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he could be gay. 16/f
Ok well my sister has this friend, 17/m, that I have a HUGE crush on but the problem is he's confused about his sexuality. I really like this guy and it seems like he likes me too but he could turn gay. What should I do? I really like him A LOT.
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hey go for it i know a couple of my friends that are guys that might turn gay but they are still going out with girls. ask him if he likes you ask him out and see how it works out. yeah soooo don't be nervous but my sister just read your thing and she says it might bad to go out with your sisters friend but if you like him like A LOT like you say u do screw your sister and go for him. ]
Ask him if he likes you. If he's says yes than viola! He's not gay.
Or get to know him & look for any tale-tale signs of homo-sexuality. Then, if you get really curious ask him about it. Tell him you won't judge him, you just want to know if you should move on & find someone else to set your sights on. I know it may seem hard, but i've had to do it before with this one guy. It sucks-
But if he turns out to be gay, don't try to change his mind about it. It will only end in disaster. When you're gay, you're gay. And there's usually no way of changing that. ]
If you're willing to take the chance, then do it... But maybe he won't be gay.. just bisexual. I don't know. You may get hurt or not, take the chance if you really want to be with him. ]
Ask him out! If he's gay, he's gay, and you'll just have a friend.
The same thing happened to my sister. She had a huge crush on a guy, then found out he was gay... they're really good friends now. ]
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