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I am 15 yrs old and i am in my 11th year at hatbor horsham high school. I'm a typical teenager, and I've been told that im good ad giving advice, so i figured id statrt an advice column?! and im really bored lol. so yea...

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me and my sister fight all the time. shes a teenager. and i am three years younger than her. will she grow out of it? how should i act towards her? beacause right now i feel like i really need a sister, not an enemy :.(

awww omg thats so sad. first thing is first, tell her how you feel and if she just yells or ignores you cry or walk out saying "all i want is my old caring lving sister who cares about me back!!!" thats'll get her, b/c i am that older sister, well not your older sister lol but i ahve a yuogner sibling and i eventualy cam to realizationm dont worry i promise she'll grow out of it. hope i helped!!!
-amber-

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i feel like my friends at school might not be the right friends to be hanging out with but i dont know many other people there beacause i'm new. what should i do to find good friends?

just be yourself, throw yourslef out to different crowds, be friendly, out-going, join activities and/or clubs andf youl'll meet manty new different types of epople and you'll eventually find you own click, dont worry!!! hope i helped please rate!
-amber-

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Ok im a cheer leader im 14 and our uniforms are like really ugly and supposadly we cant get new 1's but we can get stuff like matchin shoes, socks, and jackets but we cant get new uniforms so we needa raise money to get these thigns and maybe convince them to let use get new uniforms so wat are some good fun raising ideas?????


~Cheer grl~

hershey candy's fundraising boxes.

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I am a Christian girl. My parents like to go to a supposedly "Christian Phycic" He says that God gives him his powers. I dont really believe in ANYTHING a phycic says, but my parents do. Is this phycic a sin in God's eyes? Please help me understand!

theyre all phonies.

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my 17 yr old sister is 8 weeks pregnant adn i kno shes not ready to be a mother and i dont kno how to help her get prepared! wut should i do?

be there for her and help her 100% and dont even once remind her of being a young unprepared parent. She'll cry herself to sleep a few nights, she'll realize her own situation. be easy on the poor girl.
hope i helped
-amber-

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I'm 13 M and I was recently talking to my friend (13 F) when she told me that she liked me. I had a crush on her for about a year now and so i was excited when we talked more i thought that she really liked me. But then when we talked again she told me that she liked me but that she liked my friend better. See the thing is i can't stop thinkin of her and i dont know what to do.
Thanks for any help!

You need to tell her how you feel, and hope for the best. thats all there is to it. hope i helped -amber-

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Alright heres the situation.. I have this friend, his name is Chris. Anyways, we are like best friends, i guess you could say. We talk alot hang out pretty often. He has a girl friend and i am single. Do you think he likes me if he does the following.. always smiles when he looks at me, always ask who i like, is really nice to me, and hugs me all the time.. i am really confused i dont know if he likes me or is it just a friend thing? Thanks in advance!! -xXoBrianna

Thats what best friends do and thats how they trest eachother. my best friend does he same things, does this mean she likes me? NO. dont take it to the extreme, or look to much into it. Hope i helped you realize. -amber-

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OkAY lyKK... i HurDD tAt yEw caN geT prEGnAtE If YeW rUb yuRR eYe a LoT &thEn tOuCH yOuR vaGiNA, iS thAt PosSibLE?
-sInCerLY

no. a penis has to be entered into the vagina, with out any protection at all, in order to get pregnant. rub ur eyes and touch your vagina all you want hunny, now you have no worries. hope i helped!!! -amber-

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when you use a tampon is that like fingering yourself?

lol no. fingering yourslef is for sexual pleaseure for yourself. using a tampon is to help absorb the blood from your period. two completely different things. wow. quite the question.

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hey! well i have 3 best friends, and this summer, I havent spent that much time with them because we have all been really busy with our own seperate activities. I really want to set up something fun that we can all do together, becasue i really want to spend some time doing something fun with my friends before we go back to school. does anyone have any ideas on what wecan do? are there any fun amusment parks that anyone knows of? let me know. thanx guys!

dorney park, knoebles, six flags, mall, movies...what kind of girl are you that cant think of things to do?!

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Why is sex such a big thing now? I mean young people are even doing this, I just don't get it. What happened to waiting until marriage?

every year the agw for having sex is younger and younger. no body waits untilmarraige anymore, wlel no i shouldnt say anyone, but most people. its not a big thing now. its more of somehting that people can say theve dont and talk about it to other people. Start getting it and cope with it. it'll be this way from now on.

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hey there, ok my question is im 14 and ive been having my period for 2 years now. thing is that it is very irregular, i can get it today and not get till..october.. you know...like that.. but until im 17 thats supposed to be within the normal. anyway, for 2 weeks now, ive been drastically dirtying my panties..why is that? please explain detailed. thank you!!

you're fine, you'll live. dont worry about it. and if u cant accept that answer. then go to ao doctor.

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ok i've seen so many questions on here bout how do you french kiss and so on..all the answers are well it just comes naturally & just "go along with what he does"..ahh that just makes me even more scared..like>I< wana know what to do i don't wana have to just "go along with it"..lol hOw? WeN? WuT?..hmm i guess what i'm tryin to ask..is what exactly to you do..StEp-By-StEp..haha and what are some different ways to try [sumin to impress him,make it look like i'm NOT a beginer]after i get the hang of the basic ways..kk..umm yeah..any bit of help is greatly appreciated..xOx

when i had my first kiss i just went along with it. all the other answers are right, ive never heard of a technique or way to kiss someone. It will come natrually and you do just go along with what he does, thats all there is to it!

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my bf and i have been together 4 2 yrs now.. we love eachother completly and we trust eachother and all.. my parents r really strict and they dont noe im wit him! i found out tat my bf is going to another skool so he can improve his grades.. n i really dont mind i meen i do cuz im not gunna see him as much but i trust him and he told me tat no matter wat we r gonna b together.. he said tat we could see eachother during the weekends n stuff but i dnt think ill b able to see him tat much and i donno im scared about the whole thing.. any advice would b helpful.. tanx

tell your parents, so it will be easier for you to see him. if you dont tell your parents, then forget it, its over.

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ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated

If you love him and he loves you, then there is nothing to be scared of. If you're ready to make adult decisions such as aving sex, then act like an adult and go to your mom or dad and tlel them and then go to planned parent hood and get birth control pills, and be one them for about two weeks, then you can ahve sex along with your boyfriend having a condom on. and if thats too much to handle for you then having sex is too.

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What the youngest baby do you think that you would put a 14 year old in charge of? And do you really think that at 14 they are responsible?

I statrted babysitting babies as young as 3 months when i was 13 years old. Then again, it all depnds on maturity, if you need a babysitter, meet them first and sit down with them and use your maternal instinct to guide you and see if theyre mature and responsible enough to handle your childs life.

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Ok, i'm 13/f and my neighbor is 14/f, we were talking one night and it was like 9:00 so it was dark, so i went in the basement and he followed, i was putting the laundry in the washer and he came up behind me and put his arms around me, i liked it so i turned around then he kissed me and we made out, a lot. we went in the very back yard on the picnic table, no one can see it cuz its too far back, and he layed on it and i sat on his tummy, he had his hands on my ass and we makeout more then he fingered me and rubbed my boobs, and we made out more then we had to go in cuz it was 11:00, we were going to do something like that again but i went on vacation, and now i havnt seen him, should i bring it up or never do it again? was it wrong of me? we have also talked about sex, i want to but i dont want the condom to break, what shold i do about everything??

omg child, you are only 13, sex shoudlnt even be crossing your mind. holy jesus mary and joseph, these advicenator people really shock me. but anyway, start a relaitonship with him if you'd like but dont have sex with him omg. thats just insane. im done.

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ok, my friend did this project in health class, and she used this article (i think it came from the newspaper). It was a 5 year old and she was pregnant! Is that possible or is it just a lie? (but newspapers dont really lie..so??)

it is not possible. In order to get pregnant you have to been having your period first. and at the age of five. it is clearily nto possible to have your period at that young of an age. Newspapers do lie, but maybe not intentionally. So yes it is possible that the newspapers lied about it. -amber-

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