I Am 16 And I Have A Boyfriend And I Love Him ALOT!!! Lately It Seems Like All I Can Think About IS Doing Stuff With Other Guys! However When I Am With My Boyfriend Or Talking To Him...I Dont Have That Problem! So What Exactly Is Going On Here...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Cathleen answered Tuesday January 30 2007, 2:35 am: okay....i will say this ive had that problem before. yeah and it sucked. What i did was you know spend more time with him. If a thought of doing something with another guy popped in my head i juss ignored it and thought of him. I mean its hard at first but youll get used to it and if you start ignoreing it and thinking of him when you think of that it will proabley stop. hope ths helped.
askxbrooke answered Monday January 29 2007, 6:34 pm: This is completely normal! its a teenage mind working correctly! how can you help but wonder about other guys sexualy theres nothing wropng with it your just thinking so dont think its cheating!
angie91 answered Monday January 29 2007, 6:33 pm: Well I think you are probably satisfied with your boyfriend, but you wonder what it yould be like to be with other guys. Then when it comes back to be with your boyfriend you realize that you only want to be with him. It's perfectly natural to wonder what it would be like to be with other guys, and guys do it all the time so it's no big deal. It's nice when your boyfriend has all of the elements you want in a guy but thats quite a rare situation and as humans we often want more. As long as you are just looking around, then everythings fine. Have fun with your boyfriend. Hope I helped!
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Boochie answered Monday January 29 2007, 6:25 pm: Just puberty, while your going through that you have new thoughts about guys and what not. every girl has those feelings. Its normal. And thats good that you dont think about doing stuff with others when your with your boyfriend. [ Boochie's advice column | Ask Boochie A Question ]
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