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I'm an ordinary person who likes the following things: writing, helping people, movies, reading, jogging, animals and teaching.

I don't like: stress, confusion, people who do not drag their weight and laziness.

My good qualities (I think) are patience, open-mindedness and the ability to write and speak in public with ease.

My weaknesses (I'm always working on these!) are the tendency to take on too much, from time to time; the tendency to not get enough sleep and my eating habits could be a lot better than they are now.

I will try to answer questions in an honest, open way, involving what I think is common sense. If I don't think I can answer a question well, I will skip over it.

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I was just at a dance tonight and I asked my friend, Ben if he was going, he said probably not but after about two hours of convincing, i finally got him to come. So, i was warning people that he was coming and one girl that heard likes him soooo much which doesnt bother me until later that night. she was on him allll night and i felt like i was getting jealous but i shouldn't have been. then at the end of the night a slow song came on, she grabbed him and started dancing, he doesnt feel that way, i know so, he told me, but i got so upset that i just walked away trying to keep my cool until i came home. so i arrived home, texted him and told him how i felt tonight, that i was so upset that i was the reason he came, but i got zero time with him, yes, he apologized like any guy would but things escalated and ended so wrong, we got so mad at eachother that i just started crying so hard. he said he wanted to go to bed but i wanted to keep talking until he said isnt he allowed to leave until i was satisfied with this conversation. so i got so mad i just texted back "BYE!" and he didnt even answer back. so i have 2 questions: some of my friends think he likes me and that i was the reason he went, for me. do you think thats true? and, did i lose him for good, if so how do i get him back? this whole thing was over a stupid girl! i regret ever opening my mouth but i thought i should have told him how i felt seeming as we tell eachother everything and we've been best friends since 3rd grade. any help, please.. im desperate. (link)
I would wait a day and do nothing. After a day, if he hasn't called or texted you, call or text him and say: "I feel really bad about what happened the other night. We've been friends since 3rd grade. Can we just back it up before all that happened and just start over?" And see what he says. At least you would have opened it up for discussion. Sometimes it is best to not re-hash stuff again and just agree to go on with a clean slate. See if you can get him to agree to that. Good luck.


My Boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship, and since early december he's been at his parents, so we've had even less time to talk than usual. (which isnt much)

Today is my birthday, and tomorrow is our 6 months. I told him I'd be busy today but would love to squeeze in a quick chat sometime during the day. He told me he won't be able to chat today, due to 'guy time' at the house.


So, alright. Then he tells me he can't chat tomorrow either (our 6 month). We don't celebrate every month anniversaries, but I'd like to at least talk to him on our 6th. :/ He can't talk for a little bit tmrw because it's his last day there, so he said he'll be busy packing?

I just feel like I'm the one trying to squeeze freaking 30 minutes out of him just to talk to me, and he won't even talk for that long. I feel like I'm making an effort, and he isn't. I really, have a 99.9% feeling that he doesn't even know/remember tomorrow is our anniversary. I understand he's maybe preoccupied with his parents and being there and such, but i KNOW for a fact he's on xbox at least half the day. And you're telling me you can't come talk to me for not even half an hour?

I haven't brought this up to him, because it's not a HUGE deal, and honestly we've been having more arguments since he's been gone, so I'd like to maintain the peace for now. But, he says we can talk all day monday (when hes back home), which sounds fine, but then when I really think about it..this is all whenever HE wants to chat. ugh, what about me?!

I don't know what I'm asking for, I just need some advice on how to not let this get to me. Please help. (link)
I think you need to figure out how big a deal all of this is to you. If it is something that you feel is important and you are feeling that he isn't putting into the relationship what you are putting in, then I think when he calls on Monday you need to talk about it with him. If this is a big deal to you, it isn't good for you to hold it in.

On the other hand, if you feel this isn't as big a deal for you, and you can live with him calling and talking to you when HE can.....and not when YOU want. And if you can live with the Xbox stuff ....then don't tell him and just get over it.

I wish you luck with all of this.


okay so just to warn you this is long.

19/f/nj

Well ive been talking to this kid i went to high school with,we actually started talking about 2 months ago through facebook,text,call. We didnt talk much in school but since we've been talking these last 2 months ive gotten to know him and he seems really great.WE hung out once before college winter break and that was about a month ago.We havent hung out since ive been trying to hang out with him but hes been sick and ive been sick as well but i just feel like its just an excuse to not hang out with me.We talked on the phone about 4 days ago and he seemed still interested in me (I mean we've been texting for the past 2 months almost everyday) he was away at college but he's now going to school close by so that played a role of us not hanging out in the beggining. He usually always texts me first but ive had to do it lately, like we might not talk for one day because i didnt text him and then if i text him the day after that then the day after i text him he will text me. I feel like were in a tennis court going back and forth. He seems to always hang out with his friends and never asks me to hang out since he's been back home. He also got out of long term relationship about 2 months ago. My sister says that he is probably using me as a rebound but we havent even hung out and he talks to me almost everyday so i dont get.I texted him yesterday asking what he was doing he replies with hey! hanging out with my friends how about you? and i said oh i was wondering if you wanted to hang out but alright have fun. But then like on new years i was away on vacation and he wished i was there and said well we have plenty of time to hang out and he always says stuff like that.Im just so confused right now i need advice what do you guys think? is he using me,does he really like me?
thanks! (link)
There's only one way to tell if he really likes you. Stop being the first one to text/call him. Wait and let him text/call you. If you are always the pursuer, you will never know if he REALLY wants to be with you. If you are the one always asking to hang out, you will never know if HE wants to hang out with you. My personal feeling....though it may be hard to do, is to back off and see if he comes to you. If he does, you will know he is sincere. If he doesn't....then I would say that's a good indication he isn't really interested. I wish you good luck with all this. You are in a difficult situation.


15/f

Barnes and Noble has this product called the Nook. The only way I know how to describe it is a iBoook kind of. On an ipod you can download music but on the nook you can download books. The problem I have is that the device is $259 dollars and thats not including the books that I would want to buy. The books are up to 10 dollars. I was wondering if there were any other devices like this but cheaper and the books are cheaper to get.

Thanks (link)
Well, if you had an iPhone, you could download the Amazon Kindle app for free. Kindle is the Amazon version of the reader you found from Barnes and Noble. Then, you could download and read books on your iPhone. You would still have to buy books, though there are many, many free books available for Kindle through Amazon....maybe not the ones you want, but free.

If you chose to download the Kindle app for iPhone, of course you would have to HAVE an iPhone. The last I heard, the latest version of iPhone is on sale for $199 and the version of iPhone before that one is on sale for $99.

If you choose this option, note that it isn't exactly like reading books on the real Kindle or Nook, because the iPhone is alot smaller, though you can make the type larger, if you want....and it "feels" like the Kindle in that you change pages easily. However, the Kindle app is backlit. That means it might be harder on the eyes, since the real Kindle reader uses a new technology called "electronic ink" which needs no backlight.

I hope all this has helped.


okay so as i said above, my laptop is a DELL laptop. The power AC adapter is a model: AA20031, input 100-240V~1.5A 50/60Hz Output 20V- 3.5A. i don't know if you needed to know that but well now you do. anyway, It keeps connecting and disconnecting, which results in my computer screen flashing bright and dull. I don't know if it's the Chord itself or the place in the back of the laptop where you plug it in. does anyone know?? its really sensitive so if i move my laptop now it will not work but once again i don't know if its the chord the the plug in the laptop. (link)
Not sure how old your laptop is, but with one I had a couple of years ago, there was a recall from Dell on the kind that came with my laptop because of a defect. Mine was acting just like yours. I contacted Dell and they sent me out a new one.


Occasionally I'd feel a bit anxious and have to open the window to breathe. Like throughout my life that would happen like a few times during the year. But then something happened this year. Like before I was able to drink coffee and things with caffeine just fine. But all of a sudden like I had a cup of coffee.. and I put too much coffee in it and then I was shaking and my heart was beating fast and I was like freaking out and felt like I couldn't breathe even though I was breathing fine. I went to sleep and woke up and it was fine. Occasionally after that I'd feel that way. I also drank other things like tea.. which I didnt realize had caffeine. Those made me feel weird too.. so after checking they had caffeine I stopped. And then this Christmas I had a lot of cheesecake over a couple days, and lucky me, the cheesecake had caffeine! I had no idea, once again. I was wondering why I felt anxious and stuff.. since I usually had the cheesecake at night and like I'd be in the basement on the computer and feel all weird. So then I stopped having it.. I haven't had anything with caffeine in a couple days now. Does chocolate have caffeine? I hope it doesn't.. like chocolate in general. If it does I guess I'll have to stop drinking it as much but I still keep feeling anxious! the past couple days have been like hell. like right now im breathing fine.. and my heart is a steady beat, but i think im just anxious.. like i feel like all of a sudden something will happen in my body which will make me not be able to breathe. please tell me that things like that cant happen. Im 15 years old, btw. and what can I do to stop this anxiety, where I have to like take deep breaths and I just feel uncomfortable and stiff. I think its all mind games now since I've stopped having caffeine. What are other common things people eat that have caffeine? I need to avoid them.. could I have like an intolerance to caffeine? And im so confused cause I used to have no problem with it before so why did it happen all of a sudden that day? :(

HELP ME! (link)
Yes, you can be allergic to caffeine. And yes, there is caffeine in chocolate. I suggest you read these articles and then talk to your doctor about this allergy right away. It could be very serious.

http://www.ehow.com/facts_5476645_symptoms-caffeine-allergy.html

http://www.drugs.com/sfx/caffeine-side-effects.html

http://allergies.suite101.com/article.cfm/coffee_allergy_or_something_else


Okay, so here's my story.

Back in 9th grade (The summer before that, actually) I was dating this girl. We'll call her "Jane".

“Jane” is a year younger than me. She’s an A-B student.

So, anyway. We went out for about a month. We were pretty close. By the end of the summer, right before school started, her best friend told her that she was moving away to Kentucky (Or Kansas, I don't really know anymore). So we through her a big moving away/we'll miss you party. That evening we were sitting on her couch in her basement watching some stupid old movie when she comes out with the whole "I can't be seeing you anymore, I need to be with my best friend before she moves away" thing. I understood (For the most part) and we split up. She said she would always like me. I was pretty upset, since not many girls would even look at me. (Which is weird because I don't look much different and now girls won't leave me alone! Cocky, right?)

Okay, now we go ahead a few years.

So, after that, I went about 3 years single and I met this girl. We'll call her "Judy". She said she liked me, and (I'm pretty sure out of desperation) I said I kind of liked her, too. So we went out for about a month. We weren't very close. But by the end of that month, all I could think about was "Jane". So I told her that I wasn't feeling the "magic". (No, I did not get laid.) I have turned down more relationships than I can even remember. I was getting depressed. Not only could I not look at another girl without seeing "Jane's" face, "Jane" was now seeing a guy that didn't treat her with much respect. (I know, I know. Coming from the ex boyfriend who still likes her.) But he really doesn't treat her with the respect she deserves.

And here's the proof.

I work at the beach in my neighborhood. One day “Jane” comes crying to the beach because she found Mr. Perfect making out with another girl. So, my friend Nick and I were there to comfort her. And yadda yadda yadda she goes on about how he's an ass.

I find out 2 weeks later, she's back with the asshole. And I'm hearing from all of his friends that he's just trying to use her for sex. And other things and so on and so forth.

So, pretty much, I find out this guys a real jerk.

But the fact that she thinks that he's anything more than an angel is beyond me.

Hang in there guys, I'm almost to the question!

Right now I can't live a day without thinking about "Jane". It’s depressing me to the point where I don’t leave my house for months on end. And I really don't know if she knows it or if she even still likes me. I just want her to have what she deserves. If I wasn't right for her, fine. As long as she's not with that jerkass douchebag of a boyfriend she's with now.

My question.

Is there any way I can find out if she still likes me? Or anything I can do to help her find “Mr. Right”? Should I drop little hints? Or should I just tell her straight up? We haven’t been talking much lately, but I want to.

Any information will help!

I really appreciate it!

–Bartol Babich (link)
I think you should tell her that you are there for her if she ever needs to talk or needs someone to help her "pick up the pieces." There's not much you can say to her more than that, I think. That leaves it open for her to know that you care about her and are there for her any time she wants. I don't see as how you can confess your love to her at this point. She is wrapped up in the other guy. But if you let her know that you care and will be there for her, you are opening the door for her to come to you....and once she does, if she does....you will be able to show her much more about how you feel. But at this point...I think you have to just let her know that "the door is open." Good luck.


I don't like how I feel sometimes about my ex. He's my best friend and I know that we are meant to be friends. I don't want to like him as more than that, but the feelings haven't gone away. He broke up with me about 2 months ago because he said that his feelings weren't there anymore.

I know that he isn't right for me. I've known it all along, but over the course of our time together I slowly had stronger feelings for him until I really did love him. But certain things about us together were never ideal. Basically, I loved him and imagined my life together with him, but there was always a small amount of doubt. All the same, it didn't make it any easier after the break up. I felt like I lost the love of my life. I became extremely depressed for a couple of weeks.

We stayed best friends immediately after the break up. It's worked out well for the both of us. It's like he said, we can love eachother without all the relationship stuff. So now, I give him advice about the girl he likes and he teases me about my crushes. But sometimes, the thought of him with that girl together, it turns my stomach :/. And I know I can't avoid this feeling, eventually if something does happen between them, it could only get worse.

So does anyone know a way that I could deal with this? Anything would help. Thanks (link)
Honestly, I think it is difficult sometimes to be friends with someone you love so much. Just because he stopped having feelings for you, that doesn't mean that your feelings just stopped when you broke up. I think that is why more people who break up just break clean. That means by just not being around him so much....not trying to be friends. Sure, it is nice to still have him to talk to, but it hurts you when he is talking about other girls. Honestly, I think you should break free of him. You don't have to do it formally, just gradually try to not see him as much. Try to not talk as much. It is my personal feeling that you need to do this to be able to move on. If you keep on trying to be friends, it will be good for him, but not necessarily for you. It kind of is not fair to you, I think. So my advice would be to gradually stop being so close to him as a friend and move on. If you do that....your feelings for him will have time to heal and you will be able to get on with your life. Good luck.


okay im 15 sophmore and the last day b4 vacation started my friend george told me that he's friend xavier wanted to see me b4 8th period he had chines and have polish and those classes are next to each other. so i went there and i saw him i know he saw me and he was pushing his frineds inside the class room alonge with him self. and i waited incase he would you know come back out. but he never did. so i went to my class feeling all bumbed. he said he liked me and i like him to. so know schools going to start and im not sure what i should do. aproach him or talk to him. i just dont know what to do. (link)
Well all you have is what George said. Not saying what he said isn't true....it probably is, if he is your true friend. But I would wait. Just see what happens and if Xavier approaches you first. Be nice....smile....but wait. Just my opinion. Good luck.


m/16.. what things can i go to or join to help me meet new girls, cuz i go to an all boys school and most of my friends r like me wher we know very few girls... its not that i hav a tough time becomming friends with girls and talking to them its just that i just rarely ever get a chance to talk to or do somthing with girls.... (link)
Is there any way to talk to the principal of your school about having a dance or party with girls from an all-girls school? This would be the best way to meet girls, I would think. And if they say yes, you can....then be sure to get the phone number or email of girls you are interested in getting to know. Good luck.


So, we have two cats; a kitten and a 5 year old. We also have a puppy. The 5 year old, who we got the same time as the kitten, in September of 2009, is not a very happy cat. He makes a lot of loud noises, doesn't get along with the other animals, and poops on the floor. He gets along with me just fine! I'm wondering if he's sick, because he 'screams' at absolutely nothing; however my parents have the belief that cats don't get sick (ever).

Is there anything I can do to make him more comfortable in his new home, to help him calm down? My mom says we might have to give him back, and I really don't want to. (link)
I definitely would bring the cat to the vet and get a check up. I had a cat that screamed/cried like that and she had a bacterial infection that they had to treat with a shot and pills. She got better and never did that again. And this was a cat that was always kept in the house. So cats DO get sick and need to see the doctor sometimes. Good luck.


it has been a long time since i dating anyone or even approached someone. I am 21(not a nerd) and male and don't have alot of self confidence. What do i need to do to keep someone interested in me? (link)
I know this will seem like too easy of an answer, but truly, you want to just be yourself. You want to attract someone who likes you for you, so you don't want to NOT be yourself. Being female, I will tell you that the kind of guy that girls look for is as varied as the number of girls out there! Some look for a guy who is outgoing and likes sports, some look for a guy who is more reserved and likes to read or who likes technology. Some are attracted by brains...some by looks. So just be yourself, as you want to attract someone who will want you for YOU.

Other than that, be interested in the girl. Ask her questions about herself and tell her about yourself....your likes, your life...your family. Be open and honest. Good luck!


4 years ago was the last time I saw my dad. He left without a trace. We've been tracking him and he was arrested today. I might go see him tomorrow, and I am thinking of what to do/say. I could really use some help now. I am a 14 year old male. (link)
Don't go with any expectations, because you don't know what to expect. That means...you don't know if he will want to see you. You don't know how he will react to you seeing him. So be ready for anything.

Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel about his leaving without a trace. Tell him how it made you feel.

If you have feelings for him, tell him. But be honest.

I'm sorry you have to go through this. No one deserves this in their life. You are very brave in going to see him. Good luck.


My boyfriend of 14 mths told me recently he joined the Air force. However he told me after everyone else new and over two weeks after he told everyone else. His friends, the lady who cuts his hair, even my neighbor knew before I did. I feel very hurt not just in the fact he kept something from me like that, but the fact he lied to me. He lied to me by saying that he was hanging out with his friends when actually he was joining the air force. I guess I just figure with as long as we dated he could at least be honest with him. I've been completely 100% honest with him from the beginning. I'm am extremely hurt as of right now and been thinking about ending it for the past week and a half. Besides he could be gone for a yr to two at a time. I just don't see it working out. Am I a horrible person if it does end? And also do you think he was just trying to protect me by not telling me till almost 2 wks after he joined? When he told me it was in the middle of a fight we were having and he said that was a good time to tell me then any other. How is that? I asked a few of my friends and they said he was just trying to protect me. None of them really want to get that involved because they said it's a very touchy subject. ERR! I just dunno. Please help me! (link)
My gut feeling is that's not a good sign that he would keep something like that from you. Didn't he think that you would hear about it from everyone he told? It would be guessing why he did it. I don't think that's the important part. I think that you have to have a heart-to-heart talk with him and start communicating on a real level. You mentioned that you and he were "in the middle of a fight" ...so, I take it your relationship is a rocky one. I would say that to be able to withstand long distances between you two over two years, your relationship has to be very, very strong. Unless you can make some big changes before he leaves, I would agree with you that prospects for success with a long distance relationship are slim.


this is not just your typical "my in laws drive me crazy" situation. my father-in-law (who by the way is a pastor) was always controlling in his marraige, family, then when i came around, with me. control isnt the only problem. he always said i wasnt good enough for nathan so he talked about me to everyone else and tried (actually succeeded) in making a bad name for me so i would be hated. he forced sex with his wife when she was extremely sick with cancer, abused her, cheated on her, molested his daughter,said i was a whore for wearing jeans & swimming in a 2 piece bathing suit, wouldnt allow us to go on a date to the movies together because it appears to be evil, steals from his children, and actually came out and said they were a curse to him because they were having a hard time accepting him wanting to marry another woman after only losing their mother 2 months prior. the list goes go on & on. what makes everything even worse is they try to make everyone believe theyre this perfect christian family. after trying for a long time to start a family with no luck, i finally got pregnant but had a misscariage 2 a month & a half later. hurt and dissappointed, i also find out that a rumor is going around that i probably had an affair, got pregnant and had an abortion. i finally had enough! i love my husband and im trying to understand this IS his family and no matter how i feel he loves them.he wants to spend time with them but i dont want to. he thinks i should get over everything that was done to me and at least try to build a relationship with them. everytime in the past i tried for my husband..i got hurt! after 4 years of this i say enough is enough! am i wrong? MY IDEA-support him in his decision to continue a relationship with them but for him to understand i dont have to be around them or to be put in another situation like that again. HIS IDEA-for me to move on and eventually have them be in my life because they are his family am i wrong? should i just get over it and try to make him happy? our marriage is on the line.. please help me
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Okay...this is just my opinion, but I guess that's why you asked the question here, right?

First of all, let me say that when I read all the things about your father-in-law, I was shocked and thought, "Wow...what a guy!! NOT!!!" I honestly can see why you want nothing to do with him/them ever again!!! But...you have a husband that you love...and he loves his family, no matter what they are like. I believe that as his wife, you are his mate and have LIMITED obligation to have contact with his family. To me, that means major holidays (including father's day) and birthdays. If it were me, this is what I would tell my husband. But I would limit contact to those holidays. I think you have to have limited contact, but you don't have to become "best buddies" with him/them.

Just my humble opinion. Good luck.


Hi, I am a 17f. I really don't have any friends, well I had one.. she really hurt me in the end and we aren't friends no more..
Anyhow, I am alone, I don't have any close friends, I've never met a guy worth dating, and I was wondering if you know of anything; a camp, something like that, that a girl could go to in the summertime to make some awesome lifetime friendships. I am very outgoing, I love art, sports, music, dancing, pretty much anything.. and I really want to know of someplace I could go that is not too expensive, but would be a great place to just hang out, do some fun stuff, and make friends this summer. Please share any ideas you may have
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Have you thought about applying to be a camp counselor? You could research camps for children or even disabled children, in your area on the web, and then apply to be a counselor. I think that would be fun and you would get to know the other counselors for the camp who would be around your age.

If you decide to apply, be sure to list your strengths and talents (can sing, play an instrument, have worked with children before, good with arts and crafts, good swimmer, have Red Cross Life Saving Certification, etc.....you get the idea). Just a thought. I wish you luck.


Is this girl a fake? Is this a popular fake photo? On DailyBooth in my news feed, she came up and I was confused cause someone was saying she was a fake.


http://www.myspace.com/drama90210 (link)
Any time you want to find out where a picture came from (for example, did someone put a fake picture on their myspace page) go to this website:

http://www.tineye.com/

It is a reverse picture search engine. You can upload a pic from your computer or put in the url where the picture is found and tineye will tell you where it came from.

I put in the url that you give above. There are four pics on this web page. Tineye could not identify the first one, but on the second pic (second from the left) it told me the web address of the flickr page where this person had put up many pics, including the one that is second from the left on the myspace page. Sometimes you can get other information from the flickr site about the person who uploaded the pics to flickr. Either it is the real person who uploaded the pics to flickr to myspace OR a person who knew how to "steal" pics from someone's flickr page when they created a myspace page.

I hope this helps.


Okay a few days ago i was arrested for tresspassing & curfew, apparently the cop
arrestted me for playing games ? but im not
going to get into that. Im 16, he put metal
handcuffs on me & didn't read me my rights.
he also went threw my coast pockets..

people have been telling me i can fight that
in court, because he shouldn't of done any of
them. but i dont want to say anything if it
dosen't matter, so if you know anything let me
knwo before my court date ! (link)
Call a lawyer. There are some who will take your case and not require you to pay money up front. If he didn't read you your rights and went through your pockets without a warrant, your rights were violated. Get a lawyer.


I have a major sweet tooth. I am really big on balance and moderation, but I do tend to treat myself to some kind of sweet treat everyday. Like, maybe a cookie or brownie, or I don't know some sweet tarts, etc. I'm very thin, so there is not a weight issue with it, drs actually tell me to eat more, but my aunts and other family give me a hard time and acts like it's so bad that i like to eat sugar now and then. It makes me worry that its going to hurt my health. But honestly, I have a sweet tooth that will never come lose and I'm thin and in decent shape, so what is the problem?! It is OK to eat sweets in moderation (even daily), right?! (link)
If you don't have diabetes or a weight problem and you are having sugary treats in moderation, I think most doctors would tell you there is nothing wrong with what you are doing! Geeze....what would life be without any sweet treats??? Even diabetics have sugar free desserts!! Enjoy your treats in moderation, even daily!!!!!


My first love was a twin and i fell hard for him. Jonathan ended up breaking my heart, and his twin brother Jacob helped me through it all. Now me and Jacob are the best of friends, but theres one problem i'm falling for him. I don't want to be known as the school whore or slut because I dated his twin brother, but I'm in love with him. I don't think I could get over him, he's helped me so much! What should I do? (link)
First of all, you sound so happy, and I am sure you are. You are so lucky that you became friends with Jacob first and are falling for him after you were already friends. I think that will make your relationship with him so much deeper.

Secondly, don't worry what people at school think. I really don't think they will think badly of you dating Jacob after Jonathan broke your heart. Everyone deserves happiness and I think you are finding it with Jacob. I would say let things progress as they are and you probably are on the way to a great relationship! Good luck!




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