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My crush recently told me he is moving to another continent.He is like a best friend:he tells me everything, we fool around and flirt(a lot)
And he told me that he wanted hugs but i wanted to do something more for him
like suprise him with something
NOT to over the top plz
Im 12 and im a girl (link)
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Throw him a going away party- is that too over the top? Just his friends at school (or wherever) and some pizza. That would be a good enough time.
Or write him a letter,thanking him for being your friend and promising to keep up after he moves.
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Me & and the guy that i have been dating have been going strong for a good 7 months now. We are in love and we trust eachother and haven't had many problems in our relationship. There is one thing i am uncertain about though. After 4 months into our relationship, i seen where he wrote on his ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years facebook wall and said "Thanks for logging off during mid conversation." I wasn't really worried about it when i first saw he posted that but now that i have come to think of it, i really want to know what they were talking about and why he was so worried that she logged off. I know that he would never cheat on me and that he loves me. He's not a bad guy. It just makes me worry a little because they dated for so long. Should i be worried? I feel like its to late to say anything to him since it happened about 3 months ago. (link)
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Forget it. Its not a big deal,and it happened three months ago. A lot of times if something is going on, you'll be able to notice several instances in a short time span. Yes, they did date for a long time, but it's clear that you're not a rebound because he's been with you for several months.
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I started birth control 3 months ago. I'm usually really consistent on taking the pill at the same time everyday. I'm on my 4th pill pack right now. I got my period last week and it just ended 2 days ago. yesterday I took the pill 2 hours later than I usually take it. Today i took it on time. I had sex today without a condom. My boyfriend did not cum inside me. He pulled out right before he came. I think I'm not pregnant because birth control is 99.7% effective. Plus- he didn't cum inside me. I know pre-cum can make you pregnant, but I am on birth control for 3 months so I think i'm ok. I just wanted advice to see what you guys think? After we had sex, I did feel a little nauseous (literally like 5 minutes afterwards) but i think its just because i'm nervous and anxious. Plus I had arby's a few hours before so I could just be a little gassy from that haha.
what do you guys think? You really do not need to tell me to "be smarter and use a condom". I know I should use a condom. Please answer my question! Also- when is the fertility rate higher? I heard its 14 days after your period. But we had sex 2 days after my period- is that a good or bad time to have sex?
Tomorrow I'm planning on calling Planned Parenthood to speak with a professional doctor and see what they think. I have Plan B Emergency Contraceptive. I did not take it yet because I wasn't sure If I should. I heard it gives you bad side effects like you throw up etc. What do you think? should I take it?
thank you!
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Well by now you've probably already talked to a doctor, but if you haven't, here goes.
The thing to remember about the pill,is that you have roughly a three hour window to take your pill every day, because people know that things come up. Also, even if you skipped one pill, the chances of you getting pregnant is still low- remember you've been pumping yourself full of stuff for the past few months so that whole pregnancy thing doesn't happen.
I don't really think its necessary for you use emergency contraception at this particular time,but if you feel it necessary, then by all means. On another note, your fertile window can easily be determined. Check out this website, its very informative and I recommend to everyone that they track their body's workings.
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/preventingpregnancy/fertilityawarenessNFP.html
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why bobble is on top of pennies after wearing condom (link)
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What?
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when i fuck my partner(after period or before period) to getting pregnant (link)
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I think you're trying to get pregnant? That's what it sounds like here. Try tracking your period and your fertile window. Your fertile window is roughly two weeks before your period, if I remember correctly. This is something you can google, though. Just have unprotected sex during that window, especially on the day you ovulate.
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Im 14 years old and i just gave birth to my baby girl Dacey Aisillin Roache!! She is beautiful!! Im still in the hospital, but dont worry i have my laptop!!!!!!!!! :D Is it okay to let your baby sleep with a pillow or should i wait? (link)
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Really? Is this a joke? Get off advicenators and ask someone (like a doctor) these questions. Seriously.
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1 of my spacers fell out and i dont go back untill 5 days from now . should I be worried? or is it okay??? (link)
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Your spacers are in there to make space for the new metal that's going in your mouth. Generally they say to go back in during the spacer week if possible, if one pops out. But! Because its nothing permanent right now, you wont keel over if you want the five days to go back. They'll just stick the spacer back in and make you wait a couple more days to get your real work started.
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first off, has anyone ever heard of molly's plant food? if you haven't, its a legal form of ecstasy. was for a little bit, anyways. now its banned, but there have been many knock-offs produced around where i live.
i first heard of molly's plant food about 3 months ago, tried it for the first time about 2 months ago. obviously, i loved it. at first, i did it occasionally. like at my prom, sometimes at a friend's house, etc. now i've gotten to where i take it once, sometimes twice a week. and when i'm not on it, i'm CRAVING it like a motherfucker. the thing about mdma is that it drains your brain of suppressed seratonin and flushes it all out, so you're deliriously happy for a few hours. after that, you get kinda depressed or apathetic. after every weekend of fun-filled rolling, i get angry, emotional, apathetic, and it just seems like i'm not happy anymore unless i'm rolling. and i definitely can't stop. i'm on too much of a routine to stop. i don't know what to do, my weight is dropping from not eating on weekends, my sleep patterns are off, and my moods are becoming borderlined suicidal. what do i do? 18/f (link)
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Consider rehab. Consider a therapist or a counselor. As for definitely defining you as an addict... you sure sound like it, but hey, I'm not a doctor. But you seem like a smart girl, you know what you're doing and you know the crappy effects its having on your system. You need to stop this. You seem fairly responsible, and by that I mean that I think you know you need to stop. This drug will empty your system or all seratonin and leave you an empty, feigning shell.
So stop this. Bad girl. Get yourself cleaned up. You'll love yourself more when you're strong enough to do this.
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i am frm india,mumbai
i only hav issues with my family where it seems my mom hates me.....i dont wish to live but am afraid of pain........how to commit suicide easily n painlessly???
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I'm going to venture to say that no one on this website is going to tell you how to commit suicide painlessly. I'm also going to guess that most of the people that see this question will jump at the chance to encourage you not to do it, that there is so much to live for. That being said, I might as well be the first one,
Go see a therapist or a counselor or a religious figure you think you could trust. I don't know the extent of the issues with your mother, but as big as this seems now, its really just one phase of your life. You'll eventually get past this tough time if you continue to live and you will grow and become a lovely lady that is happy and successful.
So don't do it, you'll be missing out on so many good things because you let this one bad thing seem really, really big when its not as big as you think.
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Well I have my GED and I wanna go to college. Something easy which I know nothing is easy but I wanna do something that I will make more than ten dollars an hour on and I don't wanna be in college very long. Not a year not two years nothing long. And I really don't care what it Is as long as it's not got math in it. I didn't graduate high school because they said of I couldn't pass algebra 2 then they wouldn't let me graduate at all so that's why I got my GED. Anyone have any suggestions?? (link)
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There are many career tests you can take online- try one of those. You aren't going to really find something that you'll be trained for in a shorter time span than a year. Even being like an air condition repair person takes more than a year. You could try for a job as a receptionist or an administrative assistant, they sometime make more than ten dollars an hour (depending on where you are).
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Should I get the Driod or the I-Phone? (link)
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I've had several different Droids and I would recommend them by far by far. Droids have the option of having a full keyboard (if thats your thing) or you can have a slim, light phone without one. My droid is fast, capable of running several different programs at once, and I have never managed to load enough stuff on it that it becomes "full". Just a thoughts.
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I am a 22-year-old male from the USA. I have been in a serious relationship with my girlfriend, "Alex," for 1 year, 8 months. She is my first serious girlfriend and the first girl I've had sex with. Before me, Alex dated another guy for 3 years. I have recently been feeling the need to experiment with other girls. There is absolutely nothing wrong with Alex, but I still feel the need to have sex with other girls. I don't want to end up getting married and have this problem screw up a marriage someday.
I decided to tell her I didn't want to be in a relationship and she agreed because she wanted to give me space. I had sex with 3 different girls while we were apart and began to feel terribly guilty even though we were broken up at the time. I tell her everything and I know that if I tell her about what I've done she most likely won't take me back. We're trying to work things out again, but I still haven't told her about the intercourse with the other girls.
I'm just so confused and would really like to know if I belong in a relationship right now or if I just need time to grow up and figure things out.
Thanks,
Confused (link)
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The chances of your girl being in a relationship with another guy for three years and never getting sexually involved with him are slim. If you don't tell her about these girls, it's going to eat at you for as long as you are with her. If you do tell her, you put it on her to accept with you. I've been through this before, but not exactly. My boyfriend and I had both been with other people in the few months that we'd been broken up. Yes, it stings to know he was with someone else, but it was a mutual decision, so it's something I had to accept. It's up to you to decide if your girlfriend will be mature enough to accept it. Go slow, only you can decide if you're ready.
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My friends and I were pictochatting and they saw my secret crush on their ds and I can't think of a way to tell them to make them forget it,but to me its still true I love the boy.What can I do?? (link)
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Don't worry about it. Just don't. I'm sure your friends don't care that much about it, and if they do, tell them it's not nice to tease because I'm sure they have crushes on boys too.
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hi. teenage guy here...
i feel like i irritate everyone with that attitude.
"moody" that is. (link)
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It's just your hormones. You're a teenager, it happens. Just try to pay attention to yourself and other's actions and try to pick up on what might be annoying them. If it's something trivial, try to stop it. If not, then find different more accepting friends.
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how can a 11 year old make lots of money in a year? (link)
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They don't. They might can get paid by their parents or neighbors for helping with chores, but that's about it.
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How much money should a person give for a formal sweetsixteen party.(almost like a wedding) (link)
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Thirty or forty would be plenty. Twenty doesn't go as far as it used to anymore, but fifty (or more) should be kind of reserved unless it's someone of direct relation to you.
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my boyfriend didnot enter his penis in my vagina bt he tried thn he relesed his sperm on my back hole n before that jst few drops of blood ws there is any chances r there that i gt pregnant (link)
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No, there's not.
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Well my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. But 2 months into the relationship, I kissed another boy on vacation and after two weeks we got back together. And then 9 monthsi into the relationship, he cheated on me and took a girl out and made out with her. I forgave him like he did me, and we started dating again. But after every little fight we have, he goes and talks to girls on facebook and flirts and yesterday, He wouldnt let me get on his facebook so when he finally did, he had mssgs to girls telling them there beautiful, and asking his friends to "hook him up" with this girl, and asking guys who was that one chick, imma add her on facebook etc. We go to diffrent schools which makes it harder, but it happens every time. And before he let me read some of the mssgs, he locked himself in the bathroom and deleted other ones which is bad. I dont think hes physically cheated on me since then, but what should i do? :/ (link)
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Break up break up break up break up break up. The guy is being a cheater, a user and a liar. He's being untrustful.
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do guys like it if girls masturbate? like.....
guy: do you masturbate?
girl: no
or
girl:yes
do they find it attractive or they don't care or they don't like it? (link)
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It depends on the guy and girl involved. A lot of guys find it arousing, yeah. It's sexy to them to see a girl masturbate, yeah, but it's also sexy to them for a girl to have confidence in herself.
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At my work I would give people free things such as cartons of ciggerettes and other items. I have also stolen a total of $20 out of the drawer and have stolen some items for myself. They watched the cameras and fired me. They calculated that the amount of money lost was $5000. It is my first offense and i was very cooperative and confessed to it all. What will happen to me? Will I go to jail? (link)
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Well you've been caught, fired and you've confessed. Did the store decide to press charges? If they decided not to, you're in the clear. If they decide/decided to press charges, it all depends on where you live and what judge you get. A lot of times if it's your first offense they will let you off with something smaller, like probation and a lump of community service hours. I, by no means, know enough about this situation to guarantee anything, but if you're worried enough about the situation, you should talk to an attorney.
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