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i seriously need help this is really important to me
Okay so like my boyfriend was at my house and he like wrote me a note saying he thought we should break up because of my ex. ((well call him Leo)) Well Leo kept calling me while my boyfriend was here.. He also said that he wanted to cuz of the pressure his friends were giving him. ((his friends didnt like me they think im a bitch)) and so like we have like been talking and figuring stuff out and it did work for the better cuz now we are going back out. He might not tell his friends that knew we broke up that we are going back out cuz they will bother him again, but he wants to let them find out on their own. Okay so heres what I need, this advice is more of something for me to tell my boyfriend. How could he get his friends to shove it? and to leave us alone and stop trying to break us up.
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im having the same problem, my friends dont like my boyfriend, and my boy friend dosnt like my friends, and hes ignoring me right now because he said somin to them and i stuck up for them and now hes mad, well i dont even know if were goin out anymore, but, wat u gotta realize is that if ur boyfriend truly cares about you than his friends need to learn to get a long w/ you, im not sayin they have gotta like you, but learn to put up w/ you specially when their around you.so jus tell them be like i respect that you dont like me, but i really care about him and he really cares about me, and nothing is gunna change that anytime soon. you jus gotta be strait and up front w/ them. otherwise its gunna get y'all in a load of trouble in the long run....ya know?
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Well if he was at ur house and he wrote u a note.. no offense but he has no balls. he should be big enough to at least say it to ur face so u guys could talk about the whole situation. But he shouldnt do what his friends want him too or let what his friendds have to say bother him ; hes his own person.. he can do whatever he feels is right.. just try not to let it get to u
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Ask them why they think your so bitchy n stuff..if they don't come up with an answer be like "oh, well then there is no reason 4u 2hate me" and just have every1 get 2getha n talk bout watz goin on
SincerelY,
K*Tina
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If his friends are trying to break you guys up, well then they are not his true friends. As long as what his friends are doing arent affecting your realtionship jsut tell him to ignore them, but if it does you should probably break up with him.
Hope i helped!
xoshaneyney3283
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If their going to pester him because of the choice of his girlfriend, then their not really his friends like they say they are. Just tell him to forget about them and find new friends. =) good luck.
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