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im jus a girl tryin to live life, id love to help, and give advice about any subject, ummm and i think thats about it, if ya wanna know more about me ask me!!
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OK I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two months now and I'd do anything for him, I love him so much. Well , I go to a technical high school so I'm in a shop -- Auto repair -- with a bunch of boys and we have a field trip coming up. My boyfriend doesnt want me to go and I completely see why (the boys in my shop are a little perverted sometimes). But my entire shop wants me to go and I'll be the only person not going. There is a possibility that something would happen that my boyfriend wouldnt like. I'd never do anything to hurt him but stuff just happens sometimes. I just wanted some opinions on what I should do. Thanx in advance.. I rate high.
your boyfriend should trust you enough, its only a field trip, and i highly doubt anything will happen, plus like i said in a relationship there has to be trust and he should trust you to make the right decisions...i think you should go
in 8th grade, ive been feeling so depressed. i just feel like everyone is against me. i feel so disgusted w/myself. everyone says that im so skinny and athletic and my family says im beautiful, even though i dont think so. i started cutting a little while ago. its nothing to be proud of, thats 4 sure. i just feel like everything is wrong with me. wut am i supposed 2 do?
signed
*deeply troubled*
hun, honestly you need to stop cutting and get some help. the best way to stop a habit it to tell on ur self, and i can gurantee you your family will get you help, weather it be medicine, or jus talkin to your school counsler...you need to tell someone
theres a girl that im really close to..she used to like me a lot and i love her and we were like /-/ this close to going out, but she stopped liking me..she said she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend (personality wise not looks) and i just dont understand how after we had done so much and gone through a lot together..she cant picture me as her boyfriend and everything..i have told her how i feel, i have made a move, she has been to my house many times, we have gone out on "dates" sorta...and i love her, i just want her to like me again, please tell me how to get her to like me again...oh and she likes a sophomore at my school now and people have told me that she might still like me and shes just confused but i dont think she does...i really want her back, i need her :( if you give me a helping answer then ill rate you a 5 DO NOT TELL ME TO GET OVER HER!!! i have tried and it isnt happening!
jus give her some time, she will come back, but we girls tend to get caught up emotionally way to much cuz thats how we are built, we tend to have a lot of emotions, and sometimes it jus takes us time to sort it out. dont stop liking her! dont give up! but give her a little space, dont persue her as much. and like i said just give it time, she will come back
i have this problem....whenever 1 of my friends likes a guy, i start to like him too but i never get him! how can i stop this?
13/f
maby try and like a different guy, cuz usually when ur friend likes a guy they tend to point out all the good qualties in him, and that makes you like him, well find a different guy to like, and become friends with him ect...
hey yall, me and my X just broke up about a month ago.. i already have a new boyfriend, but i dont know if i really like him or just trying to get over my X. me and my X only went out for about 4 months, but the love we had for each other was amazing. but now me and my X arent on good terms and he blocked all my screen names and is talkin shit about me to all my friends. i just wanna let him know that i care but he takes it as being obsessive...but i know im not obsessed..i just miss him..how can he go to lovign me so much to hating me so much?? i mean, he knew my AIM password and deleted my whole list and it was the same as my email password..i guess he just guessed it was...and he changed it! why is he doing this??
hes jelouse!! duh!! he obvisly hasnt gotten over the fact that u moved on, even though u still wanna be his friend, u have moved on and he needs to get over that fact, and move on also
i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?
ya gotta put ur self out there! weather or not ur a cheerleader, put ur self in different clubs and activities, get to know people, get plugged in w/ more people, they dont notice you cuz they dont know your there, if you make it known that ur there, their gunna notice you. and be urself, be unique and different, no one likes a copycat, you stand out more if your different, so if the cheerleaders get the attention, dont always be like them, have ur own unique style, and dont follow the crowd, if you follow the crowd and blend in ull never get noticed
ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
go to a counsler, counslers will keep your name anamous, and no one even has to know that u went down there, tell ur counsler u want ot meet before or after school, possibly lunch, and if ppl ask where u were just say u had some business to take care of, but its serious, ive had a couple friends like that, and its worth it in the long run! better to have someone still be alive and be mad at you than them being dead and you regrett not tellin anyone....ya know?
hey i have little freckles on my face n they r lyke really light so it looks like the skin on my face is dirty or something but i usually wear powder cover up by cover gurl on it and it works really well but it never lasts for a very long time...ive tryed liquid and i hate it it makes me break out..i wanna stick to powder but do any of u know any good brands that stay on long??
try clinique, or mary kay... i know their probably expensive, but their worth it
ok so lately all ive felt like doing is crying whenever someone says something to me i wanna cry even if its nice and im always yelling at my mom n my sister just so they leave me alone and i get annoyed by the easiest things.and my sister is MR(mentally retarded) n she gets on my nerves sooo bad cuz she doesnt know when to shutup! i hate being mean to her! n like yesterday we were out and these 3 guys were making fun of her and i just went off on them i dunno what happened it just came outta the middle of nowhere. i get pissed off so easily..but i never used to be like that.ive been sleeping alot n being really tired.Whats wrong wit me? i rate high! thanx!
well, it could a few things, either you could just be PMS'ing, ... which is normal, or you might be depressed ( which i doubt but ya never know), you could be stressed, or just really tired, maby you should jus take a weekend for urself, and sleep , get cought up on some rest!
ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?!
whats wrong! U WERE 12!!! ur body isnt fully developed yet and not ment to handle that! u might think sex before marriage is ok, but u gotta realize that havin sex at 12 yrs old, thats huge! and not a good thing...would you be able to handle a baby!?! cuz it happens more often than not! and you need to realize that sex is sapsto bond u and ur husband make you closer, its not ment for you and your boyfriend, and nothing is wrong w/ you, its your body sayin somin is wrong here, so i think you need to rethink this whole havin sex thing, and realize the dangers of this....STD's, unplanned pregnancy, there is way more to it than you think....trust me, im 15, and i dont knowif i could ever handle a baby at the age of 15, let alone 12 or 13
Okay so like my boyfriend was at my house and he like wrote me a note saying he thought we should break up because of my ex. ((well call him Leo)) Well Leo kept calling me while my boyfriend was here.. He also said that he wanted to cuz of the pressure his friends were giving him. ((his friends didnt like me they think im a bitch)) and so like we have like been talking and figuring stuff out and it did work for the better cuz now we are going back out. He might not tell his friends that knew we broke up that we are going back out cuz they will bother him again, but he wants to let them find out on their own. Okay so heres what I need, this advice is more of something for me to tell my boyfriend. How could he get his friends to shove it? and to leave us alone and stop trying to break us up.
im having the same problem, my friends dont like my boyfriend, and my boy friend dosnt like my friends, and hes ignoring me right now because he said somin to them and i stuck up for them and now hes mad, well i dont even know if were goin out anymore, but, wat u gotta realize is that if ur boyfriend truly cares about you than his friends need to learn to get a long w/ you, im not sayin they have gotta like you, but learn to put up w/ you specially when their around you.so jus tell them be like i respect that you dont like me, but i really care about him and he really cares about me, and nothing is gunna change that anytime soon. you jus gotta be strait and up front w/ them. otherwise its gunna get y'all in a load of trouble in the long run....ya know?
ok my bf told me he loves me when he left a mssg on his fone but he wont say it directly on the fone or in person so i just broke the ice n sed if furst last nite when i saw him and he sed it back but i sed it as i was turnin to leave so i didnt see his reaction or nothing n we both sed it like really quietly....but then he called n he didnt say it (i didnt hear my fone ring) so he lft a mssg but he didnt say it....does it mean he didnt m ean it or he didnt wanna say it again or wat? did he only say it bak so i wouldnt get mad or somethin?
ok , so you know those words are really powerful, see here this young man wrote into this writer Trobisch,
Aware that the young man had no clue what love
truly was, Trobisch wrote him
these words in a letter: Let me try to tell you
what it really should mean
if a fellow says to a girl, ˜I love you". It
means: ˜You, you, you. You alone.
You shall reign in my heart. You are the one whom I
have longed for; without
you I am incomplete. I will give everything for you,
and I will give up
everything for you, myself as well as all that I
possess. I will live for you alone,
and I will work for you alone. And I will wait for you; it doesn't matter how long. I will always be patient with you. I will never force you, not even by words. I want to guard you, protect you, and keep you from all evil. I want to share with you my thoughts, my heart and my body-all that I possess. I want to listen to what you have to say. There is nothing
I want to undertake without your blessing. I want to remain always at your side."
The next time your boyfriend tells you
he or loves you, ask
yourself if this is what he or she really means, and if it is,then go ahead and try saying it, but love its something that should be rushed andit isnt just a feeling or emotion its howyour are when your around that person, who you want to be because of that person.
Ok so here is the deal i wanna tell people about god. and i know that it is a good thing andi have planned to sing at this years talent show. like a gossple song i dunno what i am gunna sing but i do know i am gunna do it but what i don't know to do is
how to show people that i am a strong christian.
how do i approach people into asking god into there lives and stuff
thnx
hey, ok so heres the dealio, id say pray about it, pray that tomorrow someone asks you about ur faith, and pray that god speaks through you and maby plant a seed in their hearts. also, u can show your a christian w/ out having to say it out loud, w/ out having to pund a bible into someones head, even just loving on people, not judging others , accepting everyone, being happy like there are a lot of little things you could do that could make people be like "whats with that girl? why is she so happy, i wish i could be like that" ect...ya know....but remember you gotta be prepared when it comes to sharing your faith, because god will put you in peoples lives just for the reason of sharing your faith, so be ready. oh and remember....SMILE JESUS LOVES YOU!!
ok well latley i havn't been myself and i don't know how to fix it. i meen i pray and stuff and i am a strong christian . but i dunno it is wierd cause i don't even know who me is when people say your name you feel like you are somone when i hear it is like just my name nothin speacial just a word that was given to me. and it is wierd cause when i pray latley bad things seem to happen like in some way i get hurt emotiionally my friend hates me or somthing of such matter.
so here is the question how do i firgure out who the real me is again the one that everyone knew that i knew. the one who can think clearly
thnx
hello
i know what ur goin through, i had the same problem when i moved to texas from colorado, i was a very strong christian in colorado and it jus kinda faded away when i move, now i got it back and im really happy but you gotta realize that who you are is who you choose to be. God has huge plans for you, " for i know the plans i have for you declares the lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future" Jeremiah 29:11(NIV) you jus gotta realize that god is gunna turn you into a servant for him, how ever you may choose, for me personally, i just realized what god wanted me to do with my life, and its really helped me realize who i am, and praying is a great start, but maby you should looked deeper into his word, like someone said lock ur self in your room put a christian cd in and start writing in a journal,you could even do a 1 on 1 time w/ god, just talk to him, like you would talk to your friends, tell him whats on your heart, read into his word see what he says, i can gurantee he will give u an anwser, it may not be right away, but he will, and ill remember to keep you on my prayer list, that god does help you! god bless!!!:)
last year, me and this boy wer boyfrend-girlfriend.In the beginning of June, he dumped me for this girl.Today in school my grade went outside to play. He kept hanging around close to me. He did that when he liked me.he just ran around with his friends near me a lot. I waz thinking Does he like me? Right afret that, we ate in the lunchroom. We're in seperate classes and my table is right next to his. That day instead of sitting next to the girl he dumped me for, the girls friend and his friend, he sat with this boy he never sat with before. They werent even friends.But he was sitting the closest he could 2 me.if he sat with all his friends, he would be sitting farther away from me. Then I thought-did he just sit with that guy s o he could sit near me? then doues he like me?
Also, he's always looking at me wen i'm not looking at him. he also talks about me 2 his friends (but he mighyt be talkin bad or good about me).My best friend is in his class. So that day, i was talking 2 her a lot and he looked at me a lot and listened to our conversation a lot too. Also, a few days ago,he came and sat in my table talkin to this guy in my class that he like Never talked to before! Does he like me???
Note: I still like him!
ok, hun, heres my response, u sound young like elementary or possibly middle school, im not sure, but, if you are young, you dont need to be worried about relationships....(young as in 7-11 years)so , my advice is dont worry about it, trust me there is enough time in the world to worry about boys, ... dont start at a young age, it just gets more and more complicated the older you get!!!