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iv gone trough it all, i know how you feel garnentee.
dinosaurs are my favorite.
i have been told several times im good at advice, and if you feel that no one understands you, i wont give up, i will try my best.
so please! ask me anything ;]
advice
Okay, I'm fourteen, a girl, and in desperate need of some advice. There's this guy I like (he's two years older than me, if that makes any difference) and he goes to a different school than I do. So, I only see him once a week at karate--sometimes not even that! Now, I found out that he likes practically everything I like. He seems a little nervous when he talks to me though, and I find him occasionally looking at me. But if I look at him, he quickly turns away.
Now here's the problem. I convinced him to try out for his school's play, since he never did before, and he tried out. Not so bad, right? My friend's friend knows more about him though, so I asked her about him. She said he was in all of the previous plays, that he's never had a grilfriend, and that he's a loser! That's horrible! But, did he really lie to me? We're friends, why would he do that? It's just...some people say he likes me, and it's just...no one I know is like him. And the signs are there...so...does he like me?
thats terrible what your friend said! thats not nice at all. dont worry about what anyone else thinks of him unless he lied to you if he lied to you than that is a different story. It sounds like he likes you. If you like him hun, dont be afraid to show it ;] hope i helped!
My boyfriend got me a neclace for Christmas. I got him a neclace for Christmas too. He told me on the phone he got me a Teddy bear for Valentines Day. I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO GET HIM!!! he has a new watch and I cant just get him another neclace! Guys or girls, what do the guys want? what can I get him for Valentines day?
well a lot of boys like cute little things if you dont want something expensive then burn a cd and decorate the outside or the case, or try getting a teddy bear or evern go to bild a bear and make one they have sounds that say i love you and tehre not that expensize!
hope i helped ;]
I Am 16 And I Have A Boyfriend And I Love Him ALOT!!! Lately It Seems Like All I Can Think About IS Doing Stuff With Other Guys! However When I Am With My Boyfriend Or Talking To Him...I Dont Have That Problem! So What Exactly Is Going On Here...
This is completely normal! its a teenage mind working correctly! how can you help but wonder about other guys sexualy theres nothing wropng with it your just thinking so dont think its cheating!
-hope i helped!
i saw a question earlier about girls getting together with boys through friends from different schools. i have a friend who i can meet people through, but i would like to know how to talk to them and about what??
THANK YOU SO MUCHHH!
well its easy just have your friend and you & the boys hang out one day at a common place like movies bowling ect. then seeing its a group of people it will be easy to talk cause its not just one on one make a compoliment or say in the movie be like omg! did you see that!
hope i helped ;]
I've never really done this advice and answer thing, but I've always wanted to and really need some advice from an outsider because it feels I can never talk to anyone about my problems.. Its just me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 4 months and we are very serious. Its just that he acts very immature sometimes and hurts my feelings a lot. I cry sometimes as well. He doesn't really let me spend time with my girlfriends and I understand becuase he wants to be with me, I would probably be mad too. But its just, I really think that I love him. But he thinks of himself too much. His parents don't really like me that much either and they think we hang out too much, and I don't like them much either. But my boyfriend didn't like that I wanted to go hang out with my friends so then he threatens me all the time in going and hanging out with his old friends, so that is just what he did. He went to his ex grilfriends house and then after then went out. I do trust him and I don't really think anything went on, its just that it upset me . We had a big fight over it. But I think everythings alright. I do think he feels the same way about me, but sometimes I think he uses me to do stuff. If u know what I mean, in a sexual way. I usually get really jealous becuase he is a very popular guy and he flirts a lot and kinda talks about girls sometimes to get me jealous. But I think he's doing it on purpose. He's stupid like that. What do you think I should do. I really hope you can help me. Thanks you so much
well not to worry he seems like a typical boy! if you like him enough to deal with that than i guess you go for it but what hes doing isnt nice, talk to him about it, its not right that hes not letting you hang out with your girlfriends i had a boyfriend like that and i lost all my girl friends cause tehy were like "no ur boyfriends more important than us andwere sick of it" it took forever to get them back so i think before it gets outta hand you gotta talk to him about it;]
hopefully i helpedd.
if you need anything else just ask;]
Hey everyone. I am looking for new hair. A COMPLETE change around. I thought about dying my hair and maybe perming some loose curls in my hair. But my hair is very thick, very frizzy and it's been chemically relaxed before. Does anyone know if perming will damage my hair or make it even frizzier? If I perm it, could I also dye it? or is that too much damage on my hair at once? I really want a drastic change. I would love to dye my hair but I have no idea what color. and if I cant perm it, I want a different cut. But I have a round face so I'm not sure what would look good on me. Can anyone help me out? Thanks So Much In Advance!
i have an idea! get your hair cut and get lots of layers so it doesnt make your face look round, then one month dye your hair whatever color u want make it funkythen in a little whjite get a semi-perm then you can do whatever you want with it
hopefully i gave u an idea of maybe what to do! ;]
I"m seriously doubting anyone can help me with my problems but here goes anyway. I have a daughter that just turned 18. She is so lost, she has given me problems since she was 11, well now shes 18 and her life consists of black men,crack and sleeping with as many as she can. She was recently disgnosed with a veneral disease and confessed to her oldest sister that she may of slept with a man who was HIV. She is a leading influence on her 13 yr. old sister who is following in her path as hard as she can. I"ve had to get the law to look the 13 yr. old twice this week. She is failing school and I can't reach her. She and her sister are so full of hate towards me, I;ve been called so many foul names, I can't take much more. I'm thinking of sending the 13 yr.old to boot camp. I tried to send my 18 yr. old last year, but they called me to come and get her because she was threating staff. I am a decent person, I dont drink, smoke, I work hard, I feel like its my fault, they are this way. I so depressed, I think it would be better to be dead sometimes, if I didnt have to keep watch on my 82 yr. old father, I saw a therapist once ,but they cost to much. what do I do?
wow seems like your kids are terrible too you almost like they need to be hospitalized or go to a residential home, you shouldnt have to deal with this, you have bigger problems, thats not fair, your 13 year old needs to go to boot camp and try getting a therpist your insurrance can cover they help a great deal hopefully i helped! if you ever need anything let me know
-askxbrooke
are there any good winter exercises i can do indoors? i don't have a treadmill, and i don't like to run outside in the cold. but i don't wanna be a bum til april either. and i don't belong to the YMCA or anything. but i need to lose weight! thanks
well theres a few things you can do
-ddr helps its a video game but its an exersizeing one that you actully move
-100 sit ups 3 times a day
-run in place for 15 minutes and dont stop
-eat betteer
hope i helped! ;]
hey for grad I'm not sure of what to wear and what style my hair should be.
I'm like exactly the mini version of Catty/Carthy whatever her name is, the MC of the So You Think You Can Dance(well the body).
My head is like hers, weird shape so its hard to find a hair style that matches my head (my hair's black).
And I can't decide weather to wear a dress like allison wore, the black one when she danced that romantic dance with Ivan or a pink poofy one that's not as thin and like poofy and girly. Thanks!
i would personally go with the pink one because seeing your hairs dark it will bring out your faceand plus i prefur pink + poofy! good luck
i need some fun games, to play online.. like i kinda liked neopets [cuz im queer like that] but i wasnt very good at it. lol but i liked it.. or like whats that website with alll those games?
pogo has some oh & webkinz is a lot of fun its sorta like neo pets but you have to buy the animal at a toy store and register it and you make its room and take care of it its quite fun ;]
where can i buy short board shorts for girls? thanks
quick silver has some! hopefully i helped
why wont my myspace calander show up on my page? i got to manage calender and fill out everything currectly but when i click view homepage.. nothings there. help?
it could be an error myspace is having wait it out ;]
Ok so There is this boy (S) that i have known (he has been a family friend) since i was like 6 and i have always liked him though he never gave me the time of day. Well i never lost my felings for him and over the sumer he fianaly started to like me alot i thought. Well then my cousin came down to visit and basicaly tok him away. Once she left at the end of the summer me and him started talking and i thought he still was atracketed (we were basicaly understood dating)Well then my cousin came back down and told me he had ben writing her love things and she had proof. Well i confrunted him and me and her basicaly left felings for him. I stil liked him so i continued to talk to him and gee i fel for him again. but i did not tell him because of what he did the last time. Well i just learned that (although my cousin said she hated him to) him and her are dating and it hurts so bad. I loved him first and the longest and after everything he goes to her. I tok it as i was always second to him. I cant just ignore him cause our family intertwines so much. (my cousin lives in vergina and me and (s) live in memphis) so it just hurts to see here them talk and i still want him(yes my cousin is a b****) What should i do
well you see him all the time and she doesnt, take that to advantage spend alot of time with him and be like why are u even bothering with her anymore you go me :] or something like that i hope i helped ;]
i no you guys r prolly sick of these questions but please bare with me.
im 13/f,and me & my bf have been together for almost 4 months.although u may think im too young,were madly in love with each other.
i want to do something EXTREMLY special that he will never forget for valentines day.
please help.
also i cant spend more than 20 dollars?
thanks a ton.
burn him a cd with some cute songs on it and make him a big card in the shape of a heart and write all over it ! write a really special note! hope i helped if you want more ideas leave one in my inbox ;]
This year has been rough.
I gave up on my best friend after saving her
life for the third time due to her heavy
drinking, I couldn't handle protecting her like
I did anymore. She was my very best friend,
moving on hurt so bad.
My boyfriend that I love cheated on
me, so of course we broke up. His new girlfriend
happens to be the girl he knew I hated more
then anything.
My great friend, Michael stepped in.
He became my big brother, my support system.
He was the only one that got me through losing
everyone. Well, he started to like me. Once I
told him I wasn't up for that after everyone
broke my trust, he left too.
Now I have nothing.
I'm alone all the time, I have other
friends but none of them come close to
those three. How do I step back up and
get on with life?
I used to be so outgoing and full of
life, I always had plans and people who
loved me. Now, No ones here.
What can I do?
i know how you feel! this happended to me to the ompliment on someone also, i would also suggest thextreme i was hospitalized 2 times, i know how you feel, someone steps in there place, they leave and you feel foolish. you did the right thing by leaving your best friend that cant be put on your sholders thats not fair to you. your boyfriend is a jerk, that wasnt right to cheat on you you desserve so much better. right now at this point, its not you who needs to be fixed, its the people that you used to be friends with, the ones that loved you if they did they always will. try makeing new friends like ask ask someone you know a little bit if they wanna come over after school or maybe make a compliment on soomeones oulfit. also i would sugggest therapy it helps so much not saying u need it but if you need someone to talk to it helps so much because you can trust a therapist. if you ever need anything you can IM me at brooke 411 xo . i really feel your pain so i wish the best of luck to you
will getting ate out show up on a pap smear test?
no it shouldnt, unless you go "HELLO I GOT EATEN OUT" to the person, im almost positive you cant tell unless your infected but i cant see that happening
-good luck!
I am 14 female my boyfriend's 15. And we have been together for 7 months on tuesday. I love him so much and he loves me. And if please dont mention how im to young to be in love blah blah blah i dont wanna hear it please. But we have done everything except for have sex. that's the only thing. He bought condoms we know how to do it. We have a safe and comfortable place. I want to do it but im getting scared. We are most likely going to do it next sunday. I am getting cold feet, but i dont wanna tell him that because im afraid he'll never do it. When im with him i want to so badly but when i am alone and can think without intruptions i get frightened. Like for example im worrying about if i get pregnant, we arent even supposed to be doing it anyways. Is it normal for me to be afraid, not just of getting pregnant but just nervous?
being nervous is completetly normal i cant stress this enough please dont do it if you dont want to do it that can lead to regrets, those are the worste, but if your ready go for it just be safe and make sure hes wearing a condom! good luck
I've dyed it about 3 times ever...always waiting about 3 months in between to let it retain moisture and get stronger before I do it again. About 3 months ago I dyed it and a few weeks later got it cut. Ever since then it has grown extremely slow. How can I get it to grow fast again?
hello, try cutting it every 2-4 weeks just a small amout it will keep it healthy, also there is shampoo and cremes out there that like help make it a faster process i know frutics has one!
-hope i helped!
i really wanna learn how to do a split but can you learn? or is it either you can do it or you can't do it. if you can learn or is there a tecnique or way to do it can you help me out? thanks.
okay first get on the ground like ur going into a spil but lean foward and go on your elbows that is for a stattle and for a regular split try too do them 2 times a day and do it for 10-15 seconds and you will get better and better
- hope i helped! good luck
okay well my friend bought all of us tickets to go see this concert that I didn't even know about! When she told me what concert it was I really didn't want to go but she bought it with her own money that I had to!
But like my dad doesn't like her or her family and they're going to be there so he'd definitely get mad but I have to go.
The good thing is that on the day of the concert he's working but when I go to her house while he's at work he knows and I have no idea how!
Maybe he sticks like a voice recorder or something and has a ear peice in his ear while he's working, I don't know.
I don't knwo weather to tell him like tommorrow when he's working in the afternoon so that he will calm down a while at work before coming home and yelling me to death or on the day before the concert. He has like a horrible anger and even goes to anger management so I'm scared! My freidn is not a bad person, he just has some grudge on her family but it's really strong like I swear he'd almost kill me when he told me that he knew I went to her house one time! Sorry that it's so long..
well,i think telling him at work is a good idea cause then he cant yell and scream. try saying something like "hey dad i know your not gunna be happy about this but (friends name ) has bought tickets for me and her family to go to a concert together, im hopeing that i can go because (reasons why you wanna go )" or try writeing him a letter
- i hope i helped! ;]