice me and see me for a good thing, i really like this girl and i want to know how i should get her attention. So how do i get her attention in a good way?
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Then don't try to flirt. Just be friendly. Chit chat. The flirting is not so much concious effort as it is body language and vocal intonation; in other words, thanks to your presumably raging horomones, things just work out that way.
Perhaps one day you'll get your social technique down, and be able to use it conciously. Until that day, don't worry about it. If this gal is worth your while, she'll apreciate candidness more than a good show.
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theres this girl i been going out with and she wants to make out and i dont realy know how to do it and she wants to and how do i make out with her im not sure wat i be doin lol help.... (link)
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Seen many movies?; having seen it done always helps. It's not as tough as it may seem. Just let yourself do it; your body knows how. Part of any sexual experience (and yes, making out is) is letting of concious control.
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I have had daily headaches for the past 5 years.Must have had every test going!But the CT scan or MRI doesn't show anything.There seems to be no rhyme or reason. Could be weather(especially humidity) ,eating to much or certain foods, tension ,stress.My shoulder muscles are hard and neck very stiff every day.Medicines such as anti-inflamatory's ,muscle relaxers or migrane pills (such as Imitrex) all work the opposite on me making things worse.I take Oxycocet only for the pain and sometime's that doesn't even help.Also,it is like I have too much fluid in my head.My ears have fluid in them quite often,nose runs when I eat anything and boy if I was to cry, my head would pound severly. So... What do you think? Cujobird (link)
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This is from WebMD.com; it's the closest thing I can find:
TRANSFORMED MIGRAINES:
Transformed migraines are chronic, daily headaches with a vascular quality (meaning that they are throbbing in nature.) Most people who experience transformed migraines have a history of migraines, usually beginning in childhood or early adolescence. The onset of daily transformed migraine headaches generally occurs in people during their 20's and 30's.
Many people with a previous history of migraine will suddenly report the headaches are less severe but are more frequent, until they begin occurring daily. This change may be caused by the daily use of pain-relievers. Some people with transformed migraines report having severe episodes accompanied by nausea and vomiting, much like migraines. Often, it is difficult to differentiate between tension headaches and transformed migraines.
Because transformed migraines are difficult to diagnose, many people may be treated inappropriately. Treatment is further complicated because of the chronic nature of headache. Many people with transformed headaches have the tendency to overuse pain-relievers, both prescription and over-the-counter, using these drugs daily with or without having a headache. This puts the person at risk for building up a tolerance to the drugs. Additionally, taking large amounts of pain-relievers containing caffeine can experience withdrawal headaches.
In many cases, people suffering from transformed migraines have other health problems such as hypertension and depression which complicate treatment. Seeking care by an experienced, multidisciplinary health care team to coordinate treatment is essential to finding relief.
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ok why the hec are the MAJORITY of these questions about sex related topics????? theres nothing about babysitting, school, sports, pets, gardening, home decortating, theater, etc. i refuse to answer any sex related questions because you dont ask advicenators.com how to get someone in bed w/ u, etc! you ask them "hey im babysitting two 3 year old twins tomorrow. i really dont like them, not that theyre bad kids, i just dont like em! what can i do?" i understand that people need advice on these things and this is an anonymous way to get it! but people, mayb you could ask your friends or something! i dont know. i just want to know why so many people talk about that on here! its kinda of gross! every other question. . .! yick. ok so please answer ill rate VERY high cause u actually continued to read this! :-P (link)
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What is the largest demographic that uses this website? Teenagers. And what do all teenagers have in common? Sexual insecurity. So the questions you'll see will often be about that subject.
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every time i eat, no matter what i eat, i feel really guilty. what is wrong with me? some of my friends say i am anorexic because i skip meals sometimes (not a lot tho) and i am always on a diet. help!!!!!!!!! (link)
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You have a psychological disorder called anorexia. Anorexia doesn't mean starving yourself...it means being uncontrollably self concious about your weight and such to the point of feeling guilty about eating. You don't have to worry, it is something that you can overcome. The best thing to do is to start talking to your school guidance counselor, or seek help from a psychologist. Your problem is not your weight, it is your mindset. Nutritional and psychological counseling can help you overcome it.
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i have a car and someone keyed it... also, they egged it and put ketchup and sweet n sour sauce on it! ugh! i cant believe someone would do such a thing! also, they put a used pad on it. it had blood on it and everything. SO GROSS! Also, they put a used tampon on top of it. My windows are broken and everything. What should i do? (link)
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My friend had the same problem. He solved it assaulting the vandals with a paintball gun. It's illegal, but effective.
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I am 115 lbs and 5'5'' i would like to loose 10 lbs as soon as possible without anorexia or bulimia. i hardly have anytime to go to the gym. please give me advice on how to accomplish my goal. (link)
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115 pounds is a very healthy weight for your height. It would be inadviseable to lose ten pounds. Just some thoughts: living healthy means living longer. Don't shorten your lifespan for fashion or looks.
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