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okay im a singer as some of yous may know i have a really great voice and sing at places the probelm is i smoke..i noticed my voice cracks sometimes.I really need advice to quit smoking because my parents smoke also so it will be hard and any tip to improve my singing.Please help me! (link)
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QUIT SMOKING THEN!!! Tell your parents to quit too and try the patch w/ you then! But if you want to improve your singing, don't drink soda and milk or eat any dairy products the day that you sing! Drink a lot of water! ok well hope i helped! love yah!
Ok well thanks for that rating! How am i supposed to know if your lactose intolorant if you dont put it on here?!?! and why did you even start smoking in the 1st place if you knew it was bad for you, especially if you sing?!?!
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What are some good exercises for toning your butt? Can you give me at least like 4 different exercises?? Thanks!!!!! (link)
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Lunges w/ dumbbells, squats (w/ a barbell), calf raises on stairs, squat jumps, and running sprints! Hope I helped! love yah~!
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well ther is this cute guy and he really likes me, and i kind of felt for it and i kind of like him to now, even though i shouldnt like him, i just feel like i shouldnt like him for some reason
PS: please help me, to try and get over him.
Thank you,
shorty (link)
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Why shouldn't you like him? If he likes you, go for it...unless its more complicated than that. I don't know how to help you unless you tell me why you feel like you shouldn't like him so IM me if you wanna talk about this more babe! But if you really wanna get over him--meet new guys and hang out w/ them! Hope i kinda helped yah there! Love yah!
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my gf Sandy and I are close..in her point of veiw. I dont like Sandy at all. But Sandy REALLY likes me. People want me to kiss her..but i dont want to.I just want to be friends. Besides..my friend Jack likes Sandy i think..so Jack gets mad at me. and if i break up with Sandy people might get mad at me. But i really want to break up with Sandy. Its hard to break up with her to.. because we talk on the phone all day and stuff. I really dont like her. (link)
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Well it sounds like a loose/loose situation...no matter what someone's gonna be mad at you. But if you don't like her then why did you even go out w/ her in the first place? I think you should break up w/ her nicely and say you want to be friends. Don't worry so much about what other people think about you. It's between you and Sandy only. And if you're friend likes her, let him have a chance w/ her! Ok well hope i helped! Good luck!
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hi! ok well i am always look for a guy i think i try to hard but i dont know . i finally found a guy who is all that i want, were friends tho he is all tryin to get his ex back and the more i look at it me and his ex are a ton alike i have pointed that out to him and he knows it too but he wants her he also knows i like him but there is no weirdness! do you know how to get him to want me and get over her??? or just how to get a guy intersted when your not the prettest thing out there? help
-- hopeless romantic (link)
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haha hey babe! i know how you feel! i always think i'm not pretty enough for guys to like me! but i think that this guy just wants his ex more than you right now bc of their history together. but tell him that he needs to move on bc in my opinion, she prolly already has but idk her sooo anways...don't bring up that you like him bc its prolly just freakin him out right now, and maybe he's just afraid bc he knows you do...guys are just weird like that. but just be his friend and hang out w/ him as friends and in a while...i don't know how much time it'll take him, but he'll prolly start forgetting he wants his ex back and maybe then he can focus on you...and i'm sure your 100 times prettier than she is so you have nothin to worry about! hope i helped! im me if you wanna talk about this more bc i dunno the whole situation! love yah babe!
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Does anyone have any good ideas for a book, for a young teen girl to read on the beach. I need a good summer read. (link)
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haha! The 5 People You Meet in Heaven is really good i dunno who wrote it tho and Dating Game by Danielle Steel is really good too! Right now I'm reading Live Like You Were Dying...its based off the song! haha! Well have fun at the beach! Love yah!
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My sisters friend, I'll call her Kaitlyn, is only 12 years old and might have an eating disorder. She doesn't eat anything at all. Shes naturally skinny, but she won't eat anything. She'll put food in her mouth, then go to the bathroom and spit it out. Does that mean she might be anorexic?
Also she has a strange habit. She won't sleep. She stays up all night and then gets up at 5 in the morning, gets dressed, and then sit at the edge of her bed until 7:45. What is up with her??? (link)
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Well...it could be anerexia...but is there anything bad going on in her life right now that she would cause her to react like that? I think you should talk to your sister about it and then maybe the two of you could tell "Kaitlyn" that you're worried about her. If she can't sleep, then she is prolly worried about something thats keeping her up all night. Ok well hope I kinda helped w/ this! IM me if you wanna talk about this anymore! Love yah!
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My friends Dad died last year and today its fathers day and she called me crying and stuff..what do i do? its her first fathers day without her dad! I feel SOO bad. Shes not my best friend, but still a girl i know very well. Please help. ='( (link)
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Awww that sucks, I'm sorry to hear that. I think that you and your family should invite their family over for dessert tonight or something to take their mind off of it. And even though she's not your BEST friend, you obviously mean a lot to her if your the one she called today so maybe if you can't have her over tonight, call her later and invite her do to something this week...it'll make her feel better! Hope i helped! Love yah!
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ok so my best guy friend is moving. i used to like him but now im trying not to b/c he's moving and i no it won't work out. but i still want to be friends. how can i still be friend's with him if he's moving like 2 hours away. will being friend's work with him so far away? (link)
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Hey babe! YEA YOU CAN STILL BE FRIENDS W/ HIM!!! My best guy friend lives 8 hrs away from me and we've managed to strengthen our friendship over that distance for the past 5 yrs...even tho we're not talking right now haha! But like yall can still IM, email, text, & even call sometimes! You can still talk to him everyday! And it seems like it can't work out right now, and you're right, it prolly can't, but if you lose touch w/ him now, then who knows what could've happened between yall in the future? Ok well hope I kinda helped babe! If you wanna talk about this anymore just IM me anytime! Love yah!
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im 13/f and i like a guy that is 16. i have known him since i was born and he was my sisters friend, but then we moved to dallas and now he still lives in seattle. so i just saw him a couple of days ago and now i like him ALOT and like idk wat to do. ive known him my whole! life! and like...he has a gf in california and hes had her for like a few yrs and like they see eachother every month! and like i want to move back to seattle not only b/c of him but my old friends and stuff too. so is there ne thing i can do to like make him like me or stay in touch. BTW i dont have his sn but my sister will get it but like i dont want to tlk to him on that b/c i never really talked to him. HELP!
p.s this is my sn if you can im me for more help! ilove50centmore and that is on aim! plzz help!!! (link)
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Well, if you want to stay in touch w/ him, then get his sn and just say that you're really bored and don't know that many people in Dallas yet and you got his sn from your sister. And i know how you feel...I once liked a guy in another state and I missed him like hell but you eventually meet new guys and keep busy and move on! it's hard tho i won't lie. Tell me if you want to talk more about this on IM! Hope i kinda helped for now! Love yah babe! I'm sure it'll get better!
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hey, how should i break up w/ my boyfriend?? He still really likes me, but i want to move on. There are like 3 other guys that like me and i need help picking between them. HELP WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!??!?!?! (link)
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Are you only breaking up w/ him bc 3 other guys like you? I've never broken up w/ anyone but don't do it over IM bc thats just not cool, at least call him or do it in person. And don't feel like you HAVE to choose one of the other guys to go out w/ if you don't like any of them. But if you want to choose, i would open up microsoft word and type a pro/con list about each guy w/ the screen turned off bc then u can't look at it and change it and if you dont save it then no one can ever find it! haha! hope i helped!
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what are some good qualities you need to have in a friendship? for example ..loyalty. i need at least 3 of them. thanks i rate high for good answers
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Ok welll....
TRUST
HONESTY
CARING
....those are MY top 3...
What are yours?
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I just got my haircut at this new salon and the lady cut it so short..and it's all ONE LENGTH..i usually cut it layered at another place but that person went out of town so I had to get a new stylist for a while. Anwyays, I was wondering if there's a way to make my hair grow out faster so I can get it recut/layered when my old stylist comes back? Please help! Thanks (link)
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Wow that sucks, babe! I'm trying to grow my hair out to so haha! I know that eating a lot of protien helps it grow fast (meat, fish, nuts, milk) and also vitamin D so go out in the sun a lot and I drink Orange juice w/ Vitamin D in it too to help it grow and that actually seems to help some haha! Ok well hope I helped! love yah!
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Okay, I made a new friend at the beginning of this previous school year and we are pretty close. Well, she can get very annoying sometimes and be really aggravating alot. Well, is it normal for me to want to spend time away for her? (link)
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Of course its normal!! We all need space from eachother sometimes! But if she's annoying just tell her that you don't like being around her when she acts like that but say it really nicely so she doesn't get mad! Ok well hope I helped! Love yah!
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i really need help with my makeup..i have light skin, blue eyes, and light blonde hair. Like what color of eyeliner and mascara do i need to wear, b/c i think black looks to harsh with my skin..brands and colors would be helpful! thanks so much!! katie_xx (link)
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Yea my skin is really light, too! I wear covergirl pencil liner in brown and use Almay eyeshadow...the one that brigns out blue eyes...it comes w/ 3 colors brownish/goldish, navy blue, and light blue...theres directions how to use it on the back of the packaging lol and sometimes, I use light pink eyeshadow too! haha! I use covergirl multiplying mascara in black. I love it bc it doesn't clump so it doesn't really look all that dark haha! And in the summer, I don't wear much makeup bc I workout and go to the pool a lot but when I do wear it, I use the brown eyeshadow as liner bc then it won't melt off! haha! Ok well hope I helped babe! Love yah!
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my friend has been going through some tough times lately. her parents just got divorced and her mom is gettting married this fall.
shes cant act herself around her supposively new 'stepdad'.
how could i help her? and what are some ways she could benefit from having a new dad?
thanks! (link)
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All you can really do to help her is be a good friend and listen when she wants to talk about it. Also, just keep her busy--go to the movies, mall, pool, where ever she likes to go to take her mind off of it. I'm prolly not the best person to ask about this tho bc my parents aren't divorced so I really don't know what it feels like, but it would be cool having a stepdad bc thats one more person that will love her and always be there for her, and since he's not her real dad then it'll prolly be easier for her to talk to him about situations bc he can't really punish her haha! Ok, well hope I helped! Ask me if you need any thing else! Love yah!
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i was hanging out..dating this guy for about 2 months & we had so much fun together hangin out & he was so sweet to me.. we talked about not getting serious and everything since he was going pretty far away for college.. then he went on vacation with his friends for a week and came back & i went to a party at his house and he barely talked to me.. and now he never calls me and we havent hung out for like a month..was he using me or what ?.. i dunno what to do i really miss him!! ..it freaking sucks! (link)
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Well, then call him and tell him that you wanna hang out a lot before he leaves for college in the fall. He's prolly just afraid that he could fall for you and thats why he's staying away from you bc he's scared. Ok well hope i helped! Love yah!
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ok i like this guy at my church and hes younger than me. we both agreed to wait until he could drive before trying the couples thing. so i would have to wait a year. but i just found out from a friend that he got busted yesterday for joyriding. i want to just yell and scream at him. what should i do? (link)
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Well I think if you care about him then you need to talk to him and tell him that thats not cool what he did. But call him so if you feel yourself start to get angry then you can hang up before you yell! And if you know he's doing this, then is he even worth liking? Ok well hope I helped! Love yah babe!
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there was this guy in my history class that i kinda liked so i would flirt with him. then a couple weeks later i found out that he really liked me. so i started flirting a lot more. i think i kinda freaked him out. what should i do when i see him again in the fall? (link)
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Just act like nothing happened bc he most likely will forget over the summer lol! Guys are like that! Ok well hope I helped! Love yah!
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Hi, school ended a few weeks ago, but while i was in school there was this boy that sat behind me in one of my classes.
Anyways, he would always bug me. For example, pinch, kick, basically hurt me. Not hurt but...
One day, he asked me to a dance, and we had never hung out before and i thought it was really odd. I rejected him and felt bad after it, but who does that? I mean we had never hung out before or anything. I probably should have given him a chance but do you think i should try talking to him next year or what? (link)
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Well, I think that if he was annoying you and then asked you to the dance it meant that he liked you. But yea thats weird and guys are just like that if they like you. I think if you want to give him a chance then definately try talking to him next yr bc you have nothing to lose! And if you still feel bad for rejecting him, find out his sn and try talking to him about what he did in class and stuff! Ok well hope I helped! Love yah!
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