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stuck to my past
i'm completely stuck to my past. there's there two boys, let's call them cole and tommy. now, cole was my first boyfriend and tommy was my first love. somehow, one day, they popped in my mind. both of them. and now, i act like i'm going out with them, getting jealous with every girl that talks to them, being selfish. it just seems weird that they suddenly comes back to my life, and everything that happened between me and them just comes back to mind. now, i just want to be part of their lives all over again, and be more than friends to them. but they seemed to have moved on. and i guess i need to, too. but i can't do it. i want them back. i want everything back. now i'm just cherishing everything i had, and blaming myself for not being able to know what i had before i lost it. and last night, i suddenly had the urge of asking cole out. i would feel weird, but i do like him again, but i don't wanna seem like i'm desperate for a boyfriend or anything. what should i do? i really need perspective on this, from everybody. thanks in advance.
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i had this same problem go with your instincts tell you to do and see what happens see if cole well still go out with you maybe he will maybe he won't ask him if he likes anyone. you'll always like cole and tommy. Cause cole was your first boyfriend and tommy was your first true love. so that means you will probably have feelings for them for a long time or forever like i do with my first love jamie. But don't let things get to far make sure your ready for a let down or rejection. I hate to say that to you because i've had that said to me and i was like wat a bitch and it was my best friend who said that so i understand if you think i'm a bitch but i'm just trying to be truthful. well i hope this helps...
*~Brianna~*
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oh my goodness gracious. i didn't think that there was anyone out there that had this same problem as me! i am going thorugh the same thing that you are! i know how you feel. i had a situation like this with two boys. i don't know what to tell you exactly, since i have the same problem. but, seriously, if you ever need to talk about it, i would be MORE THAN HAPPY!!!!!! send me a message to my inbox because i'd love to talk if you ever need it.
i know i wasn't much help
i'm sorry =(
but, i can relate =)
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I think i kind of understand where your coming from. My friend use to call me at night crying that she couldnt get over boys that didnt like her anymore, but that she had been w/ in the past. Its hard. If they really dont wanna be w/ you then i dont know what to tell you other then to move on. but if there is even a slight chance that the do, stick w/ it. Show them that you care for them & you wanna be really good friends, or for Cole maybe more. Your not desperate for a boyfriend, so dont even think that or let anyone else. Your in love. I dont know how long its been since you've been w/ him, but if it hasnt been that long chances are that he still has feelings for you too. And as for getting jealous of every girl that talks to them is COMPLETELY NORMAL. i get jealous of some girls talking to my best guy friends, that just shows that you care about them.. which is good. So yeah, i think start becoming friends w/ them again. Good friends. & if your nothing more, just stay good friends w/ them. I think if you show "Cole" that you like him, that he'll eventually ask you out too, if he has feelings for you as well. Well goood luck :] hopefully that helped!
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I think in a way that your just havin moment for some reason you just missed them but probably like the way they treated you... but in a way I believe you haven't tried to move on because all your doin is payin attention to who there gettin and talkin to... I think it would be best to talk to them and maybe just be best friend I understand you want more than that but it'll be better because best friend you get to know them more and they could probably get really into you but first always try to move on... don't focus on them to much pay attention to yourself hope I helped =)
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