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i'm completely stuck to my past. there's there two boys, let's call them cole and tommy. now, cole was my first boyfriend and tommy was my first love. somehow, one day, they popped in my mind. both of them. and now, i act like i'm going out with them, getting jealous with every girl that talks to them, being selfish. it just seems weird that they suddenly comes back to my life, and everything that happened between me and them just comes back to mind. now, i just want to be part of their lives all over again, and be more than friends to them. but they seemed to have moved on. and i guess i need to, too. but i can't do it. i want them back. i want everything back. now i'm just cherishing everything i had, and blaming myself for not being able to know what i had before i lost it. and last night, i suddenly had the urge of asking cole out. i would feel weird, but i do like him again, but i don't wanna seem like i'm desperate for a boyfriend or anything. what should i do? i really need perspective on this, from everybody. thanks in advance. (link)
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i had this same problem go with your instincts tell you to do and see what happens see if cole well still go out with you maybe he will maybe he won't ask him if he likes anyone. you'll always like cole and tommy. Cause cole was your first boyfriend and tommy was your first true love. so that means you will probably have feelings for them for a long time or forever like i do with my first love jamie. But don't let things get to far make sure your ready for a let down or rejection. I hate to say that to you because i've had that said to me and i was like wat a bitch and it was my best friend who said that so i understand if you think i'm a bitch but i'm just trying to be truthful. well i hope this helps...
*~Brianna~*
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hey! i had sex for the first time last week. We were safe as i am on the pill and we used a condom. I was just wondering if i should go see the doctor now i have had sex? I heard i would need a smear test or something? also if i do need to go should i go straight away or can i wait?
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no you don't have to rush to see a doctor i didn't but um yeah there is this thing called smear tests and if you don't want anything to turn up positive then wait a while if you do want turn out positive then go. but you know you still have a 50/50 chance of getting pregnant so remember always use protection. Cover up and be safe> LOL
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this may be kind of long but ill try to make it as short as possible. me and this guy mike have been broken up for about a year and a half. the whole time we have talked and he still tells me he loves me and misses me every once in a while. well tonight i was with my friend and he called me. well he then told me he was coming to my house but i told him no cause im scared of heartbreak. i do have a boyfriend of 7 months but i still do care about mike. and my boyfriend is amazing so i dont want to hurt him. well mike stayed for like 10 minutes trying to get me to come outside but i couldnt bring my self to it cause i always do. well later on he told me that he made me something since i made him a scrapbook last summer. he refuses to give it to me til i see him. he stayed on the phone with me after he left and had something to say but couldnt because his friend was there. he told me wed talk about it later and i asked when that was and he told me he didnt know. i really care about him and i always will cause he was my first love but i dont know what to do. should i just let him come over and give it to me and talk to me like he wanted and say what he wanted or should i just say no? please help. thanks so much!! (link)
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okay just let him come over and see what happens explain to him that you still care about him but you've moved on if you have. you don't have to love him to care about or be friends with him sooo i hope this advice helps good luck.
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Ok, I know this is another stupid boy question but I really want to know. I have a guyfriend that I know from school that's on myspace. I really like him. He's really hot and single. Should I tell him I like him? And if I do, I'd like to do it in a way that wouldn't ruin our friendship. Seriously, I can't stop thinking about the dude. He is so FINE!!!
Please help! I really need the advice. During the school year we did flirt a lot, but I don't know what to do. (link)
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omg i would soooo go for him you guys would probably make such a cute couple. it's kind of funny when this kind of stuff happens with my friends like all the time. So yeah do you know if he likes you. Just in case he doesn't make sure you're ready for him to say no i don't want to sound like a bitch but i don't like it when anyone gets hurt. GOOD LUCK
*~Brianna~*
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Okay, theres this guy that likes me, and i know he likes me cause he told all of his friends he did, but he didn't ask me out. He lives like 30 minutes away, and i'm not gonna see him all summer, but he told one of my friends to tell me to "not get a boyfriend over the summer" what should i do? should i wait for him? (link)
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hi my name is brianna and i would have to agree with some of the girls you shouldn't wait the whole summer for some guy . and it depends do like him enough that you are gonna wait like 2 1/2 months for some guy that might not like you when school starts again. So i would have to say expriment with guys this summer. good luck
*~Brianna~*
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hey guys well imma a well spoken person and well i hav a huge crush on this one guy ~n~ like well when i am around him i get really shy and i have butterflys in my stomache and when i am about to say something i have nothin to say....how do i stop bein shy around him?? and how can i make those butterflys stop holdin me back??
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~Dear Penguin~
i hope this advice i give you will help. when i'm around my boyfriend i get really nervous and stuff andi start studdering and i get all these butterflies in my stomach to. I always think of him as a friend and that we're just trying to have a good time and get along and sooo i hope this helps cause it did for me.
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My friend gave my number to the guy that I like and he said that he would definitely call me. If he calls me, I know that I'll get nervous and freeze up. In case he does call, how do I stop myself from being nervous and how can I calm down? (link)
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okay i used to be the same exact way i got over my fears by thinking of him as just another friend have you told him that you like him maybe if he knew that you like him maybe it wouldn't be soooo bad but yeah i hope this helps.
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ok well i have a band myspace and im not a band or singer i accidentaly turned it into a band myspace but i dont like it i would really like to have a regular myspace again is that possible?
please help im dying here
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okay just go to myspace.com and say register and make a new website and stuff don't be afriad to it will all turn out okay. I hope this helps you somewhat but yeah.
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hey! well i have a problem...my best friend has this boyfriend that nobody likes and personally me and him hate each other but for some reason she still goes out with him..god who knows why. but im not gonna try and break them up because they have like twice and they keep gettin back together. well whenever we are by cute guys she always flirts with them when she has a BOYFRIEND. a couple nights ago we picked up her guy friend kevin and when he was walkin up to my car she was like ohh look how hott he looks! and she always lies to her boyfriend..like he called when we were with kevin and she is like im just with kristen (me)! and nobody else..and hes like no i can hear someone else..who are you with? and shes like nobody..and when she gets off the phone she continues to flirt with him. also when i was at my cousins she has this really cute neighbor and he came over for a bit to chill with my cousin and then she was like all flirtin with him and jumped on him because she wanted "shotgun" and wouldnt get off of him! i dont know it seriously bugs me and im like ohhh you were flirtin with him! and i tried talkin to her and sayin you have a boyfriend..if you flirt with other guys then why are you still with your boyfriend? and shes like because i like him! i dont know she is my best friend..ive tryed talking to her..she just bugs me when she is around guys! ...what do you think i should do in this situation?
i will rate 5 for anyone who helps
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okay well don't break them up you may hate her boyfriend and stuff but tell him what she is doing and stuff and i don't want to be harsh or anything on your friend or anything but she probably has a slow self esteem problem where she needs to have guys flirting back with her and she needs to learn how to treat her boyfriend better i should now because i used to be the same way even though i am turning 15 trust me it happens she may be mad at you for a while but if she is a real friend then she will forgive you for trying to help her even though she shouldn't have been mad at you in the first place. My friend Kristal did the same thing with me she told my ex the truth and he broke up with me i found out who told him and i got like really really mad at her but then i found it in my heart to forgive her cause number one she was my best friend and number two it was the best thing for me. Me and Kristal are still the best of friends and i don't treat any of my boyfriends like that any more. I may hug my friends that are guys cause 3/4 my friends are guys but i try really hard not to flirt anymore. Everybody flirts with someone even though they are going out with someone i should now becuase my friend kristal even does it and i have to remind her that shes doing it. If your friend gets mad at you for trying to help then she's isn't really somebody who cares about you or any body else she is hurting.
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ok well im doing the seventeen workout in the june issue and it says its a 15 minute workout but it only takes me 4 minutes and it makes me really mad because i dont no what im doing wrong help me
oh and i do exactaly what it says in workout
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okay number one those kind of workouts usually are never what they say they are and if you want to get a real workout go to a gym of do some running or something i tried the seventeen workout it doesn't really work that well sooo if you want to get a real work out and stuff do what i told you to do. Or if you like the seventeen madizine workout then do the workout over and over again until it reaches 15 minutes. I wish you luck in your workout problem hope that advice helps.
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she's such a bitch! ever since like 8th grade, she's been the worst friend ever!
she leaves every summer on vacation and she actually planned a suprise party for herself.. but she didn't want anybody to know that she planned a suprise party for herself so she got my cell phone and started text messaging everyone telling them that I planned the suprise party.. and i was fine w/ that because i could understand that she doesn't want to tell anyone she planned it for herself. it wasnt actually a party party but it was like going to dinner and movies with a whole bunch of people. but, i got bitten by a red ant and i'm SUPER allergic so my foot looks like a big red balloon and i couldn't go because i had to go to the doctor and i was under heavy medication because the swelling was so bad. so she goes and has her stupid little party putting on her stupid fake smile and actually goes out with everybody having a good time while i'm at the hospital! and calls me to brag about it after... i'm sorry but that is SUPER bitchy of her to do. they almost had to hospitalize me! i'm so mad at her and i don't want to take her to a party tonight! what can i tell her not to take her... and how could i stop being friends with her because i don't want to be friends someone like her anymore! this isnt the first time and her mother always talks bad about people and started talking bad about me when i was just dancing with some guy and didn't say anything about her stupid daughter that was making out on the floor! (link)
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omg that is really really bitchy. how can a friend do that to you. i sooo agree with you that wasn't cool a real friend would have been there with you and canceled the party and the thing with the mom. She can go fuck off. cause that is really mean to do. i should know that is how one of my friends was. i told my ex friend that i didn't want to be friends with her cause all she did was boss me around and talk bad about me and try to still my ex-boyfriend which they are now going out which gets me kind of p/o if you know what i mean. she just used me and her mom just talked bad about me. i got sick of it and told her the truth we don't talk what so ever anymore. the only thing she says to me is calling me names sooo it's not that bad hope this helps. Love always, the girl with problems brianna.
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Ok well my sister has this friend, 17/m, that I have a HUGE crush on but the problem is he's confused about his sexuality. I really like this guy and it seems like he likes me too but he could turn gay. What should I do? I really like him A LOT. (link)
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hey go for it i know a couple of my friends that are guys that might turn gay but they are still going out with girls. ask him if he likes you ask him out and see how it works out. yeah soooo don't be nervous but my sister just read your thing and she says it might bad to go out with your sisters friend but if you like him like A LOT like you say u do screw your sister and go for him.
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Hey, I'm 17 and have been with my bf for just over 6 months...about a month ago he asked me to move in with him, and i really want to but i dont no how to ask my parents cus i dont think they will approve... how do i tell them that i think its the right thing to do??? (link)
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hey just tell them that you want to move in with you bf they might disagree but you know what it's time that you start doing things on your own, your growing up and it's time they start believing in your decisions and let you make ur own mistakes. Tell them the truth bout anything you want. they're ur parents and they will always love you no matter what you guys go through.
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Well how to make a long story short? OK first.. Yesterday was my boyfriend’s birthday, all his friends including me and my best friend went out for drinks to celebrate with him. When my best friend (it’s a girl) left for a different club, I went after her, because she was a bit tipsy and I didn’t want her to be on her own.
Then when my boyfriend arrived, he came up to me and just told me that I picked my friend over him and that it is over (he stated it MUCH worse). Yeah I know it was his Birthday, but he was busy with his friends. Should I just let it go? I mean how insecure can someone be if they are jealous of you friend???
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omg i am soo sorry. you might not want to take my advice because i'm 14 but... i've been through a lot. I am a foster kid because of what has happened to me in my past and what my moms boyfriends have done to me and her. Yeah it was ur boyfriends birthday and all but he should have let you explain why you left and that you still care or that you did care about him. He is probably jealous of your friend because he is insecure but no one should be punished for him. Maybe ask him to give you ine more chance and it might help you both. If it doesn't work out who cares. I don't know you but u seem like a great friend and a good girlfriend. I don't want to hurt anybody or anything. So you know if he wants to be like that let him he is the one that is missing out on a great friend and girlfriend. Hope this helps.
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i've had a crush on this guy for what feels like forever. he seems perfect for me and he flirts with me. he's really nice and really like him. i wish we could go out but both of us are extremely shy about that and so i don't know what to do. if i don't tell him how i feel i'll feel like i'll never be able to tell him. what can i do? (link)
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dude don't be afraid to tell him how you really feel it might help you in the long run. if he knows that you like him then he might have enough courage to ask you out. Give him a while to get it in his head that you like him and stuff before you try to make a move if you want to. If he doesn't ask you out right away don't feel hurt or anything it's not a bad thing some guys just take a while to get it that a girl likes him. If it's been like a week or so then you do the asking out it might just work out i hope this advice helps you good luck on things with ur crush. :)
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i already aproached one columnist to help me out with this one- but i need all the help i can get. to make a long story short, i need to know a place where i can get free prenatal care. my guardians have pretty mch given up on me and told me im on my own- so i need help guys- PLEASE! 5's for all answers- helpful or not. (link)
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dude go to planned parent hood your guardians should be helping you out right now thats what you need not to have them say that your on ur own. I had the same thing happen to me with my whole family that's why i'm ing foster care get someone to help you go to a planned parent hood and stuff or go to www.plannedparenthood.com it will help like a lot.
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Ok, if you don't use any means of birth control, and the guy comes in you after intercourse, does the cum stay in you, or come out? (link)
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the cum would stay inside you because you didn't use any protection and your not on birth control so you probably have a 95% chance that you could be pregnant cause the sperm goes and looks for the eggs so it can make the baby. hope this helps since ur soooo curious...LOL :)
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My and my boyfriend went all the way the other day and about 20 minutes after we were done i was bleeding out of my vagina, not heavy like a period buti could tell i was bleeding. It only lasted a few hours also. I have had sex before once but that didnt happen after words! What happened? Is something wrong? Please help (link)
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no nothing is wrong i did the same thing with my ex and it happened. It just means he popped you cherry. It happens to every girl you might not want to take my advice because of my name but when that happened with my ex i was so scared cause that had never happened before but it all turned out okay. Just don't let your boyfriend slip away to another girl expecally to your friends cause it hurts really really bad. my ex asked my best friend out not even an hour after he broke up with me. she's not really my friend she was just using me to get him back. soo don't let him go.
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i just met this kid last week, he's cute, funny, nice etc. he was the one who called me to hang out 1st but i always feel like when we talk i am getting mixed signals, like he seems to like me but then he just signs of line or puts on an away message without saying bye & the convorsation just ends. we hung out twice last week wehn we 1st met (he asked me both times) i want to hang out again but is it too soon to ask him? i don't want to seem like a loser or to clingy. is it bad for me too call him? can anyone tell me what to do? & why doesn't he say good bye online? (link)
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dude..just call him and ask him to hang.if you flirt wit him see if he flirts back and how bad he flirts back. if he flirts hella bad then you know he like u. just go for it.
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